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24-12-07, 09:20 AM
salam

please make dua for me...
i feeel so worried for my life all the time. i have sinned, bt have done tauba... bt still i dnt knw how to stop worrying.

n i need to stop bt dnt knw how to remove these worried feelings from my heart, i need to feel peace again. bt dnt knw hw... jst keep cryin....

i have such beautiful pious parents u knw, i do have a wonderful family.... i dnt want to become depresd mentally ill or ruin my future or fail my exams due to this problem of mine...

bt jst dnt knw kw to stop woryin

i jst feel tired al the time too... bt i dnt get that much sleep in the night...

n i really need to concentrate on these exams..... i have A2 exams coming up...

please make dua for ur muslim sister...

Nasibah
24-12-07, 01:48 PM
Asalamu A'laikum,

I hope this message finds you in good health and emaan.

Alhamdulilah that you reprented. May ALLAH forgive you and ease your burden.

You sound quite depressed. This could be medical ( chemical imbalance), low emaan or maybe its both.

Please note that this is normal and most people get depressed every so often.

Personally speaking, when I feel low. I increase my salah, make load of du'a, listen to islamic lectures and read the quran. Alhamdulilah these actions provide such relief.

I make this du'a as it is especially for depression-or the feeling of sadness.

Allaahumma innee ‘abduka wa ibn ‘abdika wa ibn amatika, naasiyati bi yadika, maadin fiyya hukmuka, ‘adlun fiyya qadaa’uka, as’aluka bi kulli ismin huwa laka sammayta bihi nafsaka aw anzaltahu fi kitaabika aw ‘allamtahu ahadan min khalqika aw ista’tharta bihi fi ‘ilm il-ghaybi ‘andak an taj’ala al-Qur’aana rabee’ qalbi wa noor sadri wa jalaa’a huzni wa dhahaaba hammi

Which means...O Allaah, I am Your slave, son of Your slave, son of Your female slave, my forelock is in Your hand, Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just. I ask You by every Name belonging to You which You named Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of Your creation, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with You, that You make the Qur’aan the life of my heart and the light of my breast, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety

And finally, if you continue to feel this way then please seek medical assistance.

Once again, may ALLAH ease your burden and relief you of your distress.

*Love*
27-12-07, 12:57 PM
i feeel so worried for my life all the time. i have sinned, bt have done tauba... bt still i dnt knw how to stop worrying.n i need to stop bt dnt knw how to remove these worried feelings from my heart, i need to feel peace again. bt dnt knw hw... jst keep cryin....
What are you worrying about? how can I help you?
To some people talking to someone who they really trust makes them feel light and better, of course it might takes time, talking to them about something hard for the first time might not make miracles, it might take some time, that's why some people spend all their life with a councilor who listens to them confidiently, they tell him/her everything they don't feel comfortable about, and he/she listens and doesn't judge.
Feel free to talk with me whenever you want. You need to stop that otherwise it will affect your health.
All the best
Love

The Deen
27-12-07, 01:19 PM
It is said that a sin a person commits will haunt him for the rest of his life. Just try and get your mind off it by doing dhikr, and remember, you've done tawbah, so insha'Allah this shouldn't affect your deed in the future in a bad way, but instead, will insha'Allah keep you on the path of guidance only.

Sabz42
28-12-07, 01:44 AM
read namaaz more and ask for foregiveness