Little Brothers Becoming Big Brothers...

[muslimma]

How do you deal with them ????????????????????????? :rubeyes:

my little brother is gunna be 11 this year enshallah (tabarakallah :love:)

but as hes growing up he's becoming more and more...i dunno what to call it...nosy?

haha lolz that sounds really bad..:S

you see i dont have older brother and so im not used to this brotherly thing..and like if i come and use the internet he likes to come and sit next to me a watch what im doing.....:banghead: (he sat next to me now as well :rolleyes: :spunch:)

he knows it annoys me as well so thats probably one reason why he does it, but also he likes to ask a lot of questions like "where you going?" :0:

"what are you doing ....?" :0:

blah blah blah

:( grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

also when i like play fight with him he likes to flex his little muscles and beat me.....male bravado? :rotfl:

he hates losing as well....so now i can't use big sis power on him...:(

but generally i dunno really what i wanna ask but im just confused...:o:o

[GuCcI]

11? my brother started being like that wen he was 16.... a year ago haha

this is wat i do...

i punch him, hurt my fist he laughs... and then i take out my secret weapon...

girly perfume. that'll scare him off. :mujahida:

[Hafsah]

hes only 11..so beat him up as much as you can..before he gets too big and its a one sided battle :p

[>UserName<]

hes only 11..so beat him up as much as you can..before he gets too big and its a one sided battle :p

I second that :D

[muslimma]

it already is a one sided battle :(

he's mashalah very strong.........:coolbro:

perfume is good idea lolzzz....may have to try that....

but is it normal to be so nosy? :p

[GAL-actic]

All boys are smelly and nosy lol

I have 3 brothers they can be annoying but also cool:). The eldest is one year younger than me and he's my mate. We go shopping together:inlove:

[Hafsah]

All boys are smelly and nosy lol

I have 3 brothers they can be annoying but also cool:). The eldest is one year younger than me and he's my mate. We go shopping together:inlove:

aww..thats so sweet mashaAllaah

me and bro are constantly bickering...even now we are 'adults'..lol

[muslimma]

lols well he's too young to go shoping with me....:)

[muslimma]

All boys are smelly and nosy lol


:rotfl:

[ummbilal]

How do you deal with them ????????????????????????? :rubeyes:

my little brother is gunna be 11 this year enshallah (tabarakallah :love:)

but as hes growing up he's becoming more and more...i dunno what to call it...nosy?

haha lolz that sounds really bad..:S

you see i dont have older brother and so im not used to this brotherly thing..and like if i come and use the internet he likes to come and sit next to me a watch what im doing.....:banghead: (he sat next to me now as well :rolleyes: :spunch:)

he knows it annoys me as well so thats probably one reason why he does it, but also he likes to ask a lot of questions like "where you going?" :0:

"what are you doing ....?" :0:

blah blah blah

:( grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

also when i like play fight with him he likes to flex his little muscles and beat me.....male bravado? :rotfl:

he hates losing as well....so now i can't use big sis power on him...:(

but generally i dunno really what i wanna ask but im just confused...:o:o






sis hes just growing up and finding his feet, he'll back off when he can use the pooter for his own stuff and when he can go out on his own too, he just wants to hurry up and grow up mashallah.

[SD.]

Imagine him reading this after 8 years...

[sunrise]

awwww it means he cares and loves u :love:

my bro has been doing that for about 3 years now

i've got over the stage of 'oi' leave me alone lol

he is very protective :love: mashAllah

better than having a bro who don't care

maybe try explain to him you need your own space and he wldnt like it if u watched him on the pc (might not wrk, i tried it with my bro and he said look i don't care and pulled a chair up nxt 2 him 4 me 2 sit :smack:)

tell him it's fine if u want him to beat someone up 4 u :D lol or carry stuff 4 u... othwerwise scram:up::D

no seriously, i think if u dont react he will leave u alone, worked 4 me:)

[proff]

yo know what... brothers jus are protective...your gonna have to get used to it...some go about a nice way, by befriending you andd...others jus ask to many questions...jus love them because, the only reason they are like that is because they love you (fisabilillah)

[bitter_sweet]

i wish i had a brother:( oldest of 4 girls is nottt nice!:(

[Riceball]

You will miss these days when he becomes a teenager.

[Kubs]

I refuse to accept that my baby brother is growing up. In my eyes he's still a 3 year old....:o

[GuCcI]

The eldest is one year younger than me and he's my mate. We go shopping together:inlove:

hehe me too! but hes 2 yrs younger...

shopping is fun

lets go to this store. now this store,... oh look at those shoes, come with me!!! :hidban: and my brother like drags his feet all slouchy and miserable and everything :p

[GAL-actic]

hehe me too! but hes 2 yrs younger...

shopping is fun

lets go to this store. now this store,... oh look at those shoes, come with me!!! :hidban: and my brother like drags his feet all slouchy and miserable and everything :p

My brother is like "mhm okay but I'll get to choose the next store". This never happens btw :p:D

[Pippin1376]

but is it normal to be so nosy? :p

My youngest brother use to do that to me, but he stopped once I did that to him. While beside him I'd start dancing till he told me to go away and he'd stop bothering me. He's better now, but he does look sometimes. Just tell him to look away and he will.

I don't think my older brother ever did that to me. Though I did use to do it to him....

[Kubs]

My brothers aren't protective at all. I think it's completely the other way round. :eek3:

[Rosalie-Beauty]

I know exactly what you mean. My bro is older than me, almost 18, about to go to college and he's still a nosy brat. I tell him he needs to get a life of his own.

oh well.

[MalikOne™]

he's jus lukin after his lil sista^

nd lil brothers will still protect u like a big bruda wud, its a instinct, my lillest bruda is a nutter he used to look after his big sister in skool

[GAL-actic]

When we were little I used to take care of my brother, make sure no one will hurt him :mujahida: And now it's his time so he has to take care of me lol:D

[Khuram_2k?]

i dunno about younger brothers but i have an older sister and she's the best thing in the world, i really care for her alot! :inlove: i do anything she asks me.

[LastFriday]

I have a older sister, 2 years older and it's not too bad, we used to fight a lot! but I realized that she's my sister and needs protection, so...its better now :) She buys me clothes :D And I..um, clean her car and get stuff from the top shelves which she can't reach lol.

[Rosalie-Beauty]

i dunno about younger brothers but i have an older sister and she's the best thing in the world, i really care for her alot! :inlove: i do anything she asks me.

awww.... I wish my brother would treat me like that :( We have completly conflicting personalities and dont even get along. I dont know how two people so different can come from the same bloodline. :confused:

[Ur sis in Islam]

awww.... I wish my brother would treat me like that :( We have completly conflicting personalities and dont even get along. I dont know how two people so different can come from the same bloodline. :confused:

aww sis its probably just a phase hes going through, he probably treats you like that because he probably doesn't want to show that he cares! u know how guys r like they do one thing and mean another!!:rolleyes:
I guess i can tell you that from experience im the oldest in my family, n den deres my sis n 2 bros! my 2nd to youngest bro whos 13th is a total nightmare, we dnt get along at all!! I say 1 thing n he does another, i guess cos im more like the 'mother' figure cos im the oldest so i kinda cum across as strict!! Bt i dnt mean 2 be:o i guess that jus the way i come across! But i try my best to get along with him, like get him things sweets etc but still theres always conflict!! :(o well!

But my youngest bro is my jaan:love: hes 8 but hes still my baby
bro guess cos i had a hand in bringing him up, changing nappies, feeding etc etc!! hes gna be my baby bro 4evaaa!! inshalllah, i think im the type of sis that would be crying her eyes out on his wedding day!!!:inlove:

[Basil al-Mamluk]

hes only 11..so beat him up as much as you can..before he gets too big and its a one sided battle :p

I second this statement.

Imagine my scenario: I am 25, 6' 210lbs, lift regularly and am the older brother by 6 years. I should be able to hold my own against "little brother", right? Wrong, so very wrong. He is 6'7" 300 lbs and stronger than an ox. I have to sneak up, fight dirty, and hope for a good break when we get into it.

[`asiya]

How do you deal with them ????????????????????????? :rubeyes:

my little brother is gunna be 11 this year enshallah (tabarakallah :love:)

but as hes growing up he's becoming more and more...i dunno what to call it...nosy?

haha lolz that sounds really bad..:S

you see i dont have older brother and so im not used to this brotherly thing..and like if i come and use the internet he likes to come and sit next to me a watch what im doing.....:banghead: (he sat next to me now as well :rolleyes: :spunch:)

he knows it annoys me as well so thats probably one reason why he does it, but also he likes to ask a lot of questions like "where you going?" :0:

"what are you doing ....?" :0:

blah blah blah

:( grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

also when i like play fight with him he likes to flex his little muscles and beat me.....male bravado? :rotfl:

he hates losing as well....so now i can't use big sis power on him...:(

but generally i dunno really what i wanna ask but im just confused...:o:o






sis its actually lovely to hear this,he sounds like a lovely boy masha Allah may Allah protect u both amin. he is ur mahram, he will be your protector one day, u should encourage him and talk with him, even though he is your younger brother, he still has the duty of an elder brother towards u.

to give u a little example. i teach a muslim brother and sister and when he was 3 and his sister age 7 , he said to me both quite out of the blue during class, "when i am a big boy i am going to bangladesh to find my sister a nice husband and you can come too, and i will get you a husband and look after you " subhanAllah he was only 3 and this is his fitrah to want to protect his sister at such a very young age subhanAllah!

my sons are like this since i became muslim,lol and im in my 30`s its like theyre my dad or something :D they ask me what am i doing where am i going, if im out when they come home, they phone me where are you, are you alright ? they dont like me to walk alone, or go out for shopping alone without them to help, they sit with me at the computer sometimes see what im doing what im reading we chat and discuss what we see and read (cept when im in sis section of course ;)

honestly sis i know it might seem annoying but i would be greatful that u have such a wonderful brother ukhti, he must look up to u so much,many young boys the last thing they want to do is be with their big sisters, he must love u very much anyway from what u said about him i think hes just lovely masha Allah :inlove: may Allah ta ala bless him and give u sabr with him amin!

[mizfissy815]

My little brother is turning 15 in about 2 weeks and he's not nosy...just plain annoying.

I've forgot how much of brat he can be but to be honest at times I feel sorry for him. He is the only boy left at home now that my elder brother got married and my other sisters aren't exactly nice (to him or anyone else for that matter).
He was rather glad when I came home for Easter holidays but that doesn't stop him from being a brat.
I love him, but he's not becoming a 'big brother' at all...he's seems to have regressed to being an annoying child and I can't wait until he grows up.

[muslimma]

he's jus lukin after his lil sista^

nd lil brothers will still protect u like a big bruda wud, its a instinct, my lillest bruda is a nutter he used to look after his big sister in skool

:rubeyes: wotttttttttttt? he used to go to the same skool as her im guessing...


When we were little I used to take care of my brother, make sure no one will hurt him :mujahida: And now it's his time so he has to take care of me lol:D

:inlove:

i dunno about younger brothers but i have an older sister and she's the best thing in the world, i really care for her alot! :inlove: i do anything she asks me.

:inlove: owww so nice to hear bro's saying these things about their sisters ....*sigh*

I have a older sister, 2 years older and it's not too bad, we used to fight a lot! but I realized that she's my sister and needs protection, so...its better now :) She buys me clothes :D And I..um, clean her car and get stuff from the top shelves which she can't reach lol.

lols she buys me clothes i clean her car

she doesnt buy me clothes...I...

I second this statement.

Imagine my scenario: I am 25, 6' 210lbs, lift regularly and am the older brother by 6 years. I should be able to hold my own against "little brother", right? Wrong, so very wrong. He is 6'7" 300 lbs and stronger than an ox. I have to sneak up, fight dirty, and hope for a good break when we get into it.

lolz

sis its actually lovely to hear this,he sounds like a lovely boy masha Allah may Allah protect u both amin. he is ur mahram, he will be your protector one day, u should encourage him and talk with him, even though he is your younger brother, he still has the duty of an elder brother towards u.

to give u a little example. i teach a muslim brother and sister and when he was 3 and his sister age 7 , he said to me both quite out of the blue during class, "when i am a big boy i am going to bangladesh to find my sister a nice husband and you can come too, and i will get you a husband and look after you " subhanAllah he was only 3 and this is his fitrah to want to protect his sister at such a very young age subhanAllah!

my sons are like this since i became muslim,lol and im in my 30`s its like theyre my dad or something :D they ask me what am i doing where am i going, if im out when they come home, they phone me where are you, are you alright ? they dont like me to walk alone, or go out for shopping alone without them to help, they sit with me at the computer sometimes see what im doing what im reading we chat and discuss what we see and read (cept when im in sis section of course ;)

honestly sis i know it might seem annoying but i would be greatful that u have such a wonderful brother ukhti, he must look up to u so much,many young boys the last thing they want to do is be with their big sisters, he must love u very much anyway from what u said about him i think hes just lovely masha Allah :inlove: may Allah ta ala bless him and give u sabr with him amin!

'asiya sis :love: mashallah thats great to hear..:inlove:

but i dont want him to get like pressured by it or nefin cos he is only 11 aferall .

it seems as though it's coming naturally to him, cos no-on has said nefin to him about being a lil brother but still acting big...

i ust want him to burden his little shoulders about things he doesn't have to worry about...:( :love:

[LastFriday]

:rubeyes: wotttttttttttt? he used to go to the same skool as her im guessing...




:inlove:



:inlove: owww so nice to hear bro's saying these things about their sisters ....*sigh*



lols she buys me clothes i clean her car

she doesnt buy me clothes...I...



lolz



'asiya sis :love: mashallah thats great to hear..:inlove:

but i dont want him to get like pressured by it or nefin cos he is only 11 aferall .

it seems as though it's coming naturally to him, cos no-on has said nefin to him about being a lil brother but still acting big...

i ust want him to burden his little shoulders about things he doesn't have to worry about...:( :love:


Sis, it's natural. Trust me, growing up as a younger brother, Going to high school and in public seeing how guys treat women and how they gaze, really irritates us, at least me, that it could be my OWN sister who could be the victim..thats why its always, "Where were you!" "what were you doing?" "with whom did you go with?"....he's growing up...:)

[muslimma]

Sis, it's natural. Trust me, growing up as a younger brother, Going to high school and in public seeing how guys treat women and how they gaze, really irritates us, at least me, that it could be my OWN sister who could be the victim..thats why its always, "Where were you!" "what were you doing?" "with whom did you go with?"....he's growing up...:)

is he really isnt he a bit well uhm ahead? :o hes 11 man..

[LastFriday]

is he really isnt he a bit well uhm ahead? :o hes 11 man..

? Why not, some kids mature early :p, I dunno, he'll learn.

[muslimma]

? Why not, some kids mature early :p, I dunno, he'll learn.

well i s 'pose he already has a little moustache now thats a sign of manhood...:p

[LastFriday]

well i s 'pose he already has a little moustache now thats a sign of manhood...:p

:rotfl: hahahaha *sigh* Those were crazy days, Ya, he's definitely growing up =) Just teach um that you need your space that he can't just come barging in your room any more, Knock first.

[Te'oma]

How do you deal with them ????????????????????????? :rubeyes:

my little brother is gunna be 11 this year enshallah (tabarakallah :love:)

but as hes growing up he's becoming more and more...i dunno what to call it...nosy?

haha lolz that sounds really bad..:S

you see i dont have older brother and so im not used to this brotherly thing..and like if i come and use the internet he likes to come and sit next to me a watch what im doing.....:banghead: (he sat next to me now as well :rolleyes: :spunch:)

he knows it annoys me as well so thats probably one reason why he does it, but also he likes to ask a lot of questions like "where you going?" :0:

"what are you doing ....?" :0:

blah blah blah

:( grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

also when i like play fight with him he likes to flex his little muscles and beat me.....male bravado? :rotfl:

he hates losing as well....so now i can't use big sis power on him...:(

but generally i dunno really what i wanna ask but im just confused...:o:o






Your brother has it pretty easy. I have 4 daughters and 2 sons. My oldest son is the third oldest(by 20 minutes as his "big" twin sister likes to remind him) Poor kid never stood a chance because the 4 girls would gang up on him and his brother was no help being the youngest.
On the upside, my boys have definately gotten an education on how to deal with women :D My oldest son likens it to dealing with psych patients :rotfl:

[sis_sarah]

if u think theyre bad at 11 wait until theyre 15

dnt even get me strtd on my bro

[`asiya]

'asiya sis :love: mashallah thats great to hear..:inlove:

but i dont want him to get like pressured by it or nefin cos he is only 11 aferall .

it seems as though it's coming naturally to him, cos no-on has said nefin to him about being a lil brother but still acting big...

i ust want him to burden his little shoulders about things he doesn't have to worry about...:( :love:


yea thats what im saying sis, its just the way it goes, not something they are taught its in their fitrah masha Allah.hes just naturally becoming protective towards u masha Allah :love: he obviously adores u and wants to hang out with u, lol an annoying as it may seem sometimes, he sounds like a really sweet boy who is becoming a young man masha Allah may Allah keep ur both on the haq amin!

[muslimma]

yea thats what im saying sis, its just the way it goes, not something they are taught its in their fitrah masha Allah.hes just naturally becoming protective towards u masha Allah :love: he obviously adores u and wants to hang out with u, lol an annoying as it may seem sometimes, he sounds like a really sweet boy who is becoming a young man masha Allah may Allah keep ur both on the haq amin!

:rotfl: owwwwwwwwwwww lolz do you think its coz he adores me...? :love:

well come to think of it he is cwuut...:p

[~Warda~]

Me and my lil bros used to play 'house house' when we were little...and i played the big sister (duh!) while they played the babies...lol. I even used to give them piggy back rides! Now they all taller than me, and when my dads not here the eldest one goes 'Im da man of the house, so do as i say' :rubeyes:
The only time my brothers stand next to me while im on the computer is when they want it for themselves:rolleyes: They can be riiiight brats sometimes.

[muslimma]

Me and my lil bros used to play 'house house' when we were little...and i played the big sister (duh!) while they played the babies...lol. I even used to give them piggy back rides! Now they all taller than me, and when my dads not here the eldest one goes 'Im da man of the house, so do as i say' :rubeyes:
The only time my brothers stand next to me while im on the computer is when they want it for themselves:rolleyes: They can be riiiight brats sometimes.

lolz well my bros younger than me by like loads so i dont have that playing bond lolz although i do play some games with him if he begs me...:p :coolsis:

[Souljette]

lol i hv two oldre brothers nd they act like lil kids still..meanin tht they are sooooooooooooo annoyinggg....i luv them off..bcuz they are realll protective and always hv my bak although i don't ask them fr anythng...i jst knw they hv my bak...islamically nd evrythng..i knw whn the wrld is against me dey'll b dere..bt wow sumtimes theya re so annoyin..loll in the beginnin i wuld cry bt now i jst make fun of them too lol...so it's a bak nd forth thing..my oldest bro says im' a psycho cuz if he hits me i jst strt hittin anywhere lol jkssss it's only fair lol..

[GuCcI]

lolz well my bros younger than me by like loads so i dont have that playing bond lolz although i do play some games with him if he begs me...:p :coolsis:

yeah my 9 year old brother isnt close to me because i dont play hockey with him like my 17 yr old brother does... so he complains about that. but yesterday.... he was playing by himself with a tennis ball in the living room and i was sitting on the couch. the ball flew and hit my cheekbone so i grabbed the hockey stick and beat him up with it.

yeah... a 20 year old beat up a 9 year old.

he cried for an hour. i felt bad so i gave him a hug and then kicked him out so i could watch american idol.

thats the story of my day yesterday.

the point is, remember, ur older so ur in charge.

ive become so violent these days :o :(

[sis_sarah]

the point is, remember, ur older so ur in charge.

ive become so violent these days :o :(

lol yh me 2 but i aint complainin or feelin guilty abt it at all... they need to be taught a lesson and if thts the way they wanna play the game, then bring it on ;)

[angel*]

I have 2 brother an older one and a younger one - my oldest is a great sport when it comes to privacy, he always knocks and asks permissin b4 cuming in2 my room and he would never pry into my affairs without my consent unless he felt he had 2, my youngest is the same but without the whole knocking b4 barging in, and he tends to ask me what im up 2 but not like 24-7 hes 16 so he can be abit annoying, but overall we all respect each others need for privacy, its a phase ur bro will grow out of it, my youngest when he was younger used 2 do that at times, but hes growing out of it now he has 101 of his own things 2 do aswell! we're all reaaaaaaaaaaaly close 2 each other and always have a ball in each others company, i dont think we've ever argued with each other for years now! I used fight with my youngest brother when we were kids, never with my oldest brother or sis, but me and him grew out of it .............just like that *snaps fingers* the minute we reached our teenage years now we all get along like a house on fire :inlove:

[ugh]

the minute we reached our teenage years now we all get along like a house on fire :up:

aww I love my younger brother, bless him he threatened to beat up 3 men in their twenties cos they were 'looking at me' he's only 11.. tough though he nearly put me through a table when we were play-fighting

[muslimma]

the minute we reached our teenage years now we all get along like a house on fire :up:

aww I love my younger brother, bless him he threatened to beat up 3 men in their twenties cos they were 'looking at me' he's only 11.. tough though he nearly put me through a table when we were play-fighting


:rotfl:

now thats impressive tabarakallah.:love:

[ugh]

at what age does ur younger brother become your muhram?

[GAL-actic]

My brother went to Spain today but he'll be back tonight lol. So no need to miss him :rolleyes:

Anyway when we were little we used to play till we fell asleep between/on top of all the toys. Oh and we would sit in the middle of all the toys and build a huge wall around us with lego's and all toys that were available. It was his job to give me the "bricks":D

[Kasim2k7]

My brother went to Spain today but he'll be back tonight lol. So no need to miss him :rolleyes:

Anyway when we were little we used to play till we fell asleep between/on top of all the toys. Oh and we would sit in the middle of all the toys and build a huge wall around us with lego's and all toys that were available. It was his job to give me the "bricks":D

Never played with legos. My mum used to buy me little cars and trucks which i used to play. I still play with the big long trucks when in mood lol

[muslimma]

at what age does ur younger brother become your muhram?

:scratch: when he reaches the age of puberty :o

My brother went to Spain today but he'll be back tonight lol. So no need to miss him :rolleyes:

Anyway when we were little we used to play till we fell asleep between/on top of all the toys. Oh and we would sit in the middle of all the toys and build a huge wall around us with lego's and all toys that were available. It was his job to give me the "bricks":D

:inlove::inlove::inlove: awwwwwwwww

[GAL-actic]

:scratch: when he reaches the age of puberty :o



:inlove::inlove::inlove: awwwwwwwww

He's in the plane right now lol

[ugh]

:jkk: suppose that's when his voice breaks.. like 14...

[Cartman]

IT seems Ive stumbled into a Secret Sisterhood meeting

only one way out :outta:

[muslimma]

He's in the plane right now lol

:inlove: hope he had safe journey enshalah

:jkk: suppose that's when his voice breaks.. like 14...

my bro's voice breaking :rubeyes: hahhah :rotfl: i wait to see that day with eagerness enshallah :D

IT seems Ive stumbled into a Secret Sisterhood meeting

only one way out :outta:

:rolleyes:

[RashidD]

I love my lil bro... He's gonna be 8 InshaALLAH.

[muslimma]

I love my lil bro... He's gonna be 8 InshaALLAH.

tabrakalah may allah swt give him a long and blessed life ameen :)

[lowering wings]

I have four brothers and no sisters..2 are older than me
and 2 are younger.

I beat the younger ones up time to time, and the older ones can't
touch me since I am the only sis, to which I refer the only 'princess' :D
My older brother is great! :D
but the second oldest one is soo darn protective :torture:
which i don't need,at least not his type of protection.

[muslimma]

I have four brothers and no sisters..2 are older than me
and 2 are younger.

I beat the younger ones up time to time, and the older ones can't
touch me since I am the only sis, to which I refer the only 'princess' :D
My older brother is great! :D
but the second oldest one is soo darn protective :torture:
which i don't need,at least not his type of protection.

lolz so sweet..**

[lowering wings]

lolz so sweet..**



:D
if only my bros would admit it:spunch:

[muslimma]

:start:

my bro went to visit his high school last week..tabrakallah hes getn older :coolbro: :love:

i just wanted to know the kind of things we should be preparing him for when he goes. alhtough the term doesnt start until september but still...cos theres a lot going on at secondary schools atm and its really easy to get misled by others...

i worry about him cos he has been blessed as a very handsome young man i i dont want him to get the wrong attention. although he is gunna be in yr 7 i wouldnt put him past him to know he is a smoocher...:coolbro:

kids nowadays eh?! :rolleyes:

so far weve had no problems with him alhamdullilah but i still wanted advice pls...

:D