do you ever cry for the sake of it and you're not sure why?????????

[muslimma]

do you guys?

is it bad to?

why does it happen to people that they start crying for no apparent reason but they feel the need to...........?

.i. .a.m. c.o.n.f.u.s.e.d :confused:

and why does crying make people feel better.........?

what is it about tears i mean there only water...?

[GuCcI]

:rotfl: i have a freind who cried watching charlie and the chocolate factory.

okay, umm most of the time i think i know why im crying :scratch:

[THE PATH 2]

a great gift from allah

a soft heart

[Arrakis]

Yes, but I usually know why I am crying even if I think the reason is silly. :o

Sometimes there is a build up of repressed emotions for me and I can usually sense if I am going to have one of those "crying to feel better" sessions a few days before it happens.

[Umm Haya]

AssalamuAlaykum

Today this hindu bro was on TV asking Zakir Naik a question, I thought he was going to revert and I started crying, its emotional wallahi when somebody reverts...anyway it was only to find out 2 mins later that he wasnt going to revert...I felt soo :embar: thank goodness I was alone *outta*

WassalamuAlaykum

[THE PATH 2]

Yes, but I usually know why I am crying even if I think the reason is silly. :o

Sometimes there is a build up of repressed emotions for me and I can usually sense if I am going to have one of those "crying to feel better" sessions a few days before it happens.

you will carry less emotional baggage in life:)

[miss-islamic]

It's a girl thing :outta:

[THE PATH 2]

It's a girl thing :outta:

in islam men are advised to cry too

the dry earth needs rain for flowers to flourish

[Arrakis]

http://www.wsu.edu/DrUniverse/cry.html

here's a big difference between EMOTIONAL tears and these other kinds of tears. Emotional tears contain 20-25 percent more protein, including various hormones! So what does this mean? WE DON'T KNOW, BUT IT IS VERY INTERESTING.

Other sites are saying much the same thing, that it releases a build up of bad toxins, which is why we feel better afterwards.

This is funny though:

"A man swears to keep from crying. A woman cries to keep from swearing. Both are good emotional safety valves".

[cl@rity]

its normal for women.

[sunrise]

its normal for women.


i don't cry for the sake of it lol:o

it's a rare occurence, but if i do it's either because i am really hurt, or i see something that touches my heart significantly

i don't think there is anything wrong with it, go for it

i think it helps because the tears act as a 'release' of all the pain/tension that's building up inside, some sort of removal or part removal of the load and pressure you feel

[GAL-actic]

a great gift from allah

a soft heart

:)

I sometimes really feel the need to cry. I can't really explain but like you said it just gives you a good feeling.

Now cry with me all together lol :crying::crying::crying:

[ibn suleman]

i think this is one of those things i will never understand abt women :S

[sunrise]

i don't think this is a mystery as such.. it might be the woman doesn't know WHY she is crying, but there is DEFO something bothering her... maybe it's the fact that she can't explain what's wrong

humans are very complex creatures subhanaAllah, there is a lot we can't explain... and many a time, male or female i'm sure we can't explain what or why we are feeling...

[GAL-actic]

i think this is one of those things i will never understand abt women :S

Probably.

I have a friend she watches movies just to cry. She calls them: The cry-movies lol.

I even cried while watching "million dollar baby" :rolleyes:

[ibn suleman]

yeh but crying is a response to an emotion, whether it be fear, sadness, happiness, grief joy etc...


so if its like a movie, and u cry..it will be something happening that has triggered it...


whereas..

man: "what's wrong?, Why u crying?"
women: "nothing"
man: "ok" :S

[GAL-actic]

yeh but crying is a response to an emotion, whether it be fear, sadness, happiness, grief joy etc...


so if its like a movie, and u cry..it will be something happening that has triggered it...


whereas..

man: "what's wrong?, Why u crying?"
women: "nothing"
man: "ok" :S

Yeah well I don't think there's a reason for it. Women are just too emotional and sometimes you have to get rid off these emotions by crying. I don't know why but it just feels good to cry sometimes with or without a reason.

Maybe someone can post an explanation?

[sunrise]

Yeah well I don't think there's a reason for it. Women are just too emotional and sometimes you have to get rid off these emotions by crying. I don't know why but it just feels good to cry sometimes with or without a reason.

Maybe someone can post an explanation?

i attempted an explanation lol

i stick to my theory, there is something wrong, either she's not too sure, or she doesn't feel like talking about it...

or it's a combination of things... this is a common one... it may be an accumulation of small things, that by themselves wouldn't cause so much emotiuon but together you feel overwhelmed

[₪7HUG L1F3₪]

Yeah well I don't think there's a reason for it. Women are just too emotional and sometimes you have to get rid off these emotions by crying. I don't know why but it just feels good to cry sometimes with or without a reason.

Maybe someone can post an explanation?

y wud u feel gd when ur crying? :scratch:

[GAL-actic]

i attempted an explanation lol

i stick to my theory, there is something wrong, either she's not too sure, or she doesn't feel like talking about it...

or it's a combination of things... this is a common one... it may be an accumulation of small things, that by themselves wouldn't cause so much emotiuon but together you feel overwhelmed

Oh sorry

I think the last one is pretty much close to what I'm thinking.

[ibn suleman]

if they dont wanna talk abt it, thats understandable for whatever reason it is...if they...

arrrhhh...women are complimacated..ill just stick to be being confused :p

[GAL-actic]

y wud u feel gd when ur crying? :scratch:

It's just the way it works.

[~Imaan~]

:salams:

i doubt anyone actually cries for no reason....

if you look deep into yourself and deep into your heart, you might find that there is a reason you are crying....

either there are so many reasons, difficulties piled up that you are not even sure which reason it is you are crying over...so u think you are crying for no reason in particular....

or the reason for crying is so complex and so stressful that you do not want to delve into it...therefore ur tears flow and relieve the stress but you dont want to think you are crying about that reason, as that means thinking about it even more...

or maybe you are just crying out of fear of ALLAH The Almighty....maybe you are just crying becoz you have been thinking about your sins...maybe you are just crying becoz you have been thinking about returning to ALLAH so unprepared....:(

just my thoughts....perhaps make little sense :o

i think this also applies with brothers too, not just sisters..
Wasalaam

[₪7HUG L1F3₪]

It's just the way it works.

I dnt kno neone who felt gd when they cried... they cried cos they either gt jumpd or jackd

[~Warda~]

I dont think i cry for no reason at all...usually its little things that add up and then suddenly i cant take anymore and the water works begin.*sigh*
And i HATE if someones sees me and asks 'why u crying for?' :mad:

[GAL-actic]

I dnt kno neone who felt gd when they cried...

Oh believe me it gives you a good feeling... Maybe you should give it a try?:up:

[GAL-actic]

if they dont wanna talk abt it, thats understandable for whatever reason it is...if they...

arrrhhh...women are complimacated..ill just stick to be being confused :p

read imaan's post...maybe that will explain things

Otherwise stick to :confused:

[sunrise]

Oh sorry

I think the last one is pretty much close to what I'm thinking.

I dont think i cry for no reason at all...usually its little things that add up and then suddenly i cant take anymore and the water works begin.*sigh*
And i HATE if someones sees me and asks 'why u crying for?' :mad:

:salams:

i doubt anyone actually cries for no reason....

if you look deep into yourself and deep into your heart, you might find that there is a reason you are crying....

either there are so many reasons, difficulties piled up that you are not even sure which reason it is you are crying over...so u think you are crying for no reason in particular....

or the reason for crying is so complex and so stressful that you do not want to delve into it...therefore ur tears flow and relieve the stress but you dont want to think you are crying about that reason, as that means thinking about it even more...

or maybe you are just crying out of fear of ALLAH The Almighty....maybe you are just crying becoz you have been thinking about your sins...maybe you are just crying becoz you have been thinking about returning to ALLAH so unprepared....:(

just my thoughts....perhaps make little sense :o

i think this also applies with brothers too, not just sisters..
Wasalaam


my points exactly:up: there is always a reason, maybe you don't know it, or can't figure it out... or it's a bit of everything, or a bit of some smaller things

[GAL-actic]

my points exactly:up: there is always a reason, maybe you don't know it, or can't figure it out... or it's a bit of everything, or a bit of some smaller things

So there I have my reason. Now I have to figure out what the small things are...:eek3:

[sunrise]

So there I have my reason. Now I have to figure out what the small things are...:eek3:


lol you work on tht:up: hope you get it sorted inshAllah :)

[~Warda~]

So its good to cry occasionally right? But what if...u cry REALLY easily, so sometimes u end up crying,like everyday, then is there anything u could do to stop it? I mean, crying feel good SOMETIMES, but the rest of the times it gives u a BAAAD headache...

[GAL-actic]

lol you work on tht:up: hope you get it sorted inshAllah :)

Insha'Allah.
















Sorry muslimma...you can take it over :o

[sunrise]

So its good to cry occasionally right? But what if...u cry REALLY easily, so sometimes u end up crying,like everyday, then is there anything u could do to stop it? I mean, crying feel good SOMETIMES, but the rest of the times it gives u a BAAAD headache...


i think life experiences and what life throws at you makes you more tougher and less susceptible to crying at the drop of the hat... though don't feel like there is something wrong... maybe it's just the way you are

as long as you don't cry when you spill milk or something lol:o

[GAL-actic]

i think life experiences and what life throws at you makes you more tougher and less susceptible to crying at the drop of the hat... though don't feel like there is something wrong... maybe it's just the way you are

as long as you don't cry when you spill milk or something lol:o

:rotfl: that's a good one

[~Warda~]

i think life experiences and what life throws at you makes you more tougher and less susceptible to crying at the drop of the hat... though don't feel like there is something wrong... maybe it's just the way you are

as long as you don't cry when you spill milk or something lol:o

Hehe, hasn't happened yet, but maybe if im REALLY stressed out the spilt milk might just trigger it off.lol.
Somehow, i dont think any life experiences will stop the tears.:( oh well, i can always blame it on hay-fever:up: (though maybe not in winter:o)

[sunrise]

Hehe, hasn't happened yet, but maybe if im REALLY stressed out the spilt milk might just trigger it off.lol.
Somehow, i dont think any life experiences will stop the tears.:( oh well, i can always blame it on hay-fever:up: (though maybe not in winter:o)


well there u go, it's not the milk that's making you cry.. it's probably making u feel more stressed on top of what your feeling already

[~Imaan~]

Hehe, hasn't happened yet, but maybe if im REALLY stressed out the spilt milk might just trigger it off.lol.
Somehow, i dont think any life experiences will stop the tears.:( oh well, i can always blame it on hay-fever:up: (though maybe not in winter:o)

lol...tracy beaker :p

[~Warda~]

lol...tracy beaker :p

:p

[~Warda~]

well there u go, it's not the milk that's making you cry.. it's probably making u feel more stressed on top of what your feeling already

:jkk: sis :)

btw, the baby in ur avatar is cuuuute! Masha-Allah.( dont worry, i wont start blubbering on his cuteness)

[sunrise]

:jkk: sis :)

btw, the baby in ur avatar is cuuuute! Masha-Allah.( dont worry, i wont start blubbering on his cuteness)


i will he is gorjas:o i saw one yesterday i can't get out of my head... was a mum kissing her baby on his nose and the baby's tinny weeny hands touching it's mummy's face:inlove::inlove:

*coughs*:icon_offtopic:

back to the thread

[ibn suleman]

hmm..:jkk: for explanations....

i understand a little better now...

[muslimma]

man: "what's wrong?, Why u crying?"
women: "nothing"
man: "ok" :S

hmmm sometimes nothing really means something..but you need to persuade me to tell you ...:p


And i HATE if someones sees me and asks 'why u crying for?' :mad:

:D same here its ust like :spunch: esp if you dont wanna tell any1... its betr if people ask you wanna talk..? :)

http://www.wsu.edu/DrUniverse/cry.html



Other sites are saying much the same thing, that it releases a build up of bad toxins, which is why we feel better afterwards.

This is funny though:

"A man swears to keep from crying. A woman cries to keep from swearing. Both are good emotional safety valves".

dats a descent explanation... ;) bad toxins...

man...why you crying...?
woman...nothing just getting rid of some bad toxins...:p
man..oh okay :outta:

[sunrise]

hmmm sometimes nothing really means something..but you need to persuade me to tell you ...:p



:D same here its ust like :spunch: esp if you dont wanna tell any1... its betr if people ask you wanna talk..? :)



dats a descent explanation... ;) bad toxins...

man...why you crying...?
woman...nothing ust getting rid of some bad toxins...
man..oh okay :outta:



^ lolz

[Mina-91]

i do .. but i dnt knw the reason for ir .. very strange i knw .. but do u u knw why??? :S:S.. i knw its kinda weird but yh..

[Morris]

Evening Primrose;)

[Stylish-Girly]

Yea all the time, coz im a girl and thats what we do best

[GAL-actic]

Yea all the time, coz im a girl and thats what we do best

well said:up:

[muslimuk]

well said:up:

girls r cry babies :confused:

[₪7HUG L1F3₪]

girls r cry babies :confused:

Yeh I hav a sista and she cryz al the tym for no reazon :zzz:

Shes evn olda thn me :rubeyes:

[muslimuk]

Yeh I hav a sista and she cryz al the tym :zzz:

Shes evn olda thn me :rubeyes:

weird stuff init :confused:

[GAL-actic]

Yeh I hav a sista and she cryz al the tym :zzz:

Shes evn olda thn me :rubeyes:

nothing to do with age:smack:

[₪7HUG L1F3₪]

nothing to do with age:smack:

I dnt cre, she needs a slap!

[GAL-actic]

I dnt cre, she needs a slap!

Or you need to talk to her

[₪7HUG L1F3₪]

Or you need to talk to her

Yeh 'Tel her to stp f-in cryn'

[GAL-actic]

Yeh 'Tel her to stp f-in cryn'

oh well that's a great solution:confused::torture:

[Stylish-Girly]

well said:up:

Thankyou :inlove:

[Mikha’eel]

Dunno about crying, but i do complain alot about things when i am annoyed. On the rare occasion i might cry when something annoying happens to me...

[muhammed_1428]

last time i cried was because of this short story

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vV9ZrabJpSc

Masha'allah, may Allah SWT excuse any shortcomings of this young man, ameen.

[ugh]

Salaamz, lately I just want to cry at everything!! Just got some bad news and truly my heart is crying.

Esp. for my best friend she's going through a rough time and this bad news is just extra ache.

I nearly started crying at work the other day, how embarrassing. I've cried in front of my manager before. Cos he was really lovely to me when I made a mistake, but it relieves pent up tension crying does, doesn't it?

[Ibn Sina]

Ajeeb people :S

[Rosalie-Beauty]

yes I cry sometimes for no reason: its called PMS. Then I get mad at myself for crying. Usually though it takes alot to make me cry.

[ana_mujahid]

:rotfl:

funny poll :crying: LOOL

:) sry, i just had to!

[ummbilal]

do you guys?

is it bad to?

why does it happen to people that they start crying for no apparent reason but they feel the need to...........?

.i. .a.m. c.o.n.f.u.s.e.d :confused:

and why does crying make people feel better.........?

what is it about tears i mean there only water...?


sounds hormonal, sis

I cry for Allah, cry for my brothers and sisters, cry for myself, for the child i was and for forgiveness,

[GAL-actic]

Right now:(

[elji]

do you guys?

is it bad to?

why does it happen to people that they start crying for no apparent reason but they feel the need to...........?

.i. .a.m. c.o.n.f.u.s.e.d :confused:

and why does crying make people feel better.........?

what is it about tears i mean there only water...?


crying for no reason is primarily used to seek some attention.

[muslimma]

crying for no reason is primarily used to seek some attention.

thats one way of thinking about it...and no its not the primary reason......:rolleyes:

the primary reason is cos you would be feeling some emotion which say crwyyy to let it out...bro..

[muslimma]

sounds hormonal, sis

I cry for Allah, cry for my brothers and sisters, cry for myself, for the child i was and for forgiveness,

lol :p

[Zesty]

Sometimes you just need a good cry. Its natural, normal and perfectly healthy :hidban: Some people can share their emotions and so they bottle it all up and when it gets too much they just end up in floods of tears and act hysterical. Other people cant share and bottle up and just cry bucket loads without getting hysterical and then feel much better :d
Some people can share emotions but also feel the need to keep to themselves and cry alone so that they can deal with their own emotions.
Usually something is bugging is or there is a build up of tension and stresses that triggers this "random" crying. Sometimes we just feel saddened at the state of this duniyah and cry for mercy. SubhanAllah- even these tears are a blessing from Allah, especially if it leads to a softened heart that is in tune with humanity.

[Khuram_2k?]

this is a wierd thread. with some wierd people? maybe.

[Zesty]

oorrr maybe not? :hidban: :D

[Lord Summerisle]

I sometimes cry, but I know the reason. That said, theres nothing wrong with crying without having a clear cut reason. It's just an expression of emotion, after all, and can be very therapeutic.

[muslimma]

this is a wierd thread. with some wierd people? maybe.

now that you've come then yh ..:rolleyes:

[Abu Mus'ab]

i think this is one of those things i will never understand abt women :S
same here.

if a so called 'man' also cries for nothing then i'd say he's gay.

[GAL-actic]

same here.

if a so called 'man' also cries for nothing then i'd say he's gay.

:smack:

[Abu Mus'ab]

this is a wierd thread. with some wierd people? maybe.
it's a girly thread, for women it's normal, for men it's not, so as long as it's all women saying they cry for nothing then i got no problem.

[Khuram_2k?]

same here.

if a so called 'man' also cries for nothing then i'd say he's gay.

i second that, i'd think exactly the same. :up:
crying always has a purpose. to cry just for the purpose of crying is crying without a purpose which makes the crying person wierd because of the crying.

[GuCcI]

u guys are all funny bunnies :p *giggle*

[Rosalie-Beauty]

i second that, i'd think exactly the same. :up:
crying always has a purpose. to cry just for the purpose of crying is crying without a purpose which makes the crying person wierd because of the crying.

people always cry for a reason even if they dont know why. Its s kind of catharsis and it helps ease the pain.

it takes a real man to cry. There is nothing wrong with crying.

[fisabilllillah]

what a silly thread :P:zzz:

[bitter_sweet]

crying for no reason is primarily used to seek some attention.

how do you cry to seek attention when u cry silently in the privacy of ur bedroom under the bedcovers?..how do you seek attention there eh?

[Kasim2k7]

Crying for seeking attention. No i dont agree. And crying for no reason. I think thats quite impossible too.
Anyway my wife says men who cry are cowards. I dont think so.

[bitter_sweet]

Crying for seeking attention. No i dont agree. And crying for no reason. I think thats quite impossible too.
Anyway my wife says men who cry are cowards. I dont think so.

nah i dont think so either. i feel like slapping men who dont cry grr

[Kasim2k7]

I never used to cry at all and i used to be proud of that but alhamdulillah ever since i beginning to read salah properly, my heart is soften. So i cry more often now and the tears are a great bounty. Only cry for the sake of Allah.

[bitter_sweet]

I never used to cry at all and i used to be proud of that but alhamdulillah ever since i beginning to read salah properly, my heart is soften. So i cry more often now and the tears are a great bounty. Only cry for the sake of Allah.

masha-allah:up:..is there a hadith or sumink regarding crying?..and is it good to cry?.what does it mean?

[Kasim2k7]

masha-allah:up:..is there a hadith or sumink regarding crying?..and is it good to cry?.what does it mean?

Mashallah there are lots of Hadiths regarding this. But not a lot people get this bounty straight away. I mean i only cry if im feeling down or something happens. Then i seek help from Allah and then i cry but here two reasons get mixed. One reason my primary reason for feeling down which is making me cry and second reason seeking help from Allah. But take out the first reason and cry only and only for the sake of Allah. You cant do it only if Allah wishes you to do it. So hard

[kzakir01]

Salaams,

Yeh I cry, not alot...sometimes - especially when the tough gets going!

I'm more sad when I miss something/some one and regrett I never made the most or valued what I had...does that make sense?

So I'm a cry baby...least I've got a heart :)

W.salaams

[Kasim2k7]

Salaams,

Yeh I cry, not alot...sometimes - especially when the tough gets going!

I'm more sad when I miss something/some one and regrett I never made the most or valued what I had...does that make sense?

So I'm a cry baby...least I've got a heart :)

W.salaams

Would you cry on somebodys death like who you were close to?

[muslimma]

Would you cry on somebodys death like who you were close to?

who wouldn't obliviousy not like loudly and that but quietly...:crying:

[Kasim2k7]

who wouldn't obliviousy not like loudly and that but quietly...:crying:

Yeah quietly but always thinking that the hereafter was his destiny after all.

[muslimma]

Yeah quietly but always thinking that the hereafter was his destiny after all.

true.

[kzakir01]

Would you cry on somebodys death like who you were close to?

Brother of course I would, Who wouldn't?

Just because you cry at time you should or when you don't know why doesn't mean your gay, simple put it means you feel!

And if you don't cry at this situation it doesn't also mean you don't feel, your time will come when to cry...only Allah knows when!

[Astraeus]

Sometimes...when thinking about Allah (SWT), the Prophet (SAW), and the Ummah. Especially when I was reading "The Sealed Nectar" and really got an understanding for how badly the Prophet (SAW), and the early believers, were treated.

[muslimma]

yh and death at times does that nt scare you....?

especially how much we shop and buy but when we go back to allh as wa jal we take noting...

[bitter_sweet]

Would you cry on somebodys death like who you were close to?

alhamdulillah i havnt experienced death yet within my family at all, which is wierd because people usually my age have usually experienced at least one...im just scared that all of a sudden there might be like 2 or 3 in one go...cause seriously, no1 in my close or extended family has died.

i think if someone died...i wouldnt be able to sleep for days...and it would take me forever to get over it..becasue i just have to think about someone close to me dying and omg thats my whole nights sleep gone...

there was this boy that i didnt really even know, we just used to stand at the bus stop together sometimes early in the mornings and once he offered me chewing gum...he was stabbed and therefore died..i didnt sleep for a week..:(

[bitter_sweet]

yh and death at times does that nt scare you....?

especially how much we shop and buy but when we go back to allh as wa jal we take noting...


death doesnt scare me at all...but when i think of allah or listen to the quran i cry.