Separating 'happily' after Marriage

[Kasim2k7]

I dont know if we got a thread on this but what is ruling regarding separating right after you get marry. Is it the parents right to separate his boy? Some parents find it not good. Im confused. Can someone explain?

[.: Anna :.]

I don't understand the way you worded the question :confused:
Do you mean can parents force their son to get divorced? :scratch: or what?

[Kasim2k7]

I mean not divorce or anything. Living in another house away from your parents. Because when a woman marries and comes in her husbands house that is where she suppose to say. Is it her husbands right to get her a separate house and stay away from husbands parents? Will that effect the right of parents in any way?

[`asiya]

bro i made a post here about this, sorry i`ll just link to it, save saying same thing again

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showpost.php?p=2565701&postcount=68

[.: Anna :.]

I mean not divorce or anything. Living in another house away from your parents. Because when a woman marries and comes in her husbands house that is where she suppose to say. Is it her husbands right to get her a separate house and stay away from husbands parents? Will that effect the right of parents in any way?

oh right okay.
im sure asiyas post will fully explain bt no she is not "supposed" to stay in inlaws house apart from culture sometimes demands this. it doesnt affect their rights to have an own house. it affects her rights to be denied that.
but still if she agrees to stay there for a bit for the sake of making them happy, she can do that but doesnt have to.
also if they get seperate its good to be close by to make it still easy for him to do duty to his parents. insha allah all references, explanation etc will b with asiyas post

[Danniella]

Its everyones duty to look after their parents, whether boy or girl.

However, 'duty' does not mean living with parents!
It gets my goat to hear that men insist on living with their parents because of thier duty, but their definition of duty simply means their wife looks after the parents and does all the work.

Anyone and everyone should be able to fulfil their duties without having the need to live with in-laws.

Live close by, visit often, show respect, be happy...and it will be like that the children never left hom eint he first place after marriage!

PS ruling on living seperately after marriage - the wife has right to a separate lodging with her own lock and key to safeguard her privacy!