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Love&Peace
29-01-08, 04:00 PM
All ummah.com friends are invited and not invited....
Invited becuase well its my turn....
Not Invited because for u some things might be haraam.
I have met my would be and his family but I am very nervous, getting cold feet and some feeling in my tummy which we get while coming down in Roller-coaster ride.
And I am not getting any mushy romantic feelings for my would be.... Did anyone have that syndrome before marriage?
some folks here are so mature and resposible, I really appreciate them... they take this responsibilities in their early twenties.
And one thing, as I will not be working for some days I have planned to start reading Quran. Some nice bro/sis has agiven me the links. Though I don't follow Islam, I see it as a Guidance.
Youre getting married? lol congratulations :D
afsalim
29-01-08, 06:37 PM
Wow. A thousand congratulations! Getting cold feet is normal. I'm only days away from my marriage and I'm getting cold feet, hands, toes, etc. It's a huge step. So its normal to be nervous.
Congrats!
Getting cold feet and feeling fluttery (nerves) is quite normal. It'll soon subside :p
yaaay congratulations :hidban:
LastFriday
29-01-08, 08:55 PM
Congratulations :) Keep up the...good...work..? :scratch:
NO seriously hope you have a happy life :D And don't worry bout the cold feet, you will Fall in love afterwards, Just make sure you two are on the same page when it comes to basic life principles, kids, education, morals, Religion :rolleyes:
ibn suleman
29-01-08, 11:13 PM
congratulations :D
Al-Farooq
29-01-08, 11:13 PM
Congratulations on the marriage......and on deciding to read the Qur'an. Those may prove to be the two most important decisions of your life insha'Allah.
I hope you will be very happy in your marriage....and, of course, I pray that Allah subhanahu wa ta'aala blesses you with the wisdom and purity of thought to see the beauty and truth inherent in al-Qur'an al-Karim (the Noble Qur'an) and consequently, Islam.
Medievalist
29-01-08, 11:16 PM
congrats. :up:
nerves are normal and fluttery stomach.
Congratulations!
I take it this is an arranged marriage?
What was that line from Joy Luck Club? "Western marriage start with bang, then it's over. Chinese marriage start with simmer and slowly rise to long boil."
Or something like that. I saw the movie so long ago. :)
May the two of you have a long, prosperous life together full of love.
Love&Peace
30-01-08, 06:00 AM
Zesty, afsalim, Ebony, Gucci, lastFriday, IbnSuleman, Al-Farooq, Medi, Mace....
Thanks a lot for your kind words :)
They were really helped.
Currently, I am like this :confused:
Want to be like this soon :hidban:
because I will marry only once in life time so I want to enjoy it.....
Love&Peace
30-01-08, 06:04 AM
Congratulations!
I take it this is an arranged marriage?
What was that line from Joy Luck Club? "Western marriage start with bang, then it's over. Chinese marriage start with simmer and slowly rise to long boil."
Or something like that. I saw the movie so long ago. :)
May the two of you have a long, prosperous life together full of love.
Yeah, Love&Peace finally going for Arranged marriage !! Thats Life :(
Thanks for the line Mace, your words were very helpful as always ;)
Medievalist
30-01-08, 10:22 AM
u say we're invited but not invited? which is it? I want chawal :mad:
Love&Peace
30-01-08, 10:31 AM
Well Ummah.com friends are virtually invited... Why only chawal?
U will get Sweets, curries, rotis....... Etc Etc.
Attached is ur treat :)
Ghuraba*
30-01-08, 11:52 AM
mabrook!!! (congratulations) on getting married and also reading the quran.:up: i pray that Allah blesses ur marriage and guides you onto the straight path. don't panic about the cold feet- my sis got married recently to the bro of her choice n even she felt it, so its completely normal. n dont worry all the mushy feeling will soon follow inshallah:inlove: best wishes for ur new future together
Medievalist
30-01-08, 01:59 PM
Is Love and Peace a gujjerati?
Love&Peace
30-01-08, 02:00 PM
Yeah...........
My parents are from Gujarat...
By illegal ways I can reach Pakistan in 2 hrs by boat if I wish... ;)
Medievalist
30-01-08, 02:01 PM
thats explains everything. Only a gujji wud invite and then post pics and say thats the food we meant to eat :torture:
Love&Peace
30-01-08, 02:45 PM
thats explains everything. Only a gujji wud invite and then post pics and say thats the food we meant to eat :torture:
Hey,.... I did not get you seriously!!!
and what is Guji?
And I did not torture u...
Medievalist
30-01-08, 10:02 PM
Hey,.... I did not get you seriously!!!
and what is Guji?
And I did not torture u...
Gujeratis are known to be stingy. Only a gujji would invite someone and then stick up pics and say thats your food. :torture:
Love&Peace
31-01-08, 08:05 AM
I am not stingy...
But Imagine my father giving treat to more than 32000 Ummah members!!!! :)
Plus it will be only veggie food so I don't know how many of u will prefer !!!
Plus how many will come to India?
But, virtual treat is the best :hidban:
All friends, Take care... Will be soon back after break..
Love&Peace
31-01-08, 08:06 AM
Once again thanks all bros and sis for ur good wishes,....
Medi, one day I will defi. give a trt ;)
ghanamuslima
31-01-08, 11:46 AM
ahhh mashallah:up:
Medievalist
31-01-08, 02:01 PM
Love and Peace: you're right. what was I thinking :smack:
egifts are much better. Get me a 50 pound gift voucher for JJBs
:jkk: in advance.
abuzayd
01-02-08, 09:53 AM
Wow. A thousand congratulations! Getting cold feet is normal.<b>I'm o nly days away from my marriage</b> and I'm getting cold feet, hands, toes, etc. It's a huge step. So its normal to be nervous.
Wow! i envy you. I dont know how far i am from my marriage but it is farther than i would like
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