girls girls girls.....

[solitude614]

before, I used to mess around a lot, alhumdulillah I am getting better to the point where I dont do any other that stuff. Now the problem is watching bad stuff.......Its so hard for me to not look at that stuff here and there.

Any tips? :(

[amana]

Here`s few points to make your life more fulfilling:

Stay away from TV. If you have one donate to charity.

Stay away from chatting room on internet.

If you like computer games, do play them.

Read a good book Non religious or sociology.

Do stay on this board and post once an while, if you feel you like to reply to some post do so.

Lesten some classic music if you like that tipe.

Do unplug the phone and laid down, close your eyes and try to no think, for few minuts.

Do dring some water any time you have bad thoughts.

Don`t use enswer machine on the phone line.

Don`t use 'caller ID' on your phone.

Do`nt use cellular phone for conversation.

Don`t read news anyware: today news is all about bad things and hatred in the world.

Do read some magazine; i.e. National Geografic and such.

This do and don`t, can easy your life a lot.

[redwine]

don't pay for it.

[Tahiyah]

wear really really super dark sun glasses, so you cant see that well.

tape your chin to your chest so you cant look up.

take cold showers.

or maybe try praying and making duaa to Allah to protect you from the evils of created things. fast, fasting is an excellent way to help control desires. lower the gaze.. keep the eyes down. get more involved in competitive sports. or simply... get married.

[Beyazid]

get married to some one your love very much :banghead:

[alifromconroe]

Yes, marriage is the best solution if you are able Insha'Allah.

I think about women alot myself, but Alhamdulillah I'm an akward bumbling mess around women if I like them, so I don't do anything I'm not supposed to. I play video games alot, surf the internet, do my school work, and I don't go out much except to school or Masjid, so I avoid 'Free Mixing'.

[hen]

does amana's post strike anyone else as strange?

even if you marry, you will still be tempted to look at other women so you must try to grow in this area.
pray to God and ask for help
have friends around you who know your problem and who can encourage you.
dont put yourself in areas where you will feel tempted - for example, dont buy racey magazines.
fight the battle in your mind - before it gets to your actions.
when and if you fail, turn to God for help.

[redwine]

don't get married..or you will end up like this!

http://www.dribbleglass.com/subpages/strange/nag.jpg

[Beyazid]

lol he look scared.


:torture:

:rolleyes:

[amana]

Hen quoted:

does amana's post strike anyone else as strange?


Why is strange Hen?

Did you aver heard "self descipline"? "Self sustaining".

All the above things that i posted, are part of self descipline.

If a person keeps busy in good way, it eliminate bad things to overpower their mind, including ormon controlling in our boddy.

TV is full of hatred and sex pervession.

Chatting rooms, are full of bad language and attitude.

Phone conversations is not good for an elevate ormone moment.

News papers and magazines, are also full of dirt pictures and bad news today.

Water is very good for ormone calmdown, especially cold 'ice' water.

Classical music is soul soothing, if they like that kind of music.

Laing down and close eyes and stop thinking for few minuts, it slows down the ormons. Infact, all this 'girls or boys' is only metter of ormons workout.

Meditation and fasting is very good for ormon control. fruit nettar is great for mind controlling.


Once a boy/girl. man or woma can learn how to controll their boddy, we are way haed to funtion in our daily life, in very compost and intellingent way.


Thank you for reading, and have a sane day.

[redwine]

I like Ice tea and
Pachelbel - Cannon In D Minor

[redwine]

people get ready ,by ,al green is good jams too.

[Sultan]

Originally posted by redwine
don't get married..or you will end up like this!

http://www.dribbleglass.com/subpages/strange/nag.jpg

Too late for me!

:(

[amana]

redwine,

Pachelbel - Cannon In D Minor


I believe you ment "Canon In D Minor".


Cannon, is a powerfull war veicle.

Canon or Canone, or Canonical, is part of Catholic church jerarchy.


Aniway,"Canon In D Minor", is beautiful 3 violin piece of music.

So is other music for Organ, wich Pachelbel composed.

Organ music is very spiritual soothing moosic.

Nice taste in music, you have.


Greetings,

[hen]

what does not using a cell phone or an answering machine have to do with controlling your passions? Thats what I was talking about.



Originally posted by amana
Hen quoted:




Why is strange Hen?

Did you aver heard "self descipline"? "Self sustaining".

All the above things that i posted, are part of self descipline.

If a person keeps busy in good way, it eliminate bad things to overpower their mind, including ormon controlling in our boddy.

TV is full of hatred and sex pervession.

Chatting rooms, are full of bad language and attitude.

Phone conversations is not good for an elevate ormone moment.

News papers and magazines, are also full of dirt pictures and bad news today.

Water is very good for ormone calmdown, especially cold 'ice' water.

Classical music is soul soothing, if they like that kind of music.

Laing down and close eyes and stop thinking for few minuts, it slows down the ormons. Infact, all this 'girls or boys' is only metter of ormons workout.

Meditation and fasting is very good for ormon control. fruit nettar is great for mind controlling.


Once a boy/girl. man or woma can learn how to controll their boddy, we are way haed to funtion in our daily life, in very compost and intellingent way.


Thank you for reading, and have a sane day.

[monkey]

Yes Bro, this forum is full of sistas, but hardly any bro,?

[haqa]

I was reading about ways to contol the nafs a few days ago. Of what i can remember is :

Get married young - if u cant do that then:

fast
take cold showers in summer
Do Istinja with cold water ( ooo thats painful)
Cut down on spicey food
cut down on meat

[haqa]

Originally posted by Hen
does amana's post strike anyone else as strange?

well i didnt get the bit about reading a non religious book
why not a religious book?
R religious books full of porn?

[amana]

haqa,

I never sayed that : "R religious books full of porn?"

What i did say:

Read a good book Non religious or sociology.

Religious books tend to make feel guilty that you done something wrong. Hence you can get more depressed thinking that you are not good anough to relieve yourself.


Sociology, more or less does samething to us: feel impotent to approch on better way our life. Wich can make things worse. Our hormones is only, temporary Andrenal work. If we can stay calm and winn this moments, we overpower and become victorious, and next time we know what to do and how to control and resist our impulses.

Regards,

Amana