View Full Version : FOR PEAOPLE OF ALL AGES:what age did you/do you intend to get married in?
farah.a
04-05-08, 09:36 PM
i am interested at what age people would like to get married at. there are lot of teens and i want to know their views. i also would like to see what age others got married at. jazakumullah.
Umm Haya
04-05-08, 09:38 PM
AssalamuAlaykum
I shall be getting married sometime before I lose all my teeth to old age insha'Allah. Sorry, I find these threads pointless but cant resist posting in em :o :outta:
WassalamuAlaykum
MrOnline
04-05-08, 09:41 PM
Is this a poll where the results are made public?
MrOnline
04-05-08, 09:43 PM
Is this a poll where the results are made public?
MMS's just chosen her option. Flip this! Walaykumassalam.
.: hayat :.
04-05-08, 09:44 PM
in 1,2,3 yrs,,,inshallah,,,
I'm still a teen :hidban: (and I hope to be for many years to come...starting with twenteen :p)
And I don't really have a target age to get married by, it's up to Allah :Swt: and it'll happen when it happens! I prefer not to obsess :smack:
T minus 0-2 years...
pointless threads are having a field day today :rolleyes:
Genghis
04-05-08, 10:57 PM
25
:rolleyes:
I plan to get married in about 5 years, so I'll be about 22-23 then.
Genghis
04-05-08, 11:01 PM
25
:rolleyes:
Just incase people freak out lol..
Highlight the age I wrote ;)
Just incase people freak out lol..
Highlight the age I wrote ;)
You sly fox!
Genghis
04-05-08, 11:04 PM
I plan to get married in about 5 years, so I'll be about 22-23 then.
Inshallah good luck with that bro :up:
Genghis
04-05-08, 11:05 PM
You sly fox!
Coming from a Wolf thats encouraging :D
Coming from a Wolf thats encouraging :D
Wolves aren't sly, they're...not sure. Foxes and racoons are sly and cunning.
LastFriday
04-05-08, 11:27 PM
Asap
MrOnline
05-05-08, 12:20 AM
Asap
Yeah...you've got another 3 years to wait. :rolleyes:
muslimahmedic
05-05-08, 01:34 AM
well it wud b nice to get married around early/mid 20s but at the end of the day its gona happen when its in ur kismet. Allah (s.w.t) knows best for He is all knowing. :)
Rosalie-Beauty
05-05-08, 01:38 AM
I'm still a teen :hidban: (and I hope to be for many years to come...starting with twenteen :p)
And I don't really have a target age to get married by, it's up to Allah :Swt: and it'll happen when it happens! I prefer not to obsess :smack:
I feel the same way. When it happens it happens. :up:
AbuMubarak
05-05-08, 01:52 AM
i got married at 20 and couldnt wait a day longer
i got married at 20 and couldnt wait a day longer
I've heard of cold feet...and now I've heard of itchy feet :D congrats (no matter what age you are now)
18, then 33, and hope to do it again one day insha Allah ta ala, and this time no tricksters, passport seekers or misers insha Allah :nono:
Islamiyyah
05-05-08, 03:01 AM
i am interested at what age people would like to get married at. there are lot of teens and i want to know their views. i also would like to see what age others got married at. jazakumullah.
I got married three months before my 17th birthday.
i got married when i was 20 a bit young bit it was Allah's will. ;)
Pippin1376
05-05-08, 03:27 AM
Before I reach the age of 25 inshallah. There is still awhile before I reach that age, but I pray that I'm married before then.
Noor_Usman
05-05-08, 02:42 PM
Asalamalikum.
I got married 2 months after I turned 20 :) Would have done sooner (we'd agreed to marry when I was 18 maybe just turned 19) but lets just say we had a lot of obsticles put in our way which delaid it.
risalatul_islam
05-05-08, 03:33 PM
:salams
well there 2 options for 21, so i chose 21-23. :D
assalam alaikum
i have made mistake in selecting poll...
i want to marry now inshaALLAH at age of 18 or 19.. but i have select 25 to 27 .. i was thinking that the age of husband i prefare to marry :o
truemuslima
05-05-08, 11:46 PM
i dunt care
am 15 now
maybe ....nvrmind the poll is not anonymous.
check fo yoselves
1 Level
06-05-08, 12:26 AM
When i can stand on my own 2 feet,which is now lol
truemuslima
06-05-08, 01:06 AM
When i can stand on my own 2 feet,which is now lol
lol i thought ur name "1 level" u meant 1 level. not 1 yr old! Lool am kiddin! so dont jump at me everyone!
lol
mashallah
and wasalaam
Khuram_2k?
06-05-08, 01:44 AM
withih 3 years but thats 3 years too late.....
Overseer
06-05-08, 09:35 AM
A few years after I've complete my Ph.D. Insha'Allah, so that'd be around 25-27.
LastFriday
06-05-08, 01:11 PM
Yeah...you've got another 3 years to wait. :rolleyes:
how do you know o.O
sis_niqabi
06-05-08, 02:22 PM
salam
i hoped i would be married before i turned 20. but most likely that won't be happening since i'll be 20 this summer and i currently have no suitor. so yeah things don't always turn out the way you plan
salam
i hoped i would be married before i turned 20. but most likely that won't be happening since i'll be 20 this summer and i currently have no suitor. so yeah things don't always turn out the way you plan
aww sis, yes i guess it is up to Allah in the end. Enshaallah you will be be blessed with a lovely husband soon :)
1 Level
07-05-08, 12:43 AM
lol i thought ur name "1 level" u meant 1 level. not 1 yr old! Lool am kiddin! so dont jump at me everyone!
lol
mashallah
and wasalaam
:0:
DHAYIBA
07-05-08, 01:10 AM
I want to get married inshallah between the gae of 21-22.. within a ye
rs bi idnilahi karim!!!!
Cuz without his will, thre is nothin
inshallah, sometime after 30..
Metroid
07-05-08, 05:13 AM
....
Metroid
07-05-08, 05:14 AM
any time soon. my only problem is:
http://img265.imageshack.us/img265/7090/marraigewn8.png (http://imageshack.us)
Anonymous2008
07-05-08, 07:45 PM
From Poll results I was wondering, why have so many Muslims chosen to marry so young? Is it just tradition?
the_middle_road
07-05-08, 10:26 PM
The Prophet :saw: encouraged us to get married young.
Anonymous2008
08-05-08, 07:17 AM
The Prophet :saw: encouraged us to get married young.
Fair enough.
stephenoskie
08-05-08, 10:10 AM
Seriously I wanna get married in the next two or three years, Im just a bit scared about the whole thing really. maybe 18 or 19 maybe
afsalim
08-05-08, 10:39 AM
Ahh....trying to reveal our age, aren't you? You're evil!! :D
I'd say I got married between the age of 25-27. I got married last March btw.
Anonymous2008
08-05-08, 05:04 PM
Ahh....trying to reveal our age, aren't you? You're evil!! :D
I'd say I got married between the age of 25-27. I got married last March btw.
Congrats.
-Yassar
09-05-08, 12:54 PM
I got married a few months ago. :hidban:
whenever, Allah:Swt: wills, is fine with me. The sooner, the better though.
Islamiyyah
09-05-08, 04:49 PM
I got married a few months ago. :hidban:
Oh yea? Mash'Allah. I though you were like 15 or something though.
Its gonna be one month and two week Insh'Allah on Monday since my husband and I have been married.:o
:salams
19-21 :insha:
Something interesting - Among the reasons why the population of muslims is growing quickly relative to the rest of the world is the trend to marry early. So we can see an incidental socio-political benefit from following the Sunnah.:up:
.: hayat :.
12-05-08, 09:41 AM
:salams
well there 2 options for 21, so i chose 21-23. :D
same for 25 so i choose the later one cuse earlier i still study,,,but wishing around 25 inshallah,,,in 2 yrs by now on:hidban:i must find hubby:rubeyes:nahhh,,,Allah swt will inshallah,,,
Sister-Ameena*
18-05-08, 05:35 AM
:salams Next year or the year after, so when I'm 19-20 inshaAllaah. I'm very scared though.
~Warda~
19-05-08, 02:30 PM
In less than a month insha-Allah...
who d man
19-05-08, 02:35 PM
wen da tym iz ritd. im still looking for ma trophydat iz brown sugar
.: Anna :.
22-05-08, 01:27 PM
:salams
19-21 :insha:
Something interesting - Among the reasons why the population of muslims is growing quickly relative to the rest of the world is the trend to marry early. So we can see an incidental socio-political benefit from following the Sunnah.:up:
this is definitely true :up:if u go into antenatal classes or something like that, where most people are having their first child, u see the non muslim people and the average age is about 30+. I was quite :rubeyes: because I only saw about one other person in same age as me, then one looked in later 20s and the rest of them looked between about 30-45! which is so opposite to the normal pattern with Muslims
XalimOoRella
24-05-08, 07:49 PM
Inshallah when i'm 21/22.
afrasayab
25-05-08, 02:25 AM
29 and single... Inshallah when Allah wills. I don't beleive in getting married for the sake of marriage so i'll till i find someone i really want to get married to... weather I have to wait a year or 5 years.
Perhaps too much info, but it would also be interesting to know why ppl want get married at a certain age...too busy having fun... studying... or can't find any...
ThE aPpReNtIcE
25-05-08, 02:32 AM
Ah....im 21..and i realli am looking forward to it =/
0-2 lol
Oooooh well over the age of 27 for me... because that was when I met my husband, simply!
Brightuk16
20-06-08, 11:41 AM
I got married at the age of 19 and currently family are pushing me to go ahead with a second marriage. I would consider 24 years as a reasonable age to get married.
Best of luck to all those brothers and sisters getting married soon, may Allah (swt) bless your marriage with success and happines, may your marriage help you prosper in your deen. Ameen.
May Allah (swt) help all those brothers and sisters who currently searching for a partner - may your search find results in a lovely, pious husband/wife. Ameen.
For all those brothers and sisters going through a difficult time, may Allah (swt) ease your suffering and reward you in this life and the hereafter, Ameen.
W'salaam
KhalisahdaGreat
21-06-08, 08:02 PM
I wanted to get married around age 27 and have children by age 30. That way I would already be financially set, and my education finished. I got married earlier, though, last year at age 25, and I had my son this year alhamdulillah.
insomniac
21-06-08, 11:23 PM
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haleema_saadia
22-06-08, 06:10 PM
Salam
Allah hu alim, he knows when we marry, we have desires at a certain age or time etc.. hopefully however Allah SWT plans , he will do best inshallah. i hope to after my studies inshallah, like many others .
assalam alaikum
i have made mistake in selecting poll...
i want to marry now inshaALLAH at age of 18 or 19.. but i have select 25 to 27 .. i was thinking that the age of husband i prefare to marry :o
Bro
Everytime I read your posts, I see you avatar and it makes me chuckle. I keep thinking that's actually you!l :D
sadaf29
24-06-08, 03:35 PM
I wanted to get married around age 27 and have children by age 30. That way I would already be financially set, and my education finished. I got married earlier, though, last year at age 25, and I had my son this year alhamdulillah.[/QUOTE]
I think 25 is a really nice age to get married, i think your very lucky i'm 29 and still searching i feel old though.
tayfah-mansurah
25-06-08, 02:07 AM
now looking back, I should have got married at age 19-21, I was immature at the time so i wasnt interested, parents were being pushy at the time too lol, that had something to do with it. best to get married young, have kids and run around with them:up:
i am interested at what age people would like to get married at. there are lot of teens and i want to know their views. i also would like to see what age others got married at. jazakumullah.
salam
i hoped i would be married before i turned 20. but most likely that won't be happening since i'll be 20 this summer and i currently have no suitor. so yeah things don't always turn out the way you plan
the same
mashcaster
25-06-08, 02:45 PM
I felt I should mention an important point which people seem to forget. Up until 23, the body produces more new cells than cells die. So the body clock is ticking. Get married as early as possible!
Brightuk16
25-06-08, 04:04 PM
JazakAllah Khair for the biology lesson. :)
*hijab*
25-06-08, 06:45 PM
im 20 goin on to 21....up to 23 wud be great...but Allah knows best.
i voted 19-21 years...so ....
make dua!!
BornArtist
10-07-08, 11:24 PM
got married on my 18th birthday
Its best to get married early so u could have kids early
you can see your kids get married have children before u die :o That if sudden death is not waiting :)
I just turned 26...Wana get married...NOW!
I just turned 26...Wana get married...NOW!
:rubeyes: are you serious?
Safiyyah_1406
12-07-08, 03:24 AM
IMHO, 19-24 is the best age for girls. I have to 2 more years : )
ibnmuadh
12-07-08, 03:53 AM
I felt I should mention an important point which people seem to forget. Up until 23, the body produces more new cells than cells die. So the body clock is ticking. Get married as early as possible!
Masha-Allah :up::up:
i was 18 alhumdulilah-- to the shock horror of my family :up:
zaynab1
29-07-08, 04:09 PM
would like to get married now but family are saying no :(
sadaf29
29-07-08, 05:09 PM
[QUOTE=mashcaster;2664249]I felt I should mention an important point which people seem to forget. Up until 23, the body produces more new cells than cells die. So the body clock is ticking. Get married as early as possible!
up until 23?? maybe we should all get married at 12 then are u a doctor?
its not always possible to get married as early as possible.
Jenicca
18-08-08, 11:18 AM
i think i have no come to the understanding and realisation that I will only marry the day Allah has ordained for me to marry.............and Inshallah that will be soon!
But what I want to happen is not in my hands and now that I have come understand my life is slightly more worry free....hence less sleepless nights and hair loss!!
WhatSheSaid
18-08-08, 04:53 PM
One year older then whatever age I am.
LukinForAnswers
18-08-08, 07:50 PM
3 and a half years from now, so when Im 22. :up:
hmmm...d'like to get married again at 21...maybe 22.
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