abuzayd
03-01-08, 11:56 AM
salam. THis is my first posting:up:
I met this Muslim sister some time ago and we became friends. I suspected from the beginning that she would like to marry me. (Now before i go on, i have to say i have not been very free with ladies in the past and so when we met and she was OK i really liked her). Our friendship continued and then there was a time she sent me an SMS like this (i ... u) which of course means i love u. Later i also told her i loved her and i asked her what next. she said marriage. But i had made her know that i was not ready for marriage now (at least until about 2 years time). Though after that i tried to see if we could be maybe we could sustain a relationship (mind you nothing haram - just calling each other). Later i felt it might be difficult for me so i told her to lets pause the relationship while i try to seek for whats best. She feels she does not have time to wait.
The main problem is this that at times when i think of her, i feel that i might not find someone with qualities i like in her.
Please advice me.
I have put this down in a jumbled form but if you need any further clarification to advice me, feel free to ask and i'll try to provide.
I met this Muslim sister some time ago and we became friends. I suspected from the beginning that she would like to marry me. (Now before i go on, i have to say i have not been very free with ladies in the past and so when we met and she was OK i really liked her). Our friendship continued and then there was a time she sent me an SMS like this (i ... u) which of course means i love u. Later i also told her i loved her and i asked her what next. she said marriage. But i had made her know that i was not ready for marriage now (at least until about 2 years time). Though after that i tried to see if we could be maybe we could sustain a relationship (mind you nothing haram - just calling each other). Later i felt it might be difficult for me so i told her to lets pause the relationship while i try to seek for whats best. She feels she does not have time to wait.
The main problem is this that at times when i think of her, i feel that i might not find someone with qualities i like in her.
Please advice me.
I have put this down in a jumbled form but if you need any further clarification to advice me, feel free to ask and i'll try to provide.