Alhamdulilah Allah did not make me a bimbo.....

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

:salams
just thought id share this...
ok, basically the other day at uni...there where these hijabi's that where sitting on a bench..then along came this dude (muslim, maybe practicing-ish ...Allah a'alem)...who sits right next to one of the girls...(like literaly.. right next to her) and they start pushing each other off the bench!!!
the guy knocked one of the girls off the bench....she went flying..!! :eek:
basically, what im saying is...these girls who where wearing hijab (well, not really...cause it was like hijab with no arms) where interacting with this guy
.....in a manner that was sooooooo embarassing!
on my way home, i was thinking...to them this is totally normal..because their mentality is kinda messed up...lol!
no for real, i was really upset because people honestly dont realise but...just walking down the street your representing islam..and you should be proud! everything was wrong..their behaviour...their dress...everything!!
and they where laughing and screaming really loud ......no sence of shame what so ever :S
....i just thought i'd remind everyone (remind myself first ..) that being a muslims, we must behave with haya and respect..and be an example to others.
and of course we must remember to thank Allah for not making us a bimbo!!
...for blesssing us with a brain and giving us the intellect to use it..
All praise is due to Allah (...ok that should have gona at the top...oops)
:wswrwb:

[R3FL3CT]

It is imperative for us to act as role models for those who have not been guided in the same way we have by Allah :Swt: Alhamdulillah for the Eeman we have.

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

It is imperative for us to act as role models for those who have not been guided in the same way we have by Allah :Swt: Alhamdulillah for the Eeman we have.
:salams
confused :confused:...?????
the post was not intended to get everyone to become the ideal role model.
it was a remainder...and was intended to show how different mentalities causes extreme difference in behaviour and manners.

[R3FL3CT]

:salams
confused :confused:...?????
the post was not intended to get everyone to become the ideal role model.
it was a remainder...and was intended to show how different mentalities causes extreme difference in behaviour and manners.









:wswrwb:

I'm sorry sister if I came across that way : I guess maybe my post was a reminder of our need to portray the perfect Muslim character in public.

[WahYaLookin'At?]

JazakiAllahu khair for the reminder, I'm sure everyones experienced a blonde moment, what did you say to the sisters?/ the brother?

Or did you just walk away?

AsalamuAlaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

JazakiAllahu khair for the reminder, I'm sure everyones experienced a blonde moment, what did you say to the sisters?/ the brother?

Or did you just walk away?

AsalamuAlaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
:salams
i was just gonna post...'what do you say to these people...and how?'
my friend was going to go up to them...but they where kinda like wrestling each other...it was sooo weird and then they just kept moving around...like from bench to bench....
see, if it was just sisters..you feel a bit more comfortable in approaching them..

[Kubs]

:salams
just thought id share this...
ok, basically the other day at uni...there where these hijabi's that where sitting on a bench..then along came this dude (muslim, maybe practicing-ish ...Allah a'alem)...who sits right next to one of the girls...(like literaly.. right next to her) and they start pushing each other off the bench!!!
the guy knocked one of the girls off the bench....she went flying..!! :eek:
basically, what im saying is...these girls who where wearing hijab (well, not really...cause it was like hijab with no arms) where interacting with this guy
.....in a manner that was sooooooo embarassing!
on my way home, i was thinking...to them this is totally normal..because their mentality is kinda messed up...lol!
no for real, i was really upset because people honestly dont realise but...just walking down the street your representing islam..and you should be proud! everything was wrong..their behaviour...their dress...everything!!
and they where laughing and screaming really loud ......no sence of shame what so ever :S
....i just thought i'd remind everyone (remind myself first ..) that being a muslims, we must behave with haya and respect..and be an example to others.
and of course we must remember to thank Allah for not making us a bimbo!!
...for blesssing us with a brain and giving us the intellect to use it..
All praise is due to Allah (...ok that should have gona at the top...oops)
:wswrwb:

What a bimbo! :rubeyes:

[Kubs]

:salams
i was just gonna post...'what do you say to these people...and how?'
my friend was going to go up to them...but they where kinda like wrestling each other...it was sooo weird and then they just kept moving around...like from bench to bench....
see, if it was just sisters..you feel a bit more comfortable in approaching them..

lol...you shouldn't have stopped your friend :o

[WahYaLookin'At?]

:salams
i was just gonna post...'what do you say to these people...and how?'
my friend was going to go up to them...but they where kinda like wrestling each other...it was sooo weird and then they just kept moving around...like from bench to bench....
see, if it was just sisters..you feel a bit more comfortable in approaching them..

WalaykumSalaam Warahmatullaah,

Ahh I see, next time you see them, take your hijab pins and poke them!

Not the brother! spare the poking, get one of the brothers to do this > :torture:

But really they need to be approached by someone, they might just not realise, I know loads of brothers and sisters who shake hands with eachother, they don't realise how disgustingly disgusting it is,

You just need to make them aware of these things,

It may all be very innocent,

AsalamuAlaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

[Jihaan]

What a bimbo! :rubeyes:

Dude don't be mean :p

[Kubs]

Dude don't be mean :P

But I hate bimbo's :outta:

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

lol...you shouldn't have stopped your friend :o
yea....she would have really put a stop to it!

[Kubs]

WalaykumSalaam Warahmatullaah,

Ahh I see, next time you see them, take your hijab pins and poke them!

Not the brother! spare the poking, get one of the brothers to do this > :torture:

But really they need to be approached by someone, they might just not realise, I know loads of brothers and sisters who shake hands with eachother, they don't realise how disgustingly disgusting it is,

You just need to make them aware of these things,

It may all be very innocent,

AsalamuAlaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

My sentiments exactly.

Though these girls should be given naseeha in private. It's not good NOR Islamic to embarass them further.

[Kubs]

yea....she would have really put a stop to it!

:D

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

WalaykumSalaam Warahmatullaah,

Ahh I see, next time you see them, take your hijab pins and poke them!

Not the brother! spare the poking, get one of the brothers to do this > :torture:

But really they need to be approached by someone, they might just not realise, I know loads of brothers and sisters who shake hands with eachother, they don't realise how disgustingly disgusting it is,

You just need to make them aware of these things,

It may all be very innocent,

AsalamuAlaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.
:salams
yea...they really do

But I hate bimbo's :outta:
see, they really anger me....but some people honestly, think this type of behaviour is completely normal!!!:eek:

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

My sentiments exactly.

Though these girls should be given naseeha in private. It's not good NOR Islamic to embarass them further.
exactly....that was not the place nor the time
...but whats the chances your gona bump into them in the prayer room
so how do you go about it???

[WahYaLookin'At?]

My sentiments exactly.

Though these girls should be given naseeha in private. It's not good NOR Islamic to embarass them further.


Agreed. *Smile*

[Jihaan]

But I hate bimbo's :outta:

Yeah but I just think we should focus on how to give them naseeha rather than being greatful that we are not like them and mocking them.

"O ye who believe! Let not a folk deride a folk who may be better than they (are), not let women (deride) women who may be better than they are; neither defame one another, nor insult one another by nicknames. Bad is the name of lewdness after faith. And whoso turneth not in repentance, such are evil-doers."
(Al-Hujraat, Chapter 49, Verse 11)


We don't know that they could be doing just one deed that is more pleasing to Allah then all ours put together. Allahu Alim

" We used to say that those amongst us with the most sins are those who spend their time talking about the sins of others."
-Muhammad ibn Sireen

[R3FL3CT]

I would make friends with these sisters just to give naseehah. End of story.

[IbnAbdulHakim]

yeh its sick.

once my friend gave a SERIOUS khutbah about free-mixing and flirting with opp gender etc and RIGHT after the khutbah you see the boys an other muslim girls flirtin and acting all friendly. Some of my friends got hot headed but we stopped them too...

i really dunno, we give em naseehah as much as we could. Are we allowed to turn them around and slap theM? lol i dont think other then talking theres much more we can do...


Assalamu Alaikum


ps/.... it really hurts when your own people become bimbo's...

[WahYaLookin'At?]

yeh its sick.

once my friend gave a SERIOUS khutbah about free-mixing and flirting with opp gender etc and RIGHT after the khutbah you see the boys an other muslim girls flirtin and acting all friendly. Some of my friends got hot headed but we stopped them too...

i really dunno, we give em naseehah as much as we could. Are we allowed to turn them around and slap theM? lol i dont think other then talking theres much more we can do...


Assalamu Alaikum


No no not the face, wak em on the head?!

And speak to em privately,

Nice quote Jihaan! MashaAllah,

AsalamuAlaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

i really dunno, we give em naseehah as much as we could. Are we allowed to turn them around and slap theM? lol i dont think other then talking theres much more we can do...
Assalamu Alaikum
ps/.... it really hurts when your own people become bimbo's...
walaykum asalam
loool...hit them on the head!...i actually felt like strangeling them...especially the 'hijabi' with no arms..:rubeyes:
yea, its really does hurt when the sick manners and mentality of the kuffar effect the muslims....

[IbnAbdulHakim]

And speak to em privately,.

wat?!

they just went through a whooole khutbah and when my friends give khutbah they look DIRECTLY INTO THE EYES of the brothers they KNOW to be in the sin as in to address them! obviously they lower their heads in shame! but im saying these brothers KNOW it (like literally 5 mins they heard it) and they KNOW we are gonna walk past em (coz we need to in order to exit the uni) so.....


anyway, not all of us can get a stick like umar n wack em up. if only eh


Assalamu Alaikum

[WahYaLookin'At?]

wat?!

they just went through a whooole khutbah and when my friends give khutbah they look DIRECTLY INTO THE EYES of the brothers they KNOW to be in the sin as in to address them! obviously they lower their heads in shame! but im saying these brothers KNOW it (like literally 5 mins they heard it) and they KNOW we are gonna walk past em (coz we need to in order to exit the uni) so.....


anyway, not all of us can get a stick like umar n wack em up. if only eh


Assalamu Alaikum

WalaykumSalaam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh,

Where do they live?

Nah serious.

[IbnAbdulHakim]

walaykum asalam

yea, its really does hurt when the sick manners and mentality of the kuffar effect the muslims....

nono ukhtee i think you missed my point. I meant when someone you really loved, admired and looked up to, thought of as pious and such a decent muslim, turns around oneday and gives into every desire hidden within the nafs. Thats what hurts, its like watching a brother being dragged away in chaines, and you try uselessly hack away at the chains with your fists but to no avail...


sorry for the dramatisation :|


Assalamu Alaikum

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

wat?!
they just went through a whooole khutbah and when my friends give khutbah they look DIRECTLY INTO THE EYES of the brothers they KNOW to be in the sin as in to address them! obviously they lower their heads in shame! but im saying these brothers KNOW it (like literally 5 mins they heard it) and they KNOW we are gonna walk past em (coz we need to in order to exit the uni) so.....

anyway, not all of us can get a stick like umar n wack em up. if only eh
Assalamu Alaikum
it doesnt matter how angry you feel akhy, nasseha really does have to be given in private.

[Kubs]

Yeah but I just think we should focus on how to give them naseeha rather than being greatful that we are not like them and mocking them.

"O ye who believe! Let not a folk deride a folk who may be better than they (are), not let women (deride) women who may be better than they are; neither defame one another, nor insult one another by nicknames. Bad is the name of lewdness after faith. And whoso turneth not in repentance, such are evil-doers."
(Al-Hujraat, Chapter 49, Verse 11)


We don't know that they could be doing just one deed that is more pleasing to Allah then all ours put together. Allahu Alim

" We used to say that those amongst us with the most sins are those who spend their time talking about the sins of others."
-Muhammad ibn Sireen

Yes everyone has their faults. No one is perfect - but this is NO excuse for their behaviour.

I personally just don't like them....the way they behave....the way they DEFEAT the purpose of wearing the hijab.....the way they embarass themselves.....the way they set a bad example on the non muslims. I just feel sorry for them.

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

nono ukhtee i think you missed my point. I meant when someone you really loved, admired and looked up to, thought of as pious and such a decent muslim, turns around oneday and gives into every desire hidden within the nafs. Thats what hurts, its like watching a brother being dragged away in chaines, and you try uselessly hack away at the chains with your fists but to no avail...
sorry for the dramatisation :|
Assalamu Alaikum
walaykum asalam
ooohh...ok, i understand, thats really bad. May Allah guide us all ~ Ameen.
but..love for your brother what you would love for yourself..so, to be honest this is the case with any muslim.
...but i do see what you mean!

[IbnAbdulHakim]

Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barakatuh


WalaykumSalaam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh,

Where do they live?

Nah serious.

on MSN/hi5 and facebook.


it doesnt matter how angry you feel akhy, nasseha really does have to be given in private.

not angry at all, just a bit surprised at the ignorance.
what happened to a guilty conciounce sis? no seriously what happened to it?
you know people normally say "who cares what people think?" and generally i would agree with that but the thing is these brothers DO care about what people think, they care about hurtin the feelins of those girls when they leave em... you kno the ones who come buggin you pushin n huggin you wonderin why you dont chat to them no more? those ones... so they give priority to dunyafied people over mu'mins islaam and above all Allaah.

i hope you get what i mean...


honestly im not angry and was never angry. some of my friends were though.


Assalamu Alaikum

[RaNdOm]

Yeah but I just think we should focus on how to give them naseeha rather than being greatful that we are not like them and mocking them.

"O ye who believe! Let not a folk deride a folk who may be better than they (are), not let women (deride) women who may be better than they are; neither defame one another, nor insult one another by nicknames. Bad is the name of lewdness after faith. And whoso turneth not in repentance, such are evil-doers."
(Al-Hujraat, Chapter 49, Verse 11)


We don't know that they could be doing just one deed that is more pleasing to Allah then all ours put together. Allahu Alim

" We used to say that those amongst us with the most sins are those who spend their time talking about the sins of others."
-Muhammad ibn Sireen

:salams

yeh i agree tabarakAllah...

especially since everyones in a learning curve and right now they might be in a stage of their life where they don't have as much understanding and love for the deen as others might... but inshaAllah they'll learn...

and i've never heard the last quote before... but it makes sense, when theres someone talking about how disrespectful or distasteful sumt is that someone else did... it makes the person talking about it shine in a kinda ugly light... cos EVERYONE sins... and who says sumt they might have done won't take them straight to jannah inshaAllah...

that doesn't mean we should just let people prance about doing whatever they like... but talking about people who sin, seems kinda raw... like just imagine someone wasn't as practicing came across that on the forum, all they'd think is right so they have the holier than thou attitude, i don't need them kinda people around...

rather inshaAllah we should all try and make excuses for them... and that way inshaAllah they'd see that we really do leave it to Allah swt to judge..

[Kubs]

Let me give you a few example hadiths:

'Islam consists of good manner'

'Facilitate things to people (concerning religious matters), and do not make it hard for them and give them good tidings and do not cause repulsion.'

One of the sayings of the early Prophets which the people have got is 'If YOU don't feel ashamed, do whatever YOU like.'

'The one who direct people to do good works is regarded as a person who has committed it.' ----- in this case..it would be giving naseeha.

'The one who amongst you sees something abominable should modifty it with the help of his hand; and if he has not strength enough to do it, then he should do it with his tongue, and if he has not strength enough to do it, (even) then he should (abhor it) from his heart, and that is the LEAST of faith.'

:up:

[WahYaLookin'At?]

Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barakatuh

on MSN/hi5 and facebook.



WalaykumSalaam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh,

Yes!

I'm on all three of them.

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

:salams

yeh i agree tabarakAllah...

especially since everyones in a learning curve and right now they might be in a stage of their life where they don't have as much understanding and love for the deen as others might... but inshaAllah they'll learn...

and i've never heard the last quote before... but it makes sense, when theres someone talking about how disrespectful or distasteful sumt is that someone else did... it makes the person talking about it shine in a kinda ugly light... cos EVERYONE sins... and who says sumt they might have done won't take them straight to jannah inshaAllah...

that doesn't mean we should just let people prance about doing whatever they like... but talking about people who sin, seems kinda raw... like just imagine someone wasn't as practicing came across that on the forum, all they'd think is right so they have the holier than thou attitude, i don't need them kinda people around...

rather inshaAllah we should all try and make excuses for them... and that way inshaAllah they'd see that we really do leave it to Allah swt to judge..
walaykum asalam
its not about talking about peopels sins...i just wanted it to be a remainder to everyone (including myself)....none of us are perfect!!!
judgment lies with Allah alone..i agree we do not know what these people do when they are on their own...and Allah is the best of judges.
but my point is...people actually believe this to be acceptable behaviour...how do you go about telling them it is most definately not!

[IbnAbdulHakim]

WalaykumSalaam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh,

Yes!

I'm on all three of them.

^ i thought MSN makes you sick and you uninstalled it?


*:S....:confused:....:S*

i got two of them on my MSN (the bad ones) and they have a lot of f words in the user name so it really puts me off giving them naseehah... i mean REALLY puts me off... i can feel myself wanting to kick them...



assalamu Alaikum


sorry if i took this thread the wrong way thread opener..

[RaNdOm]

walaykum asalam
its not about talking about peoples sins...i just wanted it to be a remainder to everyone (including myself)
judgment lies with Allah alone..i agree we do not know what these people do when they are on their own...and Allah is the best of judges.
but my point is...people actually believe this to be normal behaviour...how do you go about telling them it is most definately not!

:salams

lol :up:

it could have been her brother? or her uncle or sumt? if u knew for sure it wasn't then maybe let her know in a way that wouldn't put her down so much that she'd start hatin on muslims... people need to work on their emaan and love of Allah swt and then they'll naturally WANT to come away from sins, so maybe if u befriend her and help her come closer to the deen inshaAllah... otherwise all it is a bunch of people telling about these rules where they need to do this and that...

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

:salams

lol :up:

it could have been her brother? or her uncle or sumt? if u knew for sure it wasn't then maybe let her know in a way that wouldn't put her down so much that she'd start hatin on muslims... people need to work on their emaan and love of Allah swt and then they'll naturally WANT to come away from sins, so maybe if u befriend her and help her come closer to the deen inshaAllah... otherwise all it is a bunch of people telling about these rules where they need to do this and that...
walaykum asalam
ok..definately not her brother or her uncle...and there was like 5/ 6 girls and 2 guys....they cant all be related in that way....lol! and it was at uni!

[GuCcI]

heh...

[Pippin1376]

:salams
just thought id share this...
ok, basically the other day at uni...there where these hijabi's that where sitting on a bench..then along came this dude (muslim, maybe practicing-ish ...Allah a'alem)...who sits right next to one of the girls...(like literaly.. right next to her) and they start pushing each other off the bench!!!
the guy knocked one of the girls off the bench....she went flying..!! :eek:
basically, what im saying is...these girls who where wearing hijab (well, not really...cause it was like hijab with no arms) where interacting with this guy
.....in a manner that was sooooooo embarassing!
on my way home, i was thinking...to them this is totally normal..because their mentality is kinda messed up...lol!
no for real, i was really upset because people honestly dont realise but...just walking down the street your representing islam..and you should be proud! everything was wrong..their behaviour...their dress...everything!!
and they where laughing and screaming really loud ......no sence of shame what so ever :S
....i just thought i'd remind everyone (remind myself first ..) that being a muslims, we must behave with haya and respect..and be an example to others.
and of course we must remember to thank Allah for not making us a bimbo!!
...for blesssing us with a brain and giving us the intellect to use it..
All praise is due to Allah (...ok that should have gona at the top...oops)
:wswrwb:

Maybe they were siblings? I remember my brother and I would push each other a lot while walking home from school.

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

Maybe they were siblings? I remember my brother and I would push each other a lot while walking home from school.

:salams
ok, i promise im not trying to make someones sins public...or make them look bad or anything like that!!
but..this was at uni...5/6 girls and 2 guys...in public....very public!
and lets say for the sake of argument..they where all siblings who attended the same uni!....would you honestly act like that in public ( screaming and laughing really loud) with all your sibling
.....if i had a brother he would knock me out for doing that!!!!

[Pippin1376]

I wouldn't be screaming, but if he said something funny or I thought of something funny I'd laugh.

But I do agree that the behaviour was wrong, I think before we jump to any unislamic conclusions we should look at every possible answer. If they are all related, then this wouldn't be too bad. If they are not, then is it wrong, yes. But if you see it then you should simply ask them to tone it down.

[Stylish-Girly]

Funny about the one who goes flyin off and very stupid, immodest behaviour.. i like the thread title haha

[Russo]

:salams
just thought id share this...
ok, basically the other day at uni...there where these hijabi's that where sitting on a bench..then along came this dude (muslim, maybe practicing-ish ...Allah a'alem)...who sits right next to one of the girls...(like literaly.. right next to her) and they start pushing each other off the bench!!!
the guy knocked one of the girls off the bench....she went flying..!! :eek:
basically, what im saying is...these girls who where wearing hijab (well, not really...cause it was like hijab with no arms) where interacting with this guy
.....in a manner that was sooooooo embarassing!
on my way home, i was thinking...to them this is totally normal..because their mentality is kinda messed up...lol!
no for real, i was really upset because people honestly dont realise but...just walking down the street your representing islam..and you should be proud! everything was wrong..their behaviour...their dress...everything!!
and they where laughing and screaming really loud ......no sence of shame what so ever :S
....i just thought i'd remind everyone (remind myself first ..) that being a muslims, we must behave with haya and respect..and be an example to others.
and of course we must remember to thank Allah for not making us a bimbo!!
...for blesssing us with a brain and giving us the intellect to use it..
All praise is due to Allah (...ok that should have gona at the top...oops)
:wswrwb:


This reminds me of the time when I was sitting on a train and it wasnt that busy. This very young couple got on. One guy was wearing a thobe and the girl was wearing hijab and they were sitting at the back of the train.

I could hear them kissing. I KNOW they werent married! Dont ask me how I know - I just know. I felt like getting up and telling them I could hear them slurping away but I decided not to cause I didnt want them shouting in my face. These days ppl react very angrily and I didnt want the grief!

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

This reminds me of the time when I was sitting on a train and it wasnt that busy. This very young couple got on. One guy was wearing a thobe and the girl was wearing hijab and they were sitting at the back of the train.

I could hear them kissing. I KNOW they werent married! Dont ask me how I know - I just know. I felt like getting up and telling them I could hear them slurping away but I decided not to cause I didnt want them shouting in my face. These days ppl react very angrily and I didnt want the grief!
:salams
ok, you dont have any proof that they were'nt married!
...but they, should'nt be doing that even if they were..
:(.. :crying:...where is this once great ummah heading ...???

[Anikaa]

As-Salaamu alaykum ukhtee

:jkk: for the reminding us that we should have haya', but insha-Allah next time try and use a better title and refrain from labelling your sisters in islaam as "bimbos." Rather, you should make duaa' for them and remind your fellow brethren to do the same to those muslimeen they know that are upon a destructive path. I wasn't practicing a time in my life and now i am al-humdulillaah and to be honest, i'd be really upset to be called a bimbo because of the fact i wasn't practicing before.

Insha-Allah you get what i'm saying:)

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

As-Salaamu alaykum ukhtee

:jkk: for the reminding us that we should have haya', but insha-Allah next time try and use a better title and refrain from labelling your sisters in islaam as "bimbos." Rather, you should make duaa' for them and remind your fellow brethren to do the same to those muslimeen they know that are upon a destructive path. I wasn't practicing a time in my life and now i am al-humdulillaah and to be honest, i'd be really upset to be called a bimbo because of the fact i wasn't practicing before.

Insha-Allah you get what i'm saying:)
walaykum asalam
wa iyyaki ya ukhti..
yes, you are right....we should make du'a for them and the title is kinda unappropriate...i apoligise to anyone who has taken this offensively.
Ya Allah guide us all to the straight path and help and strengthen the believing women with thier hijab...make us upon the sunnah of our beloved rasoulallah :saw: and strengthen our imaan
~Allahum ameen!!!!

[Anikaa]

walaykum asalam
wa iyyaki ya ukhti..
yes, you are right....we should make du'a for them and the title is kinda unappropriate...i apoligise to anyone who has taken this offensively.
Ya Allah guide us all to the straight path and help and strengthen the believing women with thier hijab...make us upon the sunnah of our beloved rasoulallah :saw: and strengthen our imaan
~Allahum ameen!!!!

thumma ameen. :jkk:

[Souljette]

Ameen

[MMS]

do ya know that in environments like uni/college etc the less practicing Muslims feel afraid to come into the prayer room or islamic talks or mix with the isoc because they feel like the practicing Muslims will be thinking OMG what is she wearing, how disgusting etc and just basically judging them

any Muslim who wasn't a saint to begin with may recall these times, we easily forget though

[Eemaan]

bloke bimbos are the worst.

during ramdhan we had this big drive to get the kids to come pray salah and when i asked the older lads to come pray they said 'miss we dont got wudhu'

i said 'fine' go make it you still have time.

boys 'miss we dont wanna mess up our hair, takes too long to sort the spikes out agen'.

:smack:

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

:salams
...i know this thread is old..sorry, it seemed pointless making a new one.
basically, these sisters which i have refered to as bimbos (yes...i know, i shouldnt have ...its really judgemental and mean) have continued to behave in this manner.
the thing is i now see them around in the library..like nearly everyday, and naseeha really really needs to be given.....i dont want to go in to it too much but basically they where doing stuff your sooo not meant to do!
anyway, if anyone has any suggustions on how to approach them...the thing is there always with these guys..which makes me really uncomfortable.
but like i said...naseeha really needs to be given to them.

[Kubs]

:salams
...i know this thread is old..sorry, it seemed pointless making a new one.
basically, these sisters which i have refered to as bimbos (yes...i know, i shouldnt have ...its really judgemental and mean) have continued to behave in this manner.
the thing is i now see them around in the library..like nearly everyday, and naseeha really really needs to be given.....i dont want to go in to it too much but basically they where doing stuff your sooo not meant to do!
anyway, if anyone has any suggustions on how to approach them...the thing is there always with these guys..which makes me really uncomfortable.
but like i said...naseeha really needs to be given to them.


Okay...firstly naseeha should be given - but in private.

Grab (not literally :p) a few sisters who are willing to help you out. It's not a big deal...just approach one of them...and say 'sister, may I speak to you in private?'

And then say what you have to say.....in a polite and respectful way of course. No critisizing and no looking down on them. Read my signature Inshallah. :up:

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

Okay...firstly naseeha should be given - but in private.

Grab (not literally :p) a few sisters who are willing to help you out. It's not a big deal...just approach one of them...and say 'sister, may I speak to you in private?'

And then say what you have to say.....in a polite and respectful way of course. No critisizing and no looking down on them. Read my signature Inshallah. :up:
yea, definately speaking to them in private..
i duno (i feel really bad saying this but...what if they really dont want to know)...cause a sisters left a note on the table..something along the lines of ...we should remember Allah is watching us.
but, still the message obviously didnt get through cause that was like a week ago.
ok...if it all goes wrong im gona come and get you!

[Omar Mukhtar]

take picture of them doing whatever they do, show to them and tell them your gonna show it to their parents unless they stop doing what their not meant to be doing.

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

take picture of them doing whatever they do, show to them and tell them your gonan show it to their parents unless they stop doing hat their not meant to be doing.
errmmm...jazakallah khair for the thought. but, i was thinking something like lill bit more practical :p lol

[Kubs]

yea, definately speaking to them in private..
i duno (i feel really bad saying this but...what if they really dont want to know)...cause a sisters left a note on the table..something along the lines of ...we should remember Allah is watching us.
but, still the message obviuosly didnt get through cause that was like a week ago.
ok...if it all goes wrong im gona come and get you!

No seriously....it's better when it's face to face.

'We should remember Allah is watching us' - not a practical advice in my opinion. You didn't explain the reasoning behind the note.

You don't need to come and get me. I'll do it Inshallah. :up:

[Reema]

take picture of them doing whatever they do, show to them and tell them your gonna show it to their parents unless they stop doing what their not meant to be doing.

That kind of behaviour is disgraceful. If someone wherever was to take a photo of me on the train or wherever doing whatever, I would get up smash their face and destroy their phone probably against their head too, hopefully that would teach them something about respecting peoples privacy.

This thread is just as stupid and one of the most stupidest I have ever come across on this board starting with the thread title.

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

No seriously....it's better when it's face to face.

'We should remember Allah is watching us' - not a practical advice in my opinion. You didn't explain the reasoning behind the note.

You don't need to come and get me. I'll do it Inshallah. :up:
oh no i didnt leave a note...another sister did but im not sure what else was in the note.
lol..if you wana do it go ahead...you do know the girls im talking about, right??
one of the girls seems alright i might just speak to her.

[UkhtAlMuslimeen]

This thread is just as stupid and one of the most stupidest I have ever come across on this board starting with the thread title.
:salams
sister, i know i was wrong to use that title... and i have already said im sorry if anyone is offended.
forgive me but...wallah i have seen really stupid stuff on this site, and this really does not compare.

[Kubs]

This thread is just as stupid and one of the most stupidest I have ever come across on this board starting with the thread title.

How is it stupid? :eek3:

UkhtAlMuslimeen is genuinely concerned about those sisters - if you saw how they behaved in public, you wouldn't be able to ignore it. It's really off putting. They do it in front of everyone and not only are they embarassing themselves, but they are also embarassing others.

''He who guides to goodness is like the one who does goodness.''

The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said: “If you see something wrong, change it with your hands. If you cannot change it with your hands, change it with your tongue. And if you cannot even do this, at least change it in your heart, and this shows the weakest of faith.”

The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) also taught his followers, “to speak the truth, even though it be bitter.”

Bear in mind it's extremely important to appraoch these girls in a kind, respectful and polite way - otherwise they would feel like we are lecturing them.

[Kubs]

lol..if you wana do it go ahead...you do know the girls im talking about, right??
one of the girls seems alright i might just speak to her.


I don't mind.

[Omar Mukhtar]

That kind of behaviour is disgraceful. If someone wherever was to take a photo of me on the train or wherever doing whatever, I would get up smash their face and destroy their phone probably against their head too, hopefully that would teach them something about respecting peoples privacy.

This thread is just as stupid and one of the most stupidest I have ever come across on this board starting with the thread title.

You need to chill sis. and btw if that's how you feel how about people taking your pictures, you should try smashing those cameras they have on trains and buses, teach em lesson about respecting peoples privacy.

[afsalim]

Nice thread title btw.... :up: