Love or Infatuation?

[Niqaabi]

:salams

ok i just want to know your opinion on Love before marriage?
Do you think it is Love or is it infatuation?
A lot of people meet eachother on the internet/uni/work etc and some fall in love, but is it really love or is it just a very strong liking?

Is love only there once you have lived with the person and have gotten to know them, or can it be there simply because of their characteristic and personality of that person?

And how do you know it is love? unless you have felt the same for someone else. And if you have how do you know that this is love if you have felt this way before? Or can you feel the same level of love for more then one person?

if theres a topic already on this sub you can merge it.

[Tahajjud]

Yep, this topic has been discussed sooo many times on here...never gets old..;)

It depends on if it is love or not...ie infatuation.

In my opinion only time tells if it was love or not, because it is true you can feel the same for anyone who has some characteristics that you admire or whatever.

As time rolls on you....do you still have a circle of love or admiration for the person? you can never forget about the person...even after your married...you think of the person? To me the love you speak of is the kind that lasts...

but you must remember there are manyyyy different kinds of love out there that are purely material and physical

Yes you can love 2 people at the same time.

[.: Rashid :.]

I read some quotes posted up here, from children who were asked to define love. Some of them were really deep :love:

I'll try and find them for yer.

-Rashid-

[muslimah85]

its can be very hard to differentiate between love an infactuation , but i guess when its love you'll know its very different ;)