Ummah Weddings

[Mary Carol]

Patience is the key in these matters.

[Mary Carol]

And dance lessons.

[Chained_Water]

dance lessons? :scratch: that ones gone over my head.

[AdamLevine]

you break my heart lady, i'll be gone for one week to reconcile.

[dhakiyya]

why isn't there an option "I'm already married and one husband is more than enough!!" or sommat like that (not that you can have more than one husband anyway.....)

[Chained_Water]

for the purposes of this poll we're not interested in already married people :p

this is about potential ummah weddings :banan:

[Chained_Water]

you break my heart lady, i'll be gone for one week to reconcile.Who me? :eek2:

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

Aww "potential"

[Chained_Water]

I think I should have made this poll public.. would have been very interesting :p

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

well i admitted mine..

[slmz :)]

pshhh ya wotever.... u ddnt even tell us hu the woman is...

[mara]

all these weddings coming up, sounds soooo exciting, ok ,all i wanna know is when am i gettin my invites??

Bro apprentice??

sis Ebony??

Sis CW???

and anyone else thats getting married!!!!!

i love weddings!!
But bro Sajid didn't gave us too a little hint saying that thing about the internet connection :D I understood he is thinking too to get marry :)
I hesitated to say Congratulation to him, waiting for more details but i think i know who will be the bride :love:

[Abdul-Curim]

so who is sajid's bride :) ?

[sajid]

u know u guys wont get nothing outta me :p

[Abdul-Curim]

lol , lets see :p

[Jam]

:salams

OK why don't we play the Yes/No game? We ask akhi Sajid questions and he answers Yes/No?

That's fair isn't it? (answer: Yes :D)

:wswrwb:

[Abdul-Curim]

ah thats an interesting game , the 1st person who makes out who is fiance is leaks it out to us all .

[Mary Carol]

Why make someone's personal life a game?

He keeps me up-to-date and that game
wouldn't be fair to all of you, would it? ;)

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

haha..well i aint spillin :P
well..Sis Mariam i think knows...lol

[Abdul-Curim]

lol ... ok waits till saj declares about it himself :)

[sajid]

Im willing to trade 8000 rep points :p

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

wattttt

[Jam]

:salams

OK so we have 3 things to go on:

1. It's a sister
2. She's a member of the forum
3. The user "Mrs Sajid" was a decoy.

:wswrwb:

[sajid]

1) Yes
2) Maybe Maybe Not
3) It was somone messing about

[aziza]

may Allah (swt) guide us to the best of spouses.

[Mr_Jailer]

may Allah (swt) guide us to the best of spouses.
Ameen

-pray:

[slmz :)]

lolz evry1s gettin married!!!!!!! aaarrrgggghhhh!

[Songbird]

Oh yes I did ;)

I also have some information on you my dear-- so let the blackmail begin! :D
Gosh is nothing sacred!?

Erm, OK, thread is now closed.

You're truly evil, zee! I could've had so much fun with this!

[mara]

u know u guys wont get nothing outta me :pWe will wait until you will wish to say :p
May be Ebony will introduce to us her groom until than :scratch: :p

[mara]

well i admitted mine..Congratulation :love:
When will take place? :) The bride isn't from the forum,right?

[mara]

I think I should have made this poll public.. would have been very interesting :pAgree with you. Next time must be a public poll to can see it better :p

CONGRATULATION :love:

[sajid]

good thing bout being a mod u can see the results :p

[aziza]

We will wait until you will wish to say :p
May be Ebony will introduce to us her groom until than :scratch: :p

maybe I will too. :)

[aziza]

good thing bout being a mod u can see the results :p

But only Allah (swt) knows the future.

[mara]

maybe I will too. :)Should i say than
CONGRATULATION :love:
Only tell us exactly who it is, don't let us to guess:)
Allah knows the future but is not great to see people getting marry? Starting a family life? In this days when a lot prefer to live without to legalise their union.

[Jam]

good thing bout being a mod u can see the results :p
Mwhaha hah haha :D

[Chained_Water]

Hey, I can't see who voted :freedom:

Only super-duper Adminy people like Saj can :p

Saj.. do you have any new assignments for our Marital Advisor Ms. Zeven?

[~Stanley~]

ooooh lookie.. who's the one that wants to marry someone from ummah but hasn't told them yet :eek:

Out with it :mujahida:
Yes, I’d love to marry someone from ummah, but they don’t know yet!

[Ebony]

Saj.. do you have any new assignments for our Marital Advisor Ms. Zeven?
Yours CW :p

[Ebony]

Yes, I’d love to marry someone from ummah, but they don’t know yet!
Ooo..do tell :p

[~Stanley~]

Ooo..do tell :p
but they don’t know yet! :outta:

[ILM]

Only super-duper Adminy people like Saj can :p
;)

[Ebony]

but they don’t know yet! :outta:
We can let them know later :D

Yes.."we" :D so come on!

[aziza]

Should i say than
CONGRATULATION :love:
Only tell us exactly who it is, don't let us to guess:)
Allah knows the future but is not great to see people getting marry? Starting a family life? In this days when a lot prefer to live without to legalise their union.

what? and take all the mystery out of life? ;)

i think this thread could become the longest thread ever...

[~Stanley~]

We can let them know later :D

Yes.."we" :D so come on!Well, like you said in the other thread, it wouldn't work anyways :(

Besides, I might be moving soon.
http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=50783

[Ebony]

Well, like you said in the other thread, it wouldn't work anyways :(
I would still like to knw who it is though :p
Up to u Stan.

[~Stanley~]

I would still like to knw who it is though :p
Up to u Stan.

I don't think that would be proper unless or until the other person knew
in advance that it would be broadcast. ;)

[Ebony]

I don't think that would be proper unless or until the other person knew
in advance that it would be broadcast. ;)
lol.
i dont think you've become acquainted with the PM facilities at the forum :p

[~Stanley~]

lol.
i dont think you've become acquainted with the PM facilities at the forum :p

LOL !

That's how I ...........became acquainted............ ?
:)

[Ebony]

LOL !

That's how I ...........became acquainted............ ?
:)
:D

[MG]

:D
dont worry stan,i dont talk to the sisters on this forum,so u can tell me who the lucky lady is,no one else will ever know!!

[~Stanley~]

dont worry stan,i dont talk to the sisters on this forum,so u can tell me who the lucky lady is,no one else will ever know!!Well, while I can not divulge a name, I can say that (through words) I envision her similar to this picture attachment :)

[MG]

Well, while I can not divulge a name, I can say that (through words) I envision her similar to this picture attachment :)
omg!!

stan, this sounds serious..................

but anyway,still awaiting THE PM......

[Chained_Water]

Ok, guys can we just calm down please?

Stan I hate to burst the bubble but you have to stop before you go too far into this emotionally.

THINK.. before it's too late to think and your heart is broken.

Is this person suitable for you?
Has this person given you any hint or indication that she feels the same way?
What are her needs? Emotional, financial, physical, spiritual whatever... can you provide them?
Whats her situation.. where does she live, does she have kids, can you bring them up?
Is she Muslim? Because you aren't.. and even if you were to become one, would it be for the right reasons.. You should be made aware that under no circumstances whatsoever can a Muslim woman marry a non-Muslim man.

THINK think think.. and think some more.. before you fall head over heels in love with her.

If she is a Muslimah.. I suggest you stop PM'ing her, for her sake and your own.
If she figures out from this thread that you're talking about her, I suggest she stop PM'ing you as encouraging this is gaining sins upon herself.. and the same applies for the rest of us encouraging you.

You have more than enough to worry about.. sort out your divorce, sort out your deen, get into a position where you can look after yourself and are secure mentally, emotionally and financially.. and THEN let yourself fall in love and think about getting married.

Hope you don't take offence from this at all, but this is my sincere advice to you as someone who cares.

And everyone else, this isn't a game.. yeh this thread is good fun, but when it gets serious we should get sensible and keep our heads.

[~Stanley~]

THE PM......?????????????????
It's only AM here ;)
PM comes much later on :)

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

Y'all are invited to my wedding!!! so0 make plans haha..insha'allah..as for who it is..she has frequented Ummah.com...and some sis's know her :P..

anyways..yeah Stan..bak off a bit..

[~Stanley~]

Ok, guys can we just calm down please?

And everyone else, this isn't a game.. yeh this thread is good fun, but when it gets serious we should get sensible and keep our heads.
I am sorry TO EVERYONE for continuing along with this thread.
I guess it kinda snowballed from one innocent post to another.
I know fully my current situation, and I haven't a clue what my future holds at this moment.
In the USA, it is Valentines Day, and for the first time in 12 years I have nobody who loves me.
I firmly believe, whomever it 'might' be, knows my situation and personality well enough to understand my intentions were not to bring discredit upon her (whomever it 'might' be)

Perhaps the lesson that could be taken from this thread is,
Do Not play games when it comes to matters of the heart.

And the sensibilities regarding muslim woman in general,
I appologize that I am not fully aware of the restrictions you must adhere to.

[Chained_Water]

Stan don't be sorry to anyone.. I said what I said because I am worried about you.

I'm sure she does know that your intentions are not bad.. but unless you stop and think you'll get yourself into a sticky situation and risk having to face disappointment.

Is this person suitable for you?
Has this person given you any hint or indication that she feels the same way?
What are her needs? Emotional, financial, physical, spiritual whatever... can you provide them?
Whats her situation.. where does she live, does she have kids, can you bring them up?
Is she Muslim? Because you aren't.. and even if you were to become one, would it be for the right reasons.. You should be made aware that under no circumstances whatsoever can a Muslim woman marry a non-Muslim man.


Think about all of that before you start feeling too deeply for her.

Stan, Valentines Day is just a cheap gimmick.. don't let it depress you, think about sorting your life out.. inshaAllah one day you WILL find love again and then you can post here and let us all know ;)

Who knows.. maybe when your heart accepts Islam, you'll be able to find a nice Muslim wife :)

[~Stanley~]

Stan don't be sorry to anyone.. I said what I said because I am worried about you.

THANK YOU ! :inlove: :embar:


http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?p=535449#post535449

[Mary Carol]

I am sorry...

Why?

You have certainly done nothing to offend me.

If I were you I'd think twice before letting the entire world in on your personal life.

Think of the value that private correspondence lends to an individual.

I use it constantly.

[Ebony]

Apprentice, dnt get married in winter

I dont want to turn up at ur weddings with my winter gear on

[Jam]

Apprentice, dnt get married in winter

I dont want to turn up at ur weddings with my winter gear onApprentice, get married on the coldest day of the year :D

[sajid]

Get married on the 25th December that way NO one will have any excuse not to come to your wedding

[Mary Carol]

Whatever do you mean? :rubeyes:

[mara]

Whatever do you mean? :rubeyes:25 december is always free day, in every part of the earth:D Can't find the job excuse, i would like to come but my boss ,blah,blah,blah.
:evilb:

[~Stanley~]

If I were you I'd think twice before letting the entire world in on your personal life. I don't have many people with whom I am able to share a "private conversation"
so in order to express myself and get off my chest what I'm feeling,
it tends to be out on the public forums.

I've heard an old saying before : "what's family, stays family" or something like that.

I have a sister who yells at me and tells me to get a grip, go get a job and quit whining
(she lives 900 miles away)

I have another sister whom I haven't spoken to since my mothers funeral in 1998
( over 1400 miles away)

Another sister who lives within 100 miles but, told me she can no longer assist me.

And one more sister which I contacted about two weeks ago, requesting help in securing a place to live near her ( over 1400 miles away) ~ unfortunately, I never received a return response, although I know she speaks with the others.

All my Grandparents are dead, my parents as well.
My extended family of my wifes side has implimented the communal/tribal stance of shunning.
So, I can't even explain my side of any story which only leads to them thinking the worst of me.

All I have as a means of communication is this computer & my dog & cats.
The dog and cats continue to give me the same advice over and over, ~ Ooooutt, Ooooutt, ROUttt !
:)

I can say this, if I met anyone of you as a stranger in the market, etc...
and we began a conversation, I would be as open & honest in my questions and answers
as I appear in this forum.

[mara]

"The dog and cats continue to give me the same advice over and over, ~ Ooooutt, Ooooutt, ROUttt !"
The doggish support :)
Sometimes even the family members are far away from our own problems and less interested by us.

[~Stanley~]

"The dog and cats continue to give me the same advice over and over, ~ Ooooutt, Ooooutt, ROUttt !"
The doggish support :)
Sometimes even the family members are far away from our own problems and less interested by us.
It's been a few days now but, somewhere somebody wrote about "going off to live as a hermit"
I RESEMBLE THAT REMARK !

Only it was not by choice, and I fear my future will hold just that.
I even found a nice place, just in case :)
http://www.lakecountyor.org/

If in fact, that does end up being my future, I do know I will gain at least one new friend.
I would purchase or capture a yearling horse from the stock which runs free in the area.
This way, we would grow up together and become friends before being able to
ride the Wild Winds together. ;)

[mara]

"where people seek independence but know each other's first names "

Thats important. Thats show they are still people.:)
Horses are great:up:

[Ebony]

Apprentice, get married on the coldest day of the year :D
ur jst plain old nasty :(

[~Stanley~]

"where people seek independence but know each other's first names "

Thats important. Thats show they are still people.:)
Horses are great:up:It was like providence how I came across it :)

While in the deepest of dispair one night after learning of my wifes decision,
Trying to find something to keep my mind occupied, I ventured onto E-Bay.
After looking at old relics & ancient jewelry, I went into the real estate section and long story short,
found this property.
Opening bid was $6.50
Being Christmas and all, without anyone in my life,
I decided to at least put my name on the list for a mere $6.50 :)
I WON !

Well, I should say, there are payments as this opening bid was considered a downpayment.

Now I needed a way to get myself and all that I have out to this new land.
I searched and just like this land and the above phrase,
I found a small-sized school bus named BABY STEPS daycare.

;) Providence I tell, providence ! :)

[mara]

Congratulation for the property:D :) lucky of you. The property has a house or is without house? Only the land? Ohh after my dictionary it means land with house;)

[~Stanley~]

Congratulation for the property:D :) lucky of you. The property has a house or is without house? Only the land? Ohh after my dictionary it means land with house;)

Ah, but Allah?God willing there will be many, many rocks and stones :)

[Siddiqa]

ur jst plain old nasty :(
Oh hey!
Think about it... a lovely winter day, snowing and all.
Your dressed in a lovely furry hijab and jilbab, in an off white... though my all time fav is black :D
And you have a small ceremony, with some lil' girl throwing flower petals (pink and white flowers) on you and your hubby.

Oooo! La la! :inlove:

[Jam]

:salams


Think about it... a lovely winter day, snowing and all.
Your dressed in a lovely furry hijab and jilbab, in an off white... though my all time fav is black :D
:eek: You can get furry hijabs?? :eek: I never knew this!? You mean like eskimo hijabs???

http://img180.exs.cx/img180/5629/23fr.jpg

:rolleyes: ;) :D

:wswrwb:

[aamilah]

:salams

:eek: You can get furry hijabs?? :eek: I never knew this!? You mean like eskimo hijabs???



:rolleyes: ;) :D

:wswrwb:lol... these days you make anything into a hijaab...

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

well..the date..jus look at my signature lol :P

[Jam]

well..the date..jus look at my signature lol :PThis needs clarifying as you yanks write your dates the wrong way. You write them MM/DD/YY - where as normal people write them DD/MM/YY. So please elaborate as between the two there is almost a year. :p

Regardless either date will be in winter - so Sis Ebony will have to dress like an Esikmo Muha haa :banan:

[Mary Carol]

Regardless either date will be in winter - so Sis Ebony will have to dress like an Esikmo Muha haa :banan:

Wouldn't that depend on how close to the Equator the nikah takes place?

:cool:

[sajid]

I saw the poll results and who voted all i can say is WOW[U]

[Mary Carol]

Are you insinuating that polls are an unreliable method to gather information?

[sajid]

Nope juist interesting thats all :)

[Mary Carol]

You know, I have even seen polls where the results were manipulated by mods/admins...how else to explain 100%+ results on certain issues?

:)

[Ebony]

This needs clarifying as you yanks write your dates the wrong way. You write them MM/DD/YY - where as normal people write them DD/MM/YY. So please elaborate as between the two there is almost a year. :p

Regardless either date will be in winter - so Sis Ebony will have to dress like an Esikmo Muha haa :banan:
Eskimo's are fashionable.

[Chained_Water]

First person to correctly guess what I voted gets rep points :D

:banan: Admin Team excluded

[seven]

I’ve thought about it but.. my wife would kill me!??

[Slayeress_]

Mr chained water...........wots the question?
and r u still mad at me?

[Chained_Water]

:eek: That's what you voted?!
Uh-oh.. Ze won't be impressed! :p
I’ve thought about it but.. my wife would kill me!??

[mara]

Chained Water option: 1. guess

Yes, we both want to marry, all that remains is setting the date.

[mara]

Nope juist interesting thats all :)This remained from your 14th february? You said cheap chocolate;) Look yummy.

[Jam]

First person to correctly guess what I voted gets rep points :D
If there was someone here who I liked I would propose, but there isn’t anyone right now.

[Ebony]

If there was someone here who I liked I would propose, but there isn’t anyone right now.
;) :p
So who is it Sis?

[Jam]

;) :p
So who is it Sis?LOL I get confused now when you say sis whether you are referring to me jokingly or whether you are referring to Sis CW!!! :nuts:

My post above was guessing Sis CW's status!

We all know your getting married to a brother up in John O'Groats Sis :p so dress warm! :D

[mara]

LOL I get confused now when you say sis whether you are referring to me jokingly or whether you are referring to Sis CW!!! :nuts:

My post above was guessing Sis CW's status!

We all know your getting married to a brother up in John O'Groats Sis :p so dress warm! :DAlaska :confused:

[Ebony]

LOL I get confused now when you say sis whether you are referring to me jokingly or whether you are referring to Sis CW!!! :nuts:

My post above was guessing Sis CW's status!

We all know your getting married to a brother up in John O'Groats Sis :p so dress warm! :D
I was referring to you.

Sis Anjum, i know you are a bit..."confused" shall we say about your gender. But never fear, us sisters are here to "help" u.

John O'Groats? the only people coming to my wedding would be sheeps and goats! :p

[mara]

You will remain in Uk after wedding Ebony? Or moving in a coldest country :confused:

[Jam]

You will remain in Uk after wedding Ebony? Or moving in a coldest country :confused:Sis Masha, Bro Ebony lives up north in Scotland where its really cold and there are more sheep than people. Do a search for Orkney or John O'Groats in Google and you will see. Its still in the UK - but you have sail a dingy boat 3 hours through icy glacier waters to get there :nervous:

[mara]

It means is fresh air there ,no polution at all. :)I need to make the google search to check up.Thank you.

[Chained_Water]

No correct guesses so far :evilb:

[Siddiqa]

Eskimo's are fashionable.
Chic Innuit :D

[MG]

Sis Masha, Bro Ebony lives up north in Scotland where its really cold and there are more sheep than people. Do a search for Orkney or John O'Groats in Google and you will see. Its still in the UK - but you have sail a dingy boat 3 hours through icy glacier waters to get there :nervous:
LOL!

dont forget the two mountains you have to climb as well..........!

[mara]

Scotland is beautiful and the mountains are:up: And don't forget the castles :) I thought sis Ebony moved in London during the faculty and will remain there:embar: Will get marry there. But Scotland is much better.

[Ebony]

For your information SIS Anjum, there aren't more sheep than people in Scotland (unless you're talking about the city of Aberdeen-Granite City-...or infact doesnt Wales have more sheep than people...?)

Anyhow, its LOVELY up here! (course there's pollution in the city, but the countryside is gorgeous..if you're into castles, lochs and so forth)

the place is mystical :inlove:

As far as moving abroad or not...tht remains to be seen.

Ws

[Jam]

:salams

As far as moving abroad or not...tht remains to be seen.That is a very interesting point Sis - is it something you and your hubby-to-be are considering?

I've always thought of marriage as potential point of change in one's life - in terms of combining other major life changes. In particular for me this entails maybe moving abroad, maybe "back home", maybe to to the Middle East.

Does anyone else here envisage having their time of marriage as a turning point in perhaps opting for a complete change in lifestyle/location?

:wswrwb:

[Ebony]

"back home" isnt an option. Something I wouldnt do at all (I wouldnt be able to live there im afraid, too many bad experiences...esp in the market place...il say no more)

Moving anywhere else i dont mind. It'll be a refreshing change.

Ws

[~Stanley~]

:)I need to make the google search to check up.Thank you.
http://www.jogferry.co.uk/

http://www.puffinexpress.co.uk/jog.htm

http://www.scotland-index.co.uk/caithness/in_groats.htm

http://www.undiscoveredscotland.co.uk/johnogroats/johnogroats/

[Jam]

"back home" isnt an option. Something I wouldnt do at all (I wouldnt be able to live there im afraid, too many bad experiences...esp in the market place...il say no more)

Moving anywhere else i dont mind. It'll be a refreshing change.I've had my eye on UAE - Sharjah or Dubai for a while. This should really be an incentive for me to stop procrastinating and start taking Arabic lessons! :embar:

[Ebony]

I wouldn't mind Dubai, or Abu Dhabi.

Tht reminds me, I was supposed to start Arabic lessons... (why don't you pop into the Arabic subsection in Muslim Forum?)

I thnk il start next yr (when my uni stuff is over with) ...iv got my eye on a part-time Islamic Studies course too.... :D
Ws



I've had my eye on UAE - Sharjah or Dubai for a while. This should really be an incentive for me to stop procrastinating and start taking Arabic lessons! :embar:

[Jam]

:salams

:insha: I will soon start using the Arabic section!

I know Bro Sajid is eyeing the possibility of Mauritius :inlove: Excuse my ignorance but what is the native language there? :confused:

:wswrwb:

[Ebony]

Excuse my ignorance but what is the native language there? :confused: Im just as clueless as you on that one im afraid! :rubeyes:

Ws

Ps> http://www.ethnologue.com/show_country.asp?name=Mauritius

[Chained_Water]

*Has visions of a certain brother and sister (or is it sister and brother) getting married and jetting off into the ME sunset*

:inlove:

:outta:

[Jam]

:salams

*Has visions of a certain brother and sister (or is it sister and brother) getting married and jetting off into the ME sunset*:eek: Come on sister, stop trying to distract us with decoys - just put us out of our misery and tell us who he is??? We know already you are trying to book a private beach in Mauritius - plans afoot eh? :D

:wswrwb:

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

hmmm..ok ok..around December 1st 2006 insha'allah! lol

[Jam]

hmmm..ok ok..around December 1st 2006 insha'allah! lolWow :masha:!!! - Plenty of time to get the invitations out to the whole Ummah crew then I take it? :eek2:

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

lol..insha'allah..glad i told u guys..now insha'allah got to tell my parents..hahaha

[Chained_Water]

:salams

:eek: Come on sister, stop trying to distract us with decoys - just put us out of our misery and tell us who he is??? We know already you are trying to book a private beach in Mauritius - plans afoot eh? :D

:wswrwb:Wa alaikum as salaam sis/bro

Booking the beach and planning the wedding is the easy part.. finding a willing participant for the nikkah is the difficult part :nuts:

P.S. That weren't a decoy, just a suggestion ;)

[Mary Carol]

Does anyone else here envisage having their time of marriage as a turning point in perhaps opting for a complete change in lifestyle/location?

Alpha Centauri would be nice...

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

haha..aww poor CW!

[Chained_Water]

First person to correctly guess what I voted gets rep points :D

:banan: Admin Team excludedhttp://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?p=538824#post538824

Bro Ali won!

He is right.. any potential suitors must be prepared to face my dad! :nervous:

:p

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

Awww ur daddy huh??.

[Chained_Water]

Yep, my dad :love:

He's lovely :D

(~ahem~ err thats when he's not complaining about me :p )

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

Lol..awww!! i wanna meet him! idk why tho..

[Chained_Water]

At my wedding inshaAllah ;) ..hopefully he'll be in a good mood on that day :p (glad to be rid of me no doubt, lol)

[Mary Carol]

hmmm..ok ok..around December 1st 2006 insha'allah! lol

Writing that down on my calendar.

So when do you break the news to your P & M? (Pa and Ma)

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

ummmm...November 31st 2006...lol

[PaGaL~LaDo0]

l0o0ol :D :D :D :D :D woo0h0oo0oo

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

Yeah..or maybe December 2nd 2006..

[Mary Carol]

Well, at least before the grandchildren arrive?

"Mom, Dad, this is my wife and here is my child" would be quite a surprise.

[moshyman]

Well, at least before the grandchildren arrive?
we're here already lol

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

haha..well idk..actualy idk bout her anymore...lol

[Ebony]

What is "idk"?

[Ayah]

"i don't 'kare'" = idk ;)

[Ebony]

"i don't 'kare'" = idk ;)
oh...
~sigh~ dammn txt speech :D

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

no no..its I dont know..but i take that bak..lol

[Mary Carol]

I'll be 50 when you marry aPpReNtIcE,
don't make me wait until 60 to make me an Auntie.

:)

[Chained_Water]

I just found out Saj's vote :eek:

No way! Have you seen the weirdo’s in this place?! I don’t have a death wish thank you.

I'm offended!

Surely you are trying to throw us off track :eek2:

Ah-ha! You are.. and I have found evidence :nuts:
u know actually this option

"No way! Have you seen the weirdo’s in this place?! I don’t have a death wish thank you."

i dont think its a good option..........once u get to know a person wud u still see them as a weirdo?

its the same with anything meeting ur spouse...maybe a friend friend whom u never seen before...of course u aint gonna marry anyone that u pick on this forum........
:freedom: Vote honestly!

[slmz :)]

weddings.....ahhhhhhh

[Jam]

:salams

So I presume L.A stands for Los Angeles, but what does the E stand for akhi Appr?

:wswrwb:

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

Actually akhi..L.A.E..are someones Initials lol

[Jam]

Actually akhi..L.A.E..are someones Initials lolSomeone being to-be Mrs.Apprentice? :D

[slmz :)]

L=?
A= ali?
E=?

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

haha..nope Shaima..

[sajid]

Xpect an ummah wedding soon :p

btw Chained i voted that cos there was no other option that i felt i cud vote for but i dont really mean it :)

[Mary Carol]

Spring is in the air, can love be far behind.

[slmz :)]

trust mariam to say sumthin like that!lol

[Mary Carol]

lol :embar: :love:

[Ebony]

Xpect an ummah wedding soon :p

btw Chained i voted that cos there was no other option that i felt i cud vote for but i dont really mean it :)
We all know thre is a weirdo for you here on the forum somewhere..
Jst a matter of findng her :p

[Chained_Water]

Saj!

Have you seen shwali's post in General :shock:

[Jam]

:salams

OK sisters, spill the beans re: shwali's impending marriage - I know the Sisters forum is a haven for marriage preps and gossip - at least fill the brothers in? I mean.. come on!! We are your bros after all!!! :crying:

:wswrwb:

[Mary Carol]

I get a lot of PMs, let me check and see if it is me.

[Ebony]

I have no idea what-so-ever.

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

i take bak the L.A.E...make the initials an S..lol

[Mary Carol]

:salams

OK sisters, spill the beans re: shwali's impending marriage - I know the Sisters forum is a haven for marriage preps and gossip - at least fill the brothers in? I mean.. come on!! We are your bros after all!!! :crying:

:wswrwb:

Marriage preps? :scratch:

We simply discuss fulfilling our deen.

Gossip? :wacko:

Your name was never mentioned...















yet.

[Ebony]

Marriage preps? :scratch:

We simply discuss fulfilling our deen.

Gossip? :wacko:

Your name was never mentioned...







yet.
Or was it...? ;)

[slmz :)]

lool... u dnt no wot us sis's hav up our hijaabz man...... mwahahahahahaha!!!

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

was mine lol??

[slmz :)]

im sure i saw ur name there sumwhere in SOME BODYS post! :P lol

[Ebony]

hmm.

Did we come by him on *tht* thread Slmz?

Il hve to go tke a look

[slmz :)]

yeah on *that* thred the other one under it... and the one on the *other page*...lol

[Ebony]

yeah on *that* thred the other one under it... and the one on the *other page*...lol
No sis. i only seen him being mentioned twice.

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

waiittt are u 2 talkin in code...grrr...ur evil Shaima :P

[Jam]

Marriage preps? :scratch:

We simply discuss fulfilling our deen.Marriage is fulfilling half your deen..:banan:

[Mary Carol]

Marriage is fulfilling half your deen..:banan:

Must you dance that silly dance?

When we are discussing our deen, dancing is not allowed.



















We dance afterwards.

[slmz :)]

yeah my teacha taught us that

[Ayah]

no no..its I dont know..but i take that bak..lol

woops, okey :p

[Shaolin's-Finest]

We all know thre is a weirdo for you here on the forum somewhere..
Jst a matter of findng her :p

dissing your own kind, thats more like it :p

[Ebony]

dissing your own kind, thats more like it :p

Its called acceptance:rolleyes:

[Mary Carol]

Its called acceptance:rolleyes:

Or is it projection?

lol

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

wow..like all my posts..were deleted..anyways..so0o wat are the updates on the weddings??

[Chained_Water]

Apprentice that should tell you something about your posts bro. They were deemed inappropriate in some way, maybe they were off-topic, maybe they were pointless, maybe something else, I haven't read them all, but you have so you must have an idea.

As for the weddings, yorkie is the latest member to decide to tie the knot :)

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

lol..yeah w/e..it happens to the best of us..aww lil yorkie!

[Mary Carol]

Isn't this whole thread "chit chat"?

Why is it still here? :confused:

[Chained_Water]

At our local circles every Friday.. the sister leading always ask two questions before we start

"Are we having/Have we had any new arrivals?" ..meaning any new Muslims born into the world who we can welcome with dua :)

"Any marriages/engagements?" ..so we can share the good news and do dua :)

Nothing wrong with checking on future marriage prospects of the posters and offering help and dua's to those who need it.. and definately nothing wrong with looking for some good news to celebrate and be happy about :)

[Mary Carol]

I'd think that such questions could be dealt with via PM.

How does polling people about their marriage plans increase our deen?

[Jam]

:salams

I'd think that such questions could be dealt with via PM.

How does polling people about their marriage plans increase our deen?Are all these questions related to Abu M's return sis? Sometimes I think we should get you a "beating around the bush" emoticon :)

:wswrwb:

[Chained_Water]

Sorry mariam, I am not in the habit of sending out mass PM's to all active members.

It's said marriage is half our deen.. maybe if this thread encourages someone to pop the question.. they will be able to complete half of theirs inshaAllah :)

[Mary Carol]

So if it is a poll in here, chit chat becomes acceptable.

Okeedokee.

[Chained_Water]

Wow.. I guess there is a huge language barrier between us Brits and you American's eh... I don't remember saying those words :scratch:

[Mary Carol]

So apprentice?

What part of the country will your wedding take place, really?

I've never been to the East Coast and would be happy to take it all in while attending your nikah and walima.

Do you recommend staying in NYC proper or out in one of the suburbs?

What's New jersey like?

And will the WTC be rebuilt by the time I arrive?

[saheed]

As-salam Alaikum,

I could see your Thread about marrying to early.Well, it's good to marry early in as much as such the person has fully determined within himself to marry a Lady of his Choice.But, there are some circumstances that warrant it to engage in marrying to early;

Islamically, the Prophet(S.A.W) said;ther Believers should not delay Three things;
1.we should bury a person as soon as he is dead.
2.we should perform our obligatory prayer as at when due.And,
3We should give a daugther in marriage as she attains the puberty stage.

Moreover, early marriage is much more good than late marriage.Because, when you get married, such a person would be abstain from illegal sexually intercourse from another person which the right hand does pocess.
So, i don't see any reason why a person should immediately determine to get married to someone he/she loves. So as to refrain from dont's in Islam.

[MangoChutney]

Wow.. I guess there is a huge language barrier between us Brits and you American's eh... :scratch:

like a duh!

I say Subway, you say Tube. ;)

[veilofmysoul]

ROFL... lol ya i was wondering what a tube was and then i figured it out at the end of the convo.. i was sitting there scratching my head..'wth is a tube'...but my smarts kicked in lol and i figured it out... sooo who else is tying the knot?... i like this thread...very amusing and also of course very in the manner to make dua for ppl 0=)
:up: :D

~~:wacko::nuts:

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

Well..to be honest..i wanna make it in Miami..and overlookin the beach...hehe..dont worry..ima cover all the expense insha'allah... :)

[MG]

Well..to be honest..i wanna make it in Miami..and overlookin the beach...hehe..dont worry..ima cover all the expense insha'allah... :)

just make sure my invite is the 1st to be posted!

:D

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

haha..im planning on makeing it..paid for the first night..but if u wanna stay more than one night..insha'allah..ur gonna pay it urself :P..kk..u ll be first...*cough*

[MG]

haha..im planning on makeing it..paid for the first night..but if u wanna stay more than one night..insha'allah..ur gonna pay it urself :P..kk..u ll be first...*cough*

one night u cheapskate?, its your wedding for godsake!,i have to come to the mehndi too,thats at least another 2 nights! :D

my invite BETTER be first, then i might start thinking of forgiving those insults your always throwing at me :P

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

lol i aint cheap :p..thre is gonna be a lot of pple lol..ok ok 2 nights..ugh welll..u might get it first..i never throw insluts at u :)

[Ahlam]

Asalamu Alaykum

i am still awaiting for the invitation to sis Ebony's wedding.

[Mary Carol]

Well..to be honest..i wanna make it in Miami..and overlookin the beach...hehe..dont worry..ima cover all the expense insha'allah... :)

Mashallah!

So in covering the expenses, how many guests can I bring?

Is accomodations for four in your budget?

And is the wedding segregated? My youngest, Michael would not be able to attend if he was not allowed to accompany me to the nikah or walima.

I'll look into tying in your anticipated nuptials with a trip to Disneyland.

That should be a spectacular ending to what will undoubtedly be inshallah a most memorable event in both your life and ours.

[MG]

Mashallah!

So in covering the expenses, how many guests can I bring?

Is accomodations for four in your budget?

And is the wedding segregated? My youngest, Michael would not be able to attend if he was not allowed to accompany me to the nikah or walima.

I'll look into tying in your anticipated nuptials with a trip to Disneyland.

That should be a spectacular ending to what will undoubtedly be inshallah a most memorable event in both your life and ours.

hey sis mariam, that is a wicked idea, mind if i tag along with my little one to disneyland with you!!!!

dont worry im still waiting for sis ebony's card as well............

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

haha...y'all mean Disney world..?..anyways..yep thats good sis Mariam.. :)

[Mary Carol]

hey sis mariam, that is a wicked idea, mind if i tag along with my little one to disneyland with you!!!!

dont worry im still waiting for sis ebony's card as well............

I don't mind at all. :)

But about Ebony's nikah..is there a good amusement park nearby that we can attend after we see the bonnie lass in her wedded bliss?

[ZawjatuRaafi]

ya know i was sitting here thinking now i have been to both of the disneys and i really didnt think it was disney land lolol glad to know i am not completely losing it after all mashaa Allah... Either way disney world/land both would be fun.... I dont know they i think i would rather go to busch gardens or epcot or something like that. The disneys werent all they were cracked up to be...

[Mary Carol]

You must have missed California Screaming (http://disneyland.disney.go.com/disneyland/en_US/parks/attractions/detail?name=CaliforniaScreaminAttractionPage&bhcp=1)!

Blast-off with a screech from the beach! Then twist, turn and loop upside down through Mickey Mouse's silhouette. By the time you arrive back at the pier, you will know why this is the adrenaline rush of the century!

State-of-the-art steel roller coaster evokes the great thrills of wooden coasters from days gone by

Catapult from 0 to 55 in less than five seconds

Over a mile of track

108-foot drop

State-of-the-art onboard music

When we were there, there were no lines and we got to go on it 3X in a row.

It seemed almost decadent to go it a fourth time.

But we did. :D

[MG]

I don't mind at all. :)

But about Ebony's nikah..is there a good amusement park nearby that we can attend after we see the bonnie lass in her wedded bliss?

im sure there is one nearby somewhere but i could find quick enuff anyway,i LOVE amusement parks!

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

so do i! thats why..i ll give everyone..free passes to Disney world!

[MG]

so do i! thats why..i ll give everyone..free passes to Disney world!

wow,that is so kind of u, my little one (and me!) will be overjoyed!!!

your really makin this an unforgettable wedding huh?

[slmz :)]

Well..to be honest..i wanna make it in Miami..and overlookin the beach...hehe..dont worry..ima cover all the expense insha'allah... :)

:inlove: aaahhh. sounds gr8!.... i want an invite... NOW! lol!

[slmz :)]

pppssst. app: u still aint told us the luky person is... :P

[Chained_Water]

slmz:

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=49564

[Mary Carol]

so do i! thats why..i ll give everyone..free passes to Disney world!

Will my Mickey Mouse ear's cap be included?

Say, maybe you could have the ceremony at Disneyworld.

Time it right and the nightly fireworks spectacular could be a fitting ending to your big day!

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

yep yep..Slmz..i told u in the PM :P

[MG]

yep yep..Slmz..i told u in the PM :P

hey bro, how about mariams idea,jus do the wedding at Disneyland,kill 2 birds wit one stone:D

[veilofmysoul]

Assalam-u-Alaikum =)

ROFLMHO .. Sounds like one heck of a wedding.. i nominate is weddin of the year...lol..nice =)

Wa Assalam-u-Alaikum

~~:wacko: :nuts:

[MG]

Assalam-u-Alaikum =)

ROFLMHO .. Sounds like one heck of a wedding.. i nominate is weddin of the year...lol..nice =)

Wa Assalam-u-Alaikum

~~:wacko: :nuts:

im only nominating this wedding if i get an invite ;)

[veilofmysoul]

LOL! =) ... keep making Du'a...lol.. wonder if it'll happen ;) =P

~~:wacko: :nuts:

[MG]

LOL! =) ... keep making Du'a...lol.. wonder if it'll happen ;) =P

~~:wacko: :nuts:

yeah,it will inshallah but it wont be to great a wedding......IF IM NOT THERE!!!:D

u c Veilofmysoul, i dont like all this rubbish about dropping hints etc,i prefer to be more subtle;)

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

hahaha..MG ...u and ur son are on my V.I.P.!!

[slmz :)]

yep yep..Slmz..i told u in the PM :P

yah w/e.. u did?! i dnt rmember! :P

[MG]

hahaha..MG ...u and ur son are on my V.I.P.!!



:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :up: :up: :up: :up: :up: :up: :up: :up: :banan: :banan: :banan:


i should hope so!!!

cant wait!!

....jus need the V.I.P invite now, gold plated is it?:rolleyes:

can u explain what kinda v.i.p me and my jaan will be receiving......

v.i.p tickets to disneyland?

FRONT row seat to at your wedding (none of this putting us next to the fire exit)

:scratch: :scratch: :scratch:

[slmz :)]

ur mre exited then the groom is..... lol

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

haha..i still gota work it out *ahem* but u'rs will be gold foiled...lol

[slmz :)]

wow...u must b loaded...lol

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

naww lol

[slmz :)]

yeah gold plated invites... hmmmm..... i dnt think ur wife wuld b tooo happy?!?!?! lol

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

why not?..lol...my rents will pay for it haha

[slmz :)]

hhhhmmmm w/e bro... SUMHOW i DONT think itll cover the cost..... unless u spray them gold...???

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

yeah! thats wat i was thinkin!!

[slmz :)]

sssssshhhh but dnt tell MG she thinks its gna b reall gold lol,... shell probbly sel it... get a bit of money! lol

[Ebony]

Jst a normal wedding invite shud b sufficient.

Remember the stamp when ur posting them

[slmz :)]

lol... knowing app hell probbly 4 get to!

[MG]

sssssshhhh but dnt tell MG she thinks its gna b reall gold lol,... shell probbly sel it... get a bit of money! lol

hey! i heard that!! how else am i gonna pay for my shopping abroad??? huh??

bro App- Foil huh? ok,foil it is, but the TREATMENT better be V.I.P!!:D

[slmz :)]

lolz yeah... app treating ppl VIP ..... MG u got ur hopes up toooo high sis! lol!
he'll make an EXTRA special try to impress u nd ur son.. in err disney land!....
btw it wasnt even foil...it was gold SPRAY! ...LOL

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

be quiet u :P

[slmz :)]

lolz wot.... oh ye i gave it away.....*ooopss*...

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

ummm hey who said anything about gettin married??

[slmz :)]

u did! were u bin all this time

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

hmm marriage?..disney world?..gold foil?..wat??

[slmz :)]

lool...go bak 2 sleep!

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

u kno wat i will :P

[slmz :)]

SWEET DREAMZ...NOT!lol

[MG]

ummm hey who said anything about gettin married??

I HOPE THAT IS A JOKE bro, :ragepc:


sis slmz- im only messing wit bro App, he can take a joke ....right?;)

[muslimah85]

salaam,

ive been trying to keep up with this coversation but am sooooo lost whose getting married and who to i don't get it:embar:

[MG]

salaam,

ive been trying to keep up with this coversation but am sooooo lost whose getting married and who to i don't get it:embar:


bro app is getting married inshallah, to someone (she aint smoeone from the forum)

[muslimah85]

oh! i kept thinking she was h well, it really nice to see that people do get married from the forum mashallah how do people go about it though?

[slmz :)]

no MG ... he cant u went about it in the rong way.... tut tut tut! lol

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

sis MG she is in the forums ;)
haha i can take a joke :P

[slmz :)]

naa only messin... course u can tke a jke app.. u r the jke! :P lol

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

awww Shaima that was cold :'(

[slmz :)]

hee hee... oh soz!.. ok erm.. we r all the jke???!! duz that mke it betta... or worse! lol

[slmz :)]

lolz so i c ur AWAKE AGAIN! how was da nap!?

[MG]

sis MG she is in the forums ;)
haha i can take a joke :P


what,explain.........? :shock:

[slmz :)]

SIS he wuldnt have pkd the frst 1 for no reason! lol

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

i said i can take a joke sis..lol

[slmz :)]

i thought she was shoked about ur future wife being on ummah... not about whether u can take a jke..... or is it jus me??? hmmmm

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

ummm lol

[slmz :)]

makes sens doesnt it... lol

[MG]

i am shocked about her being un ummah!!!!!


we made a deal bro,that u would tell me when she comes on line!!! :spunch:

whats her nick then?

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

ummmmm well...MG...

[slmz :)]

wooo MG u guna harass her or summat! lol