Would you marry a niqaabi?

[perfectpearl]

Yes ameen, no i don't care what other people think and neither am i scared of anyone, just would care for the wifey's security thats all.

It's a hateful society, no need to invite trouble.

You are not inviting trouble by wearing niqab. You are obeying your Lord. I wear it, I go to Uni I live in the US - ... no one messes with me. I am sure they talk about me but I dont think anything has the guts to do it in front of me. You just have to be secure and confident and no one will mess with you. Its not a big deal really.

[extempers]

Bismillah,

Yes, especially if she has ninja skills :P

My mom would probably kill me before I could though so meh.

[Islamiyyah]

Bismillah,

Yes, especially if she has ninja skills :P

My mom would probably kill me before I could though so meh.

But surely your mother isnt marrying her right? :)

You are grown, therefore grown enough to make your own desicions. What's wrong with munaqabats? Nothing :)

[ibnmuadh]

:salams:

Alhumdulilah i have a lot of respect for sisters who wear niqaab, as it shows submission to Allah (SWT) through their actions if their INTENTIONS are pure. The key word their being intention, therefore a guy shouldn't think ok this sister wears niqaab so i want to maary her and this sister doesnt because appearence can be changed easily but the character, mannerisms and Eemaan of a person is harder, therefore just because a sister wears niqaab it doesn't neccessarily mean she is "more" pious than a sister who doesnt and also if some sisters don't wear hijab, we shouldn't look down on them because their may be certain words of wisdom that comes out of their mouths which we may not know. Therefore i think if a brother marrys a niqaabi solely on the fact that she wears niqaab and ASSUMES she is more pious i dont think that is correct.

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Originally Posted by perfectpearl
This is how I always put it. The better guys will always go for niqiabs. That makes it easier for a niqabi to chose who she wants to marry because the not so good guys are already drained out. A bad guy wouldnt want to marry a niqabi. Enough said.

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Originally Posted by extempers
Bismillah,

Yes, especially if she has ninja skills :P

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[$HugoBoss$]

You are not inviting trouble by wearing niqab. You are obeying your Lord. I wear it, I go to Uni I live in the US - ... no one messes with me. I am sure they talk about me but I dont think anything has the guts to do it in front of me. You just have to be secure and confident and no one will mess with you. Its not a big deal really.

Depends where you live pearl, it's not that easy for all niqabis. Your obeying your lord by wearing the hijab also, works both ways. I'm glad you find it easy and very proud of you, you are for a fact accumulating more sawab :up:

There are some real amazing brother's who are married to non-hijabis and hijabis also. Just because a man marries a niqabi doesn't make him superior over the other brothers, thats very silly.

[ibnmuadh]

Niqaab is fine, a courageous gown
It's people line, they go not down
I respect them more, I feel internal peace
Compared to your, Hijaab my sis

Marriage, a lifelong decision
U must check,with calculation
The deen, and the character first
Then u lean, on appearance thirst

When i have, two choices to make
I will carve, for character take
If all whine, with good manner
Then she will shine, Niqaabi banner

[perfectpearl]

Depends where you live pearl, it's not that easy for all niqabis. Your obeying your lord by wearing the hijab also, works both ways. I'm glad you find it easy and very proud of you, you are for a fact accumulating more sawab :up:

There are some real amazing brother's who are married to non-hijabis and hijabis also. Just because a man marries a niqabi doesn't make him superior over the other brothers, thats very silly.

No it doesnt. But who would want to marry a niqabi unless he is religious?! Its true... being religious does make you the better person. Of course there are brothers who are good that are not married to niqabis. Thats not what I am saying. What I am saying is whoever looks for a niqabi is somewhat religious so that makes him a good person. You dont have to look for a niqabi to be a better person but whoever does, is most likely a good person. The niqabi sisters got the choosing and the picking easy. Thats what I am saying. Like rashid said, its not true all the time. I know someone whose not a so good person and really wants to marry this niqabi. See my logic doesnt work there.

[sis_niqabi]

Level of comfort and security is much higher. Like i said only in a muslim country.



you know i've heard some men use that same argument for not marrying a hijabi.
Islam is for all societies, whether the people expect an aspect of of Islam or not it doesn't matter. any good deed should be done where ever you're at. it doesn't matter what country you are in

[Abu Mus'ab]

The muslims males are a sad lot unfortunately, if a thread on the jilbaab comes up you'll find many females saying they wear it and those who don't/can't wear it but agree people should wear it, and of course you'll get those who'll be anti jilbaab, but then when a thread about the thobe and kurta is made then far too many males will make up all the excuses under the sun as to why they dont have to wear it, it's the same for the beard and pants above the ankles etc etc, where have all the men gone?

[Abu Mus'ab]

......

[Islamiyyah]

The muslims males are a sad lot unfortunately, if a thread on the jilbaab comes up you'll find many females saying they wear it and those who don't/can't wear it but agree people should wear it, and of course you'll get those who'll be anti jilbaab, but then when a thread about the thobe and kurta is made then far too many males will make up all the excuses under the sun as to why they dont have to wear it, it's the same for the beard and pants above the ankles etc etc, where have all the men gone?

Only Allah truely knows...

[$HugoBoss$]

No it doesnt. But who would want to marry a niqabi unless he is religious?! Its true... being religious does make you the better person. Of course there are brothers who are good that are not married to niqabis. Thats not what I am saying. What I am saying is whoever looks for a niqabi is somewhat religious so that makes him a good person. You dont have to look for a niqabi to be a better person but whoever does, is most likely a good person. The niqabi sisters got the choosing and the picking easy. Thats what I am saying. Like rashid said, its not true all the time. I know someone whose not a so good person and really wants to marry this niqabi. See my logic doesnt work there.

lol wow thats so untrue and irrational, if i look for a hijabi it automatically makes me a good person???? If that was true every hijabi would be married happily ever after.

It maybe true that niqabis have a easier time choosing their marriage partner but some are very picky, they find looks more important than religious degree :D

I would never marry someone because she is a niqabi or hijabi, what if the non-hijabi is a better person which in most cases these days is true :coolbro:

[$HugoBoss$]

you know i've heard some men use that same argument for not marrying a hijabi.
Islam is for all societies, whether the people expect an aspect of of Islam or not it doesn't matter. any good deed should be done where ever you're at. it doesn't matter what country you are in

Nope safety is first, you can only commit to do good deeds when you are safe and sound.


The muslims males are a sad lot unfortunately, if a thread on the jilbaab comes up you'll find many females saying they wear it and those who don't/can't wear it but agree people should wear it, and of course you'll get those who'll be anti jilbaab, but then when a thread about the thobe and kurta is made then far too many males will make up all the excuses under the sun as to why they dont have to wear it, it's the same for the beard and pants above the ankles etc etc, where have all the men gone?

Wearing a kurta doesn't make you a man and neither does growing a beared, that's far from what it takes to be a man.

[Abu Mus'ab]

Nope safety is first, you can only commit to do good deeds when you are safe and sound.




Wearing a kurta doesn't make you a man and neither does growing a beared, that's far from what it takes to be a man.
A male without a beard isn't a man, end of story, a beardless mans testimony will not be accepted in an islamic court that's how serious it is.

But yeah i agree that that's not all it takes to make a man, because i see far too little men around, i don't regard cowards as men either, even if they have a beard that reaches their waist.

[extempers]

A male without a beard isn't a man, end of story, a beardless mans testimony will not be accepted in an islamic court that's how serious it is.

But yeah i agree that that's not all it takes to make a man, because i see far too little men around, i don't regard cowards as men either, even if they have a beard that reaches their waist.

Bismillah,

Show me some daleel

[NiqaaBi_InBlack]

I don't believe that wearing a niqaab shows that I'm a better muslim then my sister in Islaam who wears the correct hijab,it's possible that she's more loved by Allah then me,and masha Allah I know sisters who dont wear niqaab and they are strong in their deen and have good akhlaaq.so it's the intention what counts,the most important thing is that the sister who wears the niqaab does it 2 get closer to Allah and not to please her(futere) husband or anyone else..and that's the same with the hijab eventhough the correct hijab is waijb,u need to do it to please Allah and not ur parents,(future)husband etc.

And I think when ur intentions are correct u will have more sabr with the tests that will come with wearing the hijab or niqaab..and u will put ur trust in Allah and know that everything is just a test from Allah.and it's not correct to say we can only commit good deeds when we are safe and sound. because didn't the prophet s.a.w and his companions went through situations like torture ,harassment but they where steadfast.

And I never heard a hadith that mentioned that only when ur 100% safe and sound u can do good deeds
Maybe if it's matter of life and death allahu 'allem there could be a ruling about that
I have been in situations like people stopping their cars just to stare, and ppl who called me names like terrorist batman lol t etc. once I got pushed etc.(long story)but I really don't think my life was at danger I mean if I compare it with what the prophet s.a.w and his companions went through I realize I really went through nothing
And there are also brothers who went through the same thing or worse just because they wear the thaub and grow the beard and u mentioned



Wearing a kurta doesn't make you a man and neither does growing a beared, that's far from what it takes to be a man.[/QUOTE]

But I believe it does make someone a man to Please Allah and to follow the sunnah and obey the prophet when he said to not look like the disbelievers to grow ur beard and trim ur moustache and insha'Allah they do it for the sake of Allah and may Allah make them steadfast on his path and all of us ameen

[Abu Mus'ab]

Bismillah,

Show me some daleel
Consult the books of fiqh.

[imeg.org]

i always wanted to marry niqaabi and insha'Allah my wife will wear niqaab after marriage, if not before :up: :o

[perfectpearl]

lol wow thats so untrue and irrational, if i look for a hijabi it automatically makes me a good person???? If that was true every hijabi would be married happily ever after.

It maybe true that niqabis have a easier time choosing their marriage partner but some are very picky, they find looks more important than religious degree :D

I would never marry someone because she is a niqabi or hijabi, what if the non-hijabi is a better person which in most cases these days is true :coolbro:

shuuupp :D People have their preferences :rolleyes:

and no its not true. Its Maybe the non hijabi is good but she defintly isnt better than the hijabi. At least the hijabi is doing what Allah asked her. Hijab is fard. enough of that.

[$HugoBoss$]

shuuupp :D People have their preferences :rolleyes:

and no its not true. Its Maybe the non hijabi is good but she defintly isnt better than the hijabi. At least the hijabi is doing what Allah asked her. Hijab is fard. enough of that.


Well just like us brothers have our personal preferences not to marry niqabis :coolbro:

So are you telling me a hijabi that smokes weed, wears tight clothing that has a boyfriend is better than a non-hijabi that prays five times a day and stays away from haram?????

[ibnmuadh]

Well just like us brothers have our personal preferences not to marry niqabis :coolbro:
Brothers enclosed with Dollars?

[ibnmuadh]

Its Maybe the non hijabi is good but she defintly isnt better than the hijabi. . U must have had an unbeatable record in mind reading and evaluation huh?

[perfectpearl]

Well just like us brothers have our personal preferences not to marry niqabis :coolbro:

So are you telling me a hijabi that smokes weed, wears tight clothing that has a boyfriend is better than a non-hijabi that prays five times a day and stays away from haram?????

I agree - everyone has their preferences.

I am talking about a real mohajaba. Thats not a hijabi. A real muhajaba respects herself as well as the hijab on her head. Hijab is not just to cover your hair. Its too cover much more physically and verbally.

U must have had an unbeatable record in mind reading and evaluation huh?

eh? I dont get what you mean....reword it.

[ibnmuadh]

eh? I dont get what you mean....reword it.

I mean: u shouldnt have included the word "definitely". Since it is a case of it being "most likely". By using "definitely", there is no exception which in turn indicates that u have read many minds?

[sis_niqabi]

Nope safety is first, you can only commit to do good deeds when you are safe and sound.


but many women in the west get attacked for just wearing hijab. and this is common knowledge. society hates hijab too. so what are women suppose to take off hijab too? because i could tell you tons of stories of sisters who were attacked for just wearing a headscarf

[$HugoBoss$]

but many women in the west get attacked for just wearing hijab. and this is common knowledge. society hates hijab too. so what are women suppose to take off hijab too? because i could tell you tons of stories of sisters who were attacked for just wearing a headscarf


Yeah thats very true but niqab is high risk, people at least are used to seeing hijabis once in a while but the niqab will make they're blood boil even more.

When hijab is good enough there's no need for niqab just causing scene's unnecessary.

You want to bring people towards islam and not scare them away.

[sada]

When hijab is good enough there's no need for niqab just causing scene's unnecessary.

You want to bring people towards islam and not scare them away.

assalamu alaikum...
so,you are too sure of how the women of ashab covered their full bodies without including their faces!!!:rubeyes: well,describe me how were they but refer some essential valid Islamic sources you based on!...

[extempers]

Consult the books of fiqh.

Bismillah,

Which ones? I'd only get confused trying to look for some random opinion.

Please give me some fatwa or basis for your statement.

[perfectpearl]

Yeah thats very true but niqab is high risk, people at least are used to seeing hijabis once in a while but the niqab will make they're blood boil even more.

When hijab is good enough there's no need for niqab just causing scene's unnecessary.

You want to bring people towards islam and not scare them away.

Brother no will ever be pleased with us Muslims no matter what we do:

And the Jews will not be pleased with thee, nor will the Christians, till thou follow their creed. Say: Lo! the guidance of Allah (Himself) is Guidance. And if thou shouldst follow their desires after the knowledge which hath come unto thee, then wouldst thou have from Allah no protecting friend nor helper. (120)
Surat al baqrah

البقرة (آية:120): ولن ترضى عنك اليهود ولا النصارى حتى تتبع ملتهم قل ان هدى الله هو الهدى ولئن اتبعت اهواءهم بعد الذي جاءك من العلم ما لك من الله من ولي ولا نصير

[ibnmuadh]

Yeah thats very true but niqab is high risk, people at least are used to seeing hijabis once in a while but the niqab will make they're blood boil even more.

When hijab is good enough there's no need for niqab just causing scene's unnecessary.

You want to bring people towards islam and not scare them away.

No need? Unnecessary?
Scaring people away?

I cannot get the flow here. Is it possible to please Allah at the expense of inviting people to Islam by wearing niqaab? Ofcourse, if u're talking of prompting them to wear, then it applies.

[NiqaaBi_InBlack]

Yeah thats very true but niqab is high risk, people at least are used to seeing hijabis once in a while but the niqab will make they're blood boil even more.


When hijab is good enough there's no need for niqab just causing scene's unnecessary.

You want to bring people towards islam and not scare them away.

Islam began as something strange and it will end as something strangers and glad tidings to the strangers ..so no matter what u do u will always be a stranger 2 them and the reason is because u follow islam but Alhamdulilaah we should be happy 2 be amongst those strangers..and what will happen if their blood starts to boil..who should we fear them or Allah..nothing happens without the will of Allah.

How is a sister who's wearing a niqaab scaring people away?

I think it's the oppositte it's a form of da'wah because sometimes someone approaches me and asks me if I'm forced to wear this And then I explain that a lot of women wear this by choice and they do this to please their Creator and when I tell this they are suprissed :rubeyes:d because they don't know that there are women who are raised in the west and still choose 2 wear the niqaab.

[Abu Jaffar]

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
with all do respect to some brothers and sisters in this forum ,i found some replys were shocking.

i'm from the middle east and i believe that niqab is the the principle hijab not the face and hands uncovered hijab,why not and ummahat al muminien the sahabiat (women companions) were wearing the niqab not the uncovered face and hands hijab.

secondly why are some ppl discraced of the niqab these ppl are sick in their hearts and need to purify it.

come on ppl its in the quran and sunnah and you cant deny it,and to those sisters who think tha the uncoverd face and hands hijab is better ,they'd better think twice because as i said before it was what umahat al muminien wore.

the answer to the sister's question

offcourse i would like to marry a woman wearing a niqab where no man can glance to here.......

every man must have jealousy to some extent not 0% jealousy

[sada]

wa alaikumussalam akhee...that's the what we need to remember...hayyakAllah...
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[$HugoBoss$]

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
with all do respect to some brothers and sisters in this forum ,i found some replys were shocking.

i'm from the middle east and i believe that niqab is the the principle hijab not the face and hands uncovered hijab,why not and ummahat al muminien the sahabiat (women companions) were wearing the niqab not the uncovered face and hands hijab.

secondly why are some ppl discraced of the niqab these ppl are sick in their hearts and need to purify it.

come on ppl its in the quran and sunnah and you cant deny it,and to those sisters who think tha the uncoverd face and hands hijab is better ,they'd better think twice because as i said before it was what umahat al muminien wore.

the answer to the sister's question

offcourse i would like to marry a woman wearing a niqab where no man can glance to here.......

every man must have jealousy to some extent not 0% jealousy

Once again you live in the middle east, my point exactly it wouldn't matter if you live in a muslim country.

[LuvIslam]

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[Abu Jaffar]

im just pointing out where ilive

secondly islam doesnt change its application is where ever you live

[Ibrahim70]

wa alaikumussalam akhee...that's the what we need to remember...hayyakAllah...
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Can you translate the arabic for us?

Shout out to the Niqaabi crew! Keep representing Islam to the fullest Sisters :hidban:

[sada]

Can you translate the arabic for us?


assalam...
it is a common dua to wish khayr(goodness) like Allah may blessed you...

[Ibrahim70]

repeated post, please delete Mods, sorry :(

[Ibrahim70]

assalam...
it is a common dua to wish khayr(goodness) like Allah may blessed you...

:jkk: for the explanation :up: