what did i do...

[RaNdOm]

:salams

just :(

i dno... i know i shouldn't even get upset but i was walking home before and then like some non muslim man saw me and cos i'm all blacked out i dno... he just had such a look of disgust on his face, like that look alone felt like it was eating away at me and then he spat and it missed me by an inch...

and then he went past and i just started crying while i was walking home, but then i kept telling myself that the prophet :saw: had to face so much worse so i shouldn't even be bothered by it... but then i nowhere near come close to the strength of the prophet :saw: either

i dno... hmmmm and i know we gotta be strong but i dno...

[Omar Mukhtar]

should of spat back at the pig.

[RaNdOm]

should of spat back at the pig.

:salams

i dno... i just don't get it like i could understand if i did something, but i didn't even get in his way... and just i dno i dno i dno i dno i dnoooooooooooo

[Omar Mukhtar]

thank Allah his filthy spit didn't come on you.

[Umm_Hanzalah]

Don't get upset sis.......such people are not worth your tears. They are ignorant fools..just make du'a that Allah guides them or gives them what they deserve.

[ajnabee]

ohhhh randyyyy, its ok sweet :there:

dnt let it eat u up. u didnt do anything except be visibly muslim and its his problem if he cnt hack that.

dnt cry over what a complete idiot did coz the only people who have the power to hurt u are the ones u love.

take care sweet, and remember ur stronger than u think. :love:

[RaNdOm]

:salams

yeh but if u had seen his face... it was like i was the worst thing he had laid his eyes on.... i dno, i dno why i even got upset... it just proper makes me feel :( but does anyone know any ayahs that explain why they hate us so much or sumt...?

[dudette]

wasalam sis,

just remember that this dunya is a test from Allah and we should not let such events cloud our judgement nor our faith...alhamdulillah just remember that it is you that will inshaAllah enter through the gates of jannah and that such people as he will be punished on the Day.

this may make you smile...
we don't have a prayer room at my college(some nonsense about it being a secular one?) so i have to go to the hospital near by...as i was walking back from prayer i noticed a guy coming towards me from afar i arried on walking and as we went past each other he mumbled "devil" and wallahi i thought i was hearing things and i looked back he had his head sunk between his shoulders so i knew he had indeed said it...

i found myself laughing all the way to my next lesson, subhanAllah i absolutely hate naive people but what can you do...

[Khubaib]

You didn't do anything. The man is eating away at his own insides because of his animosity and bigotry. Continue to stay strong for the sake of Allah :Swt: to earn his shade on yawm al qiyyamah. It's easier said than done but imagine that day when people will be drowning in their own perspiration. That man who spit at you will not only be going mad with the fear of his situation but he will also be severely thirsty and will not be able to gather saliva in his mouth. And if he dies in kufr that will be the least of his problems.

وَالَّذِينَ جَـهَدُواْ فِينَا لَنَهْدِيَنَّهُمْ سُبُلَنَا وَإِنَّ اللَّهَ لَمَعَ الْمُحْسِنِينَ

69. As for those who strive hard for Us, We will surely guide them to Our paths. And verily, Allah is with the doers of good.

May Allah raise your rank to the umm ul mu'mineen and the awliya. Ameen.

[dudette]

You didn't do anything. The man is eating away at his own insides because of his animosity and bigotry. Continue to stay strong for the sake of Allah :Swt: to earn his shade on yawm al qiyyamah. It's easier said than done but imagine that day when people will be drowning in their own perspiration. That man who spit at you will not only be going mad with the fear of his situation but he will also be severely thirsty and will not be able to gather saliva in his mouth. And if he dies in kufr that will be the least of his problems.

وَالَّذِينَ جَـهَدُواْ فِينَا لَنَهْدِيَنَّهُمْ سُبُلَنَا وَإِنَّ اللَّهَ لَمَعَ الْمُحْسِنِينَ

69. As for those who strive hard for Us, We will surely guide them to Our paths. And verily, Allah is with the doers of good.

May Allah raise your rank to the umm ul mu'mineen and the awliya. Ameen.

Ameen! beautifully put brother...

[Sulaiman Harun]

:start:

:wswrwb:

Verily! (During the worldly life) those who committed crimes used to laugh at those who believed. And whenever they passed by them, used to wink one to another (in mockery);and when they returned to their own people, they would return jesting; and when they saw them, they said: "Verily! These have indeed gone astray!" But they (disbelievers, sinners) had not been sent as watchers over them (the believers). But this Day (the Day of Resurrection) those who believe will laugh at the disbelievers {Surah al Mutaffifeen (83), Ayaat# 29-34}

[Omar Mukhtar]

Because they are afraid. They don't know nothing about Islam or Muslims but whatever stereotypes they hear the take it as facts.

[Abu Muslim]

Dont worry about it sis, unless this smelly kuffar comes into the fold of Islaam, you will be the one laughing at him in jannah inshaAllah. In fact you could probably spit on him over there too..actually even better dont spit on him cos he would cherish your spit..

This is the situation in the akhirah, as Allah [aza wajal] says in Surah Araf: And the inmates of the fire will call out unto the inmates of paradise: "pour some water upon us, or some of the sustenance [of paradise] which God has provided for you!" [The inmates of paradise] will reply: "Verily, Allah has denied both to those who have denied the truth.

And if you went out in the night or summin try to avoid being out by yourself in the night or tell the brothers in the masjid or nearest to you to sort the guy out.

[dudette]

here is a link to ukhtalmuslimeen's thread

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=171139

it may be just what you need inshaAllah!

[RaNdOm]

:salams

i dno.. i don't want him to go to hell, inshaAllah inshaAllah Allah swt will guide him and the whole of mankind, hell just sounds TOO scary so being there must be infinity times worse

but i just don't get it... like i dont think i'd ever spit at anyone, because that's so degrading, like u gotta properrrr hate someone to do that... i dno...

i wanna know why he spat :( rather than the fact he did... even if he hates the whole religion that doesn't mean u go around spitting at everyone that belongs to it...

i can't stand people that drink, but i don't go around spitting at them...hmmm

[Medievalist]

are you sure you're just not really ugly? :scratch:

[umee]

ohh Random, try not to let it get to you, he just a pathetic, ignorant g**.

[thetruth]

:(

sorry to hear about this, not a pleasnet experince. dont stress sis.

this fool needed a good beating.

why dont these fools ever 'pick on their own size' ?

no disrespect to anyone but these fools always pick on peolpe that they have a distinctive advantage over.

[.RanDomEvents.]

:salams,

hun, remember that ignorance is such a disease that blinds the kuffar in ways which make them act and live in vile circumstances. This disease breeds from within themselves and they begin to love the shaytaan and his ways, enjoining evil and hating the good. So when these "shaytaan infested" people witness something that they can't comprehend/understand i.e. the good , they tend to be/acting rebellious against it. I see this vicious anger that they feel - as an actual cry from their soul..the soul that had promised to obey Allah but couldn't coz of the environment they were brought up in - it is Allah's will, He indeed guides whom he wills and for those who are meant to be unguided they will live their pagan lives, being hurdles in our way to grow stronger in Eemaan..

..forget about these kind of things sis, they happen..just remember how blessed you are, being rightly guided and following the Haq rather than the falsehood that they're in - the very reason for their promised damnation in the hereafter..and the promise of success and paradise for you :insha:

[thetruth]

are you sure you're just not really ugly? :scratch:

you need some........:torture:

[Hiking]

:salams sister don't you dare even think that you did anything wrong! We all know that it is just discrimination, he has wronged you in the eyes of Allah :Swt: and he will get his due punishment on the day of judgement, as will you get your reward. Stay calm, persevere on the path that you are on and make Du'a for all of the misguided people

[~Warda~]

are you sure you're just not really ugly? :scratch:

why have u had a similar experience?

[Medievalist]

you need some........:torture:

it might be true. we dont know what she looks like. she mighta misunderstood his disgust :outta:







jokezz

[Medievalist]

why have u had a similar experience?

kinda. ladies usually go

**tukh tukh** khoobsurat, nazar na lag jay n then start waving money round my head.:coolbro:

[~Warda~]

Sis dont let this get to u...u didnt do anything wrong and therefore neednt worry about it and get urself upset. Just make dua that Allah swt guides him towards the straight path.

[RaNdOm]

it might be true. we dont know what she looks like. she mighta misunderstood his disgust :outta:

:salams

lol :torture::torture::torture::torture:stop messing about and post 1 of ur serious posts :torture:

[Khubaib]

Dont worry about it sis, unless this smelly kuffar comes into the fold of Islaam, you will be the one laughing at him in jannah inshaAllah. In fact you could probably spit on him over there too..actually even better dont spit on him cos he would cherish your spit..

This is the situation in the akhirah, as Allah [aza wajal] says in Surah Araf: And the inmates of the fire will call out unto the inmates of paradise: "pour some water upon us, or some of the sustenance [of paradise] which God has provided for you!" [The inmates of paradise] will reply: "Verily, Allah has denied both to those who have denied the truth.

And if you went out in the night or summin try to avoid being out by yourself in the night or tell the brothers in the masjid or nearest to you to sort the guy out.



Mashallah. Good point sisters should try their best to not travel alone. Inshallah others will be here in this thread to elaborate.

Muslims just need to not worry too much about what disbelievers think. Many will hate us perhaps some have bitter feelings because of past experiences with muslims.

But I can't make any excuses for the ones that lash out at sisters. Why don't the cowards try that when some brothers are around?

Inshallah no sister should feel offended or sad if they are harassed in hijab.

[Omar Mukhtar]

kinda. ladies usually go

**tukh tukh** khoobsurat, nazar na lag jay n then start waving money round my head.


In your dreams :rolleyes:

[Medievalist]

:salams

lol :torture::torture::torture::torture:stop messing about and post 1 of ur serious posts :torture:

:wswrwb:

its a serious comment. I note you haven't answered it. are you SURE it wasn't your face which made him disgusted?

cos if it was, then you going down the completely wrong line of worry.

:outta:

[bint]

happened to me on 2 occasions. They follow u and literally stalk you, only cos they feel threatened. Its just made me tougher.

[Medievalist]

In your dreams :rolleyes:

brother - please this thread isnt about me. its about random and her challenging appearance.

[Khubaib]

In your dreams :rolleyes:

:rotfl:

[RaNdOm]

Mashallah. Good point sisters should try their best to not travel alone. Inshallah others will be here in this thread to elaborate.

Muslims just need to not worry too much about what disbelievers think. Many will hate us perhaps some have bitter feelings because of past experiences with muslims.

But I can't make any excuses for the ones that lash out at sisters. Why don't the cowards try that when some brothers are around?

Inshallah no sister should feel offended or sad if they are harassed in hijab.

:salams

it was still daytime though, and i only had to climb that 1 hill and i would have reached home

k inshaAllah i'll try n not let it bug me... i don't know why it does - i just don't get why people hate, i just wish i could ask him why...but i think i was too shocked so all of that just came out as :crying:... but top advice in this thread :jkk:

hmmmm

[Chained_Water]

brother - please this thread isnt about me. its about random and her challenging appearance.
:eek: that's a bit unfair isn't it? you're so harsh.

random's just a bit emo that's all

spot random:

http://i302.photobucket.com/albums/nn110/Landon314/emo-9.jpg

[ajnabee]

:salams

it was still daytime though, and i only had to climb that 1 hill and i would have reached home

k inshaAllah i'll try n not let it bug me... i don't know why it does - i just don't get why people hate, i just wish i could ask him why...but i think i was too shocked so all of that just came out as :crying:... but top advice in this thread :jkk:

hmmmm


if something like this happens again, stab them in the neck with a key or something. these idiots need to be taught a lesson.

[Kubs]

Argh! How dare he spit at you..........rubbish aim though :outta:

Don't be upset Random. Bearing in mind that you are alone....it's good you didn't react back angrily. The man could've done anything.

Sometimes you just have to accept that there are ignorant people in this world. People typically hate those they have been taught to hate. Just ignore them.

Allah doesn't like unjustice. He loveth not those who do wrong. If you end up suffering injustice, we do not know what Allah has planned in the bigger picture of things. Allah is The Just; and will bring justice. If not now, then in the hereafter

[RaNdOm]

brother - please this thread isnt about me. its about random and her challenging appearance.

:salams

lol shut uppppppppppppppppppppppp :torture::torture::torture::torture::torture::tort ure::torture::torture::torture::torture::torture:: torture:

n yes im sure it wasn't my face alhamdulillah my face is normal :torture:

i don't know if this is bad... or like my imagination, but he had his face proper screwed up and it made him look like u know what people draw the devil like... u know like a frowning, long thin face that just looks so full of hate... proper like that...

[Phoenix CG]

u were probs scared thas why, u were alone...thank god thas all he did.

[Medievalist]

if something like this happens again, stab them in the neck with a key or something. these idiots need to be taught a lesson.

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

classic! militant sistas.

[Chained_Water]

Have they not travelled in the land so that they should have hearts with which to understand, or ears with which to hear? For surely it is not the eyes that are blind, but blind are the hearts which are in the breasts. [Surah Al-Hajj, verse 46]

You are sad sis because your heart is a believing one, not hard like that mans, so despite his treatment of you, you care about him because of the shared humanity.

But still, don't get too upset, pray for his guidance and your own protection.

[RaNdOm]

On a serious note you shouldnt take things like that to heart, i know i aint the serious type :o but... think of the hardships that the Prophet (s.a.w) had to endure, the famous Waqi'ah (incident) of when he passed through a village (Allah(Swt) forgive me for narrating it incorrectly) in a valley?.. between two mountains and they mocked and tortured Nabi (s.a.w) and because of all the torture their body was drenched in blood, and they were given the oppurtunity to just give an ISHAARAH for Allah(Swt) to finish them off by squashing them between the mountains (something along that) and how merciful was our nabi (s.a.w), they said if these people wont accept islam, at least theres a chance for their future offsprings to do so.

SubhanAllah, that incident (if someone can post it up in its correct form) is definetly worth pondering over.

May Allah(Swt) reward you for your patience and grant you tenfold in the hereafter.

:salams

yeh that's what i kept thinking about when he did it... but then he was the prophet :saw: i'm just some loser gal that can't deal with stuff :(

[Khubaib]

:eek: that's a bit unfair isn't it? you're so harsh.

random's just a bit emo that's all

spot random:

http://i302.photobucket.com/albums/nn110/Landon314/emo-9.jpg

On a serious note you shouldnt take things like that to heart, i know i aint the serious type :o but... think of the hardships that the Prophet (s.a.w) had to endure, the famous Waqi'ah (incident) of when he passed through a village (Allah(Swt) forgive me for narrating it incorrectly) in a valley?.. between two mountains and they mocked and tortured Nabi (s.a.w) and because of all the torture their body was drenched in blood, and they were given the oppurtunity to just give an ISHAARAH for Allah(Swt) to finish them off by squashing them between the mountains (something along that) and how merciful was our nabi (s.a.w), they said if these people wont accept islam, at least theres a chance for their future offsprings to do so.

SubhanAllah, that incident (if someone can post it up in its correct form) is definetly worth pondering over.

May Allah(Swt) reward you for your patience and grant you tenfold in the hereafter.


That's it, Random just has to stop being too emo. :up: In the world we live in we have to toughen up a bit, it's more difficult for sisters because of their nature. Remember what imam shafi' said to the man that tried to insult him and failed?

[ajnabee]

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

classic! militant sistas.


i grew up with only brothers. i think i get my violent tendencies from them.

[RaNdOm]

u were probs scared thas why, u were alone...thank god thas all he did.

:salams

i wasn't scared... i always walk home...n it was daylight, and i'm olddddd... but it's just like ur mindin ur own business then suddenly *khatoo* someone hates u enough to spit out u

[Kubs]

:salams

yeh that's what i kept thinking about when he did it... but then he was the prophet :saw: i'm just some loser gal that can't deal with stuff :(

Don't say that. Mashallah you have a heart that is made of gold. Me being me...I would've probably stabbed his eyes out with a pen. You didn't react back....which is Mashallah good.

[Medievalist]

RaNdOm: On a serious note - you need to take it in your stride because atm there's nothing more you can do. If you say it was near your house then perhaps you've seen the geeza around or he is local? Keep an eye out for him, perhaps some of the muslim community might have some communication with him ;)

At the end of the day - you've gotta toughen yourself against this idiotic behaviour. A similar incident happened to you before aswell innit? Something about a guy on a train commenting on the Quran whilst you were reading; if I remember correctly you burst out crying with a snotty nose and embarassing yourself then aswell, innit?

Well - just as you survived that; Im sure you'll survive this incident and realise that the problem is with that muppet and not you. (Although Im still inclined to believe your face had something to do with this)

cheer up!:up: look at my sig. if u want a laff. :rotfl:

[RaNdOm]

That's it, Random just has to stop being emo. :up: In the world we live in we have to toughen up a bit, it's more difficult for sisters because of their nature. Remember what imam shafi' said to the man that tried to insult him and failed?

:salams

i'm not emo

but if i try and justify myself i'm so gonna sound like 1 :torture::torture::torture::torture::torture::tort ure::torture::torture::torture::torture::torture:: torture::torture::torture::torture::torture::tortu re::torture::torture::torture::torture::torture::t orture::torture::torture::torture::torture::tortur e::torture::torture:

[ajnabee]

RaNdOm: On a serious note - you need to take it in your stride because atm there's nothing more you can do. If you say it was near your house then perhaps you've seen the geeza around or he is local? Keep an eye out for him, perhaps some of the muslim community might have some communication with him ;)

At the end of the day - you've gotta toughen yourself against this idiotic behaviour. A similar incident happened to you before aswell innit? Something about a guy on a train commenting on the Quran whilst you were reading; if I remember correctly you burst out crying with a snotty nose and embarassing yourself then aswell, innit?

Well - just as you survived that; Im sure you'll survive this incident and realise that the problem is with that muppet and not you. (Although Im still inclined to believe your face had something to do with this)

cheer up!:up: look at my sig. if u want a laff. :rotfl:

so true u know. sisters DO need to toughen up. this kinda thing is gonna happen every now and then and we gotta fight back. u cnt let idiots get away with treating u like that!

[ibn Iyaaz]

He did it to just get a reaction out of you. So if you avoided yaah, and stopped yourself from crying he would've been like "damn, I can't intimidate these muslims, they not scared of me."

So just ignore and skip along merily up/down the hill. :D

[Khubaib]

:salams

i'm not emo

but if i try and justify myself i'm so gonna sound like 1 :torture::torture::torture::torture::torture::tort ure::torture::torture::torture::torture::torture:: torture::torture::torture::torture::torture::tortu re::torture::torture::torture::torture::torture::t orture::torture::torture::torture::torture::tortur e::torture::torture:


Sorry :o

Didn't mean your always like that but you took this situation to heart. Hassnetwork put it better than me.

[RaNdOm]

RaNdOm: On a serious note - you need to take it in your stride because atm there's nothing more you can do. If you say it was near your house then perhaps you've seen the geeza around or he is local? Keep an eye out for him, perhaps some of the muslim community might have some communication with him ;)

At the end of the day - you've gotta toughen yourself against this idiotic behaviour. A similar incident happened to you before aswell innit? Something about a guy on a train commenting on the Quran whilst you were reading; if I remember correctly you burst out crying with a snotty nose and embarassing yourself then aswell, innit?

Well - just as you survived that; Im sure you'll survive this incident and realise that the problem is with that muppet and not you. (Although Im still inclined to believe your face had something to do with this)

cheer up!:up: look at my sig. if u want a laff. :rotfl:

:salams

hmmm yeh... but that time he dint do anything personal... he insulted the whole of islam and so i got all too worked up then, but this time this man hated ME

isn't there some non muslims on this forum that can tell me why he would have done it...like i need to understand...

[MMS]

dont worry about it, he was probably drunk anyway :smack:

[RaNdOm]

He did it to just get a reaction out of you. So if you avoided yaah, and stopped yourself from crying he would've been like "damn, I can't intimidate these muslims, they not scared of me."

So just ignore and skip along merily up/down the hill. :D

:salams

he dint see me cry... just like :rubeyes:

i dno looks like u all think i should just toughen up... so inshaAllah 1 day

[ajnabee]

:salams

he dint see me cry... just like :rubeyes:

i dno looks like u all think i should just toughen up... so inshaAllah 1 day


come with me to >>> http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=130756
that will help u toughen up insha'allah

[Chained_Water]

:salams

he dint see me cry... just like :rubeyes:

i dno looks like u all think i should just toughen up... so inshaAllah 1 day
:wswrwb:

Sis I think people are just trying to make you laugh or give you like erm hoasla innit, 'cuz you seem quite effected by this.

We have to realise there are just some really ignorant thickos out there who have to decency in them. We hear about idiots being mindlessly violent to each other everyday, beating complete strangers to death who are the same race, nationality and whatever else.. so what can we expect as a marginalised minority community? Worse sadly.

[Chained_Water]

khamosh kyun ho jo bhi kenha hai kaho
dil chaahai jitnaa pyaar, uthnaa maang lo:inlove::smack: as if med on his own wasn't bad enough!

[Kubs]

come with me to >>> http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=130756
that will help u toughen up insha'allah

Physical training wouldn't toughen her up........it's all in the mind. I'm her psychiatrist so I'd know :outta:

She needs to get rid of the 'I love everyone' attitude.....and realise that there are BAD people in this world who do BAD things :o It's ignorance - they have been brainwashed by the media to hate Muslims. If you cannot change them, you ignore them. Make duaa and have trust in Allah.

[RaNdOm]

come with me to >>> http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=130756
that will help u toughen up insha'allah

:salams

u all think i was scared... i wasn't scared, like i don't get scared of people like that... i just don't understand how someone could have such a cold heart, he wouldn't even spit at his dog so how could he another human being

[ajnabee]

Physical training wouldn't toughen her up........it's all in the mind. I'm her psychiatrist so I'd know :outta:

She needs to get rid of the 'I love everyone' attitude.....and realise that there are BAD people in this world who do BAD things :o It's ignorance - they have been brainwashed by the media to hate Muslims. If you cannot change them, you ignore them. Make duaa and have trust in Allah.

:salams

u all think i was scared... i wasn't scared, like i don't get scared of people like that... i just don't understand how someone could have such a cold heart, he wouldn't even spit at his dog so how could he another human being


its not coz ur scared. its so u can knock em out next time they try it. :coolsis:

[Mumtaz]

Salaam alaikum

It happen all the time thats normal,:rolleyes: while ago there was one deaf man when ever he sees me on our city mall he goes down like praying imitating the way muslim ppl pray i just look at him cos i can say nothing he wont hear me anyway :D i really didnt mind cos ALLAH already make him deaf.:rolleyes:

And there is kind ppl who r cristian and when ever they see my dressing, abaya,and hijab they just come to me and say i like ur dressing style, so sister u should mind after all they r just humanbeing and we r not dressing full islamic dress to please anyone else except Allah swt.

[Medievalist]

:smack: as if med on his own wasn't bad enough!

u dont get our genius. :torture:

[MalikOne™]

this is why sistas shud carry mac's under thier jilbabs :torture:

[ibn Iyaaz]

:salams

u all think i was scared... i wasn't scared, like i don't get scared of people like that... i just don't understand how someone could have such a cold heart, he wouldn't even spit at his dog so how could he another human being

That would be leading to three assumptions:

That you know said spitter?

That he is human?

That he has a dog?

You did mention his faced was all screwed up. He could have that taken that form as this extra terrestrial had been intercepting the horror channel too often and thought thats what humans look like.

Maybe it was some alien way of saying hello or trying to communicate?:D

[RaNdOm]

very gud. 10/10


my turn.

:salams

if u sing one more crappy lil post just watch :mad:

u cant go around wrecking everyones threads just cos u wanna be on the next bollywood x factor or sumt :torture::torture::torture::torture::torture:

[Khubaib]

:salams

he dint see me cry... just like :rubeyes:

i dno looks like u all think i should just toughen up... so inshaAllah 1 day

Physical training wouldn't toughen her up........it's all in the mind. I'm her psychiatrist so I'd know :outta:

She needs to get rid of the 'I love everyone' attitude.....and realise that there are BAD people in this world who do BAD things :o It's ignorance - they have been brainwashed by the media to hate Muslims. If you cannot change them, you ignore them. Make duaa and have trust in Allah.

Tis true.

But random doesn't need to completely change her personality because of some fool on the street. Allah :Swt: made her a certain way and you can't suddenly become happy if your sad. As long as you understand the environment and forget about it eventually. We're Muslims so we carry ourselves with honor. "The lion doesn't respond to the dogs :love:" Imam Shafi'

[Khubaib]

:smack: as if med on his own wasn't bad enough!

:rotfl:

[RaNdOm]

Physical training wouldn't toughen her up........it's all in the mind. I'm her psychiatrist so I'd know :outta:

She needs to get rid of the 'I love everyone' attitude.....and realise that there are BAD people in this world who do BAD things :o It's ignorance - they have been brainwashed by the media to hate Muslims. If you cannot change them, you ignore them. Make duaa and have trust in Allah.

:salams

most people are good, and the ones like these i wanna know why they are like they are and i know that if i just spoke to em i'd be able to understand and then inshaAllah they'd understand what it feels like for the person on the receiving end of their spit

[Phoenix CG]

:salams

i wasn't scared... i always walk home...n it was daylight, and i'm olddddd... but it's just like ur mindin ur own business then suddenly *khatoo* someone hates u enough to spit out u

:wswrwb:

was it flemmy?

[RaNdOm]

just cos you cant sing and physically challenged, dont take it out on me

:wswrwb:

:salams

im not tryna take it out on u, im tryna make u see that u do it too much... everywhere i go... n people make quite serious threads and then it all turns into some kind of mockery or a joke as soon as posts like that start comin into the thread

[Grotbags]

just cos you cant sing and physically challenged, dont take it out on me

:wswrwb:

:rotfl:... was green from the middle and watery clear slimey liquid from the outside - i think a doctors diagnosis of that would entail that the poor lad is suffering from some sort of infection...hmm :rolleyes:


i have deleted alot of you posts,for being off-topic,anymore and ....well you know what.

The sister has started a serious thread, respect that please.

Grotbags

[Medievalist]

:salams

im not tryna take it out on u, im tryna make u see that u do it too much... everywhere i go... n people make quite serious threads and then it all turns into some kind of mockery or a joke as soon as posts like that start comin into the thread

oh. sorry :o

Its Hassnets evil influence. Im stopping it in this thread now. I think Hassnet should be told off for misleading me. Everyone knows how shareef I used to be. :coolbro:

apologies m'lady.

[`asiya]

:salams

u all think i was scared... i wasn't scared, like i don't get scared of people like that... i just don't understand how someone could have such a cold heart, he wouldn't even spit at his dog so how could he another human being

:wswrwb: ya ukhti im so sorry to hear that, its so horrible and sah u cant believe people would do that to a total stranger and a woman too ... and subhanAllah its like spitting on a nun... why would anyone want to do that to a woman who dedicates herself to almighty Allah... these people wouldnt even spit on a prostitute... but this is our wake up call ukhti when these things happen to us it merely confirms to us what Allah ta ala has stated in the Quran and we have to apply all we have learnt from the words of Allah and his messenger salAllahu alleyhi wa salam, when we learn about our deen we also in these times have to apply all the statements of rasoolAllah salAllahu alleyhi wa salam about the signs of the last days to that..we already see around us all the killing... how the nations have gathered around the muslims to rip from them like hungry dogs tear at flesh ...how there will come a time when a man will pass by a grave and wish that he were already there.. i often think of that when i see what our brothers and sisters in darfur and palestine and other places deal with and how they might feel,and as Allah has told us in the Quran ( 2:120 )

Never will the Jews nor the Christians be pleased with you till you follow their religion. Say: "Verily, the Guidance of Allâh (i.e. Islâmic Monotheism) that is the (only) Guidance. And if you (O Muhammad Peace be upon him ) were to follow their (Jews and Christians) desires after what you have received of Knowledge (i.e. the Qur'ân), then you would have against Allâh neither any Walî (protector or guardian) nor any helper.

but dont ever forget that u are a muslim woman, and stand strong and dont let them get u down, yes it hurts to see such evil from people,and its really shocking some of the reactions u get just when they see u, the venom that comes out of their mouths, and their actions audu billah. just remember dont let them see that it pains u, dont give them the satisfaction and here have a little read of this insha Allah :love: check out umm umara

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=90099

and asmaa bint abu bakr...

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showpost.php?p=1789329&postcount=10

may Allah ta ala have mercy on us and give u and all of us even a fraction of their strength and steadfastness and unite us in al jannah with them amin :love:

[Medievalist]

Seems like no1 likes me either :( im gonna make a thread about it :( you Mods have indirectly shat on me :(

I tihnk this sentiment is related to RaNdOms topic.

Im sure its just people who've met you who dont like you and "shat" on you. The average stranger probably thinks your just a gay looking paki. :coolbro:

cheer up bro! :up:

[RaNdOm]

oh. sorry :o

Its Hassnets evil influence. Im stopping it in this thread now. I think Hassnet should be told off for misleading me. Everyone knows how shareef I used to be. :coolbro:

apologies m'lady.

:salams

its orite... just i think u should both think about which thread u start it in cos sometimes the topic can proper mean sumt to the person, and as soon as posts like that start comin in it can make the person feel like no1 even takes em seriously

[ajnabee]

:wswrwb: ya ukhti im so sorry to hear that, its so horrible and sah u cant believe people would do that to a total stranger and a woman too ... and subhanAllah its like spitting on a nun... why would anyone want to do that to a woman who dedicates herself to almighty Allah... these people wouldnt even spit on a prostitute... but this is our wake up call ukhti when these things happen to us it merely confirms to us what Allah ta ala has stated in the Quran and we have to apply all we have learnt from the words of Allah and his messenger salAllahu alleyhi wa salam, when we learn about our deen we also in these times have to apply all the statements of rasoolAllah salAllahu alleyhi wa salam about the signs of the last days to that..we already see around us all the killing... how the nations have gathered around the muslims to rip from them like hungry dogs tear at flesh ...how there will come a time when a man will pass by a grave and wish that he were already there.. i often think of that when i see what our brothers and sisters in darfur and palestine and other places deal with and how they must feel,and as Allah has told us in the Quran ( 2:120 )

Never will the Jews nor the Christians be pleased with you till you follow their religion. Say: "Verily, the Guidance of Allâh (i.e. Islâmic Monotheism) that is the (only) Guidance. And if you (O Muhammad Peace be upon him ) were to follow their (Jews and Christians) desires after what you have received of Knowledge (i.e. the Qur'ân), then you would have against Allâh neither any Walî (protector or guardian) nor any helper.

but dont ever forget that u are a muslim woman, and stand strong and dont let them get u down, yes it hurts to see such evil from people,and its really shocking some of the reactions u get just when they see u, the venom that comes out of their mouths, and their actions audu billah. just remember dont let them see that it pains u, dont give them the satisfaction and here have a little read of this insha Allah :love: check out umm umara

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=90099

and asmaa bint abu bakr...

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showpost.php?p=1789329&postcount=10

may Allah ta ala have mercy on us and give u and all of us even a fraction of their strength and steadfastness and unite us in al jannah with them amin :love:


beautiful and inspiring words ukhti asiya masha'allah as always. and ameen to the du'a. :love:

[`asiya]

and for all the brothers with their stupidness plain for all to see, shame on you where is your gheerah for your sister !! huh where is it ?! u know there was a time when a muslim woman was dishonored the muslim men would want to take the heads of the one who did that to her, and now look at yourselves sitting there laughing and joking and making stupid comments, acting like little girls, joking about your spa`s and your face packs , shame on you all, shame on you :torture:

[Medievalist]

sorry sister asiyah. :o

but we were told by the mods before that we not allowed to threaten to sort out people on the forum :(

[Ibn Khattab]

The attitude of some brothers on this thread is disgusting, Wallahi if this was your mother would you be laughing and joking like you are now?

Its sickening

[Medievalist]

The attitude of some brothers on this thread is disgusting, Wallahi if this was your mother would you be laughing and joking like you are now?

Its sickening

I think you've missed out on the action bro. There was a context to what was written. **roll eyes**

[Khubaib]

The attitude of some brothers on this thread is disgusting, Wallahi if this was your mother would you be laughing and joking like you are now?

Its sickening

I agree no one should be jokin', especially if the sister was being serious, but inshallah we should just give 'em the benefit of the doubt. Maybe they were just being silly to try to make the sister feel better.

:salams:

[RaNdOm]

:wswrwb: ya ukhti im so sorry to hear that, its so horrible and sah u cant believe people would do that to a total stranger and a woman too ... and subhanAllah its like spitting on a nun... why would anyone want to do that to a woman who dedicates herself to almighty Allah... these people wouldnt even spit on a prostitute... but this is our wake up call ukhti when these things happen to us it merely confirms to us what Allah ta ala has stated in the Quran and we have to apply all we have learnt from the words of Allah and his messenger salAllahu alleyhi wa salam, when we learn about our deen we also in these times have to apply all the statements of rasoolAllah salAllahu alleyhi wa salam about the signs of the last days to that..we already see around us all the killing... how the nations have gathered around the muslims to rip from them like hungry dogs tear at flesh ...how there will come a time when a man will pass by a grave and wish that he were already there.. i often think of that when i see what our brothers and sisters in darfur and palestine and other places deal with and how they might feel,and as Allah has told us in the Quran ( 2:120 )

Never will the Jews nor the Christians be pleased with you till you follow their religion. Say: "Verily, the Guidance of Allâh (i.e. Islâmic Monotheism) that is the (only) Guidance. And if you (O Muhammad Peace be upon him ) were to follow their (Jews and Christians) desires after what you have received of Knowledge (i.e. the Qur'ân), then you would have against Allâh neither any Walî (protector or guardian) nor any helper.

but dont ever forget that u are a muslim woman, and stand strong and dont let them get u down, yes it hurts to see such evil from people,and its really shocking some of the reactions u get just when they see u, the venom that comes out of their mouths, and their actions audu billah. just remember dont let them see that it pains u, dont give them the satisfaction and here have a little read of this insha Allah :love: check out umm umara

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=90099

and asmaa bint abu bakr...

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showpost.php?p=1789329&postcount=10

may Allah ta ala have mercy on us and give u and all of us even a fraction of their strength and steadfastness and unite us in al jannah with them amin :love:

:salams

ameen

:jkk: sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much :love: :D

i loved both the stories and i think everytime i feel a bit :( at my loserness i should just read them inshaAllah :inlove:

but :jkk: again

[RaNdOm]

:salams

ok no1 start arguing please... it doesn't matter... everythings cool inshaAllah... i think everyone was tryna help in there own lil way...

so :jkk:

[Ibn Khattab]

I think you've missed out on the action bro. There was a context to what was written. **roll eyes**

Didnt seem like much of a context. This sister has just had a bad experience and your all joking around like its eid tomorow.

First of all if it was our mother we wouldnt be sitting here posting on Ummah Forums

Since the sister has posted here, the members here have given her sound advice as well as trying to cheer her up.. the little we can do we have..

but alhamdulillah your here now, the Real Man!..The Man with the Master Plan.. the one that even my breadcrumbs tremble whenever they see your status change from blueish to Green... my very own e-Hero - Ibn Khattab :D, please take control :o

What if it was your sister, would you still joke around? Obviously you cant do much but like at least do the next best thing, and give some naseeha or just remain quiet.

Theres a time and place for joking init, this is not the time, this is not the place.

:up::up:

[ajnabee]

come on bros. lets just calm down and lets not de-rail ukhti randy's thread anymore insha'allah. kiss and make up now.

[Medievalist]

Didnt seem like much of a context. This sister has just had a bad experience and your all joking around like its eid tomorow.


If you read bro you;d understand why the jokes were made and that serious bits of advice were chucked in somewhere. Sometimes, especially when people are upset, humour is the best response. It makes light of an issue and releases some tension. :up:

What do u want us to say? Sister gimme yr numba and address so I can come and u can help me track this guy down? **roll eyes**

[Medievalist]

come on bros. lets just calm down and lets not de-rail ukhti randy's thread anymore insha'allah. kiss and make up now.

Morality Police: There will be NO kissing and make up* in this thread :asta: :asta:

*save if its for Hassnet

[Ibn Khattab]

If you read bro you;d understand why the jokes were made and that serious bits of advice were chucked in somewhere. Sometimes, especially when people are upset, humour is the best response. It makes light of an issue and releases some tension. :up:

What do u want us to say? Sister gimme yr numba and address so I can come and u can help me track this guy down? **roll eyes**

I apologise akhee :up:

[Khubaib]

Tis true.

But random doesn't need to completely change her personality because of some fool on the street. Allah :Swt: made her a certain way and you can't suddenly become happy if your sad. As long as you understand the environment and forget about it eventually. We're Muslims so we carry ourselves with honor. "The lion doesn't respond to the dogs :love:" Imam Shafi'

Misquoted slightly I think. Here's the actual from one of ibn sul's threads.

Say what you will in abuse,
My silence is an answer to the scoundrel –
I am not devoid of an answer, but:
It is not necessary for a lion to answer the dogs.

[DALEHYR]

I am sorry you had to go through that dear sister in Islam. Indeed in todays society we are plagued with idiots like this person, who deserve a good beating by some brothers, however i am pleased with the way you handled it like a true lady. Dont let it get to you Insha'ALLAH tommorow is another day... :)

[Chained_Water]

Misquoted slightly I think. Here's the actual from one of ibn sul's threads.

Say what you will in abuse,
My silence is an answer to the scoundrel –
I am not devoid of an answer, but:
It is not necessary for a lion to answer the dogs.
fab, :jkk: for that :up:

[Diamond_Dust]

:salams

just :(

i dno... i know i shouldn't even get upset but i was walking home before and then like some non muslim man saw me and cos i'm all blacked out i dno... he just had such a look of disgust on his face, like that look alone felt like it was eating away at me and then he spat and it missed me by an inch...

and then he went past and i just started crying while i was walking home, but then i kept telling myself that the prophet :saw: had to face so much worse so i shouldn't even be bothered by it... but then i nowhere near come close to the strength of the prophet :saw: either

i dno... hmmmm and i know we gotta be strong but i dno...

Awww honey bunny don't get upset. I get these smelly kufar being right dogs (pardon my bad language) to me all the time for no reason other then the fact that I'm muslim. You've just got to rise above it. The way I see it I'd rather be hated and despised by the kufar for being the faithful servant of Allah and be loved by my Creator for that very reason. I'd take all the spitting, beats and abuse the whole bloody lot of them can throw at me, if it means I'll earn the pleasure of Allah. The reason we were created was to worship our Lord, not to be loved by the creation. As long as Allah loves us then that's all the comfort we need. See it this way, if they hate you then you're following the right path, and may Allah make it easy for us and reward you abundantly for perservering :D

P.S Inni ahibaki filla :inlove: :inlove: :inlove:

[Diamond_Dust]

Sorry I just have to say I love all you guys (for the sake of Allah) reading your posts makes me crack up. SubhanAllah I was just thinking the only thing that's brought us all together (even though we're so different in our attitudes, mentalities and humour) is our love for Allah SWT. Alhamdulillah! Anyway *cough, cough* excuse my mushy outburst *embarrassed face*

[JayC]

wa alaykum salaam ukhti,

please dont be bothered by it... let it help you build your baraa' and have sabr inshAllah. comfort yourself with the words of Allah, because he's amongst those who hate His deen, and remember that Allah had blessed you with imaan and has saved you from everlasting torment.

“On the Day when those who disbelieve (in the Oneness of Allaah Islamic Monotheism) will be exposed to the Fire (it will be said): “You received your good things in the life of the world, and you took your pleasure therein. Now this Day you shall be recompensed with a torment of humiliation, because you were arrogant in the land without a right, and because you used to rebel against Allaah’s Command (disobey Allaah)”[al-Ahqaaf 46:20]


so don't let it bother you because in the larger picture - his hatred won't accomplish anything because he is destined for the hellfire, and you are muslimah destined for jannah inshAllah... and trials like this will just help you get there.

“Verily, I have rewarded them this Day for their patience; they are indeed the ones that are successful” [al-Mu’minoon 23:111]

[Astraeus]

:salams

just :(

i dno... i know i shouldn't even get upset but i was walking home before and then like some non muslim man saw me and cos i'm all blacked out i dno... he just had such a look of disgust on his face, like that look alone felt like it was eating away at me and then he spat and it missed me by an inch...

and then he went past and i just started crying while i was walking home, but then i kept telling myself that the prophet :saw: had to face so much worse so i shouldn't even be bothered by it... but then i nowhere near come close to the strength of the prophet :saw: either

i dno... hmmmm and i know we gotta be strong but i dno...
:wswrwb:

Oh Ukhtee...this is truly sad news to read. :crying2:

You are such a kind hearted Muslimma. Which is also why this angers me. How brave a man to spit at a woman?!!!

We do have to try and be strong ukhtee, but we can only do so much. Our beloved Prophet :saw: was a very special man, one sent by Allah (SWT) to lead His people. Yes, he faced rough trials by evil people, and so do we today. We can only make dua to Allah (SWT) to give us extra strength during these extra trials, and do our best like our beloved Prophet :saw: . Remember that this experience will only make you stronger the next time, insha'Allah.

[`asiya]

:salams

ameen

:jkk: sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much :love: :D

i loved both the stories and i think everytime i feel a bit :( at my loserness i should just read them inshaAllah :inlove:

but :jkk: again:wswrwb: :love: alhamdulillah

wa iyakki amin, your not the looser ukhti...ppl like that are loosers in this life and the next ...

And whoever seeks a religion other than Islam, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers. surah al imran- 85

And those who annoy believing men and women undeservedly, bear on themselves the crime of slander and plain sin.

O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies (screen themselves completely ). That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And Allâh is Ever Oft*Forgiving, Most Merciful.

If the hypocrites, and those in whose hearts is a disease (evil desire for adultery, etc.), and those who spread false news among the people in Al*Madinah, cease not, We shall certainly let you overpower them, then they will not be able to stay in it as your neighbours but a little while.

Accursed, wherever found, they shall be seized and killed with a (terrible) slaughter.

That was the Way of Allâh in the case of those who passed away of old, and you will not find any change in the Way of Allâh.

People ask you concerning the Hour, say: "The knowledge of it is with Allâh only. What do you know? It may be that the Hour is near!"

Verily, Allâh has cursed the disbelievers, and has prepared for them a flaming Fire (Hell).

Wherein they will abide for ever, and they will find neither a Walî (a protector) nor a helper.

On the Day when their faces will be turned over in the Fire, they will say: "Oh, would that we had obeyed Allâh and obeyed the Messenger (Muhammad SAW)."

And they will say: "Our Lord! Verily, we obeyed our chiefs and our great ones, and they misled us from the (Right) Way.

Our Lord! give them double torment and curse them with a mighty curse!"

surah al azhab ayat 58-68

[Diamond_Dust]

kinda. ladies usually go

**tukh tukh** khoobsurat, nazar na lag jay n then start waving money round my head.:coolbro:

:rofl1:

[Abu Muslim]

:salams

i dno... i know i shouldn't even get upset but i was walking home before and then like some non muslim man saw me and cos i'm all blacked out i dno... he just had such a look of disgust on his face, like that look alone felt like it was eating away at me and then he spat and it missed me by an inch...

Ya know what..analaysing the situation, we can derive the principle that maybe he didnt actually mean to spit at you. It is clear from the evidences provided that the man had a look of disgust, maybe he had actually just ordered a big mac and upon his tastebuds tasting the meat in the burger, his face screwed up into a face of disgust and he quickly went to spit out the remainder of the burger from his mouth so it look like he spat at you. So therefore, its mcdonalds fault and in turn the jews. So blame the jews.

p.s main reason I wrote this is cos in last post forgot to return the salam, wa3laykum salaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh

[GothiKa]

:salams

just :(

i dno... i know i shouldn't even get upset but i was walking home before and then like some non muslim man saw me and cos i'm all blacked out i dno... he just had such a look of disgust on his face, like that look alone felt like it was eating away at me and then he spat and it missed me by an inch...

and then he went past and i just started crying while i was walking home, but then i kept telling myself that the prophet :saw: had to face so much worse so i shouldn't even be bothered by it... but then i nowhere near come close to the strength of the prophet :saw: either

i dno... hmmmm and i know we gotta be strong but i dno...

don't be so weak.

[ammarcool]

oh sister. take it easy! forget that incident as one of bad dream.

[lao tzu]

isn't there some non muslims on this forum that can tell me why he would have done it...like i need to understand...

Ya know, RaNdOm, I'm a year-round biker, and I've been riding for ... well, since before you were born. A few times, some motorist has taken it into his head to try to run me off the road, once crossing four lanes of traffic to do so. Once, a guy ran into the building in front of me trying to take me out. My bike's got two disk brakes in front and one in the back. I can stop awfully quick.

There's no understanding it; some folks are just that mean. Born that way, or became that way because of being abused themselves. Of course, I like to tell myself it's because some other biker stole his girlfriend.

So don't let it get you down. I'm sure it had nothing to do with you personally. I really doubt it's because you stole his girlfriend.

As ever, Jesse

[MWarrior]

i want to know why dont any of these pigs try it with muslim men ?? its always usually women they go after....i wonder why :rolleyes:

i remember a brother telling me how another bro and his wife went shopping, the wife who wears a niqaab got pushed by some man delibrately. i wonder what happened to the man after ....:D :D

[`asiya]

i want to know why dont any of these pigs try it with muslim men ?? its always usually women they go after....i wonder why :rolleyes:

i remember a brother telling me how another bro and his wife went shopping, the wife who wears a niqaab got pushed by some man delibrately. i wonder what happened to the man after ....:D :D

yep seriously the brothers rarely have problems like this, one sister was walking here and they came from behind and pulled off her khimar, i have been spat on, cracked in the head, called all the filthy names u can imagine but i know 100% if i was a man they wouldnt even try it. if theres a chance of more agression frm them, then i leave it and i dont flinch and i pretend i didnt hear them, and when i got cracked in the head by a guy on the bus i just pretended it was nothing,the sound it made meant even the kuffar woman down the front of the bus were looking at me horrified and asking are u ok i swear i had a headache for 2 days, but i didnt move i didnt flinch i didnt want him to get the satisfaction.

sometimes i do stand up to them, a bunch of guys sitting outside a cafe and one of them started calling out and making fun of my clothes and singing the batman theme and laughing :rolleyes: i stopped and gave him a full on clint eastwood style stare and it was enough.. and his mates were looking at him like hes an idiot and telling him to shut up and stop being a jerk alhamdulillah, same with a woman sitting with some men and she started swearing at me in portugese i just put down my shopping and said yea? come on then, and beckoned her to me her freinds looked ashamed and she was looking to them for support but she didnt get any she just made a total fool of herself and i went on my way.

but as i said just confims our deen to us alhamdulillah and lets us feel the meaning of the ayats of Allah ta ala, that what comes out of their mouths is nothing compared to the hatred they have in their hearts for us, and u brothers should all know this is why a woman shouldnt have to find herself out walking alone in these times, everyone has these bizzare ideas that its "safe" well its not, we women on the front line clearly visible as muslimahs, and a lot of the time we cant even recognise our brothers in islam as such... so if u have sisters and mothers or aunts then make sure u escort them to where they need to be, even if it means u have to leave an hour earlier for work, and your reward will be with Allah ta ala alhamdulillah.

[`asiya]

Let it be clear: in no way do I justify a person insulting someone who had done absolutely nothing wrong, simply on the basis of external appearance.

that is exactly what you just did.

[Chained_Water]

Let it be clear: in no way do I justify a person insulting someone who had done absolutely nothing wrong, simply on the basis of external appearance.

that is exactly what you just did.
That's exactly what I thought.



If you are going to rationalise it in that way [talking like it makes complete sense to hate and disrespect Muslims for the reasons you described], then why are you not similarly rationalising why all these Muslims you've seen are saying things about the "dirty, smelly kuffar".. isn't that because of the fact some of the kuffar are killing Muslims all over the world, or where they cannot do that [i.e. the West] they are intolerant, discriminatory and often racist towards them.. isn't that why Muslims talk like and do the things you described above?

Justifying all this, from both sides.. only serves in helping perpetuate the cycle of hatred and mindless violence by making it seem like it makes complete sense to react in those ways.

[stephenoskie]

Sis I have been in many similar situations myself. But you should not let it get to you, if they see you are weak then they will eat you more, but i admire your courage and strength to carry on walking MashAllah.

I would of knocked him clean out !!!!!!!! :embar:

But you controlled your emotions which is a big attribute Sis :love:

[stephenoskie]

Let it be clear: in no way do I justify a person insulting someone who had done absolutely nothing wrong, simply on the basis of external appearance.

that is exactly what you just did.

but it happens and there isnt any thing that any one can do. So sad this country makes me so angry

[mamadu]

Let it be clear: in no way do I justify a person insulting someone who had done absolutely nothing wrong, simply on the basis of external appearance.

that is exactly what you just did.Wrong.

I explained what I imagine goes through the mind of a person who hates muslims.

[mamadu]

That's exactly what I thought.



If you are going to rationalise it in that way [talking like it makes complete sense to hate and disrespect Muslims for the reasons you described], then why are you not similarly rationalising why all these Muslims you've seen are saying things about the "dirty, smelly kuffar".. isn't that because of the fact some of the kuffar are killing Muslims all over the world, or where they cannot do that [i.e. the West] they are intolerant, discriminatory and often racist towards them.. isn't that why Muslims talk like and do the things you described above?

Justifying all this, from both sides.. only serves in helping perpetuate the cycle of hatred and mindless violence by making it seem like it makes complete sense to react in those ways.I knew that I would be accused of this.

You should realize that you can try to understand even what went through the Nazis' minds without being a Nazi.

As I said, hate and contempt breed hate and contempt. Of course it goes both ways.

It's childish to get bogged down in a discussion on the lines of - he started it...

The original poster asked : why do they hate us ?

I tried to give some directions of enquiry.

Is anyone grateful ?

Apparently, not.

Ok, then someone else try to explain it.

Perhaps, we kuffar (as has been explained many times on this forum, even by moderators) are simply tools of the Shaytan.

[`asiya]

Wrong.

I explained what I imagine goes through the mind of a person who hates muslims.

you said It doesn't take a PH.D in social or religious sciences in order to understand why some nonmuslims hate muslims.

whether u realise it or not, that is justifying it, no one has the right to be that ignorant.

would u say the same if a muslim attacked and spat on ur average jew as he was walking down the street.. "well u can understand why people hate them look how they stole the homes and land of their brothers and sisters in palestine, and how they kill muslims there everyday .."

get a grip man.

[mamadu]

you said It doesn't take a PH.D in social or religious sciences in order to understand why some nonmuslims hate muslims.

whether u realise it or not, that is justifying it, no one has the right to be that ignorant.Saying that the explanation is simple does not imply a justification.

And keep your insults to yourself.

would u say the same if a muslim attacked and spat on ur average jew as he was walking down the street.. "well u can understand why people hate them look how they stole the homes and land of their brothers and sisters in palestine, and how they kill muslims there everyday .."

get a grip man.I know perfectly well why some muslims hate nonmuslims.

Being on this forum makes sure that I have a very solid understanding of the main grudges being held by muslims against us kuffar.

Best regards

[`asiya]

Saying that the explanation is simple does not imply a justification.

And keep your insults to yourself.

I know perfectly well why some muslims hate nonmuslims.

Being on this forum makes sure that I have a very solid understanding of the main grudges being held by muslims against us kuffar.

Best regards

lol i didnt insult u i said no one has the right to be that ignorant ( ie: those who think they can spit on muslim women just because they saw something on the news about "the mozlems" ) and so then of course we muslims can say well we have every right to feel that way when we see our brothers and sisters slaughtered in an injust and fake war, a war of propaganda that the masess feed into and support on a daily basis so no wonder we hate all non muslims :rolleyes: see it works both ways so like CW said ultimately statements like this are futile, because it just goes round and round in circles...

[Astraeus]

Since what you stated above is your true belief, then you have just backed Sheikh Osama bin Laden's justification for 9/11. In a very recent speech, along with others prior, he has stated these are retaliatory attacks based on the oppression and deaths of countless Muslims in Palestine and elsewhere in the middle east by Israel and other western countries. Since this seemingly endless cycle of violence is always started by westerners, then this is thread is about just another discriminatory, offensive attack on a Muslim Sister.

You must cause a lot of fitnah to have read so many posts about "dirty, smelly kuffar" because in the 6 or 7 weeks I have been on this site, I have only seen those adjectives used three times to describe the kuffar...always in individual kaffir posts. I will give you that there are decadent, hedonistic societies, and that the political systems are corrupt. Are you so blind you cannot see that, yet you come her and try and justify a man spitting at a woman??!!!

I am not going to steer this thread off track by debating you. Clearly you are a kaffir and will never see anything but hatred for Muslims. If you are so offended by what you read here, then leave.

[mamadu]

lol i didnt insult u i said no one has the right to be that ignorant ( ie: those who think they can spit on muslim women just because they saw something on the news about "the mozlems" ) and so then of course we muslims can say well we have every right to feel that way when we see our brothers and sisters slaughtered in an injust and fake war, a war of propaganda that the masess feed into and support on a daily basis so no wonder we hate all non muslims :rolleyes: see it works both ways so like CW said ultimately statements like this are futile, because it just goes round and round in circles...As I said in my first post: contempt and hatred breed contempt and hatred. Of course it goes both ways.

As I said, I know very well why some muslims hate nonmuslims.

However, it seems that some muslims are asking themselves why they are hated. I gave some answers.

Do I justify all this hatred and contempt ? no, of course. On neither side.

[mamadu]

Are you so blind you cannot see that, yet you come her and try and justify a man spitting at a woman??!!!You should try to read posts before answering them.

Try it: it works (sometimes)

[Astraeus]

You should try to read posts before answering them.
I did...and depsite your falsehearted disclaimer, you were giving justification for what happened to my sister.

[$HugoBoss$]

Thats why it helps to be good looking sometimes :coolbro:

[mamadu]

I did...and depsite your falsehearted disclaimer, you were giving justification for what happened to my sister.OK.

Then you can just dispel any temptation to try and reason about events and go back to shouting "muslim good, kuffar bad".

Have fun.

[`asiya]

Thats why it helps to be good looking sometimes :coolbro:

ah so u just dazzle them with your beauty so they're blinded by it and stumble out of your path huh ... good move bro :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[$HugoBoss$]

ah so u just dazzle them with your beauty so they're blinded by it and stumble out of your path huh ... good move bro :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

lol i was just kiddin :D

[`asiya]

lol i was just kiddin :D

lol we know :up:

sis random a lovely reminder from Allah ta ala here masha Allah, as said previously these things just make us grow stronger insha Allah .

surah 29.1- 11

Al-'Ankabût

In the Name of Allâh, the Most
Beneficent, the Most Merciful.

Alif*Lâm*Mîm.

[These letters are one of the miracles of the Qur'ân, and none but Allâh (Alone) knows their meanings.]

Do people think that they will be left alone because they say: "We believe," and will not be tested.

And We indeed tested those who were before them. And Allâh will certainly make (it) known (the truth of) those who are true, and will certainly make (it) known (the falsehood of) those who are liars, (although Allâh knows all that before putting them to test).

Or those who do evil deeds think that they can outstrip Us (i.e. escape Our Punishment)? Evil is that which they judge!

Whoever hopes for the Meeting[] with Allâh, then Allâh's Term is surely coming. and He is the All-Hearer, the All-Knower.

And whosoever strives, he strives only for himself. Verily, Allâh is free of all wants from the 'Alamîn (mankind, jinns, and all that exists).

Those who believe [in the Oneness of Allâh (Monotheism) and in Messenger Muhammad SAW , and do not apostate because of the harm they receive from the polytheists], and do righteous good deeds, surely, We shall remit from them their evil deeds and shall reward them according to the best of that which they used to do.

And We have enjoined on man to be good and dutiful to his parents, but if they strive to make you join with Me (in worship) anything (as a partner) of which you have no knowledge, then obey them not. Unto Me is your return, and I shall tell you what you used to do.

And for those who believe (in the Oneness of Allâh and other items of Faith)[] and do righteous good deeds, surely, We shall make them enter in (the enterance of) the righteous (i.e. in Paradise).

Of mankind are some who say: "We believe in Allâh," but if they are made to suffer for the sake of Allâh, they consider the trial of mankind as Allâh's punishment, and if victory comes from your Lord, (the hypocrites) will say: "Verily! We were with you (helping you)." Is not Allâh Best Aware of what is in the breast of the 'Alamîn (mankind and jinns).

Verily, Allâh knows those who believe, and verily, He knows the hypocrites [i.e. Allâh will test the people with good and hard days to discriminate the good from the wicked (although Allâh knows all that before putting them to test)].

[Astraeus]

OK.

Then you can just dispel any temptation to try and reason about events and go back to shouting "muslim good, kuffar bad".
I was only using your own "logic" of events as to why the kuffar hate Muslims.

I guess it is easier to tell someone what to do, than actually do it yourself. :rolleyes:

[mamadu]

I was only using your own "logic" of events as to why the kuffar hate Muslims.

I guess it is easier to tell someone what to do, than actually do it yourself. :rolleyes:When I say that one should reason about events, I mean exactly that .

I have no problem in saying, e.g., that one should analyze 9/11, and reconstruct the mindset of the attackers (e.g. the role of the US troops' presence in Saudi Arabia in motivating the attackers can hardly be overlooked)

In the same way, if you analyze the Nazi takeover in Germany, you will recognize the role played by the unbalanced Versailles treaty and the feeling of injustice it caused in the German people...

And so on and so forth.

Trying to understand things is much better than repeating endlessly monotonous slogans. And, it doesn't make you a Nazi or an OBL supporter.

On the other hand, shouting (in a broad chorus) "muslim good, kuffar bad" must also have its satisfactions, or it would be difficult to understand why so many people do it.

[Fitnah Bolice]

Do you think this would have occurred if you were with a mahram, if you don't take heed of Allah and his messengers admonition then can you really blame the kaffir (not saying his actions are excusable in any way shape or form).

[IbnAbdulHakim]

^ lol?

some dalaa'il sayings its haram for a sister to be outside (not go travelling away further then 40 miles but just locally like to uni or college)wivout a mahram please!?

serious? wat are you basing that on?

as far as i know the sahabiyaats were without mahram many times, they just guarded themselves. I mean remember the wife of az-zubayr, she use to work on the fields regularly in medina, even once the prophet sallallahi alaihi wasallaam offered her a ride which she refused due to the jelousy of az-zubair radhiallahu anhu,


so im very interested in your dalaa'il.. inshaAllaah as i let my own sisters out many times (they are my elders)

[Astraeus]

Trying to understand things is much better than repeating endlessly monotonous slogans.
True. But it was you who brought other events into this thread. Let's not try and put your own reasoning into the head of the "man" who committed this act.

Let's keep it in it's simplest terms: Woman walks down the street. Man hates woman based on her manner of dress. In his hatred for the woman he does not know, he attempts to spit on her. It boils down to nothing more than discriminatory hatred.

[Fitnah Bolice]

^ lol?

some dalaa'il sayings its haram for a sister to be outside (not go travelling away further then 40 miles but just locally like to uni or college)wivout a mahram please!?

serious? wat are you basing that on?

as far as i know the sahabiyaats were without mahram many times, they just guarded themselves. I mean remember the wife of az-zubayr, she use to work on the fields regularly in medina, even once the prophet sallallahi alaihi wasallaam offered her a ride which she refused due to the jelousy of az-zubair radhiallahu anhu,


so im very interested in your dalaa'il.. inshaAllaah as i let my own sisters out many times (they are my elders)

There are many daleels from qur'an & sunnah that categorically state that women must have mahrams, except for neccesity they have dispensation, search for it yourself, it depends on your take on neccesity and how much gheerah you have for your sisters/mothers. Oh and point to be noted I never stated it's haram, my point was had this particular sister been with a mahram, then it is quite safe to say she would not have been harassed in the manner she was.

[IbnAbdulHakim]

^ jazakAllaah khair :)


yeah but uni and college is necessity right?

what about halaqa's? shopping?


i guess shopping isnt that necessary... but im sure halaqa's is? la adree

*confused*

[Nazias]

It happend to me all the time and sometimes it freaks me out but now I have learnt to ignore it as everything in this dunya is a test from Allah(swt) and happens for a reason and like you said the Prophet(saws) and the sahabah went through that a million times worse and Insha'allah as long as we make dua to Allah(swt) and have tawakal, no harm can aflict you! :D

[RaNdOm]

:salams

:jkk:

hmmmmmm

Do you think this would have occurred if you were with a mahram, if you don't take heed of Allah and his messengers admonition then can you really blame the kaffir (not saying his actions are excusable in any way shape or form).

:salams

am i menta have a mahram with me even if i'm only like 4mins from my house? travelling to a distance of 8mins and then returning...

[RaNdOm]

:wswrwb:

but instead of going to the takeway for that Double-Cheese Burger yourself, you cuda just told your brother or someone :rubeyes:

:salams

it wasn't for food and it wasn't unneccessary

u know the main topic of this thread has been my weakness... but that wasn't even what i was concerned about, like i know i'm not naturally someone that likes to hate, so it would get me upset more than angry just cos of my character... and it isn't even the crying thing, i cry at dumb things all the time... n then sumt serious happens and i have no tears... it's just the way i am...

but i just wanted to know WHY... but i guess u lot can't get into his head just like i can't... n some1 beginning with m (can't remember the name) tried to explain but would that be a big enough reason to spit on people...

i can't even stand when people just spit at the ground, cos i find it so disgusting, let alone a person...

i dno... it doesn't matter now, like everyone said i should just take it as a test and for me to learn sumt by inshaAllah...

but will i get upset n cry if someone does something like that again... the answer is most probably yes

i just find it mega upsetting that u want the best for these people, u want them to enter jannah that's why u give them the message, so that they can save themselves, it won't have the slightest affect on u where they end up, but because hell is so scary u don't want them to go there... and then they still find reason to hate...

like even if Allah chose not to guide them wouldn't they think sumt along the lines of... ok so i don't wanna be a muslim, but obviously these muslims call to us for a reason, maybe they do want me to go to heaven, which is kinda cool but i don't wanna believe but at least i'll respect em...

i dno..

[Irfan GBH]

You didn't do anything. The man is eating away at his own insides because of his animosity and bigotry. Continue to stay strong for the sake of Allah :Swt: to earn his shade on yawm al qiyyamah. It's easier said than done but imagine that day when people will be drowning in their own perspiration. That man who spit at you will not only be going mad with the fear of his situation but he will also be severely thirsty and will not be able to gather saliva in his mouth. And if he dies in kufr that will be the least of his problems.

وَالَّذِينَ جَـهَدُواْ فِينَا لَنَهْدِيَنَّهُمْ سُبُلَنَا وَإِنَّ اللَّهَ لَمَعَ الْمُحْسِنِينَ

69. As for those who strive hard for Us, We will surely guide them to Our paths. And verily, Allah is with the doers of good.

May Allah raise your rank to the umm ul mu'mineen and the awliya. Ameen.

Exactly. Remember that because fo what happened Allah will compensate you on the last day and the kuff is gonna be crying till tears turn to blood and blood runs out.

You probably felt shocked and shaken but now it's time to put it out of your mind and cheer up :)

And if you see him again make sure no one's watching....and beat him to death :)

[muslimma]

if something like this happens again, stab them in the neck with a key or something. these idiots need to be taught a lesson.

lols the last thing i would do is physically challenge him :eek:

sis random :there: :love: feel your pain sis man people dont appreciate people for what they are its all about looks.

and that boofoon was prob guttered that there was nothing out for him to perv at...:vomit:

if you would have had bro with you then that sick twit wouldn't have even have looked twice, they are just cowards and have no respect for no-one...:mad:

[Medievalist]

theres nothign wrong with crying at the wrong times, i do it, med does it, and i guess we all do it.

like.. i NEARLY cried when madhuri was forced into marriage with that bad evil guy thinking he was shah rukh khan :(, and poor shah rukh couldnt do anything because the evil guy put KOYLA down his mouth :(


and each time Armaan feels rejected by Riddhima in Dil Mil Gayye that makes me cry too :( cos he reminds me of myself sometimes.. cos hes goodlooking, cute and so BUFF.. and its like.. why do the goodlooking ones feel hurt by the ladies :( and that very thought makes my heart sink :o its like.. will i ever be content :o

then this tune rings in my ear

and it goes someat like this


"oh meinu kyun pyaar kiya.. ye dil beqraar kiya" :crying::crying:


THIS POST IS RELEVANT

dont try misleading me again hassnet :nono:

But its true :crying: I cried when Rahul (SRK) had to leave his mum in K3G, or when SRK cried when his mum is killed in Asoka. Point being we all cry at stuupid moments.

Rnadom: hope you feeling better now.

[Zesty]

dont try misleading me again hassnet :nono:

But its true :crying: I cried when Rahul (SRK) had to leave his mum in K3G, or when SRK cried when his mum is killed in Asoka. Point being we all cry at stuupid moments.

Rnadom: hope you feeling better now.

What the heellll :rotfl: Or we laugh till we're crying at weird people who cry at such moments!

Random- dont worry about it so much. You get people like that all the time. Reminds me of the time i had just started wearing hijab and moved away from home for Uni purposes. This semi drunk man felt the need to shout across the road, "why do you do it, why do you bomb people." somthing ridiculous like that :rolleyes: Its their ignorance that leads to such despicable and rude behaviour. Just ignore it.

[Zesty]

and your reply was?

*screams* OMG.. i SO DONT *screach*

Actually i started walking across the road, saying "You what, what do you mean." :rotfl: was on a dawah mission whilst my housemates were pulling me back telling me to ignore him and leave it.

[`asiya]

Random- dont worry about it so much. You get people like that all the time. Reminds me of the time i had just started wearing hijab and moved away from home for Uni purposes. This semi drunk man felt the need to shout across the road, "why do you do it, why do you bomb people." somthing ridiculous like that :rolleyes: Its their ignorance that leads to such despicable and rude behaviour. Just ignore it.

but sometimes it gets a bit much and u think u might like to walk up to them stamp your foot and clap your hands together at the same time and say *BANG* really loud ..just to freak them out :o

well thats what theyre expecting isnt it ..

[mamadu]

True. But it was you who brought other events into this thread. Let's not try and put your own reasoning into the head of the "man" who committed this act.

Let's keep it in it's simplest terms: Woman walks down the street. Man hates woman based on her manner of dress. In his hatred for the woman he does not know, he attempts to spit on her. It boils down to nothing more than discriminatory hatred.The lady victim of this insult asks : why do they hate us ?

This is a good question. I try to explain some of the reasons for hostility by nonmuslims against muslims . I am also careful to specify that I do not in any way condone the attack.

Nothing doing: people simply prefer an explanation such as "They are evil, but they will burn in hell".

[Hiking]

but sometimes it gets a bit much and u think u might like to walk up to them stamp your foot and clap your hands together at the same time and say *BANG* really loud ..just to freak them out :o

well thats what theyre expecting isnt it ..

:rotfl: LOL 'asiya have you lost the plot??

[`asiya]

:rotfl: LOL 'asiya have you lost the plot??

:o :o :o

[Khubaib]

:salams:

Since other sisters posted on this thread about being in a similar situation to sister Random I just wanted to post a reminder that we should remember to say Alhamdulillah because the spit didn't hit in this case, and the :wacko:'s didn't become physically agressive in the others, just had some nasty things to say. Much worse is possible and it does happen to our sisters in other countries getting their hijabs ripped off and much worse, unspeakable crimes. So this experience should be one we thank Allah :Swt: for innit?

[`asiya]

:salams:

Since other sisters posted on this thread about being in a similar situation to sister Random I just wanted to post a reminder that we should remember to say Alhamdulillah because the spit didn't hit in this case, and the :wacko:'s didn't become physically agressive in the others, just had some nasty things to say. Much worse is possible and it does happen to our sisters in other countries getting their hijabs ripped off and much worse, unspeakable crimes. So this experience should be one we thank Allah :Swt: for innit?

:wswrwb: yep absolutely :jkk: amin i was saying that before about what our sisters in dafur and palestine deal with .. its a wake up call when things like this happen to us alhamdulillah a blessing from Allah on us, but understand what sis random is saying its shocking when u feel it for the first time, the pure hate that comes from people just because we say :lailah:.. may Allah give us all strength amin.

[mamadu]

but i just wanted to know WHY... but i guess u lot can't get into his head just like i can't... n some1 beginning with m (can't remember the name) tried to explain but would that be a big enough reason to spit on people...Hi RaNdOm

that must have been a really painful experience.

I tried to give some ideas about the reasons why there is hostility against muslims in some "Western" countries (a bit more here, a bit less there).

The basic reason is hostility against people who look and act "different". This can be anyone: muslims, gypsies, homosexuals, blacks....

But there are more specific reasons, which I won't repeat because I was already infracted for mentioning them. It's not easy to have a discussion under these conditions.

Anyway, best wishes

[Zesty]

but sometimes it gets a bit much and u think u might like to walk up to them stamp your foot and clap your hands together at the same time and say *BANG* really loud ..just to freak them out :o

well thats what theyre expecting isnt it ..

:rotfl: sister asiyaaaa... im just trying to imagine you doing that!! :rotfl:
Yeh, actually should try that one instead- i think you might catch them off guard!

[Medievalist]

What the heellll :rotfl: Or we laugh till we're crying at weird people who cry at such moments!

Random- dont worry about it so much. You get people like that all the time. Reminds me of the time i had just started wearing hijab and moved away from home for Uni purposes. This semi drunk man felt the need to shout across the road, "why do you do it, why do you bomb people." somthing ridiculous like that :rolleyes: Its their ignorance that leads to such despicable and rude behaviour. Just ignore it.

please dont derail the thread :nono:

[Astraeus]

The lady victim of this insult asks : why do they hate us ?

This is a good question. I try to explain some of the reasons for hostility by nonmuslims against muslims . I am also careful to specify that I do not in any way condone the attack.

Nothing doing: people simply prefer an explanation such as "They are evil, but they will burn in hell".
But you still cannot speak for why this "man" did this act. You don't know if the sister is black and he did it for that reason, or vice-versa.

Unless, YOU are the one who attacked my Sister, it is hard for you to know the true reason for why it was done.

[mamadu]

But you still cannot speak for why this "man" did this act. You don't know if the sister is black and he did it for that reason, or vice-versa.

Unless, YOU are the one who attacked my Sister, it is hard for you to know the true reason for why it was done.We can be sure of nothing, but we can try to discuss and to make intelligent guesses.

This is a forum for discussion. I could think of few items for discussion more interesting than the one suggested by RanDom.

[mamadu]

....

[RaNdOm]

:salams

i feel bad cos everyone thinks that i need to be comforted or sumt :o... but i just told what happened to explain the situation... it's all cool... i just erm wanna know why :o like how his mind works... and anyone else that can be so mean... like once the library guy tried to ban me and the same thing happened cos we got into a long discussion about how i couldn't understand how he could be so robotic and not care about feelings or understand that people need warnings n stuff... but he was just being so cold and i just wanted to know if he had a heart somewhere in there...

i know i know u lot probably think i'm so weird, but i ain't used to people being mean or hatin or anything like that and if they are ever like that i have to try and understand why and make them understand they don't have to be like that...

like another time i was getting food with my mates and we were talking and like so we didn't notice the queue had moved on and then he started swearing and shouting, and then i couldn't understand why he was like that too... like there was about 2secs extra that he had to wait but he got so annoyed... and he looked like he wanted to kill us... and then i tried explaining to him like how it didn't even make a difference and that we all have to share this world together so when someone treats u like that it doesn't make people feel good... and then when we left he apologised i was like :rubeyes: :D:D:D:D:D alhamdulillah may Allah guide him to islam ameen

when stuff happens i just want to know the whys...

anyway i think enough of ma weirdness for 1 day :D

[Medievalist]

Basically Random is a hippy. :torture:

[RaNdOm]

Basically Random is a hippy. :torture:

:salams

no... basically nearly everyone has good in them it just needs to be brought out sometimes :torture:

[MalikOne™]

like another time i was getting food with my mates and we were talking and like so we didn't notice the queue had moved on and then he started swearing and shouting, and then i couldn't understand why he was like that too...

cos da bruda was hungry, dnt deprive a man of his food :coolbro:

[Hiking]

:wswrwb: the minds of some people are just unfathomable - especially when their actions are in total contrast to your own :coolsis:

[brjimc]

:salams

just :(

i dno... i know i shouldn't even get upset but i was walking home before and then like some non muslim man saw me and cos i'm all blacked out i dno... he just had such a look of disgust on his face, like that look alone felt like it was eating away at me and then he spat and it missed me by an inch...

and then he went past and i just started crying while i was walking home, but then i kept telling myself that the prophet :saw: had to face so much worse so i shouldn't even be bothered by it... but then i nowhere near come close to the strength of the prophet :saw: either

i dno... hmmmm and i know we gotta be strong but i dno...

Yeah, they are not worth a second of thought, let alone tears. Hold your head high and ignore them :)

[Muslimah4lyff]

Yeah, they are not worth a second of thought, let alone tears. Hold your head high and ignore them :)

thats right....just hold your head up high and ignore them....

:there: any better sis? :D

[Souljette001]

Life is tough so train like a Soldier, Stand like a Warrior and take it like a Champion!!

:):):)

[Irfan GBH]

cos da bruda was hungry, dnt deprive a man of his food :coolbro:

Aye, how could you deprive a man of his fooood? :rubeyes: That poor guy :crying:

[Leena_Cnd]

Was he swiss by chance ? :S . . .
Anyways, what were you doing at the spitting contest ?
http://www.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/story/0,22049,23696546-5001028,00.html
(man dies spitting)


~

[Hijabi_Solja]

Salaam Alaikum,

Sorry that happened to you Sis, but alas he is an idiot, like has been already posted....one day he will have to answer for what he did

On one of my visits to Chicago,I was walking to the subway and I walked past this guy and his friend, they were whispering and looking at me then one of the dumb***es threw a lit cigarette in my hijab as I walked past. I didnt realize it at first but in a few steps I smelled something burning (it was me :o) I stopped and got the cig out then I flicked it back at them, gave them an obscene hand gesture and ran to the subway :D

I was ssooooooo po'd but not so much that idiot burned me, but more at the fact that he ruined one of my fav hijabs :torture:
I still have it too, I call it my "taking one for the team" scarf :o

[muslimma]

cos da bruda was hungry, dnt deprive a man of his food :coolbro:

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:rotfl:

random: tis ok sis let it all out, no probs :love:...:there: