Where can I find a wife!

[Mujib]

Salaam,

Does any one know where I can find myself a wife? apart from shaadi.com single muslim, ebay :D etc etc

[MMS]

Ummah.com??

[MG]

Salaam,

Does any one know where I can find myself a wife? apart from shaadi.com single muslim, ebay :D etc etc


wa alaikum aslaam

ebay? well thats a new one...:rubeyes:


bro its the usual way, tell your friends and family to keep an eye out for u, tell your local masjid imam that u want help in finding someone, and also, if it helps, there are marriage events that u can go to with your family (or one member of your family) and meet potential wife?

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=157830

[Fais]

Salaam,

Does any one know where I can find myself a wife? apart from shaadi.com single muslim, ebay :D etc etc

:rofl1: ...

[Saudi Prince]

Why don't you put your marriage CV and who knows someone might surprise you with a pm. ;)

[MG]

Ummah.com??

:rofl1: ...

Why don't you put your marriage CV and who knows someone might surprise you with a pm. ;)


wether this brother is serious or not about the thread he has made, he has asked for help on how to complete half his deen and u lot are mocking him and laughing at him, if you have nothing good to say, then dont speak at all .

Yet again its the USUAL suspects..gets annoying after a while..not more funny..

[Fais]

wether this brother is serious or not about the thread he has made, he has asked for help on how to complete half his deen and u lot are mocking him and laughing at him, if you have nothing good to say, then dont speak at all .

Yet again its the USUAL suspects..gets annoying after a while..not more funny..

I know the brother in serious about this.

But he doesn't listen. What can i do?

And how am i the usual suspect?

[MG]

I know the brother in serious about this.

But he doesn't listen. What can i do?

And how am i the usual suspect?


wether he is serious or not, if he isnt listening to u,doesnt mean u start laffing at what he is trying to achieve....u know your the usual suspect

[Fais]

wether he is serious or not, if he isnt listening to u,doesnt mean u start laffing at what he is trying to achieve....u know your the usual suspect

Ok.

But i aint the usual suspect.

[MG]

Ok.

But i aint the usual suspect.



:smack:

[urban_rose]

wa alaikum salaam

maybe you could ask help from family/relatives/friends who may use their contacts to let you know of any suitable muslimahs for you. Or your local Imaam, he probably knows many families and can provide good references :)

[GuCcI]

wether this brother is serious or not about the thread he has made, he has asked for help on how to complete half his deen and u lot are mocking him and laughing at him, if you have nothing good to say, then dont speak at all .

Yet again its the USUAL suspects..gets annoying after a while..not more funny..

the last brother who made a thread on this exact topic i replied to the same way u r and it turned out he made it cuz he was bored :smack:

[Saudi Prince]

wether this brother is serious or not about the thread he has made, he has asked for help on how to complete half his deen and u lot are mocking him and laughing at him, if you have nothing good to say, then dont speak at all .

Yet again its the USUAL suspects..gets annoying after a while..not more funny..

I did give him a practical solution!

[MG]

the last brother who made a thread on this exact topic i replied to the same way u r and it turned out he made it cuz he was bored :smack:


if it turns out a person is lying and makes a thread like this as a joke,that is between him and allah swt but what i meant is that others dont need to get childish about it all

[Asmara]

You can find a wife in your neighbourhood (in da hood), at your place of study or place of work. Your friends could help you, and perhaps the imam of your local masjid too.

[insomniac]

Salaam,

Does any one know where I can find myself a wife? apart from shaadi.com single muslim, ebay :D etc etc

:wswrwb:

ask your mum and dad, brothers and sisters, friends and family to keep a look out for you....

Alternatively check this out :insha:

http://www.totallyislamic.com/mat/index.php?page=sisters-profiles


:up:


:salams

[Saudi Prince]

:wswrwb:

ask your mum and dad, brothers and sisters, friends and family to keep a look out for you....

Alternatively check this out :insha:

http://www.totallyislamic.com/mat/index.php?page=sisters-profiles


:up:

:salams

ummah ones?

[insomniac]

ummah ones?

mainly people he knows...as little is known about him and it's safer to do things in person insha'Allaah

[Kal-El]

:wswrwb:

ask your mum and dad, brothers and sisters, friends and family to keep a look out for you....

Alternatively check this out :insha:

http://www.totallyislamic.com/mat/index.php?page=sisters-profiles


:up:


:salams

Wow, such variety in ages there.

[zammy]

Close your eyes and count to 100.

[insomniac]

Close your eyes and count to 100.

:rubeyes:

nothing happened....

edit: ok so I counted until 20 :o

[zammy]

:rubeyes:

nothing happened....

edit: ok so I counted until 20 :o

Really? I guess that means you're just not ready :scratch:

oh, you cheater :D

[Joha]

Wow, such variety in ages there.

hehe - true, I just got bored, I read the brothers and the sisters one.... no enthusiasm, no flamboyancy, nothing, plain old cliches, above all, no individualism!

[*IslamicGirl*]

:start:

:salams

Salaam,

Does any one know where I can find myself a wife? apart from shaadi.com single muslim, ebay :D etc etc

Akhee, how do you do other stuff, like buy stuff? Pass exams, that sort of stuff?

You work towards it right, your post sounds like you're expecting a semi-Hoor to come knocking on your door :p

You just have to talk to your parents i think that's the first step :D

:wswrwb:

[Kal-El]

hehe - true, I just got bored, I read the brothers and the sisters one.... no enthusiasm, no flamboyancy, nothing, plain old cliches, above all, no individualism!

I thought the same, why they all sounded similar. But then again, getting into detail about yourself and flaunting your persona that it'd seem so different to others, might be construed as immodesty and immaturity. Perhaps that is why they toned it down and kept it formal?

[insomniac]

Wow, such variety in ages there.

yeah there is.... May Allaah swt help the brothers and sisters find their partners insha'Allaah. Ameenhehe - true, I just got bored, I read the brothers and the sisters one.... no enthusiasm, no flamboyancy, nothing, plain old cliches, above all, no individualism!

I thought the same, why they all sounded similar. But then again, getting into detail about yourself and flaunting your persona that it'd seem so different to others, might be construed as immodesty and immaturity. Perhaps that is why they toned it down and kept it formal?


yeh thas prob why

[Joha]

I thought the same, why they all sounded similar. But then again, getting into detail about yourself and flaunting your persona that it'd seem so different to others, might be construed as immodesty and immaturity. Perhaps that is why they toned it down and kept it formal?

well, not really. It's like any job application (:D), you've got to show who you are - they're not going to second guess are they? (within limits of course)

And if you want to attract the best (which I guess you would want to do), you've got to stand out. It's a competition!

[Joha]

yeah there is.... May Allaah swt help the brothers and sisters find their partners insha'Allaah. Ameen

Ameen!

[insomniac]

well, not really. It's like any job application (:D), you've got to show who you are - they're not going to second guess are they? (within limits of course)

And if you want to attract the best (which I guess you would want to do), you've got to stand out. It's a competition!

I don't think the sisters are competing one another, they will mostly have different preferences in relation to one another...they are merely looking for their life partners.

May the be granted their partners soon insha'Allaah, Ameen.

[GuCcI]

well, not really. It's like any job application (:D), you've got to show who you are - they're not going to second guess are they? (within limits of course)

job application? *gulp* in high school a boy always bullied me about arranged marriages and how my dad collects resumes and job applications :crying: ppl were so mean :(

i think ppl are going act politer and nicer when they know theyre being kinda "judged" in a way by the way they talk and everything cuz i know wen i first talked to my future mother in law and the family i talked all shy and quiet but thats not really who i am u know, its about the first impression and now my fiance complains about how i never stop talking... teehee *giggle* :coolsis:

[.: hayat :.]

Salaam,

Does any one know where I can find myself a wife? apart from shaadi.com single muslim, ebay :D etc etc

Ummah.com??

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[Joha]

job application? *gulp* in high school a boy always bullied me about arranged marriages and how my dad collects resumes and job applications :crying: ppl were so mean :(

i think ppl are going act politer and nicer when they know theyre being kinda "judged" in a way by the way they talk and everything cuz i know wen i first talked to my future mother in law and the family i talked all shy and quiet but thats not really who i am u know, its about the first impression and now my fiance complains about how i never stop talking... teehee *giggle* :coolsis:

lol, that's what it sounds like - admittedly I haven't been through either, so I wouldn't know...

yea, if, in real life, you're anything like Ummah's GuCcI, I'd be pretty worried myself

jus' kidding

[GuCcI]

lol, that's what it sounds like - admittedly I haven't been through either, so I wouldn't know...

yea, if, in real life, you're anything like Ummah's GuCcI, I'd be pretty worried myself

jus' kidding

WAAH?! :rubeyes:

:(

[Redmist]

And if you want to attract the best (which I guess you would want to do), you've got to stand out. It's a competition!

Your right about that Joha, it is a competition! If you want to attract the best you have to be the best :inlove:

throw all caution to the wind :p

it is hard to do though and even harder to maintain :torture:

[insomniac]

Your right about that Joha, it is a competition! If you want to attract the best you have to be the best :inlove:

throw all caution to the wind :p

it is hard to do though and even harder to maintain :torture:

:spunch: it's not a competition!

[Saudi Prince]

mainly people he knows...as little is known about him and it's safer to do things in person insha'Allaah



Alternatively check this out :insha:

http://www.totallyislamic.com/mat/index.php?page=sisters-profiles

:up:


I smell contradiction here? Anyone else does?

[Tahiyah]

Close your eyes and count to 100.

lol..you forgot click your heals and repeat theres no place like home..

[Redmist]

:spunch: it's not a competition!

It is'nt? Ok.

[Mujib]

:DMG thanks for the support! I am here talking about y situation and you guys are just taking the mick IM GNA TELL MY MUM NOW :rubeyes:

The thing is if i find myself someone my mother will not agree, she wants me to get married to someone in pakistan, which I am totally against, I like nothing about her. She said either you get married to her or you get married to no one! So I am stuck, i dont think I will be able to find myself a girl who is willing to be with me while knowing my mum is against it (altho I dont need a mehram to get married) SO HELP!!
MG HELP!!
:D

[Joha]

:spunch: it's not a competition!

welllll, that's what they teach us these days for the sake of political correctness..

But you're right sis, it's not a competition.

Mujib, if you really don't like her (the girl, not your mother), say so, explain and be firm. InshaAllah your family will understand. And if it all goes badly, don't worry, it's not as if they can keep you from marrying once you've grown up.

[insomniac]

I smell contradiction here? Anyone else does?

this is through the Masjid...which I should have mentioned earlier....Masjids are another means of finding a suitable partner insha'Allaah

[Saudi Prince]

this is through the Masjid...which I should have mentioned earlier....Masjids are another means of finding a suitable partner insha'Allaah

What do you mean through a masjid?

[Joha]

What do you mean through a masjid?

Hmm, you know, your initiation ceremonies are over, it's about time you picked up a good treatise on the English language and studied. Try some literature while you're at it too - it really does help.

...just a friendly suggestion from somebody who has your best interests at heart :rolleyes:

[Saudi Prince]

Hmm, you know, your initiation ceremonies are over, it's about time you picked up a good treatise on the English language and studied. Try some literature while you're at it too - it really does help.

...just a friendly suggestion from somebody who has your best interests at heart :rolleyes:

Joha, try not to embarrass yourself by jumping in every time you think you understand the question!

[Joha]

Joha, try not to embarrass yourself by jumping in every time you think you understand the question!

What do you mean through a masjid?

well, I'm having terrible difficulty figuring out how else I can understand your question. Surely you don't think she actually meant running through the walls of the masjid looking for a spouse?

you can tell, I'm bored, okay, off to sleep then. Enjoy yourself.

[Saudi Prince]

well, I'm having terrible difficulty figuring out how else I can understand your question. Surely you don't think she actually meant running through the walls of the masjid looking for a spouse?

you can tell, I'm bored, okay, off to sleep then. Enjoy yourself.

This is your complete nonsense I mean your stupid understanding!! I love it when you condemn your own silly understanding of my question!

[Joha]

This is your complete nonsense I mean your stupid understanding!! I love it when you condemn your own silly understanding of my question!

ah, you people will never get sarcasm, just not civilised enough.

Not until you've grown up and realised that the value of a human being transcends nation, colour, tribe, race, ethnic origin...

*doubly sarcastic*

[Saudi Prince]

ah, you people will never get sarcasm, just not civilised enough.

Not until you've grown up and realised that the value of a human being transcends nation, colour, tribe, race, ethnic origin...

*doubly sarcastic*

Nobody talks about colour, race or anything else! This is from your own head!

Again I'm happy whenever you make up some stuff through your stupid understanding then proceed to condmn it. Well done! Try again.

[Mujib]

I am grown up i am going to be 26 in april!! But i am firm, she tries the emotional blackmail which wont work with me, I will leave it to allah, and inshallah things will work out for the best!

Thanks for the replies people!

[funk999]

eBay

[insomniac]

What do you mean through a masjid?

the website I gave is via a masjid - the people all attend a masjid so they have posted their info on this website in order to find their future spouses insha'Allaah.

:insha: I hope that clears up the confusion.

[Saudi Prince]

the website I gave is via a masjid - the people all attend a masjid so they have posted their info on this website in order to find their future spouses insha'Allaah.

:insha: I hope that clears up the confusion.

So, they post their CVs in the website and then meet in the mosque. Do they meet individually or in group and is it controlled by the imam of the mosque or what?

[insomniac]

So, they post their CVs in the website and then meet in the mosque. Do they meet individually or in group and is it controlled by the imam of the mosque or what?

it is sorted via the masjid - :insha: I'm sure in a controlled environment.

I have never taken part so I'm not sure as to the ins and outs.

[Baybars]

Why don't you put your marriage CV and who knows someone might surprise you with a pm. ;)

Marriage CV?

What would you include in it?

[insomniac]

Marriage CV?

What would you include in it?

name age etc.

education

work

achievements/ skills / interests / hobbies

referees


like any other CV I think :confused:

maybe you'd need a cover letter too....:p

[Saudi Prince]

Marriage CV?

What would you include in it?

Everything about you that you think your spouse wants to know about. :)

[Saudi Prince]

name age etc.

education

work

achievements/ skills / interests / hobbies

referees


like any other CV I think :confused:

maybe you'd need a cover letter too....:p

And how many times you got rejected so far. :D

[insomniac]

And how many times you got rejected so far. :D

why don't you shut your cake hole :D

[Baybars]

maybe you'd need a cover letter too....:p

:D And references?

Everything about you that you think your spouse wants to know about. :)

I didn't realize people did such a thing, it seems strange.

[insomniac]

:D And references?



I didn't realize people did such a thing, it seems strange.

yeh referees were mentioned above....I duno it was done until my sis mentioned people at her uni were doing it :rubeyes::rubeyes:

[Saudi Prince]

why don't you shut your cake hole :D

< 10 times is within the accepted range. ;)

[Baybars]

yeh referees were mentioned above....I duno it was done until my sis mentioned people at her uni were doing it :rubeyes::rubeyes:

hmmm.....seems overly formal and clinical to me.

[insomniac]

< 10 times is within the accepted range. ;)

I'm not sure what you mean by that?

hmmm.....seems overly formal and clinical to me.

I guess it works for some....this way it's eliminating a whole load of things based on the limited info on the CV and people don't waste time - thas what was explained to me....

[Saudi Prince]

I'm not sure what you mean by that?

less than 10 rejections. :D

[insomniac]

less than 10 rejections. :D

A Prince being rejected :rubeyes: - what did you do? have them beheaded for saying no to His Arrogance? :rolleyes:

[Kal-El]

Saudi bro, how old are you exactly? Just curious.

People in the past have thought I was late 20's or 30's :D

[PiElle2]

how about saying "i'm ready for a LIFE TIME COMMITMENT and FULL RESPONSIBILITIES" then maybe, your wife-to-be will appear in front of you... LOL

[Saudi Prince]

A Prince being rejected :rubeyes: - what did you do? have them beheaded for saying no to His Arrogance? :rolleyes:

hahaha don't worry about the prince! The prince rejects and does not get rejected! ;)

[Saudi Prince]

Saudi bro, how old are you exactly? Just curious.

People in the past have thought I was late 20's or 30's :D


26 and 1.5 month. :)

[Kal-El]

Wow. We'd all be surprised by our ages I suppose

[insomniac]

hahaha don't worry about the prince! The prince rejects and does not get rejected! ;)

keep telling yourself that...less heartache that way :up:

[Saudi Prince]

how about saying "i'm ready for a LIFE TIME COMMITMENT and FULL RESPONSIBILITIES" then maybe, your wife-to-be will appear in front of you... LOL

Nowadays, everybody can say anything! :)

[PiElle2]

Nowadays, everybody can say anything! :)


never underestimate the power of the spoken words... ;)

[Saudi Prince]

keep telling yourself that...less heartache that way :up:

I swear this was the truth. :)

[Baybars]

Maybe you could send some of your rejections my way!

[Saudi Prince]

Maybe you could send some of your rejections my way!

:)

[Baybars]

:)

Is that a "yeah, sure" :)

or is it a "yeah right, I don't think so" :)

:D

[Saudi Prince]

Is that a "yeah, sure" :)

or is it a "yeah right, I don't think so" :)

:D

You're the translator. :) :D

[insomniac]

26 and 1.5 month. :)

:rubeyes: you don't act it tho...

Wow. We'd all be surprised by our ages I suppose


ditto

[Mujib]

You can find a wife in your neighbourhood (in da hood), at your place of study or place of work. Your friends could help you, and perhaps the imam of your local masjid too.

My hood lol! Wont find anything here

[Mujib]

:start:

:salams



Akhee, how do you do other stuff, like buy stuff? Pass exams, that sort of stuff?

You work towards it right, your post sounds like you're expecting a semi-Hoor to come knocking on your door :p

You just have to talk to your parents i think that's the first step :D

:wswrwb:


I know how to buy stuff but not pass exams! Im not the most academic person in the world...but mum is the problem lol...dont worry allah will sort something out :hidban: Inshallah

[nadzz]

Slam i am in the situation as brother Mujib. I also need help.
Inshallah ALLAH have someone for me somwhere

AH