View Full Version : What to do if you live among people who do wrong constantly?
bigshay15
02-06-04, 10:30 PM
I live with some distant relatives and some of them refuse to follow the rules provided
by Allah(swa). what should i do? should i separate myself from them:freedom:
or should i try to help them :confused: i'm not sure of what i should do :( any suggestions would help :inlove: shurkran and may the blessin of Allah be on all mankind:p
But can you move and live alone?
BraveHeart
03-06-04, 07:42 PM
Try To Help them in the best was possible
if u see then that they are still on the same path..i suggest u tell them this clearly then make a decision abt it and stick with it InshaAllah.
All The best!
~Jammy
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03-06-04, 08:41 PM
well as long as they dont try and stop you from following the right way yourself, it might be the best plan to stay with them, and do good yourself because your influence and example may have some effect on them... and you can try and help them, give them naseeha & everything :)
you could move and live elsewhere but they are your family, so i wudnt suggest that u completely break all links with them, and for example even if ur mother is a non believer u still have 2 treat her with respect, so i guess same goes in ur situation? allahu alam :confused:
i hope everything works out inshallah :)
stay positive and patient and try to lead by example. speak often of following the commands of Allah (swt) and the punishments in the hereafter for not. muslims are mirrors to one another, if you see something you dislike in your brother/sister in Islam, confront them about it.
most importantly, don't allow yourself to become weak in deen by letting them lead you. always seek refuge in Allah from the cursed shayton.
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