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ana_mujahid
05-04-08, 04:04 PM
does it really matter?

-Espérer-
05-04-08, 04:07 PM
i think not. hadhrat kadija was older than the prophet, no? :)

THE PATH 2
05-04-08, 04:10 PM
no one today can compare to prophet s.a.w. or mother khadijah r.a.

each individual today must be mature and compatible

eshanz
05-04-08, 04:41 PM
its all about the older woman :D
i would luv to marry an older woman, but i always seem to find someone younger :(. ahh well as long as she is a muslim then its all good, wat is age but a number :D

Ibn Khattab
05-04-08, 04:55 PM
I wouldnt mind at all :)

R3FL3CT
05-04-08, 07:41 PM
It would aggravate me if my wife was older than me.

beamz
05-04-08, 08:59 PM
I dont know about the male point of view towards marrying a older women but i being a girl wouldnt bother older, younger who cares besides its just a number, as long as hes still got his own teeth :up:

sunrise
05-04-08, 09:04 PM
It would aggravate me if my wife was older than me.


aren't u female tho?:rubeyes:

R3FL3CT
05-04-08, 09:05 PM
aren't u female tho?:rubeyes:

Yes : Which it was it would aggravate me to have a wife older than me.

beamz
05-04-08, 09:07 PM
what? your not making sense :rubeyes::confused:

R3FL3CT
05-04-08, 09:09 PM
what? your not making sense :rubeyes::confused:

I am a sister, I would never in a million years have a wife : the above is just my attempt at a joke : seems I failed miserably. Oh well : life reeks of failure.

Astraeus
05-04-08, 09:27 PM
No, I would have no problem marrying an older woman.

Stylish-Girly
05-04-08, 10:47 PM
I am a sister, I would never in a million years have a wife : the above is just my attempt at a joke : seems I failed miserably. Oh well : life reeks of failure.

Haha okay that was funny man

R3FL3CT
05-04-08, 10:52 PM
Haha okay that was funny man

Glad you cracked a smile

Sulaiman Harun
06-04-08, 04:43 AM
:start:

:salams in my opinion its better to have an elder wife since she would take better care of you

Phoenix CG
06-04-08, 08:37 AM
I would say yes, but in reality, no. I would prefer not.

ify
06-04-08, 09:06 AM
:start:

:salams in my opinion its better to have an elder wife since she would take better care of you
:salams

lool that reminds me of my grandparents - my grans older than ma g.dad n he takes care of my gran - does most of the housework n even cooks sumtimes (though that might be more to do with my nans cooking :scratch: :outta: - naa she cooks luvly :love: lol) it's cute :D

sunrise
06-04-08, 08:14 PM
:salams

lool that reminds me of my grandparents - my grans older than ma g.dad n he takes care of my gran - does most of the housework n even cooks sumtimes (though that might be more to do with my nans cooking :scratch: :outta: - naa she cooks luvly :love: lol) it's cute :D


he is saying the opposite 2u lol

ify
06-04-08, 08:16 PM
he is saying the opposite 2u lol
lol exactly...:outta:

Ibrahim70
06-04-08, 08:20 PM
Age is just a number so it doesnt matter to me whether my future wife is younger or older than me. As long as she is a praticising Muslimah who fears Allah (swt) and has a good heart them she will do me ;)

beamz
06-04-08, 08:24 PM
Age is just a number so it doesnt matter to me whether my future wife is younger or older than me. As long as she is a praticising Muslimah who fears Allah (swt) and has a good heart them she will do me ;)

your not married yet....... :)

Ibrahim70
06-04-08, 08:25 PM
your not married yet....... :)

Nope.

beamz
06-04-08, 08:29 PM
I agree with what you said 100% age is just a number, doesnt matter, seeing a person for who they really are matters within reason.......

Ibrahim70
06-04-08, 08:31 PM
I agree with what you said 100% age is just a number, doesnt matter, seeing a person for who they really are matters within reason.......

Exactly. Age doesnt matter at all if in your eyes they are the one for you, the one you have waited all your life for, the one you have dreamed about but never thought you would meet. :)

beamz
06-04-08, 08:34 PM
MashaAllah brother wise words, if only everyone thinks like that

Ibrahim70
06-04-08, 08:35 PM
MashaAllah brother wise words, if only everyone thinks like that

Whether they do or dont is not the point...........they SHOULD, because then the Ummah will have beauitufl marriages all through it, loving caring families and grow and grow!! :D

Saudi Prince
06-04-08, 08:42 PM
I agree with what you said 100% age is just a number, doesnt matter, seeing a person for who they really are matters within reason.......

Can you marry someone who is 50 for example? Don't tell me 50 is not a number. ;)

beamz
06-04-08, 08:51 PM
Can you marry someone who is 50 for example? Don't tell me 50 is not a number. ;)

I said within reason bro, but yes in 20 years time :)

Saudi Prince
06-04-08, 08:58 PM
I said within reason bro, but yes in 20 years time :)

You're around 20 so will you marry someone who is 50? He's nice, generous, religious, well-mannered and handsome. An attempting offer, will you accept it and remember the 50 is just a number as you said. ;)

beamz
06-04-08, 09:06 PM
You're around 20 so will you marry someone who is 50? He's nice, generous, religious, well-mannered and handsome. An attempting offer, will you accept it and remember the 50 is just a number as you said. ;)

Bro are you even listening i said within reason

Saudi Prince
06-04-08, 09:18 PM
Maybe :)

Why is it 'maybe'? Can't it be yes or no? Do you think there is any info missing?

beamz
06-04-08, 09:27 PM
Dont know whats happening to my posts. Anyhow all people are different Saudia Prince, with me its personality etc. age comes last, if it does. maybe it doesnt sometimes :up:

Stogie
06-04-08, 11:42 PM
You're around 20 so will you marry someone who is 50? He's nice, generous, religious, well-mannered and handsome. An attempting offer, will you accept it and remember the 50 is just a number as you said. ;)

You sound creepy, and desperate.

Saudi Prince
06-04-08, 11:46 PM
Dont know whats happening to my posts. Anyhow all people are different Saudia Prince, with me its personality etc. age comes last, if it does. maybe it doesnt sometimes :up:

I just don't know why you found it difficult to give me a clear-cut answer? It can really be yes or no.

Saudi Prince
06-04-08, 11:47 PM
You sound creepy, and desperate.

Peace!

perfectpearl
07-04-08, 03:39 AM
I wouldnt want to marry someone younger than me... haha i would be the boss though :p its like "HEY do what I want- I am older than you!"

alright maybe i should get some rest :rubeyes: :outta:

perfectpearl
07-04-08, 03:41 AM
You're around 20 so will you marry someone who is 50? He's nice, generous, religious, well-mannered and handsome. An attempting offer, will you accept it and remember the 50 is just a number as you said. ;)

if his rich and handsome..hey ill take him











Just kidding but hey i do need some rest :outta: