Marrying 4 wives

[Dain Bramaged]

Men are so lucky they can marry up to 4 wives :coolbro: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis:

One will be cleaning, another cooking, one ironing your clothes and the last one can be a reserve in case one of the others have an accident. :D But i dunno imagine all that nagging, you may have to fire 2 :(

[GAL-actic]

:scratch: you can't be serious

[LastFriday]

Men are so lucky they can marry up to 4 wives :coolbro: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis:

One will be cleaning, another cooking, one ironing your clothes and the last one can be a reserve in case one of the others have an accident. :D But i dunno imagine all that nagging, you may have to fire 2 :(

o.O Unless you can provide each one with a House and feed them and clothe them and bring food and treat them all equally and listen to them and be there for each and every one of them emotionally and physically, you shouldn't have 4 wives. It's not that easy pleasing one, let alone four :rolleyes:

[beamz]

Men are so lucky they can marry up to 4 wives :coolbro: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis:

One will be cleaning, another cooking, one ironing your clothes and the last one can be a reserve in case one of the others have an accident. :D But i dunno imagine all that nagging, you may have to fire 2 :(

:rubeyes::rubeyes:

[GAL-actic]

o.O Unless you can provide each one with a House and feed them and clothe them and bring food and treat them all equally and listen to them and be there for each and every one of them emotionally and physically, you shouldn't have 4 wives. It's not that easy pleasing one, let alone four :rolleyes:

:up:...one who thinks

[Dain Bramaged]

It's not that easy pleasing one, let alone four :rolleyes:

Says u, but having 4 is easier than 1 bcos u just need to love each one 25% as opposed to 100& if u only had 1 ;)

[Kubs]

Men are so lucky they can marry up to 4 wives :coolbro: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis:

One will be cleaning, another cooking, one ironing your clothes and the last one can be a reserve in case one of the others have an accident. :D But i dunno imagine all that nagging, you may have to fire 2 :(

What with all the nagging X 4, the lecturing X 4, the mood swings X 4, the jealousy X 4.

Imagine coming home to that every single day. Lucky you :up:

[Dain Bramaged]

What with all the nagging X 4, the lecturing X 4, the mood swings X 4, the jealousy X 4.

Imagine coming home to that every single day. Lucky you :up:

Ever heard of ear plugs :coolbro:

[Kubs]

Ever heard of ear plugs :coolbro:

So you'd choose to be deaf 24/7? :rolleyes:

[Riceball]

I can't stand 1 woman, never mind 4!!! :(

[-Espérer-]

What with all the nagging X 4, the lecturing X 4, the mood swings X 4, the jealousy X 4.

Imagine coming home to that every single day. Lucky you :up:

;) :up:

[Dain Bramaged]

So you'd choose to be deaf 24/7? :rolleyes:

During the day yes, but obviously not during the night DUH :coolbro:

[Kubs]

During the day yes, but obviously not during the night DUH :coolbro:

:eek3:

[~Warda~]

Men are so lucky they can marry up to 4 wives :coolbro: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis:

One will be cleaning, another cooking, one ironing your clothes and the last one can be a reserve in case one of the others have an accident. :D But i dunno imagine all that nagging, you may have to fire 2 :(

Bro...look for number 1 first before jumping to 4 insha-Allah.

[GAL-actic]

Men are so lucky they can marry up to 4 wives :coolbro: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis:

One will be cleaning, another cooking, one ironing your clothes and the last one can be a reserve in case one of the others have an accident. :D But i dunno imagine all that nagging, you may have to fire 2 :(

You gonna propose to all 4 at the same time...have a meeting with 4 wali's at the same time lol

[Dain Bramaged]

You gonna propose to all 4 at the same time...have a meeting with 4 wali's at the same time lol

Im a quadriple :rotfl:

[GAL-actic]

Im a quadriple :rotfl:

oh yeah right:rolleyes:

[Dain Bramaged]

oh yeah right:rolleyes:

:coolbro: :coolbro: :coolbro: :coolbro:

[Dain Bramaged]

Bro...look for number 1 first before jumping to 4 insha-Allah.

What makes you think im looking for them :coolbro:

[GAL-actic]

:coolbro: :coolbro: :coolbro: :coolbro:

Yea I get the message lol

[~Warda~]

What makes you think im looking for them :coolbro:

Well i definitely know u aint got 'em :D

[Dain Bramaged]

Well i definitely know u aint got 'em :D

Ur right, cos they got me :(

[saladin1970]

o.O Unless you can provide each one with a House and feed them and clothe them and bring food and treat them all equally and listen to them and be there for each and every one of them emotionally and physically, you shouldn't have 4 wives. It's not that easy pleasing one, let alone four :rolleyes:


Nooo, Just send 3 of them to work whilst the 4th one looks after the kids whilst you go fishing

[Dain Bramaged]

Nooo, Just send 3 of them to work whilst the 4th one looks after the kids whilst you go fishing

Send 2 to work instead of 3 then you have someone to put the fishes in the net for you :up:

[Riceball]

Send 2 to work instead of 3 then you have someone to put the fishes in the net for you :up:

You like the role of a pimp don't you?

[ummbilal]

Men are so lucky they can marry up to 4 wives :coolbro: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis:

One will be cleaning, another cooking, one ironing your clothes and the last one can be a reserve in case one of the others have an accident. :D But i dunno imagine all that nagging, you may have to fire 2 :(

please not another many wives thread...:zzz:

[LastFriday]

Says u, but having 4 is easier than 1 bcos u just need to love each one 25% as opposed to 100& if u only had 1 ;)

Ya, thats not gonna cut it with the wives. They want 100% of your, not 25. No excuses. Women are jealous creatures by nature!

[Khuram_2k?]

:i need to marry one first :inlove:, then think about 2, 3, or even 4.:torture:

knowing the path is not the same as walking it. :up:

[MustBePatient]

If you want more then one wife, marry poor people or people in war torn countries, I would think that would be a good deed as well.

[Saudi Prince]

There is not such a thing as having 4 wives! Every man should aim for it and I adivce all the brothers here to seriously consider it. ;)

[Khuram_2k?]

but this all ends in the same place, can one support 4 wives? as we've seen in other threads people think its hard to support just 1. Allah knows what they've seen thats so frightening.

[abood]

assalam alaikum

who ever brother is plaining to have more then 1 wife then be ready to pay Mahar,clothes,gold,land,house to each one of them...


wassalam

[LastFriday]

assalam alaikum

who ever brother is plaining to have more then 1 wife then be ready to pay Mahar,clothes,gold,land,house to each one of them...


wassalam

LOL GOLD! LOTS AND LOTS OF GOLD!:rotfl:

[abood]

LOL GOLD! LOTS AND LOTS OF GOLD!:rotfl:


thats not funny

[LastFriday]

thats not funny

LOL :rotfl: Gold Font Color! :up:

[abood]

LOL :rotfl: Gold Font Color! :up:

:spunch:

and i forgot....FARM tooo :D :D :D

[.: hayat :.]

Men are so lucky they can marry up to 4 wives :coolbro: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis:

One will be cleaning, another cooking, one ironing your clothes and the last one can be a reserve in case one of the others have an accident. :D But i dunno imagine all that nagging, you may have to fire 2 :(

they r lucky if they CAN marry 4 wifes...but the majority r able to deal just with one...

[afsalim]

Men are so lucky they can marry up to 4 wives :coolbro: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis:

One will be cleaning, another cooking, one ironing your clothes and the last one can be a reserve in case one of the others have an accident. :D But i dunno imagine all that nagging, you may have to fire 2 :(

Alas! Only if it was so easy!

[GuCcI]

oh well. if u want go for it

[Dain Bramaged]

they r lucky if they CAN marry 4 wifes...but the majority r able to deal just with one...

A man always loves a challenge :up:

[Neurostyler]

Does anyone here have a father who has more than one wife?

[Dain Bramaged]

You like the role of a pimp don't you?

And what's a pimps role? :coolbro:

[Riceball]

And what's a pimps role? :coolbro:

jeez, and do I have to tell you what pimps do? How old are you?

[Dain Bramaged]

jeez, and do I have to tell you what pimps do? How old are you?

What kind of pimps are we talking about? :rolleyes:

[Riceball]

What kind of pimps are we talking about? :rolleyes:

I dunno... How many kinds of pimps are there. :rubeyes:

[GuCcI]

wats with this silly pimp talk

grow up

[LastFriday]

A man always loves a challenge :up:

:rotfl: hahahaha

[mizfissy815]

assalam alaikum

who ever brother is plaining to have more then 1 wife then be ready to pay Mahar,clothes,gold,land,house to each one of them...


wassalam

Out of curiosity, since when was all but the Mahr necessary to get married?

A bro can get married and not provide all but the Mahr to them and whatever else he can. But that doesn't have to include gold, land, house, etc...

All though, I do understand what you mean...treating them equally and that. This post is merely a response to the general theme to some of the other posts (and this one...sorta).

[Zesty]

Like the bro says: He was knocked on his head when he was a babyyyy :D would explain everything.

[Metroid]

:coolbro::love::fairy:
:coolbro::love::fairy::coolsis:
:coolbro::love::fairy::coolsis::fairy:
:coolbro::love::fairy::coolsis::fairy::75:

:insha: it could be a guidance to me to Jennah
:hidban:

[bint]

Does anyone here have a father who has more than one wife?
Why?

[GuCcI]

:coolbro::love::fairy:
:coolbro::love::fairy::coolsis:
:coolbro::love::fairy::coolsis::fairy:
:coolbro::love::fairy::coolsis::fairy::75:

:insha: it could be a guidance to me to Jennah
:hidban:


your picture story doesnt make sense.

u seem to be marrying the same girl twice in the last 2 lines :rubeyes:

[Metroid]

your picture story doesnt make sense.

u seem to be marrying the same girl twice in the last 2 lines :rubeyes:

They are twins:D
jk
there is only types of women in emoticons, but one of them was a nerdo

[Dain Bramaged]

Like the bro says: He was knocked on his head when he was a babyyyy :D would explain everything.

:banghead: @)

[abood]

Out of curiosity, since when was all but the Mahr necessary to get married?

A bro can get married and not provide all but the Mahr to them and whatever else he can. But that doesn't have to include gold, land, house, etc...

All though, I do understand what you mean...treating them equally and that. This post is merely a response to the general theme to some of the other posts (and this one...sorta).


in here its like this...

if you have farm then surely wife will ask it.... :D

[PiElle2]

question.... why does a man need 4 wives to make him a man...?

[LastFriday]

question.... why does a man need 4 wives to make him a man...?

Answer.... he doesn't.

[hanaa_al_muminah]

i wudnt mind my husband marrying4 wives, as long as im the 1st n he tells me about dem b4 marrying dem..so he doesnt end up sinning by lying to me sayin his goin work or to his"friends house"..etc etc....

i think its the "not tellin me" part that i wud get angry n upset wiv not him marryin other sisters.....coz thats his right n its up to me to deal wiv my feelings n his responsibility to treat us equal/to be just wiv us all..salam :)

[wifeseeker]

wow thats a big heart u got my sis.
most women r'nt on ur level.
personally i'd like 4 wives cus i want loads of kids.
it wud keep me busy but happy.
if u know 4 women who wud do this let me know!

[abood]

i wudnt mind my husband marrying4 wives, as long as im the 1st n he tells me about dem b4 marrying dem..so he doesnt end up sinning by lying to me sayin his goin work or to his"friends house"..etc etc....

i think its the "not tellin me" part that i wud get angry n upset wiv not him marryin other sisters.....coz thats his right n its up to me to deal wiv my feelings n his responsibility to treat us equal/to be just wiv us all..salam :)

jazakALLAH alfkhair ukhti :)

may ALLAH give you jannah for you patience
amin

wassalam

your sister in islam

[abood]

wow thats a big heart u got my sis.
most women r'nt on ur level.
personally i'd like 4 wives cus i want loads of kids.
it wud keep me busy but happy.
if u know 4 women who wud do this let me know!

jazakALLAH alf khair ukhi

may you have beautiful and muttaqi wives
and may your children be the protector of islam
and make you enter jannah
amin

WASSALAM

your sister in islam

[afsalim]

wow thats a big heart u got my sis.
most women r'nt on ur level.
personally i'd like 4 wives cus i want loads of kids.
it wud keep me busy but happy.
if u know 4 women who wud do this let me know!

Provided the fact whether UK allows polygamous marriages.

[wifeseeker]

i don't see a contradiction ie islam overrides all laws. i'm not suggesting registering the marriages in the uk, just having sum1 qualified 2 pronounce us husband n wife. if we r believers n fear allah then our 'word' will b enuff. i think that is the essence.

[Treasured Soul]

LOL GOLD! LOTS AND LOTS OF GOLD!:rotfl:

LOL :rotfl: Gold Font Color! :up:

:rotfl: :rotfl:

[hanaa_al_muminah]

jazakALLAH alfkhair ukhti :)

may ALLAH give you jannah for you patience
amin

wassalam

your sister in islam



wa iyaki ya habibti......

[afsalim]

i don't see a contradiction ie islam overrides all laws. i'm not suggesting registering the marriages in the uk, just having sum1 qualified 2 pronounce us husband n wife. if we r believers n fear allah then our 'word' will b enuff. i think that is the essence.

In essence, breaking the law.

[hanaa_al_muminah]

In essence, breaking the law.

yeh,,they call it bigamy(i think its spelt like that)

[hanaa_al_muminah]

wow thats a big heart u got my sis.
most women r'nt on ur level.
personally i'd like 4 wives cus i want loads of kids.
it wud keep me busy but happy.
if u know 4 women who wud do this let me know!

lol....sorry...i dont think i can help bro!

most sisters i no r against this 100%...May Allah open their hearts and cleanse it from the thoughts of western culture!!! ameeen...

[abood]

lol....sorry...i dont think i can help bro!

most sisters i no r against this 100%...May Allah open their hearts and cleanse it from the thoughts of western culture!!! ameeen...

NO SISTER

there are many muslim sisters who agree..

[dhakiyya]

Men are so lucky they can marry up to 4 wives :coolbro: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis: :nerdsis:

One will be cleaning, another cooking, one ironing your clothes and the last one can be a reserve in case one of the others have an accident. :D But i dunno imagine all that nagging, you may have to fire 2 :(

no. one will be going shopping (with his money) another will be at the gym and sauna (also with his money) and the other two will be at home (a large house subdivided into four apartments, one for each wife, plus a large communal living room) baby minding all 23 of his children, all of whom have new clothes and toys bought with his money and who are currently either playing football in the living room, or playing in the garden with the boxes the toys came in, and the two wives minding the children will both demand to be taken out to a restaurant (guess whose paying) that evening to compensate for the stress of having to look after all the children whist the other two wives were out having fun.

meanwhile he will be hiding in the attic trying to get some piece and quiet.

[abood]

no. one will be going shopping (with his money) another will be at the gym and sauna (also with his money) and the other two will be at home (a large house subdivided into four apartments, one for each wife, plus a large communal living room) baby minding all 23 of his children, all of whom have new clothes and toys bought with his money and who are currently either playing football in the living room, or playing in the garden with the boxes the toys came in, and the two wives minding the children will both demand to be taken out to a restaurant (guess whose paying) that evening to compensate for the stress of having to look after all the children whist the other two wives were out having fun.

meanwhile he will be hiding in the attic trying to get some piece and quiet.

subhanALLAH .............................

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

[wifeseeker]

well, hope we all manage 2 find n stay on the straight path whether we hav 1 wife or 4.

[Dain Bramaged]

no. one will be going shopping (with his money) another will be at the gym and sauna (also with his money) and the other two will be at home (a large house subdivided into four apartments, one for each wife, plus a large communal living room) baby minding all 23 of his children, all of whom have new clothes and toys bought with his money and who are currently either playing football in the living room, or playing in the garden with the boxes the toys came in, and the two wives minding the children will both demand to be taken out to a restaurant (guess whose paying) that evening to compensate for the stress of having to look after all the children whist the other two wives were out having fun.

meanwhile he will be hiding in the attic trying to get some piece and quiet.

I'll take her shopping and buy her whatever she wants cos shes gonna hav to pick something good as she will hav to get something they all would like, since they'll be sharing it. :coolbro: I'll also hav a home gym, for me but yh they could use it if they want. The kids can play, but only in their mother's room HAHAHA! They would have toys to play, but they will hav to wait their turn, its gonna be passed on room-to-room! I'll take them to a restaurant, in fact i'll take all of them (feeling pretty lucky) ;) and treat them to a 4-course meal... one will hav the starter, another main course, and another desert and the final one a tea or coffee :1popcorn:

I will be hiding in the attic... conspiring on how I can get a 5th :coolbro:

[ebolebo]

NO SISTER

there are many muslim sisters who agree..This is what you say over at the *real meaning of Islam* thread
its better to listen husband then living husband fulfil his needs with other women.....
and no women agrees that he husband sleep with other woman...impossible and no way and never.

[abood]

This is what you say over at the *real meaning of Islam* thread

go go...bring something else to argue with me...

you failed to defame islam and you are still striving for....
good for you :up:

work more hard :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

[MMS]

yeh sure MEN can have 4 wives
but i sure as hell don't see any men around here :rubeyes::rubeyes::rubeyes:

[ebolebo]

go go...bring something else to argue with me...

you failed to defame islam and you are still striving for....
good for you :up:

work more hard :D :D :D :D :D :D :DWell, you declared victory and fled... so, of course I failed... ;)

[abood]

Well, you declared victory and fled... so, of course I failed... ;)

yessssssssssssss
:hidban: :hidban: :hidban: :hidban: :hidban: :hidban: :hidban:

don't be sad. :( ....ما عليك:D
next time prepare well..... :up: :D

[ebolebo]

yessssssssssssss
:hidban: :hidban: :hidban: :hidban: :hidban: :hidban: :hidban:

don\'t be sad. :( ....ما عليك:D
next time prepare well..... :up: :D Abood, the one who abandons the battleplace loses... old principle.

But, declaring victory and fleeing also works. :)

[GuCcI]

:icon_offtopic:

[abood]

Abood, the one who abandons the battleplace loses... old principle.

But, declaring victory and fleeing also works. :)

don't cry...don't cry.....don't cry....;)

next time come with full war equipments if you wanna fight in my battle feild :up:
remeber its very hard to fight in desert .... :D :D ;) :D :D;)

[ebolebo]

:icon_offtopic:OK, OK I m leaving....

and, without even declaring victory :)

[*IslamicGirl*]

:start:

:salams


remeber its very hard to fight in desert .... :D :D ;) :D :D;)

:D esp if one suffers from indigestion ;)

Ebo Lebo is a bitter liqueur recommended for digestion

Unless a different meaning was applied when you picked your name ebolebo?

:wswrwb:

[hanaa_al_muminah]

Does anyone here have a father who has more than one wife?

nope

[hanaa_al_muminah]

:icon_offtopic:

lol...i no......everyone is goin off topic...... wat about u Gucci? wud u let ur husband take 3 other sisters as wives??:rolleyes:

[abood]

lol...i no......everyone is goin off topic...... wat about u Gucci? wud u let ur husband take 3 other sisters as wives??:rolleyes:

assalam alaikum

sister i don't think its good way to ask...
because ALLAH have allowed muslim man to marry 4 then who we are to stop them or not let them to not marry...
in this way will be disobeying ALLAHs command

jazakALLAH alf khair

wassalam.

[hanaa_al_muminah]

assalam alaikum

sister i don't think its good way to ask...
because ALLAH have allowed muslim man to marry 4 then who we are to stop them or not let them to not marry...
in this way will be disobeying ALLAHs command

jazakALLAH alf khair

wassalam.

wa iyaki

that wernt my intentions sis, and i agree that we shud obey Allah's command......otherwise we cant call ourselves muslims.... jus wanted to know the sister's view on it.........

[Kubs]

wa iyaki

that wernt my intentions sis, and i agree that we shud obey Allah's command......otherwise we cant call ourselves muslims.... jus wanted to know the sister's view on it.........

I wouldn't want my future husband to get married again. :zzz:

[Dain Bramaged]

I wouldn't want my future husband to get married again. :zzz:

U dont always get what you want ;)

@) :coolsis: :coolsis: :coolsis: :coolsis:

[Kubs]

U dont always get what you want ;) @) :coolsis: :coolsis: :coolsis: :coolsis:

If I state it in my nikkah...I will. :rolleyes:

[MG]

If I state it in my nikkah...I will. :rolleyes:


sis u cant forbid him to do it in your nikkah , all u can say is if he does it then i want a divorce but u cant actually forbid him from doing it.

[Kubs]

sis u cant forbid him to do it in your nikkah , all u can say is if he does it then i want a divorce but u cant actually forbid him from doing it.

Well obviously :p If he marries again...I will divorce him. Simple.

[Dain Bramaged]

If I state it in my nikkah...I will. :rolleyes:

Inshaallah u wont forgot to read the small print :D

[Kubs]

Inshaallah u wont forgot to read the small print :D

I'm not 'brain damaged' like yourself :rolleyes: :p

[hanaa_al_muminah]

I'm not 'brain damaged' like yourself :rolleyes: :p

dats a good one kubs..lol

[Dain Bramaged]

I'm not 'brain damaged' like yourself :rolleyes: :p

Tel me twyc

[wifeseeker]

yeh sure MEN can have 4 wives
but i sure as hell don't see any men around here :rubeyes::rubeyes::rubeyes:

haaaaaaaaaayyyyy pipe down.
jus as well u can't c me.
men r similar physically but our hearts differ, n only allah knows mine.
so don't sweep us all with the same brush.
salaam.

[Dain Bramaged]

I'm not 'brain damaged' like yourself :rolleyes: :p

For sumone whos not brain damaged u dnt sound to sure :rolleyes: :D

[ana_mujahid]

u dnt get married to use women, if u cant treat all the same u only are allowed to get married 2 one!

Plus one is enough, picture all the nagging and fussing, and a million kids just asking for more money! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

i think one is more than enough for me :)
but my dad wants me to get married for 2+

edit-

ALLAHu 3lam

i might not get married at all!

[ebolebo]

Well obviously :p If he marries again...I will divorce him. Simple.What if he receives some captive slave girls as part of his legitimate booty in some warring expedition ?

[BARAA IBN MALIK]

WELL THERE IS ONE THING
I KNOW a brother who wants to marry cozhe dont like da sister no more!!!!!
hello he just wont treat em da same it aint like that right
can he just do that i feel bad for her seriously
u have to luv em equally rite.
luv ur wife,
but seriously luv should actually not be able to describe what u feel for ur wives its a small word

[abood]

Well obviously :p If he marries again...I will divorce him. Simple.

assalam alaikum

sister its simple and easy to say but it is hard to do...

once you fall in love with your husband then you will not able to think about even making him angry..

wassalam

[hanaa_al_muminah]

assalam alaikum

sister its simple and easy to say but it is hard to do...

once you fall in love with your husband then you will not able to think about even making him angry..

wassalam


yeeeeeeep..true:up: