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[stressed]

Asalamu Alaikum
i am really stressed, and i dont know wat to do.
i dont now wat the problem is which makes it worse, and i jus cant solve this problem as i avent got a clue why i have it

i really just want to get married, but i dont know how to go about it.
sometimes i feel really down and then all of sudden im up again, when i feel down i also feel really angry and jus want to shout at every around me.

i really need help
please help

[*Love*]

I think you need to occupy yourself with something, join courses which interest you, make friends if you don't have.
All the best.

[the_middle_road]

Make dua:

قَالَ رَبِّ اشْرَحْ لِي صَدْرِي
وَيَسِّرْ لِي أَمْرِي

He said: O my Lord! Expand my breast for me,
And make my affair easy to me,
(20: 25 - 26)

And be constant in dhikr:

الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَتَطْمَئِنُّ قُلُوبُهُمْ بِذِكْرِ اللَّهِ أَلا بِذِكْرِ اللَّهِ تَطْمَئِنُّ الْقُلُوبُ


"Those who believe, and whose hearts find satisfaction in the remembrance of Allah: for without doubt in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find satisfaction.
(13: 28)

[Medievalist]

Are you a male or a female? What is your approximate age? 20's, 30s, late teens?

[fisabilllillah]

Asalamu Alaikum
i am really stressed, and i dont know wat to do.
i dont now wat the problem is which makes it worse, and i jus cant solve this problem as i avent got a clue why i have it

i really just want to get married, but i dont know how to go about it.
sometimes i feel really down and then all of sudden im up again, when i feel down i also feel really angry and jus want to shout at every around me.

i really need help
please help

are u male or female? if ur female cud be hormones.....and yeh may be u need 2 get married. Talk to your parents about wat ur looking for in a husband, sit them down and explain to them how u feel. Getting married will bring u happiness but also see ur situation as an opportunity of tazkiyah--purifying ur soul...look at ur personality. there are spiritual and practical means to achoeve this.. thinks baout areas to develop and how u can strengthen ur imaan. I.e focus on giving urself targets to do good deeds i.e in charity social work, working with children/elderly..relatives. u'l feel great and be around ppl...tell them how u feel...show ur affection to ur friends and family,,,,and dont be afraid.....if u wanna get married go for it....allah bring u success....this is half ur deen and inshallah jus talk to ur fam..tell em u need this.

[Medievalist]

are u male or female? if ur female cud be hormones.....and yeh may be u need 2 get married. Talk to your parents about wat ur looking for in a husband, sit them down and explain to them how u feel. Getting married will bring u happiness but also see ur situation as an opportunity of tazkiyah--purifying ur soul...look at ur personality. there are spiritual and practical means to achoeve this.. thinks baout areas to develop and how u can strengthen ur imaan. I.e focus on giving urself targets to do good deeds i.e in charity social work, working with children/elderly..relatives. u'l feel great and be around ppl...tell them how u feel...show ur affection to ur friends and family,,,,and dont be afraid.....if u wanna get married go for it....allah bring u success....this is half ur deen and inshallah jus talk to ur fam..tell em u need this.

:rotfl: bro :up:

[stressed]

Jazak Allah Khair everyone for ur help
im a female in late teens

i am feeling better now Alhamdulilah
i jus keep making dua

jazakallah khair again for ur help

[Aynpackr]

If you have fluctuating feelings, marriage may not be right for you at this time. Your potential spouse could become upset with someone who is constantly high and low.

Consider the possibility that you have clinical depression. I don't want to rush you into medications, but consider it. Also consider bipolar disorder. Talk to a doctor about these things, but never accept one doctor's words alone.

[fisabilllillah]

:rotfl: bro :up:

im not a bro..................:rubeyes: