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Ebony
19-12-03, 07:25 PM
causes of mental distress

http://www.channel4.com/health/microsites/H/health/magazine/mind/distress.html

'Why?' That's what most of us ask when someone we know experiences a mental health problem. However, in most cases, it is almost impossible to discover the exact reasons why a particular individual is distressed.

Most mental health problems have a number of contributing causes that will vary from person to person. These can include an inherited vulnerability to certain problems, upsetting events in an individual's past or present, specific stresses and the person's own circumstances and personality.

genetic predisposition

If you have a genetic predisposition to a certain problem, it means that you have an inherited vulnerability in that area. It does not mean that you will necessarily develop the problem, simply that your risks of doing so are higher than normal.

The exact role that genetic vulnerability plays in a wide range of mental health conditions is not yet clear.

Research suggests that some people inherit a genetic predisposition to clinical depression and that it is also likely to play a part in some cases of manic depression.

Genetic predisposition is a contributing factor for some people who develop schizophrenia. Your chances of developing that illness increase 10 times if you have a parent with schizophrenia, whether or not that parent has brought you up.

It is thought that some people may inherit a genetic predisposition for some types of anxiety, but more research is needed.

One puzzle is why a particular person within a family develops a certain problem when brothers and sisters, who have been brought up in a very similar way, remain unaffected. We don't know all the reasons for this. However, we all differ in terms of physical constitution, temperament and the way we each interpret and make use of experience. It may be that some members of a family are born more vulnerable to certain types of stress or become so as the result of circumstances.

upsetting events in the past

People are more at risk of developing mental health problems if they have experienced certain upsetting events in the past, such as the loss of their mother before they reach the age of 11 or abuse, neglect or other difficulties within the family. Moreover, if children and young people with such problems are not given appropriate support at the time, their difficulties may persist into adult life.

If your problems have their roots in childhood experiences, they are likely to be quite complex. You may need professional help and support for quite a time to help you deal with them.

stress

Stress often contributes to mental health problems. Sometimes a particular stress or an accumulation of stresses may be the main cause. Or other factors may be more important and the stress simply acts as a trigger – the last straw.

While you may be unable to avoid some stresses, it is likely that there are others that you can control – for example, taking on too many responsibilities or working continually against the clock. It is important to sort out your priorities and say no to extra demands so that you give yourself time to relax and recover your energy.

Check out the health magazine stress section for more information and ways of reducing stress at home and work.

life events

Major events or changes in life can be very stressful. They are often associated with some kind of loss – bereavement, losing a job, relationship break-up. Even when the changes seem positive – such as having a baby, moving home or starting a new job – they, too, can prove stressful. This is because, in both types of events, the person involved has to adapt and find new ways to cope. This can be particularly difficult if a number of major changes have to be dealt with over a short period.

If you can, try to space out the important changes in your life. For example, it is a good idea to avoid moving home straight after a bereavement. And don't bottle up your feelings if you are feeling distressed. Talk to someone you trust about any worries.

You might like to visit the health magazine family section for information about ways of dealing with stress and the ups and downs of family life.

continuing stressful situations

Distressing situations that continue over time, such as bullying or racial harassment, may contribute to anxiety or depression. If you find yourself in such a situation, it is essential that you get advice and support for yourself rather than just letting it continue.

Feeling trapped in a situation over which you have no control or feeling unneeded or unappreciated, either at home or work, can also contribute to mental health problems. Try to find an activity where you are appreciated or have some control, such as voluntary work, a hobby or a sport.

Problems with a relationship, particularly with someone close, can be extremely upsetting and a cause of mental distress. When it is too difficult to talk things over with the person concerned, it may help to confide in a trusted friend to relieve your feelings and get things into perspective. You might also need professional support to help you understand what is happening and find a way of dealing with it.

illness

The mind and body are very closely linked, and physical illnesses can affect us psychologically. Therefore, it is not surprising that people sometimes feel more anxious or down because of a physical illness or because of the limitations it imposes on their lives.

However, depression can be a symptom of a number of physical conditions – including thyroid deficiency and other hormone imbalance. It can also follow certain illnesses, such as glandular fever and influenza, even when the person seems to have recovered. In addition, medication prescribed for certain illnesses – such as high blood pressure drugs and steroids – can produce depression or anxiety as a side-effect.

lifestyle

Your lifestyle can make you feel good physically and mentally, or it can produce the opposite effect.

*Lack of exercise often increases tension and anxiety. Regular exercise will keep you fit, energetic and more able to cope.
*Missing meals or eating a diet lacking in essential nutrients can increase anxiety or depression. It is important to eat regular balanced meals, however rushed you are.
*Large quantities of caffeine can increase anxiety. If you are drinking more than a few cups of tea or coffee each day, you might consider cutting down and substituting other drinks such as fruit juice, herb teas or water.

Latifa
20-12-03, 10:38 PM
JazakhAllah Khair for this infor sis :)

Ebony
20-12-03, 11:07 PM
doing my degree in psychology sis..so this stuff interests me :D

Tahiyah
20-12-03, 11:34 PM
how do you guys unwind from a stressful day?

i like to listen to Quran or soft nasheeds in a dim candle lit room, with a nice hot beverage.

Ali_Khan
21-12-03, 03:16 PM
<<in a dim candle lit room, with a nice hot beverage.>>

ewww sounds awful! Best time to listen to Quran for me is in the morning or in the dead of night. In the morning because the sun is rising, reminding me of Allah's mercy and bounty. And in the dead of night because then I am alone and Allah's words comfort me.

AbuZayd Al-Britaani
21-12-03, 09:54 PM
"Verily in the Remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest"

Tahiyah
21-12-03, 10:32 PM
Ali?? why does that sound awful? what ya got against candles? musk scented ones are really nice? its a relaxing atmosphere, a hot cup of tea... and listen to Quran.. that sounds awful to you??
sounds like a nice way to end a long day of Dunya living if ya ask me. nice reminder, puts everything in perspective.. etc.

Ebony
22-12-03, 12:14 PM
the best wy to unwind varies amongst ppl.
some prefer sitting in a dimly lit room
some prefer 2 listen 2 something soothing

Tahiyah, i think it ws jst the dimly lit room with the hot drink tht put him off :rolleyes:

:up: at the hot drink though :D

Noor
23-12-03, 12:05 PM
come and live in my house... u'll be lucky to find real time to relax.

Blessings come in disguise :) Subhanallah

Ali_Khan
23-12-03, 02:01 PM
Originally posted by Tahiyah
Ali?? why does that sound awful? what ya got against candles? musk scented ones are really nice? its a relaxing atmosphere, a hot cup of tea... and listen to Quran.. that sounds awful to you??
sounds like a nice way to end a long day of Dunya living if ya ask me. nice reminder, puts everything in perspective.. etc.

ive got nothing against the listening to quran. i just dont like candles! they remind me too much of wierd religious cults, hindu rituals, churches, morgues, wierd stuff like that and therefore, for me candles and islamic activity is like oil and water. they just dont mix. and also i dont like dimly lit rooms, just a personal preference tho!

amana
23-12-03, 03:26 PM
ive got nothing against the listening to quran. i just dont like candles! they remind me too much of wierd religious cults, hindu rituals, churches, morgues, wierd stuff like that and therefore, for me candles and islamic activity is like oil and water. they just dont mix. and also i dont like dimly lit rooms, just a personal preference tho!

I feel the same way. I don`t like dark. The only time i like stay on the dark is when i have to sleep at night.

Tahiyah
23-12-03, 04:03 PM
Originally posted by Ali_Khan
i just dont like candles! they remind me too much of wierd religious cults, hindu rituals, churches, morgues, wierd stuff like that and therefore, for me candles and islamic activity is like oil and water.



Mashaa Allah @ the Islam in your heart Ali! ya know in Mauratania (forgive spelling, to lazy to look it up) the scholars there still teach in the dark early am hours on stone tablets, in tents, by candle light.. possible oil lamps too. i am gonna send you a nice scented candle that wont scare you. lol.

Ali_Khan
24-12-03, 08:31 AM
Originally posted by Tahiyah
Mashaa Allah @ the Islam in your heart Ali! ya know in Mauratania (forgive spelling, to lazy to look it up) the scholars there still teach in the dark early am hours on stone tablets, in tents, by candle light.. possible oil lamps too. i am gonna send you a nice scented candle that wont scare you. lol.

Man its just a preference. Theres alot of other stuff i dont like. For instance I dont like expensive houses. I absoloutly abhor civilian cars that look like military vehicles and I disklike certain types of enlightnement period architecture. I also hate tacky attempts at luxury like cheap made in china, "luxury" ornaments sets. But in the end its just a preference.