What would you look for in a husband?

[MrOnline]

...:rolleyes: [Poll made courtesy of a few requests from UMMAH members].

[Umm Haya]

AssalamuAlaykum

Loq ... *waits patiently for responses from the anti-mush crew* ... ahem :o

But seriously, you'd look for somebody who ... *sigh* somebody who would be good for you in alotta ways.... Deen, 'Ilm, Good Character...and thats as far as I'm prepared to go in this thread :rubeyes:

WassalamuAlaykum

[RoadWarrior]

oh come on, thought you would have learnt from previous thread and made it anonymous?

[MrOnline]

oh come on, thought you would have learnt from previous thread and made it anonymous?

I'll get the mods to edit it.

[bitter_sweet]

Skin Complexion
Looks

and Surname - Patel seems most exotic :inlove:

:rofl1: howww is patel exotic??!!!..

where i am from, there is always at least 5 patels living in your street. the whole of this place is filled with patels. no joke. patel is a :nono:

[MrOnline]

Skin Complexion
Looks

and Surname - Patel seems most exotic :inlove:
WHOOPS, edited. :o

[bitter_sweet]

ehh this is rubbish i can only pick one!

[bitter_sweet]

What? There's this tune that's commonly sung in our community. It goes a bit like this, "patel papree gaan ma lakree mutteee muttee chotlee!" :hidban:

exactly!!!! we used to have this old mr patel and thats what we used ta say to him...bicharo...but serious man, PATEL?...why?!

[MrOnline]

patel is a :nono:

Don't diss the "patel's". Want to know what Patel means? ..."landlord".

[Medievalist]

Skin Complexion
Looks

and Surname - Patel seems most exotic :inlove:

:asta: shudn't lie bro. We all know Qurayshi :inlove: is more exotic and attractive than Patel :vomit:

[MrOnline]

ehh this is rubbish i can only pick one!

Oh damn, i'll make it again. :smack:

[RoadWarrior]

What? There's this tune that's commonly sung in our community. It goes a bit like this, "patel papree gaan ma lakree mutteee muttee chotlee!" :hidban:

errr bro do you wanna get banned or something????

just because its in another language doesnt make it ok?

I would edit it before mods see it

just translate it into english...would you type what you wrote in english?? I dont think so...

[MrOnline]

This thread can be deleted...

[angel*]

and it look like i'll have 2 say it all over again -

i vant looks, brains manners religion everything else and pleny of muuunny! :D :1popcorn:


just messin do not take me seriously!

[c0508310]

im tooooooooo young to have such thinking (just 14 going to be 15 in august) but i'l opt for personality which matters alot!!!!!!!!!

[Joha]

and Surname - Patel seems most exotic :inlove:

What about northern - a Yorkie? (not the dog...)

[RoadWarrior]

:rotfl: so i was right.. loool.. i wanna know what it means now :rotfl::rotfl:

well I didnt know what it meant either, just ONE word I understood from some gujji friends (they always teach you bad words :rolleyes:)

so i copied and pasted it to a fellow gujji and they confirmed what it said :nono: but they also said it was funny...but I guess no exceptions on ummah forum

[bitter_sweet]

and it look like i'll have 2 say it all over again -

i vant looks, brains manners religion everything else and pleny of muuunny! :D :1popcorn:


just messin do not take me seriously!

AIII what if ee goes bankrupt ehhh?

[angel*]

AIII what if ee goes bankrupt ehhh?

then he better go make sum more! :p

[MrOnline]

well I didnt know what it meant either, just ONE word I understood from some gujji friends (they always teach you bad words :rolleyes:)

so i copied and pasted it to a fellow gujji and they confirmed what it said :nono: but they also said it was funny...but I guess no exceptions on ummah forum

:O...anyway, how do i get this thread closed? Can you get it done for me?

[ibn Iyaaz]

I have it on good authority that my wife's only prerequisite was...

height, don't know whats that about though, superficial tsk tsk :hidban:

[RoadWarrior]

:O...anyway, how do i get this thread closed? Can you get it done for me?

You know helpdesk?

well make a thread in there brother and mods will do it for you.

[bitter_sweet]

as much as the northern sistahs are as mashaAllah MashaAllah.. i think id prefer a different accent either scoootish, irish or perhaps if there are still decent cool-headed friendly folks down London then the hoyty toyty arty farty accent of the souf!

if i married a scootish id be forever taking the mick out of his accent.

yorkshire accents best:inlove:

[bitter_sweet]

I have it on good authority that my wife's only prerequisite was...

height, don't know whats that about though, superficial tsk tsk :hidban:


what if the girls reaaalllyy tall, she wouldnt wanna marry a shorty now would she?

[RoadWarrior]

what if the girls reaaalllyy tall, she wouldnt wanna marry a shorty now would she?

that's not true. I know many women who married men shorter than them and in their eyes they are perfect for each other. because if your LOVE is perfect...then personality, height blah blah etc will follow after it

if you love someone for their persona...everything else will soon suit too...

but yes, people have individual preferences too and some women actually LIKE short men just like some like tall ones.

[MrOnline]

I'm from Yahorkhire :embar::embar::embar:

:rubeyes: ...Really? :up:

[so am i....shhhhh]

[ibn Iyaaz]

what if the girls reaaalllyy tall, she wouldnt wanna marry a shorty now would she?

Why is it ok for really taaallllll guys to marry shortiess but not reallly taallllll gals?:confused:

[MrOnline]

Why is it ok for really taaallllll guys to marry shortiess but not reallly taallllll gals?:confused:

I think it's because it emphases the idea that women are inferior to men. :coolbro:

[bitter_sweet]

Why is it ok for really taaallllll guys to marry shortiess but not reallly taallllll gals?:confused:

because it just looks wrong! the man's meant to look the big tough strong one out of the relationship. imagine the lass looking bigger and all butch compared to the man?

[MrOnline]

yes... but your too young for me!!

Stop Throwing Hints!!

What? :confused:

[angel*]

I'm from Yahorkhire :embar::embar::embar:

and i dont like the way u guys speak na na na na!:p :hidban::hidban::hidban:

[Joha]

as much as the northern sistahs are as mashaAllah MashaAllah.. i think id prefer a different accent either scoootish, irish or perhaps if there are still decent cool-headed friendly folks down London then the hoyty toyty arty farty accent of the souf!

Hmm, you're not as green as you're cabbage looking...but typical Asian behaviour :D, happy to stand up for your fellow northerners in everything, except when it really matters!

No worries, but it'll be hard finding a London lass who doesn't use straighteners, curlers, waxing machines, mascara, henna etc.... ya might have some trouble there :p

[bitter_sweet]

I think it's because it emphases the idea that women are inferior to men. :coolbro:

dont flatter yerself..

[bitter_sweet]

What? :confused:

hah, you said your from yorkshire too.

he thinks your hinting lol..

eh, hassnet, arnt you a guy?:S

[RoadWarrior]

Why is it ok for really taaallllll guys to marry shortiess but not reallly taallllll gals?:confused:

depends what culture. in asian cultures tall women are looked at like men

and someone said something about feet aswell, sometimes the guy and his family ask to look at the girls feet to see if she's big foot or not

crazy I know but that's culture

but I think what bitter sweet said has a part to play- the guy LOOKING like he is the 'protector' and 'strong' one etc

but like I said before, alot of women dont care about this I know plenty of women who are taller than their man and mashallah they are happy

[MrOnline]

dont flatter yerself..

It's true though. Men do see themselves as superior compared to women.

[RoadWarrior]

What? :confused:

hah, you said your from yorkshire too.

he thinks your hinting lol..

eh, hassnet, arnt you a guy?:S

oh you'll get used to hassnet...he's abit :wacko:

and yes he is a brother. mronline, he was joking with you...

[Hiking]

Skin Complexion
Looks

and Surname - Patel seems most exotic :inlove:

Exotic...is the local cornershop exotic? :p

[angel*]

Hmm, you're not as green as you're cabbage looking...but typical Asian behaviour :D, happy to stand up for your fellow northerners in everything, except when it really matters!

No worries, but it'll be hard finding a London lass who doesn't use straighteners, curlers, waxing machines, mascara, henna etc.... ya might have some trouble there :p

hmph! there is nothing wrong with using hair straightners or curlers!

[MrOnline]

he thinks your hinting lol..


Yeah i thought that as well.:rubeyes:

[MrOnline]

oh you'll get used to hassnet...he's abit :wacko:

and yes he is a brother. mronline, he was joking with you...

Ok. :1peace:

[RoadWarrior]

It's true though. Men do see themselves as superior compared to women.

stop using the wrong words...you're not gonna get far with women saying things like that! :smack:

Men are the mehram of their wives/daughters/sisters/mums etc

so they are to be their protectors/maintainers/supporters etc

so some men (not all) feel that if they are 'bigger' than their wife..they will feel MORE of a protector and feel like they're fulfilling their role better

and for same reason, some women prefer their husbands to be taller

[Hiking]

depends what culture. in asian cultures tall women are looked at like men

and someone said something about feet aswell, sometimes the guy and his family ask to look at the girls feet to see if she's big foot or not

crazy I know but that's culture

but I think what bitter sweet said has a part to play- the guy LOOKING like he is the 'protector' and 'strong' one etc

but like I said before, alot of women dont care about this I know plenty of women who are taller than their man and mashallah they are happy

looked at like men? :eek: (no, i'm not tall but that is a bit shocking)

and some people have taken to giving out...well...marriage CVs lol :rofl1:

[Joha]

hmph! there is nothing wrong with using hair straightners or curlers!

:D, there is if you're Hassnet's wife... just think of the fights in the morning before work

[bitter_sweet]

depends what culture. in asian cultures tall women are looked at like men

and someone said something about feet aswell, sometimes the guy and his family ask to look at the girls feet to see if she's big foot or not

crazy I know but that's culture

but I think what bitter sweet said has a part to play- the guy LOOKING like he is the 'protector' and 'strong' one etc

but like I said before, alot of women dont care about this I know plenty of women who are taller than their man and mashallah they are happy

BIG FEET?!:rubeyes:

and its just cause asian boys are so short:rolleyes:

[RoadWarrior]

looked at like men? :eek: (no, i'm not tall but that is a bit shocking)

and some people have taken to giving out...well...marriage CVs lol :rofl1:

LOLLL @ CV marriages!!

yeah @ men thing. because again, with the whole 'protector' status some men like to have, they say that tall women would overshadow their mehram-man-like status :wacko:

abit crazy but thats some men for you!!!

but then again you do get some tall women who are big bullies because all their life through school theyve been the 'biggest'. These are women who are tall AND BIG...not tall and slim..I think theres a difference..I dunno i'm talking rubbish now *zips*

[MrOnline]

stop using the wrong words...you're not gonna get far with women saying things like that! :smack:

...I wasn't speaking from a personal view-point, i was referring to men as a whole. Anyway, i think i'll button it (no more sexist lingo) before someone finds more flaws in what i have to say.

[Ebony]

Short men can make women feel masculine :eek3:

[RoadWarrior]

BIG FEET?!:rubeyes:

and its just cause asian boys are so short:rolleyes:

Yeh astagfirullah some families have that thinking...it's not from islam at all but I guess personal preference and thats important too

I don't think asians are short?

well bangalies and chinese are stereotypically short

but definitely not pakistanis or indians...they have a mix of height..they dont have any height stereotypes, not that ive come across

[ibn Iyaaz]

because it just looks wrong! the man's meant to look the big tough strong one out of the relationship. imagine the lass looking bigger and all butch compared to the man?

Tall doesn't necessarily equate to butch though, she could be the super model type.

[MrOnline]

BIG FEET?!:rubeyes:

and its just cause asian boys are so short:rolleyes:

Excuse me?!! :D

[MrOnline]

Dont worry about it ;), We need to hook up sometime :p

OK brother, PM me where you're from then. ;)

[RoadWarrior]

Excuse me?!! :D

that's what a mans height should be...in terms of average height

womans average height is 5'4-5'5 depending on ethnicity

TALL is over 6ft for men

and over 5'6 for women

I think :scratch:

[`asiya]

wow this has to be one of the most popular threads ever only open for 35 minutes and already were on page 7 :rubeyes:

what would i look for, love for seeking knowledge of this deen and applying it, sincerity & honesty .

[bitter_sweet]

Excuse me?!! :D

so?! . its not good enough a boy being JUST 5ft 10!!!!!!!!:scratch::smack:

[angel*]

Mr online - hassenet! :smack: *rollseyes*

Both of u shhh :torture:
:p

[ibn Iyaaz]

BIG FEET?!:rubeyes:

and its just cause asian boys are so short:rolleyes:

Well its not like its easy to find a tall Asian women either, but I've noticed lately, that people are getting way shorter. Not enough spaghetti, eh?:D

[MrOnline]

so?! im asian,female, 5ft 10. its not good enough a boy being JUST 5ft 10!!!!!!!!:scratch::smack:

You're 5ft 10? Well, good for you. I'll be 6ft in no time sis.

[angel*]

so?! im asian,female, 5ft 10. its not good enough a boy being JUST 5ft 10!!!!!!!!:scratch::smack:

yh LOL 6'2's about right for a guy

5'7 for us ladiesssss! :up:

[RoadWarrior]

so?! im asian,female, 5ft 10. its not good enough a boy being JUST 5ft 10!!!!!!!!:scratch::smack:

Do you think it;s wise to just dismiss someone by their height?

what if they were extremely pious and knowledgeable, kind sincere...??would that not matter??

hmm

anyway I think people who are not marrigeable age/ready to marry should not be participating in these threads...

[Joha]

.. who told you about my cabbage looks :o

Well, nothing wrong with having standards is there :p
:rofl1::rotfl: am blaming you if I die laughing...

Yeah, but seriously.. the northern lasses are advancing now too man.. even they've mastered the art of waxing, tashing and the like...
^^^ no, really? It'll be the end of civilisation as we know it. You can't have northern lasses that aren't earthy...

hope i haven't crossed the decency line

[Zesty]

yh LOL 6'2's about right! :up:

6ft 2 is perfect! ;)

[MrOnline]

what kinda asian are you? I think the viatnemese guys are cool :D

i posted a picture of one sometime back

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showpost.php?p=2478089&postcount=1

I'd rather not say, but i'm definitely not..

..that!

[Kubs]

A brain - something they all seem to lack :outta:

[RoadWarrior]

I'd rather not say, but i'm definitely not..

..that!

LOL if you read that thread...there was a dispute as to whether that pic was a man or a woman :rofl1:

[bitter_sweet]

yh LOL 6'2's about right for a guy

5'7 for us ladiesssss! :up:

make that 6'3':up:

[MrOnline]

yh LOL 6'2's about right for a guy

5'7 for us ladiesssss! :up:

6ft 2 is perfect! ;)

Personally, i'd be happy with 6ft/6ft'1. 6ft'2 would be awesome!

[Joha]

A brain - something they all seem to lack :outta:

reading this thread - a wise conclusion.

[MrOnline]

LOL if you read that thread...there was a dispute as to whether that pic was a man or a woman :rofl1:

It's a man/boy/male (whatever!). It's a freaky pic though. :confused:

[angel*]

6ft 2 is perfect! ;)

:rotfl: :rotfl: i soo agree! :hidban: :hidban:


A brain - something they all seem to lack :outta:

This has to be the most honest statment in the whole thread! :up:

[bitter_sweet]

its called STYLE!

its called a bit OVER gayy

[RoadWarrior]

its called STYLE!

gay style?

[MrOnline]

Behave yourself, i'ma report you to the mods if you continue with your flirtatious behaviour!! :torture:


Huh? Imagine that. I'm not flirting. Your a bloke for god's sake. :vomit:

I was just asking you to PM me where you were from. Oh bugger, nevermind.

[MrOnline]

its called STYLE!

Bro let's not lead this thread astray. Straighteners/Style may be discussed in any other thread, just not this one please. Jazakullah. :up:

[RoadWarrior]

well... whats wrong with looking a tad bit gay?:rolleyes:

homosexuality is haraam so to associate with such people through 'style' clothing looking would be wrong

[bitter_sweet]

well... whats wrong with looking a tad bit gay?:rolleyes:
okay the hairdo looks SORTA okay, but its just gay. i mean..specially if it was on a guji or a pakistani...that would be too gay. i dunno but for some reason they always look the most gay when it comes to gayness.

[angel*]

Behave yourself, i'ma report you to the mods if you continue with your flirtatious behaviour!! :torture:



nah, have to admit Masha'Allah 'aaaarr northern sisters are cool.. in everyway! Northern Lasses over Southern Fried ones anyyydayyy!

thats it - :torture::torture::torture::torture:

[bitter_sweet]

thats it - :torture::torture::torture::torture:

hehehheheheheheh. hes wierd that guy:S

[ibn Iyaaz]

its called STYLE!

I likes your TASHAN!:rotfl:

[MrOnline]

okay the hairdo looks SORTA okay, but its just gay. i mean..specially if it was on a guji or a pakistani...that would be too gay. i dunno but for some reason they always look the most gay when it comes to gayness.

The word "gay" is being used to casually and openly. Cut it out! Look, straighteners are a legendary item, which is used by both sexes. End of! :coolbro:

[bitter_sweet]

The word "gay" is being used to casually and openly. Cut it out! Look straighteners are a legendary item, which is used by both sexes. End of! :coolbro:

Mronline, stop getting so defensive when i talk about gayness!!!!im not calling you gay and i didnt even mention straightners!!!:o

[angel*]

hehehheheheheheh. hes wierd that guy:S

Hes been like that ever since i joined - always ahs been and looks like always will be! Helpless cause im afarid *hangs head*

[bitter_sweet]

hassnet therz a thread going on about men and pink tshirts....you gonna go join it?...

[RoadWarrior]

hehehheheheheheh. hes wierd that guy:S

dont say i didnt warn you

[Hiking]

Sumbuddy should make an anonymous height thread :p then we'd see if the height stereotypes of men and women (most women = short, most men = tall) are prevalent on ummah forum...:p (or not!!)

[urban_rose]

This thread is complete bakwaas, most of the posts dont relate to the original topic :rubeyes:

[MrOnline]

Mronline, stop getting so defensive when i talk about gayness!!!!im not calling you gay and i didnt even mention straightners!!!:o

Well, i hate the word "gay", for countless reasons. However, i do not wish to disclose these reasons. Anyway, i never said you were "calling me gay". :bangbang:

[MrOnline]

This thread is complete bakwaas, most of the posts dont relate to the original topic :rubeyes:

Yeah, and no thanks to "Hassnetwork" who's corrupted it all with all his gay/homosexuality nonsense.

[bitter_sweet]

Well, i hate the word "gay", for countless reasons. However, i do not wish to disclose these reasons. Anyway, i never said you were "calling me gay". :bangbang:

why did you bring up the straightner topic then?!

[bitter_sweet]

..

[urban_rose]

Yeah, and no thanks to "Hassnetwork" who's corrupted it all with all his gay/homosexuality nonsense.

to be fair, im sure he wasnt having a conversation with himself, otherwise the thread wouldnt have reached 5 pages...

[RoadWarrior]

:rubeyes:

hawt diggedy dawg!!!

this threads becoming fiestyyy

[MrOnline]

to be fair, im sure he wasnt having a conversation with himself, otherwise the thread wouldnt have reached 5 pages...

This talk you and i are having right now ain't exactly relating to the thread as well. Ideally, I think we should end our discussion here and relate to the topic as before.

[MrOnline]

Inshallah, soon this thread will be merged with the thread with the correct poll.