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muslimsisterONL
26-03-05, 05:34 PM
Praise be to Allaah.

The point of reference for Islamic rulings must be the texts of the Quraan and Sunnah, not ones own opinion, mood, desire or ideas about what is nice. Concerning this very issue many reports have been narrated which strictly forbid this (women wearing perfume when they go out). These reports include saheeh ahaadeeth in which the Prophet http://63.175.194.25/images/saws.gif (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade women to wear perfume when they go out of their houses:


Abu Moosa al-Ashari said: the Messenger of Allaah http://63.175.194.25/images/saws.gif (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Any woman who puts on perfume then passes by people so that they can smell her fragrance, is an adulteress.

Zaynab al-Thaqafiyyah reported that the Prophet http://63.175.194.25/images/saws.gif (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: If any one of you (women) goes out to the mosque, let her not touch any perfume.

Abu Hurayrah said: the Messenger of Allaah http://63.175.194.25/images/saws.gif (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Any woman who has scented herself with bakhoor (incense), let her not attend Ishaa prayers with us.

Moosa ibn Yassaar said that a woman passed by Abu Hurayrah and her scent was overpowering. He said, O female slave of al-Jabbaar, are you going to the mosque? She said, Yes, He said, And have you put on perfume because of that? She said, Yes. He said, Go back and wash yourself, for I heard the Messenger of Allaah http://63.175.194.25/images/saws.gif (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: If a woman comes out to the mosque and her fragrance is overpowering, Allaah will not accept any prayer from her until she goes home and washes herself.

The reason for this prohibition is quite clear, which is that womens fragrance may cause undue provocation of desires. The scholars also included other things under this heading of things to be avoided by women who want to go to the mosque, such as beautiful clothes, jewellery that can be seen, excessive adornments and mingling with men. See Fath al-Baari, 2/279.

Ibn Daqeeq al-Eed said:

This indicates that it is forbidden for a woman who wants to go to the mosque to wear perfume, because this causes provocation of mens desires. This was reported by al-Manaawi in Fayd al-Qadeer, in the commentary on the first hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah quoted above.

Having examined all this saheeh evidence, there can be no room for debate or argument. Muslim women have to understand the seriousness of the issue and the sin involved in going against this shari ruling. They should remember that they are going out to seek reward, not to fall into sin. We ask Allaah to keep us safe and sound.

By the way, we recently read that biologists have discovered a sexual gland in the nose, i.e., there is a direct connection between the sense of smell and the provocation of desire. If this is true, then it is one of the signs that prove even to the kuffaar how precise are the rulings of this shareeah which came to preserve chastity and to block the ways that lead to immorality.

Stillcurious
26-03-05, 05:38 PM
Muslim women prefer henna, don't they?

Kaiser
26-03-05, 05:40 PM
Only thing is that nose gland responds to pheramones given out by the person.
And wether the person wears any perfume or not, has no effect on the pheramones, so it really makes no difference on that part.
Unless you are using specially engineered pheramone enriched perfume, but normal ones dont contain any.

Ebony
26-03-05, 05:43 PM
Muslim women prefer henna, don't they?

henna is a dye, not a fragrance.

Stillcurious
26-03-05, 06:00 PM
henna is a dye, not a fragrance.

Sure, but both are used to improve the attractiveness.

Kaiser
26-03-05, 06:02 PM
Yeah, but one most likely cant be seen, because of the clothes and all, the other can be smelled, tho I dont really understand how smell could do anything other then drive someone away in the case of stink.

Stillcurious
26-03-05, 06:11 PM
Let us not forget, Kaiser, that henna is mostly used in hands, which are definitely visible. Probably perfumes were quite rare during Muhammad's time and that is why he didn't even mention them.

Baby Paw
26-03-05, 06:14 PM
The initial post by MuslimsisterONL perfectly clarifies this point.

Ebony
26-03-05, 06:50 PM
Huh?

You know what Im referring to.

Back on-topic...some Decent Attar perhaps? >

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=43825&page=1&pp=20&highlight=Attar

Baby Paw
26-03-05, 06:59 PM
There was nothing off topic. I believe that what I posted so clearly valid, so I don't know why ILM edited out my posts.

Infact due to my very vocal nature about fragerances, a female colleague at work sometimes tries to gets me to comment on the latest perfume that she has applied. Sometimes I am lucky enough whereby I can get away without smelling her pefumes, personally, I think perfumes are too potent, and do nothing but give a headache, the vast majority of the time.

The same goes for the reception lady, she needs to go easy with her perfumes as well, even she tried getting me to sniff her latest perfume the other day when I came back off lunch.

I managed to make a break for my desk without having to take a whiff. But we all know why such women go to the efforts of applying so much perfume.

Anyway, Ebony, decent Attars, that is the 60,000 dollar question, where can one find some? The Attar clones suck big time and one has the alcohol dillemma with traditional colognes.





You know what Im referring to.

Back on-topic...some Decent Attar perhaps? >

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=43825&page=1&pp=20&highlight=Attar

Ebony
26-03-05, 07:04 PM
...But we all know why such women go to the efforts of applying so much perfume

Yes...you just need to flick through a magazine and see the type of ads they have for perfumes to get the general gist of it...


Anyway, Ebony, decent Attars, that is the 60,000 dollar question, where can one find some? The Attar clones suck big time and one has the alcohol dillemma with traditional colognes.

Ive yet to come across a decent one. They're too overpowering for my liking.


By the way, for those who wish to know the scientific slant on the issue of phermones try the following link:

http://www.pheromoness.com/pheromone-review.html

Kaiser
26-03-05, 07:10 PM
Dont worry you dont get drunk or intoxicated from colognes, unless that is, you are drinking them [(gross) only cheap street beggars do that].

Stillcurious
26-03-05, 07:19 PM
Just for fun, I went through some pages showing how important another form of added attractiveness has been to Muslim women. Enjoy these pics: http://www.ipaki.com/urdu/henna-designs/

Kaiser
26-03-05, 07:37 PM
Just for fun, I went through some pages showing how important another form of added attractiveness has been to Muslim women. Enjoy these pics: http://www.ipaki.com/urdu/henna-designs/

Personally Id say they look like tattoos and I find them looking unnatural and sorta gross, I find a undecorated hand alot more beautiful them something painted over in whatever things.

Stillcurious
26-03-05, 07:40 PM
Personally Id say they look like tattoos and I find them looking unnatural and sorta gross, I find a undecorated hand alot more beautiful them something painted over in whatever things.

I fully agree, but they are a kind of substitute for Muslim women, aren't they? Girls' and elder ladies' post would be appreciated.