Angry mum

[Sad:(]

What would you do if your mum thought you have stolen something of her's which you havn't?

How would you feel?

My mum has not been seeing me or talking to me because she suspect's I have stolen her money and she has not even told me why she is upset, she just stopped talking to me and being funny, my sister told me the story now I am so upset as I would never do such a thing and nobody ever suspected me of stealing and now my own mother has! My sister did not beleive and told her to stop talking crap and now she does not even want to talk to my sister.

My mother has always been suspicious and she always thinks ppl are stealing from her but then she finds it, i'm not saying i hate her but what upsets me is that she had thought of such thing and she has been cursing too. I fear that Allah is unhappy with her and he will punish her for suspecting ppl. I don't really care if she does think I stole it because I know I havn't but am scared how she is going to answer to Allah.

I have not been speaking to her since yesterday and she has not been coming to my house where she used to come everyday before so what do u think I should do? Should I speak to her and pretend everyhting is normal as she does not know I know why she is not talking to me. I always think what if she die the same day when i'm upset with her and things like that so I can't even shout or say anything to her which will upset her.

Please help, what would you do in that situation? Sorry for going on, i didn't think this would turn into a long story!!!

[~Unity~]

I wish I had the full story but subhanallah I don't. 'Aaishah (may peace be upon her) was accused of adultery! Aoudibilah! Everyone became suspicious of her - can you imagine the prophet's wife! However, she remained patient and through her pateince Allah revealed an ayaah. Beautiful patience during trials from Allah is what makes the truth come out. You have to remember that in this dunya Allah is always testing us do not forget that. As for your mother never ever cut her off! Even if she is being cruel, because the importance of the mother is highly emphasised in Islam, even if she is kufr! Remain calm and although it is difficult, remember Allah does not desert his slave if you ask for His help.

I hope Allah makes it easy for you insha allah and I am sorry I cannot give better advice.

[ammarcool]

brother just straightaway speak with her without keeping silent! if you kept silent it will lead to so many problems! Just ask from her the reason that made her not to speak with you, etc.

[Mullah_Din]

What would you do if your mum thought you have stolen something of her's which you havn't?

How would you feel?

My mum has not been seeing me or talking to me because she suspect's I have stolen her money and she has not even told me why she is upset, she just stopped talking to me and being funny, my sister told me the story now I am so upset as I would never do such a thing and nobody ever suspected me of stealing and now my own mother has! My sister did not beleive and told her to stop talking crap and now she does not even want to talk to my sister.

My mother has always been suspicious and she always thinks ppl are stealing from her but then she finds it, i'm not saying i hate her but what upsets me is that she had thought of such thing and she has been cursing too. I fear that Allah is unhappy with her and he will punish her for suspecting ppl. I don't really care if she does think I stole it because I know I havn't but am scared how she is going to answer to Allah.

I have not been speaking to her since yesterday and she has not been coming to my house where she used to come everyday before so what do u think I should do? Should I speak to her and pretend everyhting is normal as she does not know I know why she is not talking to me. I always think what if she die the same day when i'm upset with her and things like that so I can't even shout or say anything to her which will upset her.

Please help, what would you do in that situation? Sorry for going on, i didn't think this would turn into a long story!!!

Its a sad one, but, nothing is too difficult. I'm sure she has no reasons to doubt you - but, Shaytaan does whispers in one's ears now and then. Not, talking to your beloved mum is a sin and above all you cannot get to the bottom of things! Just go to your mum's house (perhaps, golden opportunity would be Eid-ul Adha, although, personally I wouldn't leave it that late) and after greeting her, talk to her in the most civilised manner. Tell her she has misunderstood and that you have not stolen from her! I'm sure she will understand.

All the best!