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abdulhakeem
16-01-04, 08:51 PM
By Qazi Faez Isa
January 16 2004

The ease and certainty with which people have been packed off to hell has made many lose their faith. The devil probably never smiles but arrogantly raves and rants and collects a similar crew to lead through the gates and into his kingdom. In contrast, the "inhabitants of Paradise are joyful" (36:55). Paradise is the reward for "those who spend (charity) whether in prosperity or in adversity, who restrain their anger and pardon men" (3:134).

On the day of the Final Judgment the faces of the believers will be "beaming" (80:38). But today the wells of joy, laughter and humour are running dry as most who take religion seriously mistakenly believe that a necessary accompaniment is a serious expression if not a perpetual frown. The frown, in turn, beckons anger, and from there it is a short fuse igniting a burning rage.

The Quran depicts unbelievers in a state of rage (48:29, 3:119). Happiness is associated with belief and Paradise. Those entering Paradise will be "laughing, rejoicing" as this two word verse of the Quran states (80.39). And unbelief and Hell are connected with rage. Those who do not believe will "perish in their rage" (3:119). And the Beneficial Creator commends those who restrain their rage (3:134).

The Quran informs that the inhabitants of Paradise would be "joyful", "rejoicing", in a state of "brightness and joy", "happy", and "enjoying themselves" (36:55, 43:70, 88:8, 76:11, 84:9, 52:18 and 30:15). The book of the Last Revelation also records in happy and joyful language incidents of earlier Prophets. The lady Sarah, the wife of Prophet Ibrahim, on overhearing that she would become the mother of Ishaq in her advanced years, "laughed" (11:71).

The amusing encounter of Solomon (Hazrat Sulaiman) with the ants was heavenly revealed and recorded for posterity. Solomon was amused and smiled on hearing the protest of the talking ants when he said, "O ye ants get into your habitation, lest Solomon and his hosts crush you without knowing it" (27:18).

Chapter 80 of the Quran is titled 'He frowned' (Abasa). The title records an incident when the Prophet (peace be upon him) was explaining the revelation of the Quran to the notables of the Quraish and was interrupted by a poor and blind man (Abdullah ibn Umm-i-Muktum) who wanted to learn the Quran but the Prophet frowned upon his interruption. The Prophet of Allah undoubtedly regretted his own behaviour as "without the least hesitation published this revelation" that was received by him.

In our times the sight of a pleasant, bearded and smiling face is somewhat of a rarity. In the mosques sermonizers rarely look happy or pleased. The priestly exhortations of fire and brimstone that have rained down from many a pulpit seem to have infiltrated our mosques. Rare is the glad and happy sermon, uplifting the heart and soul. The environment is mostly one of sombre retribution and severe punishments.

The threat of damnation and wrath reverberates. The amplification provided by the loudspeaker is not considered sufficient by the sermonizer who must also shout into it. With the advent of Ramazan the eardrums are assailed by thunderous voices driving sleep away and putting reason on a similar flight. In exhorting believers to scripture and practising 'naat' at all hours of the night the teaching itself is ironically violated. The merciful Creator castigates loud voices: "Lower thy voice; for the harshest of sounds without doubt is the braying of the ass" (31:19).

Gentle angelic qualities of joy, laughter and sweetness, best reflected in the blessed prophet of Allah, are in sharp contrast with devilish severity and its accompanying tears, heartache and bitterness. Through the Companions (sahaba) of the Messenger of God we have received reports about the Messenger's sayings and demeanour. "Whoever is without gentleness is devoid of good" is a famous saying of the Prophet (pbuh).

"I have never seen anyone who smiled more than the Envoy of Allah", said the Companion Abdullah, son of Harith. Another Companion Jarir said that "he [the Prophet] never saw me without smiling." And the Companion Anas informs us that, "I never saw anyone more kind to children than Rasul Allah."

There are a few reported incidents of the Prophet either joking or appreciating a humorous incident. 'Usman will enter paradise laughing, because he made me laugh', said the Prophet. The Messenger of Allah saw Hazrat Usman [the third Caliph] eating dates while one of his eyes was afflicted with ophthalmia and remarked "What! Eating dates when your eye is afflicted?" Hazrat Usman answered "I am eating from the other side." The Prophet laughed heartily.

The Traditions (hadith) compiler, Abu Dawud, records that Amr ibn al As said that he avoided a bath on a cold night after having become impure for prayer and instead performed dry ablution (tayammum) and the Prophet, upon learning of this, remarked "Amr, you performed prayers while in a state of impurity" (junub)? Amr responded by citing the Quranic verse: "And kill not yourselves. Indeed God has been most Merciful to you." The Prophet laughed and said nothing further.

In the very same circumstances our self-styled ulema would probably admonish and issue a declaration (fatwa) that the person was an unbeliever (kafir). A Sufi's response to one such castigator was: "You call me an unbeliever. I shall therefore call you a True Believer - since a lie is best met with one of similar magnitude."

Sufi teachers would employ simple anecdotes to disarm, teach and convert. Humour and kindness played a significant role in the spread of Islam. Anger, clenched fists, cursing and threats of God's retribution have not helped in the spiritual conquest of any new lands. Hazrat Ali, said, "Minds get tired, as do bodies, so treat them with humour." And Abu al-Darda said, "I entertain my heart with something trivial in order to make it stronger in the service of the truth."

Most Sunni Muslims in the subcontinent profess to be the followers of Imam Abu Hanifa's theological school but forget his advice. In a letter to his student Yusuf ibn Khalid as-Samit he wrote: "Show affection to people as much as possible and greet even blameworthy people... When you meet others in a gathering or join them in a mosque and questions are discussed in a way different to your position, do not rush to disagree... But friendly with them and joke with them sometimes and chat with them. Love encourages people to persevere in knowledge."

Abu Hanifa refused to accept appointment as chief judge (qadi) from Al-Mansur, the Abbassi Caliph, and told him that he was not fit for such an appointment. Al-Mansur told him, "You lie, you are fit." Abu Hanifia retorted that in that case, "How can it be lawful for you to appoint someone who is a liar as qadi?"

For disobedience, Abu Hanifia was arrested and received 110 lashes. Before his death he left instructions that he should not be buried in any land misappropriated by Al-Mansur. When the Caliph heard this he exclaimed in exasperation, "Who will save me from Abu Hanifia, both when he was alive and now when he is dead?" Abu Hanifia died a martyr for not having compromised his principles and had the last laugh at Mansur's expense.

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AbuMubarak
27-05-04, 05:12 PM
Salaams everyone,

here are a few examples of how our Prophet (PBUH) had such a wise and subtle
sense of humor:

~*Prophet SAW Joked too*~
Bismillahir Rehmanir Raheem

“Once, the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam went to visit Suhayb, may
Allaah be pleased with him, when he was sick with an eye ailment. When he entered
Suhayb, may Allaah be pleased with him, was eating dates, so the Prophet
sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said to him, jokingly: “Are you eating dates while
you have a sore eye!” he replied: ‘I’m using the other eye to see.’ Thereupon, the
Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam smiled.” (Ibn Maajah).


Anas, may Allaah be pleased with him, narrated that a man came to the
Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam and said: “Give me an animal to ride on” the
Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam replied: “I will give you the son of a
female camel” the man said with astonishment: “What could I do with the son of a
female camel?” (i.e., thinking that he would be given a camel too small to ride).
Thereupon, the Messenger of Allaah sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam replied: “What do
female camels deliver except camels?” (i.e., that every camel, even if it is fully
grown, is the product of a female camel). (Abu Daawood & Tirmidhi).



‘Awf Ibn Maalik, may Allaah be pleased with him, said, “I went to the
Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam during the battle of Tabook while he was in
a leather Qubbah (a small tent-like structure used for sitting in before war). I
greeted him with Salaam and he sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam responded and said:
“Come inside” I said, ‘O Messenger of Allaah, all of me?’ he sallallaahu ‘alaihi
wa sallam replied: “All of you” so I entered” (Ahmad & Abu Daawood). ‘Uthmaan Ibn
Abi Al-‘Ataakah commented that ‘Awf Ibn Maalik asked this question because the
Qubbah was very small’.



Ka’b Ibn Murrah, may Allaah be pleased with him, said: “I heard the
Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam saying, “Shoot at the enemy; Allaah will
elevate he who shoots and his arrow reaches the enemy, by raising him by one step
in Paradise” Ibn An-Namaam, may Allaah be pleased with him, asked: ‘O Messenger of
Allaah, what is this step?’ he sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam replied with humour:
“It is definitely not like your mothers doorstep; Indeed the distance between two
steps in Paradise is one hundred years”” (An-Nasaa’i & Ahmad).



Anas, may Allaah be pleased with him, narrated: “There was a Bedouin
named Zaahir whom the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam loved and he was ugly.
One day the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam approached him from behind as he
was selling some merchandise and hugged him and teased him saying: “Who would buy
this slave (i.e., Zaahir)” Zaahir replied: ‘You would not get much for someone
like me’ the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said: “But you are precious in
the sight of Allaah.” (Ahmad).



· The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam would also comfort his
companions and cheer them up, as Anas, may Allaah be pleased with him, narrated:
“The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam once saw my young brother extremely
upset, so he sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam asked: “Why do I see Abu ‘Umayr (a fond
nickname that he gave him) so sad?” the people replied ‘His bird has died.’ So he
sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said comfortingly: “O Abu ‘Umayr what happened to
your bird?”” (Ahmad).



· Joking to reform the companions: “Khawwaat Ibn Jubayr Al-Ansaari was
sitting with some women from the tribe of Banu Ka’b on the road leading to Makkah
listening to their talk. The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam came across him
there and asked him: “O Abu ‘Abdullaah, what are you doing setting with these
ladies?” He replied: ‘I lost my camel and came looking for it’ (as a false
excuse). The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam left him and went to take care
of some affairs. After a while he sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam returned and
teased him saying: “O Abu ‘Abdullaah, has your camel given up running away from
you yet?” Khawwaat said: ‘I was embarrassed and kept silent, and was avoiding him
after that (because the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam realised that
Khawwaat was just trying to justify his sitting with the women), until we went
back to Madeenah when he saw me in the mosque while I was praying, so he
sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam sat down next to me waiting for me to finish my
prayer. Due to this, I prolonged my prayer, he sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said:
“Don’t prolong your prayer as I awaiting for you” so I finished my prayer, then he
sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said teasing me again:, “O Abu ‘Abdullaah, has your
camel given up running away from you yet?” I was embarrassed and kept silent, so
he stood up and left and kept avoiding him until one day he sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa
sallam saw me while he was riding his donkey and said: “O Abu ‘Abdullaah, has your
camel given up running away from you yet?” So I replied: I swear by Him Who sent
you with the truth, my camel has never run away from me since I became a Muslim’
(i.e., confessing to his sin which the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam was
trying to teach him to do by his joke) so the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa
sallam said: “Allaahu Akbar, Allaahu Akbar, O Allaah, guide Abu ‘Abdullaah. After
this, Khawwaat Ibn Jubayr Al-Ansaari became a much better Muslim”. (Tabaraani)



The companions of the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam were the most
serious of people and the least heedless of Allaahs commands, yet they used to
joke. Bukhaari mentioned in his book Al-Adab Al-Mufrad, “The companions used to
play with one another by throwing watermelon skins at each other, but when it was
time for seriousness, they where real men”. Ibn Sireen was asked about the
companions, “Did they joke?” he replied: “They were just like normal people (i.e.
yes they did)”. Abu Salamah Ibn ‘Abur-Rahmaan said, describing the companions:
“The companions never exaggerated in seriousness, nor were they heedless; they
used to recite poetry in their gatherings and mention some incidents which took
place during their pre-Islamic period and laugh, but if they saw any action
against Islaam, they would become furious.” (Ibn Abu Shaybah).



The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam used to joke with his wives and
children. ‘Aa’ishah, may Allaah be pleased with her, narrated: “The Prophet
sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam went on one of his trips and I accompanied him; he
told his companions: “proceed ahead” while he and I lagged behind, then he said to
me: “Let us race” so we did and I won - and he did not say anything. After some
time, when I became heavier in weight, I went with him on another trip, and I had
forgotten about the race. He sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam told his companions,
“proceed ahead” while he and I lagged behind, then he said to me: “Let us race” so
we did and he won and started laughing and said, “This one makes up for the first
time” (Ahmad).

The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said: “The best among you is the
best in dealing with their family - and I am the best among you in dealing with
their family”



‘Aa’ishah, may Allaah be pleased with her, was asked: “How was the
Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam when he was alone with his wives?” she
replied: “He was just like any other man, except that he was the most kind, gentle
and cheerful of them.”



“The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam used to line up the children of
Bani Al-‘Abbaas and others and say, “Race towards me, and whoever wins will get
something” so they would race towards him and he would roll over on the ground and
the children would climb on his chest and roll on his back; and he would hug and
kiss them.’’ (Ahmad).



‘Aa’ishah, may Allaah be pleased with her, said: “The Messenger of Allaah
sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam was in my house and Sawdah, another of his wives,
was there also. I had made some food, served it and asked Sawdah to eat it. She
replied: ‘I don’t want it’. I said ‘I swear by Allaah that either you will eat or
I will cover your face in it.’ She replied: ‘I will not taste it’. So I took some
of the food in my hand from the plate and splashed it on her face, while the
Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam was sitting between us. The Prophet
sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam lowered his legs so that I could not get at Sawdah,
then she took a portion of the food and covered my face in it. During all this,
Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam was laughing.” (Abu Ya’laa).

ws

Moazzam Ahmed
Conference Vice Chair - ISNA
2004 ISNA South Central Regional Conference
July 4th Weekend in Dallas, TX
http://www.dfwisna.com

"Within us all, there lies the potential to realize our dreams... however, within only a few of us lies the courage to realize our potential". (Shaykh Zaid Shakir)

abdulhakeem
27-05-04, 11:51 PM
:)

Huda
28-05-04, 03:05 AM
mashallah its really good to know the sunnah of joking and having a sense of humor and not to fall into the 2 extremes either by taking everything lightly as a joke or always staying serious.