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[amal]

I posted the thread here because i don't have access ( yet ) to the brothers forum ;)
The main aim of this thread is to establish exactly what kind of behaviour should have the sisters which are coming here, what they are expecting from us.
The question is:
1. Sisters should always ask what troubles them, search answers at their questions, even if this questions will have negative and positive answers which could induce some improper islamic interpretations;

2.Sisters should always hide their feelings, don't bother with questions any brother from the forum. Be quiet and behave like they didn't grow up a brain at all. Just back up each other and act like the sheeps.
The answer what you will give will be relevant because i think the woman should be always honest. Even if our attitude can be wrong at the moment we have the right to seek answers. I admitt sometimes is better don't be too honest because that could hurt you later, like everyone can see, since i revealed my attachments for animals, the numbers of posts against them increasily with speed. That was my mistake.
The sisters will not vote because , in the admi opinion, we need to choose the answer number 2.

[Kaiser]

I think everyone should be honest.

To quote Platon: The right to lie, should be reserved only to heads of the state.

[Ahlam]

Can we join in the discussion sister without voting or do we have to swing our hooks?

[amal]

Ahlam you can join, only don't vote please:)
Its very important because i would like to establish exactly what kind of behaviour should we always have because one sis is out ,right now from here, because she dare to ask questions.

[Ahlam]

Well it depends what sorts of questions…some questions should ONLY be discussed with the same genders….so if she is trespassing that line not only is she making brothers here uncomfortable but also it kills the modesty concept.

We shouldn’t lie…truth is essential however, we should think before posting or asking certain questions…

The prophet (pbuh) told us to seek knowledge but that doesn’t mean you blurt out certain issues everywhere you go…or inappropriate questions where both genders will be able to view.

p.s-i don’t intend to vote.

[Supernova Nebula]

Amal is a bro?:eek: . All this while i thought he was a sister!

[Reema]

lolol no she is a sister:D

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

wait who is a bro/sis?

[Omar]

But why he/she put it dont have access to the brothers forum Yet :nervous: i thought amal was a sis :eek2:

[Supernova Nebula]

ohh phewww...

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

yeah me 2..maybe...hmmm

[Ahlam]

i think that was a light hearted comment she made...nothing meant by it....i hope...she is a sister.

[Naida]

Um...I do believe that she put a " ;) " after her comment to suggest it was a harmless joke.

As for your questions, Amal, I believe that many Muslim women have "issues" with such topics as female slaves, polygamy, etc. simply because we have been taught by Western culture (which denies the very existance of God and His laws) what oppression is and what it isn't. Due to this, many of us try to find ways to "justify" certain topics, ways which often include deviating away from and making up some things about Islam. I think it is safest for us women, and Muslims in general, to leave issues that bother us until our imaan is strong enough to accept everything in Islam willingly and without question.

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

i was jus foolin lol..

[amal]

Sorry ,sorry , i am sis, off course:) I try to convince Sajid to leave me in the bro forum because i am little bit curious but what they are discussing there:p
* i began even to look after cars*


Otherwise i hope only the bro have been voted here, right?

[ThE aPpReNtIcE]

yep yep

[amal]

I think it is safest for us women, and Muslims in general, to leave issues that bother us until our imaan is strong enough to accept everything in Islam willingly and without question.
Sometimes will never understand them. Thats why on many sites are scholars who can answer at your questions. Sajid posted once what can ask people on the :ask-imam site. I can't find the thread, like usual ;) Well if you read carefully are questions ask only to have a good laugh or smile. Why still scholars are replying?Because you can get knowledge only asking. If one of us decided this site have enough good muslims to discuss here the issues i think should not be sent away.

[*IslamicGirl*]

:start:


:salams


If i vote, will my username give me away? :p


kdn :d

:up: Good topic sis Amal :)


:salams

[amal]

Ig The thread was moved:(
Thank you:)

[Siddiqa]

no fair!

How come most of the polls here are for the brothers?
:freedom:


:scratch:

[Jam]

:salams

no fair!

How come most of the polls here are for the brothers?
:freedom:


:scratch:
Hehe you can set up your own poll here sister!! - and I'm sure when you qualify for the Sisters-only section, they have a million and one polls in there :rolleyes:

:wswrwb:

[Siddiqa]

"Should sisters always be honest, thats the proper attitude expected from their side?"
Well... honesty/sincerity is a given.... expected of all people, regardless of gender. (Not meaning to chastise you, sis... just expressive ole' me and my opinions :P)

Peace n out!
;)

[peace2u]

funny, this poll was for the brothers but mostly sistersare replying to it :rotfl:


Peace

[mara]

funny, this poll was for the brothers but mostly sistersare replying to it :rotfl:


Peace
I think its clear who voted here;) :)

[abdusamad]

Honesty should always come first.....or consider silence as second, never lying.

There are border as how far one can go with askign questions, but as for within ones own gender, lol... you people discuss it amongst yourself...

[Al-Irhaab]

you should have put a third option silence is golden.... aswell as cooking cleaning ironing etc...

[Siddiqa]

funny, this poll was for the brothers but mostly sistersare replying to it :rotfl:


Peace

Thats because us sisters are too loquacious for the brothers. :p

Boring bros =/

[Al-Irhaab]

Thats because us sisters are too loquacious for the brothers. :p

Boring bros =/

nope its because all sisters want is attention all the time

[ur_yusra]

what kind of a poll is this??? should sisters be honest??? I didnt know honesty was a characterisitic exclusive to the sisters..

[Al-Irhaab]

what kind of a poll is this??? should sisters be honest??? I didnt know honesty was a characterisitic exclusive to the sisters..

its allowed to lie to your wife.. if she asks am i beautiful or do you find me beautiful or am i the most beautiful woman in the world ur allowed to lie and say yes

[Guardian Hijab]

its allowed to lie to your wife.. if she asks am i beautiful or do you find me beautiful or am i the most beautiful woman in the world ur allowed to lie and say yes
Asalamualaikum

Wow. love to see the hadith that supports that.

So I guess if my husband asks if he's ugly, fat and lazy, I can answer honestly?

Grand:hidban:

InshAllah Allah won't grant me a husband with those characteristics:S

Wa'alaikumasalam

[shaiekh]

its allowed to lie to your wife.. if she asks am i beautiful or do you find me beautiful or am i the most beautiful woman in the world ur allowed to lie and say yes

''winning wife's heart''---great virtue.:rolleyes:

[mara]

its allowed to lie to your wife.. if she asks am i beautiful or do you find me beautiful or am i the most beautiful woman in the world ur allowed to lie and say yes
What about to say to your hubby he is ugly and looks like a chicken:rolleyes:
"winning husband heart".

[Al-Irhaab]

why do you people mock the advice given by your prophet (Saw) i mean have you really got that much against men that your not willing to accept that HE (saw) could say this... next youll be complaining why werent there women prophets :rolleyes:

[ur_yusra]

If my husband looked dodgy I'd just say u look dodgy.. I mean honestly is very important..

[mara]

why do you people mock the advice given by your prophet (Saw) i mean have you really got that much against men that your not willing to accept that HE (saw) could say this... next youll be complaining why werent there women prophets :rolleyes:
Could you repeat what said the Prophet (PBUP)on this topic,please?