a wife :)

[Amatullah]

A Wife

A talk by Shaykh Abdullah Adhami


By getting married you are not just getting a wife, you are getting
your whole world. From now until the rest of your days your wife
will be your partner, your companion, and your best friend.

She will share your moments, your days, and your years. She will
share your joys and sorrows, your successes and failures, your
dreams and your fears. When you are ill, she will take the best care
of you; when you need help, she will do all she can for you;

When you have a secret, she will keep it; when you need advice, she
will give you the best advice. She will always be with you: when you
wake up in the morning the first thing your eyes will see will be
hers; during the day, she will be with you, if for a moment she is
not with you by her physical body, she will be thinking of you,
praying for you with all her heart, mind, and soul; when you go to
sleep at night, the last thing your eyes will see will be her; and
when you are asleep you will still see her in your dreams. In short,
she will be your whole world and you will be her whole world.

The best description that I personally have ever read describing the
closeness of the spouses to each other is the Qur'anic verse which
says: "they are your garments and you are their garments" (Surah Al Baqarah 2:187). Indeed, spouses are like garments to each other because they provide one another with the protection, the comfort, the cover, the support, and the adornment that garments provide to humans. Just imagine a journey in the winter of Alaska without garments! Our spouses provide us with the same level of comfort, protection, cover, and support in the journey of our lives on this earth as garments would do in the Alaskan journey.

The relationship between the spouses is the most amazing of all
human relations: the amount of love and affection, intimacy and
closeness, mercy and compassion, peace and tranquillity that fills
the hearts of the spouses is simply inexplicable. The only rational
explanation for these most amazing of all human feelings is that: it
is an act of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala, "And Allah has made for you
Mates (and Companions) of your own nature ..." (Surah Al Nahl 16:72)
Only our Almighty Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala in His Infinite Power,
Boundless Mercy, and Great Wisdom can create and ingrain these
amazing and blessed feelings in the hearts of the spouses. In fact
Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala is reminding those who search for His
signs in the universe that these feelings in the hearts of the
spouses are among the signs that should guide humans to His
existence as He says in the Qur'an, "And among His signs is this,
that He created for you mates from among yourselves that you may
dwell in tranquillity with them and He has put love and mercy
between your hearts: verily in that are signs for those who
reflect." (Surah Al Rum 30:21)

But Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala knows that the human heart is not a
static entity, it is sometimes weak and at times dynamic. Feelings
can and do change with time. Love may wither and fade away. The
marital bond might weaken if not properly cared for. Happiness in
marriage cannot be taken for granted; continuous happiness requires
constant giving from both sides. For the tree of marital love to
remain alive and keep growing, the soil has to be sustained,
maintained, watered and nurtured.

Remember that our Prophet Muhammad Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam had found the time to go out to the desert and race with his wife Aisha.
She out ran him but later after she had gained some weight, he out
ran her.

Remember that the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam took his
wife to watch the young Ethiopians playing and dancing their folk
dances. The show of emotions is necessary to keep the marital bond
away from rusting and disintegrating.

Remember that you will be rewarded by Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala for
any emotions you show to your wife as the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi
wa'sallaam said "one would be rewarded for anything that he does
seeking the pleasure of Allah even the food that he puts in the
mouth of his wife."

Never underestimate the importance of seemingly little things as
putting food in your wife's mouth, opening the car's door for her,
etc. Remember that the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam used to
extend his knee to his wife to assist her up to ride the camel.

Try to always find some time for both of you to pray together.
Strengthening the bond between you and Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala is
the best guarantee that your own marital bond would always remain
strong. Having peace with Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala will always
result in having more peace at home.

Remember that the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam gave glad
tidings for those couples who wake up at night to pray together. The
Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam even urged the spouse who
rises up first to wake the other spouse up even by throwing cold
water on his/her face.

Always try your best to be good to your wife by words and by deeds.
Talk to her, smile to her, seek her advice, ask for her opinion,
spend quality time with her and always remember that the Prophet
Salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallaam said "the best of you are those who
are best to their wives."

Finally, it is common that spouses vow to love and honor their
spouses until death do them part. I do believe that this vow is good
or even great, but not enough! It is not enough that you love your
wife. You have to love what she loves as well. Her family, her loved
ones must also become your loved ones. Don't be like my colleague
who was unhappy about his wife's parents coming to visit for few
weeks. He candidly said to her "I don't like your parents."
Naturally, she angrily looked at him straight in the eye and said "
I don't like yours either"... Also, it is not enough that you love
her until death do you part. Love should never end and we do believe
there is life after death where those who did righteousness in this
world will be joined by their spouses (Surah Al Zukhruf 43:70) and
offsprings.

The best example in this regard is the Prophet Salallaahu 'aliahi
wa'sallaam whose love for Khadija, his wife of 25 years extended to
include all those she loved and continued even after her death. It
was many years after her death and he never forgot her and whenever
a goat was slaughtered in his house he would send portions of it to
Khadija's family and friends and whenever he felt that the visitor
at the door might be Khadija's sister Hala, he would pray saying "O
Allah let it be Hala."

[Khuzamah]

:)

[AbuMubarak]

The Pleasant Companionship





"And among His signs is this: that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them. And He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect" (ar-Rum 30:21)


The relationship between a husband and wife is one of the closest bonds which exists between two human beings. Through the ties of marriage, each becomes aware of the other's secrets, their faults and their virtues like no one else.


As the aforementioned ayah from the Qur'an shows, the institution of marriage does not set the agenda for a domination of one sex over the other, as many nowadays perceive. Rather, marriage is one of the great bounties of Allah through which both men and women achieve tranquility, love, security and companionship. This is why Allah describes the husband and wife as being garments for one another:


"They are garments for you and you are the same for them" (al-Baqarah 2:187)


This may, at first, seem like a strange and unusual analogy to make. But with closer thought and reflection, we can realize what a beautiful and apt similitude Allah has given here. For just as a garment covers and protects a person, so too does the husband or wife protect his or her companion: by providing security; by helping to keep the eyes restrained and the private parts protected (from illicit sex); by covering each other's mistakes; and also by shielding them, not only from worldly harm, but, more importantly, from the Hellfire as well. The use of this analogy also gives an indication of the intimacy and closeness that exists between man and wife, just like the closeness there is between the garment and a person's skin: nothing separates them, nothing comes between them.



RIGHTS IN THE MARRIAGE


Very often we find that discussions about marriage tend to become centered around the issues of rights and duties in a marriage (eg. does the wife have to cook and clean for the husband, can the husband strike his wife, etc). Although these questions are undoubtably important, this is not the place to start. Marriage is not simply about demanding rights and discharging duties. Marriage is principally about mutual co-operation and about encouraging one another towards obedience to the Lord, Most High. The act of marriage itself is considered to be "half the religion", or "half of iman" (1). This is why the Prophet (saw) advised the men: "A woman is married for four reasons: for her property, her status, her beauty and her Religion; so try to get the pious one that you may be successful". (2)


As far as rights and responsibilites are concerned, then anyone who studies the commands in the Qur'an and the Sunnah in this regard will find that Allah has divided these up in a very wise and just manner. Thus, although the rights and duties of the wife are different to that of the husband, they are nevertheless fair and in proportion. This fact is indicated to in the following ayah:


"And they (women) have rights (over their husbands) similar (to those over their husbands) over them to what is reasonable, but men have a degree (of responsibility) over them"(al Baqarah 2:228)


Explaining this verse, Ibn Abbas said, "I verily adorn myself for my wife the same as she adorns herself for me. Also I would not ask her to fulfill all the rights which she owes me, so that it would become binding upon me to fulfill all the rights which I owe her"(3). This is how Ibn Abbas - one of the foremost of the people of Paradise - understood the relationship between the husband and wife. He understood how many rights his wife had over him and that is why he feared that if he were to ask for all the rights which his wife owed him, then she too, in turn, would ask for all her rights and he would not be able to fulfil them.


But oh how different the scenario is today amongst the Muslim communities, where the wife is expected to be dutiful and bear all sorts of hardship and oppression, whereas the behaviour of the husband seems to be of no consequence whatsoever! Who from amongst the Muslim men today do we find the attitude of Ibn Abbas in?


There can be no doubt whatsoever that the rights that the husband has in a marriage are tremendous and he is the one at the head of the family, but he must be very careful not to exploit his rights and his authority in order to oppress the wife and be unjust to her. In the same way, the wife too must not constantly be demanding her Divinely bestowed rights whilst being woefully neglectful of her duties to her husband. She should always bear in mind that it is more important for her to discharge her duties to her husband than it is to receive the complete rights which her husband owes to her. (4) This is because by discharging her duties as a wife, she is not only fulfilling the rights of her husband but also fulfilling her obligations towards Allah. Ths Prophet (saw) said: "By the One in Whose Hand is the soul of Muhammad, no woman has fulfilled her obligations to her Lord until she has fulfilled her obligations to her husband - even if he were to ask her for himself when she is mounted in the saddle, she would not refuse his request". (5)


So just because a man is failing in his duties as a husband, this does not give the wife the right to withold some of his rights, since ultimately when a woman serves her husband, she should be doing so to seek the pleasure of Allah rather than the pleasure of her husband alone.


Thus, to use the old cliched expression, marriage is all about a little "give and take". Its not about "giving as good as you get", for that kind of attitude wil only create an environment of hostility and ill-feeling. On the contrary, Allah says to the men:


"And live with them (ie your wives) honourably" (an-Nisa 4:19)


The famous commentator of the Qur'an, al-Haafidh Ibn Kathir, explained that living with them honourably included "using soft speech to them (i.e. not speaking to them harshly) and ameliorating your deeds and appearances as much as you can". He then said, "As you would like that FROM her, so do the same FOR her".


Above all, it must be remembered that this pleasant companionship - which the Prophet saw exemplified perfectly in his relationship with his wives, as did of course his Companions - can only truly come about if both partners regard the marriage first and foremost as an Islamic duty. And as with all Islamic duties, there are limits: he who transgresses them has, in the end, harmed only himself. As Allah says:


"Whosoever transgresses the set limits (hudood) of Allah then indeed he has wronged himself" (at-Talaaq 65: 1)


As for those who keep to the limits and deal justly with each other, then Allah grants them a good and happy life together; a life of obedience towards Allah swt which - if Allah wills - He will reward with eternal happiness in the life of the Hereafter:


"Whoever works righteousness, whether male or female, while he (or she) is a true Believer (in tawheed), verily to him we shall give a good life (in this world) and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do (i.e. Paradise in the Hereafter)" (an-Nahl 16:97)


















Footnotes

(1) As the Prophet saw said: "When the servant marries, then he has completed half of the deen. Then let him fear Allah with regard to the remaining half" (Saheeh ul-Jaami no.443)
(2) Narrated by Abu Hurairah and collected in Sahih Muslim (eng trans. vol. 2 pg. 749 no. 3457)
(3) Tafsir Ibn Kathir. Its chain of narration is declared to be hasan by Shaikh Muqbil ibn Haadee in his checking of Ibn Kathir.
(4) This is what is meant is Surat ul-Baqarah that "men have a degree of responsibility over them" (2:228).
(5) Saheeh. Collected in Sunan Ibn Maajah, Musnad Ahmad and others




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[Hafsah]

:up:

[toxic]

A Wife...


Is always there, whether you need advise or a pep talk or even a sholder to cry on.

A Wife

Listens with her heart and is always honest with you. Even though the truth may not be what you want to hear.

A Wife

Knows all your secrets, understands your fears and shares your dreams.

A Wife

Never stops believing in you. Even if you give up on your self.

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A Special Blessing For My Wife


I pray that Allaah will give you a special blessing today

when He sends a soft gently breeze to kiss and caress your face.

when He allows the warmth of His sun to penetrate and warm your heart.

when He sends a light refreshing rain to wash away your frustrations, disappointments, angers, and fears.

when He shows you the beauty of a flower to brighten your day.

when He lets you hear the sweet melodies of the birds to lighten your spirit.

when He sends soft, fluffy snowflakes to soften the harsh sounds of the city and bring you peace.

when He brings the sounds of children laughing to enliven your soul.

when He brings a friend to speak kind words of hope and
well-being to you.

when He brings us together mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and physically as a wonderful family.

[.: Anna :.]

awww this such a nice post :) masha allah
i see that I read it b4 wen it was new cost i posted the smiley face lol
but I think I like it even more now :inlove: hehe

[MMS]

beautiful thread :inlove:

[lonely_me]

What is a wife? let me think for a while...
She's a creature who doesn't worth the while...
Loves to nag, mock and brag...
and by the end of the day turns into a fag!
If you love her dearly she'll just flee away...
leaving you alone, crying everyday...
But as soon as you desert her, dear...
she'll cling to you in so much fear...
So,Life goes on ... with or without a wife...
It's you, honey, who should draw the map of your life...

But what's a husband? let me think for a DAY...
He's a talented liar who's just willing to pay
Of course When it's for somebody else other than his wife...
It's really a shame, because without her he has no life!
Most men are merely colorful balls...
Keep bouncing them on all four walls...
Hit them around on walls and floors...
They'll return back to you, will often crawl...
Funny how those marriages work...
Attacking each other with knives and forks...
But At the end of the day
Both spouses will say
that the love of the other
is the reason they stay!

~~~Lonely.

[Irfan GBH]

What is a wife? let me think for a while...
She's a creature who doesn't worth the while...
Loves to nag, mock and brag...
and by the end of the day turns into a fag!
If you love her dearly she'll just flee away...
leaving you alone, crying everyday...
But as soon as you desert her, dear...
she'll cling to you in so much fear...
So,Life goes on ... with or without a wife...
It's you, honey, who should draw the map of your life...

But what's a husband? let me think for a DAY...
He's a talented liar who's just willing to pay
Of course When it's for somebody else other than his wife...
It's really a shame, because without her he has no life!
Most men are merely colorful balls...
Keep bouncing them on all four walls...
Hit them around on walls and floors...
They'll return back to you, will often crawl...
Funny how those marriages work...
Attacking each other with knives and forks...
But At the end of the day
Both spouses will say
that the love of the other
is the reason they stay!

~~~Lonely.


Bravo!!:banan:

[toxic]

What is a wife? let me think for a while...
She's a creature who doesn't worth the while...
Loves to nag, mock and brag...
and by the end of the day turns into a fag!
If you love her dearly she'll just flee away...
leaving you alone, crying everyday...
But as soon as you desert her, dear...
she'll cling to you in so much fear...
So,Life goes on ... with or without a wife...
It's you, honey, who should draw the map of your life...

But what's a husband? let me think for a DAY...
He's a talented liar who's just willing to pay
Of course When it's for somebody else other than his wife...
It's really a shame, because without her he has no life!
Most men are merely colorful balls...
Keep bouncing them on all four walls...
Hit them around on walls and floors...
They'll return back to you, will often crawl...
Funny how those marriages work...
Attacking each other with knives and forks...
But At the end of the day
Both spouses will say
that the love of the other
is the reason they stay!

~~~Lonely.



:salams:

:rofl1:

:banbear: :hidban:

you wicked lonely :p

[Te'oma]

And here I was really trying hard to not say something silly and sarcastic and then I scroll down and see that Lonely me beat me to it. :p
Honestly though, my wife is my best friend, my confidante and has always had my back. She's always been the one to make me stop working when I have been too stubborn or stupid to admit that I was too tired and burnt out and she's also stood by me when I have been at my lowest and celebrated my highs.
I can honestly say that my wife has been the best thing that could have happened to me and I don't know where I would be today if it wasn't for her. In fact I don't think that I would be here if it wasn't for her

[Abu Hurairah]

Thats such I nice poem masha'allah sis. Lonely, very agreeable in many a point but I'm sure there are a few good brothers out there who do actually treat their wife/ wives adequately or at least try to insha'allah. :( :crying:

[ummbilal]

And here I was really trying hard to not say something silly and sarcastic and then I scroll down and see that Lonely me beat me to it. :p
Honestly though, my wife is my best friend, my confidante and has always had my back. She's always been the one to make me stop working when I have been too stubborn or stupid to admit that I was too tired and burnt out and she's also stood by me when I have been at my lowest and celebrated my highs.
I can honestly say that my wife has been the best thing that could have happened to me and I don't know where I would be today if it wasn't for her. In fact I don't think that I would be here if it wasn't for her

Allhumdulilah Allah has blessed you with a wonderful wife, I think of my husband in the same way,

Inshaallah Allah will put love between you both and guide you to his religion of Islam.

[.: Anna :.]

And here I was really trying hard to not say something silly and sarcastic and then I scroll down and see that Lonely me beat me to it. :p
Honestly though, my wife is my best friend, my confidante and has always had my back. She's always been the one to make me stop working when I have been too stubborn or stupid to admit that I was too tired and burnt out and she's also stood by me when I have been at my lowest and celebrated my highs.
I can honestly say that my wife has been the best thing that could have happened to me and I don't know where I would be today if it wasn't for her. In fact I don't think that I would be here if it wasn't for herawwwwww :inlove:

[MalikOne™]

And here I was really trying hard to not say something silly and sarcastic and then I scroll down and see that Lonely me beat me to it. :p
Honestly though, my wife is my best friend, my confidante and has always had my back. She's always been the one to make me stop working when I have been too stubborn or stupid to admit that I was too tired and burnt out and she's also stood by me when I have been at my lowest and celebrated my highs.
I can honestly say that my wife has been the best thing that could have happened to me and I don't know where I would be today if it wasn't for her. In fact I don't think that I would be here if it wasn't for her

awww I'll rep u for that :p

Now revert to Islam and i'll rep u everyday :D

[Guardian Hijab]

And here I was really trying hard to not say something silly and sarcastic and then I scroll down and see that Lonely me beat me to it. :p
Honestly though, my wife is my best friend, my confidante and has always had my back. She's always been the one to make me stop working when I have been too stubborn or stupid to admit that I was too tired and burnt out and she's also stood by me when I have been at my lowest and celebrated my highs.
I can honestly say that my wife has been the best thing that could have happened to me and I don't know where I would be today if it wasn't for her. In fact I don't think that I would be here if it wasn't for her
Well aren't you a pile of sugar:D

[Black_Flag]

that was real cute!!

[Black_Flag]

the original 1st post not the one my lonely me!! lol...but that was funny!

[muslim_sis]

mashallah , lovely thread:up:

[muslim_sis]

:editted: - double post

[Black_Flag]

mashallah lovely avatar!

[MalikOne™]

An e-mail i got:

Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allâh and to their husbands), and guard in the husband's absence what Allâh orders them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husband's property, etc.). 4:34

The beauty of a woman lies in her
Smile rather than her laughter

The beauty of a woman lies in her
Experience rather than her age

The beauty of a woman lies in her
Heart rather than in skin deep

The beauty of a woman lies in her
Perspiration rather than her perfumes

The beauty of a woman lies in her
LORD coz he is the creator of such a beautiful thing called “Woman”

[Arsalan]

a man put an add in a newspaper saying he "needed a wife"

He had a fantastic response , with more then 100 replies, they all said "you can have mine"

:up:

[MalikOne™]

a man put an add in a newspaper saying he "needed a wife"

He had a fantastic response , with more then 100 replies, they all said "you can have mine"

:up:

:rotfl:

An old man goes to the Wizard to ask him if he can remove a curse he has been living with for the last 40 years. The Wizard says, "Maybe, but you will have to tell me the exact words that were used to put the curse on you." The old man says without hesitation, "I now pronounce you man and wife."

:asta: :rotfl::rotfl:

[Arsalan]

There were 2 deaf men the first deaf men, said to the second deaf men in sign language who do i stop my wife complaining.

He replied just turn off the lights.

[ur_yusra]

There were 2 deaf men the first deaf men, said to the second deaf men in sign language who do i stop my wife complaining.

He replied just turn off the lights.

I don't get it..

[Aseer]

i dont get it

[Al-Irhaab]

hes deaf.. the only way his wife could complain is via sign language... if he turns the lights off she wont be able to complain cus he cant see her sign language... :rolleyes:

[ur_yusra]

ohhhhhh ok ..

right..

aha..

so ...

wheres the funny part... :wacko:

[Al-Irhaab]

ohhhhhh ok ..

right..

aha..

so ...

wheres the funny part... :wacko:

i didnt think it was dunny i was merely explaining wot it meant :rolleyes:

[ur_yusra]

i didnt think it was funny i was merely explaining wot it meant :rolleyes:

but did I say you thought it was funny?

[Al-Irhaab]

did i say that you said I thought it was funny :rolleyes:

[ur_yusra]

did i say that you said I thought it was funny :rolleyes:

yes you did... look at your statement again..

and don't do your usual lying

[Al-Irhaab]

yes you did... look at your statement again..

and don't do your usual lying

i didnt think it was dunny i was merely explaining wot it meant :rolleyes:

now unless your command of english has gone with your sense of adhab as to accusing a muslim of lying from the above statement what can be ascertained is that I am stating that I didnt think it was funny i was merely explaining what it meant.... dunny was supposed to be funny but thats a typo...

[ur_yusra]

i didnt think it was dunny i was merely explaining wot it meant :rolleyes:

now unless your command of english has gone with your sense of adhab as to accusing a muslim of lying from the above statement what can be ascertained is that I am stating that I didnt think it was funny i was merely explaining what it meant.... dunny was supposed to be funny but thats a typo...

no the lying statement was based on past experiences of your behaviour and quite frankly I do not care whether or not you found that funny.

[Al-Irhaab]

no the lying statement was based on past experiences of your behaviour and quite frankly I do not care whether or not you found that funny.

i see your temper has not decreased and stays alongside your pride which witholds you from aknowledging you were wrong and correcting it... so which past experiances of my behaviour where I have lied can you bring up to prove what you are saying? can you please show proof of what you are saying... or apologise or will your pride get in the way of either :rolleyes:

[ur_yusra]

i see your temper has not decreased and stays alongside your pride which witholds you from aknowledging you were wrong and correcting it... so which past experiances of my behaviour where I have lied can you bring up to prove what you are saying? can you please show proof of what you are saying... or apologise or will your pride get in the way of either :rolleyes:

no I wont say..

don't want to insult you in public..

I dnt want to insult you full stop..

so don't speak to me

[Al-Irhaab]

no I wont say..

don't want to insult you in public

so you can slander me by accusing me of lying in public but cannot show proof of it... strange it seems non? I mean im sure that is not the way of the prophet (saw) or islam to accuse a person of lying which is the major issue and then refuse to disclose the proof of where said person has lied...

well I guess that is a minor issue i mean ultimately from what I studied of ISlam it does say hide the sins of a muslim so that Allah (Swt) may hide your sins on yawmal hisaab :rolleyes: but I guess they dont teach that wherever it is that you learn Islam from. you do study islam non?

[Guardian Hijab]

no I wont say..

don't want to insult you in public..

I dnt want to insult you full stop..

so don't speak to me
InshAllah brother, respect her wishes.

You guys can always put each other on the ignore list.

[Al-Irhaab]

InshAllah brother, respect her wishes.

You guys can always put each other on the ignore list.

I get accused of being a liar and im the one somehow in the wrong :rolleyes:

[.: Anna :.]

You're both in the wrong!! :p
seriously the pair of you... why can't you just stay out of each others way???
lol

[Guardian Hijab]

I get accused of being a liar and im the one somehow in the wrong :rolleyes:
Just ignore her! Same goes to you ur_yusra.

Try the ignore list.

[ur_yusra]

You're both in the wrong!! :p
seriously the pair of you... why can't you just stay out of each others way???
lol

I have been doing so..

my desire is not to repeat past mistakes.. my judgement of character is not as good as I hoped it was..

But in every mistake.. there is a lesson

[Saeedujana]

as salaamu alaikum,

[lol] you two sound like a husband and wife bickering. you know, you only hate the ones you love.

ma'asalaama
saeed

[.: Anna :.]

insha allah most husband and wife do not bicker so much like that!! lol

[Saeedujana]

insha allah most husband and wife do not bicker so much like that!! lol
ameen [smile]

ma'asalaama
saeed

[ur_yusra]

insha allah most husband and wife do not bicker so much like that!! lol

Im gonna annoy my husband :p

[Al-Irhaab]

I have been doing so..

my desire is not to repeat past mistakes.. my judgement of character is not as good as I hoped it was..

But in every mistake.. there is a lesson

my character... can you please point out these defects that are so apparant in my character so that i may remove them... apart from the lying one which your saying your not gonna tell me... :rolleyes:

it would be so much easiar just to say ok im sorry for calling you a liar

[Saeedujana]

Im gonna annoy my husband :p
now that is cute [lol] i'm sure he'd love it [smile] masha'allah...

ma'asalaama
saeed

[.: Anna :.]

Im gonna annoy my husband :psis I wouldn't recommend it... arguing is never nice. Its much better to be like this all the time :inlove::inlove::inlove::inlove:
no point causing trouble for ur husband, jst causes trouble for urself too!
and u will please Allah by making ur husband happy :love: insha allah :) It's a very simple way 2 gain Allah's pleasure insha allah.

[.: Anna :.]

my character... can you please point out these defects that are so apparant in my character so that i may remove them... apart from the lying one which your saying your not gonna tell me... :rolleyes:

it would be so much easiar just to say ok im sorry for calling you a liar
possibly best to just drop it bro :) insha allah
:S

[Al-Irhaab]

possibly best to just drop it bro :) insha allah
:S

wallahu musta'm

[Al-Irhaab]

anyway im sorry if i lost my temper been a bad day with sheikh muhammed abbas passing away was my wish to go see him but unfortunately it was not to be inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi wa rajihoun

[ur_yusra]

Inna lillahi wa illayhi raji oon..

May Allah (swt) bless him with the highest jannah.. ameen

make duah for my brother please..

hes ill..

[Al-Irhaab]

Inna lillahi wa illayhi raji oon..

May Allah (swt) bless him with the highest jannah.. ameen

make duah for my brother please..

hes ill..

allah (swt) give him a quick recovery inshallah i pray its not serious....:(

[Guardian Hijab]

Inna lillahi wa illayhi raji oon..

May Allah (swt) bless him with the highest jannah.. ameen

make duah for my brother please..

hes ill..
May Allah cure him soon inshAllah.

You and your brother will be in my dua's.

[Te'oma]

awww I'll rep u for that :p

Now revert to Islam and i'll rep u everyday :D

Just realized that ya owe some reppage :D

[MalikOne™]

Just realized that ya owe some reppage :D

sorry boss :$