123Guy
07-01-08, 04:38 AM
Ok, A friend of mine is in an awkward situation and he has asked me for guidance and tell you the truth, I do not want my personal anger or feeling over taking my answer so here goes the question.
His sister was seeing/dating a non-Muslim in the past, and this non-Muslim person's brother was and still is his sworn enemy. When I say enemy, I am not taking about kiddy stuff, I am talking about some serious beef, 5 years of beef that took a few lives already. Anyways, He does not know what to do with his sister, he does not know what to do with the guy that was dating her because if he harms the guy, then most likely the story goes public and it will hurt him even more. But, if he doesn't, he is still worried that his enemy (the guys brother) will use this against him. Also, he does not know what to do with his sister, this guy, and trust me I know, he has temper problems so once he see's her, I am afraid he will hurt her and ofcourse him so I want to ask all you of now and get him some Islamic answers. So, is he justified to hurt his sister and this guy or is he going about this all wrong? please help out, he isn't very religious but understands Islam very well. He just needs some guidance. Thank You
His sister was seeing/dating a non-Muslim in the past, and this non-Muslim person's brother was and still is his sworn enemy. When I say enemy, I am not taking about kiddy stuff, I am talking about some serious beef, 5 years of beef that took a few lives already. Anyways, He does not know what to do with his sister, he does not know what to do with the guy that was dating her because if he harms the guy, then most likely the story goes public and it will hurt him even more. But, if he doesn't, he is still worried that his enemy (the guys brother) will use this against him. Also, he does not know what to do with his sister, this guy, and trust me I know, he has temper problems so once he see's her, I am afraid he will hurt her and ofcourse him so I want to ask all you of now and get him some Islamic answers. So, is he justified to hurt his sister and this guy or is he going about this all wrong? please help out, he isn't very religious but understands Islam very well. He just needs some guidance. Thank You