embarassed 2 do that...

[Unregistered02]

i wanted 2 ask a rather ..... intimate.....question.....

is it halal for a wife to pleasure her husband with her mouth...orally.....
my husbnad wants me too ..the thought of it kindof disgusts me but i need2 confirm if it is allowed.
jzk

plz let me know..

[dhakiyya]

Some scholars say its allowed but makrooh (disliked) and it must not involve getting fluids in your mouth (fluids in mouth deliberately is haram)

whilst other scholars say its completely haram.

InshaAllah I don't have any fatwas on it to hand, but I'm sure someone else inshaAllah will post one sooner or later.

As for the scholars that say its makrooh and not haram - they say that a wife can disobey her husband if he asks for this. So you don't have to do it if you don't want to. InshaAllah I hope someone will post a fatwa about this as well as fatwas from the other opinion i.e. that its haram.

InshaAllah that helps.

[Hisham Abu]

Advise your husband that he should not force you to do something you are not comfortable with, nor be overbearing on you... for the sake of your marriage.

You might find the following of interest; http://www.islamqa.com/index.php?ref=12509&ln=eng

You should know that it is not permissible for you to force your wife to do anything repulsive or that may cause impurity (najaasah) to enter the stomach, and you should have intercourse with her in a natural manner.

The bit in bold is an issue of concern with regards to oral sex. The male sperm is impure, and thus cannot be consumed. However if it's consumption is prevented, it could be allowed.

[Tranquillity]

Do bear in mind thought that there are things which are permissable through the fact that Allah's Messenger (saw) kept silent regarding them so as not to make our Deen difficult for us.
Unlike Anal intercourse, the act you are describing was not directly made haraam. Of course there is the difference of opinion and some are convinced it is haraam.
I agree that you should not be doing anything that you are not comfortable with, but if it is merely that you dislike it you might want to consider the question of whether you could put your husband's desires before yours in this case? You see, unless there is a strong reason why you won't do something, a wife should do her best to ensure that she satisfies her husband (and vice versa of course!) to protect both of them from fitnah.

[Babbage]

If you dislike the idea, that's reason enough not to. Does he or would he do the same for you? If not he's a hypocrite.

[unreg3479335]

Besides, from a medical point of view it is best to avoid such acts as there is a possibility of getting papillomas in and around your glottis (HPV virus). Eventually (definitely not always, rather seldom) these papillomas can develop into cancer in your throat.

[afsalim]

Sister, talk to your husband regarding this. He should not force you into doing something that you dislike. But just for your information, no, oral sex is not forbidden.

[Cashew]

Besides, from a medical point of view it is best to avoid such acts as there is a possibility of getting papillomas in and around your glottis (HPV virus). Eventually (definitely not always, rather seldom) these papillomas can develop into cancer in your throat.

:rubeyes::confused::rubeyes:

Your advice makes no sense.

If the husband is infected with HPV, the wife can just as easily develop genital warts on her cervix, which would create a very high potential for the development of cervical cancer.

[wazza]

As a matter of interest where does one stand if the roles are reversed. What if the husband gives oral to his wife willingly and the wife enjoys it?

Regarding diseases etc i think we must remember that our partners are the first one and the only one we had intimate relation with and have not slept around before marriage etc.

[Ebony]

Its disgusting. However if you browse Sunnipath they generally dont declare it to be haram but detail its a lot less "harmful" in terms of filth and what not, if oral is from husband to wife, rather than from wife to husband

[Nirvana]

i wanted 2 ask a rather ..... intimate.....question.....

is it halal for a wife to pleasure her husband with her mouth...orally.....
my husbnad wants me too ..the thought of it kindof disgusts me but i need2 confirm if it is allowed.
jzk

plz let me know..

You should ask him to do that to you first.

[Tranquillity]

As a matter of interest where does one stand if the roles are reversed. What if the husband gives oral to his wife willingly and the wife enjoys it?

Regarding diseases etc i think we must remember that our partners are the first one and the only one we had intimate relation with and have not slept around before marriage etc.

May this be the case, insh'Allah! But in today's world..