The issue of marriage

[الحجر الاسود]

The issue of marriage has become a major issue and occupies a large space to the people because of the complications that accompanied now become what it was before,
What is the solution in your opinion.
What is the real obstacle to marriage these days.
Please answer

[Kita Korai]

Obstacle is what also is the obstacles for Muslims in everythig, the elders wish to control everything.

[Unique1]

I'd like to put your question in another way and then answer it
What problems would i face if i wanted to get married right now?(which i dont im too young yet)
firstly how do i tell my parents i wanna get married
and then who do i get married to.Ders also the issue of how he would provide for me,house,income,occupation,future planning.(By the way i'm not this fussy it's just an example)
Basically i think were too much linked to the world.we want satisfaction,happiness and perfection.Also i think we tried to find people who think like us but the way everyone things has becum so diverse nowadays thats its hard to find sum1.
theres sum of the issues i'm sure i'll think of more aswell after a while.