Advice For Brothers On How To Be Romantic To Their Wife/wives.

[curious_man]

HERE's SOME ADVICE FOR MY NEWLY WEDDED BROTHERS..

If you want to woo you mrs into submission do some of the following..

Surprise her here and there with a nicely prepared delicious meal prefereable when she is out and have it ready before she comes home...

No better feeling to see you wife giving you the nice appreciative smile when surprised with the meal..

Stop on the way in a florist to buy a half dozzen red roses for your other half to blossom your love life.. honest women just love flowers -

Scenario - you have gone out with your mates all day and your wife has been home alone all day - naturally if you are as caring as I am - you would feel a bit guilty of having a right good time while she is at home watching eastenders - so firstly to avoid her giving you the daggers - and secondly to surprise her buy her CHOCOLATES on your way home....

these are 3 golden rules that work for me.... I hope it helps my brothers out there ---

DO DISCUSS AND SHARE YOUR VIEWS ---

[Believer1984]

lol.

wooo .

Anyhow should have made the thread in the marriage section.

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:rolleyes:woo!

[muslimma]

how cute :inlove: but it would have better suited in the marriage section

[ROCA786]

Spoilin her with presents is a surefire trick. Also, calling her very regularly seems to work :)

[Khadija222333]

Aww lol Masha Allah.

[Sasha_82]

lol nice thread throw in a few pamper treatments and take us shopping!!!

haaaa!!!!!!!!!

I'd be happy lol

oh yeah and you know, a holiday every few months :-)

[Believer1984]

lol nice thread throw in a few pamper treatments and take us shopping!!!

haaaa!!!!!!!!!

I'd be happy lol

oh yeah and you know, a holiday every few months :-)

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Dont get carried away dear. lol . :rolleyes:

[leela]

HERE's SOME ADVICE FOR MY NEWLY WEDDED BROTHERS..

If you want to woo you mrs into submission do some of the following..

Surprise her here and there with a nicely prepared delicious meal prefereable when she is out and have it ready before she comes home...

No better feeling to see you wife giving you the nice appreciative smile when surprised with the meal..

Stop on the way in a florist to buy a half dozzen red roses for your other half to blossom your love life.. honest women just love flowers -

Scenario - you have gone out with your mates all day and your wife has been home alone all day - naturally if you are as caring as I am - you would feel a bit guilty of having a right good time while she is at home watching eastenders - so firstly to avoid her giving you the daggers - and secondly to surprise her buy her CHOCOLATES on your way home....

these are 3 golden rules that work for me.... I hope it helps my brothers out there ---

DO DISCUSS AND SHARE YOUR VIEWS ---

That's all very cute, but 'wooing her into submission'? Sounds more like a ploy to get your wife to be obedient rather than genuinely doing something nice for her.

Spoilin her with presents is a surefire trick. Also, calling her very regularly seems to work :)

So long as you're calling her because you actually want to, instead of calling her because you think she wants you to. :)

[belal1]

As salamu alaikum,

try this:
Ahmed Shehab - "60 Ways To Keep Your Wife's Love, and the romance alive!"


http://www.lightuponlight.com/islam/modules.php?name=Stream2&file=index&lid=431

Pretty obvious and easy tips we often forget to practice :)

as salamu alaikum

[MG]

woo your wife? sounds more like plain ol' bribery to me :rolleyes:

[meer]

woo your wife? sounds more like plain ol' bribery to me :rolleyes:

Hi MG how R u :rubeyes:

[dhakiyya]

you do have to be careful with the flowers/chocolates cause you feel guilty tactic... if you give your wife the impression that you feel guilty - say cause you were out with your friends too long or something - she might interpret the guilt as being something a lot more serious. Women have active imaginiations. Sometimes "Darling, I'm sorry I stayed out with my friends too long, inshaAllah I'll do the washing up after dinner to say sorry" would work better inshaAllah.

Good communication in a marriage is essential, and every couple should work on it inshaAllah.

But please dont let that advice stop you from doing flowers and chocolates though :up: we do love 'em innit

[sunrise]

kool tips, i'd personally prefer one rose than a whole bunch unless i jst gave birth lol or something big like tht

one means mre kinda thing :outta:

obv nt always possible but if he picked it himself even better :D

[Khadija222333]

kool tips, i'd personally prefer one rose than a whole bunch unless i jst gave birth lol or something big like tht

one means mre kinda thing :outta:



loooooool I just said the exact thing to ify. :rotfl: :outta:

[sunrise]

loooooool I just said the exact thing to ify. :rotfl: :outta:


oh no sorry :$ i never read the whole post lol which number is it?

i guess most sisters want the same thing lol

[Khadija222333]

oh no sorry :$ i never read the whole post lol which number is it?

i guess most sisters want the same thing lol

Oh lol not here through PM. :p

A single rose...the moon shining...:rubeyes: :embar: :outta:

[sunrise]

Oh lol not here through PM. :p

A single rose...the moon shining...:rubeyes: :embar: :outta:

aww lol mashAllah well u gt a husband hint innit lool:D

[MG]

Hi MG how R u :rubeyes:

alhumdulillah good , long time no see on the forums, inshalah u and your loved ones are well.

HERE's SOME ADVICE FOR MY NEWLY WEDDED BROTHERS..

If you want to woo you mrs into submission do some of the following..

Surprise her here and there with a nicely prepared delicious meal prefereable when she is out and have it ready before she comes home...

No better feeling to see you wife giving you the nice appreciative smile when surprised with the meal..

Stop on the way in a florist to buy a half dozzen red roses for your other half to blossom your love life.. honest women just love flowers -

Scenario - you have gone out with your mates all day and your wife has been home alone all day - naturally if you are as caring as I am - you would feel a bit guilty of having a right good time while she is at home watching eastenders - so firstly to avoid her giving you the daggers - and secondly to surprise her buy her CHOCOLATES on your way home....

these are 3 golden rules that work for me.... I hope it helps my brothers out there ---

DO DISCUSS AND SHARE YOUR VIEWS ---

the highlighted paragraphs above only work once or twice with the intelligent wife and im sure it only worked once or twice with your wife and after that u got :torture:

[Al-Farooq]

Flowers and chocolates?????? You gotta be kidding me!!!!!

Try doing something original like taking her into the countryside at night to lie in a field and watch the stars.

Write her a poem and slip it into her handbag so when she's out shopping or whatever she will find it and be pleasantly surprised.

Do the unexpected, be spontaneous.....

Use your imagination, the possibilities are endless.....

[advisor]

Allah(subhana wa ta'ala) is watching.

[sunrise]

Flowers and chocolates?????? You gotta be kidding me!!!!!

Try doing something original like taking her into the countryside at night to lie in a field and watch the stars.

Write her a poem and slip it into her handbag so when she's out shopping or whatever she will find it and be pleasantly surprised.

Do the unexpected, be spontaneous.....

Use your imagination, the possibilities are endless.....

:up: :love: that's mre like it, make her blush on the bus lol

[ana_mujahid]

when i get a wife :p

[curious_man]

lol nice thread throw in a few pamper treatments and take us shopping!!!

haaaa!!!!!!!!!

I'd be happy lol

oh yeah and you know, a holiday every few months :-)

I love holidays - I took my Mrs to 3 Capitals in 3 Weekend in 2005 - Paris - London and Edinburgh.

Egypt in 2006

Tunisia this Year..

Insha Allah next year its either UMRAH with mrs depending on expenditure and hols if not then Turkey.

[curious_man]

That's all very cute, but 'wooing her into submission'? Sounds more like a ploy to get your wife to be obedient rather than genuinely doing something nice for her.



So long as you're calling her because you actually want to, instead of calling her because you think she wants you to. :)

I am glad my wife is not as negative and suspicious as you are -- sometimes sisters r too clever for their own good...:torture:

she is submissive whether woo or not.. however I woo her to show appreciation ---

[curious_man]

woo your wife? sounds more like plain ol' bribery to me :rolleyes:

MG STOP FOLLOWING ME - it's sweet bribery :p

I made my wife breakfast in bed this morning 7.30am.

She was like :D when I went upstairs with the breakfast tray and put the light on ...

Also gave her packed lunch for her lunch break..

I am too nice - spoiling her really lol!!!

[curious_man]

alhumdulillah good , long time no see on the forums, inshalah u and your loved ones are well.



the highlighted paragraphs above only work once or twice with the intelligent wife and im sure it only worked once or twice with your wife and after that u got :torture:

Girl you got some serious problems... stop being a sceptic and just learn to be appreciative.

my wife is very intelligent, she's the one with GCSE's in our house -lol

Naah seriously flowers and choc work with girls all the time. no matter how intelligent they are. It's normally the ones that have been through some negative trauma or bad experienc and bad memories who might be more suspicious...

I dont have that problem with my mrs.

Listen if you dont believe me , marry me and I will prove myself right by buying u flowers and chocs :PPPP (u can b no 4) muhahha

[MG]

Flowers and chocolates?????? You gotta be kidding me!!!!!

Try doing something original like taking her into the countryside at night to lie in a field and watch the stars.

Write her a poem and slip it into her handbag so when she's out shopping or whatever she will find it and be pleasantly surprised.

Do the unexpected, be spontaneous.....

Use your imagination, the possibilities are endless.....


ok now your talking, im gonna save this and let my future hubbie "accidently" come across it :D

Girl you got some serious problems... stop being a sceptic and just learn to be appreciative.

my wife is very intelligent, she's the one with GCSE's in our house -lol

Naah seriously flowers and choc work with girls all the time. no matter how intelligent they are. It's normally the ones that have been through some negative trauma or bad experienc and bad memories who might be more suspicious...

I dont have that problem with my mrs.

Listen if you dont believe me , marry me and I will prove myself right by buying u flowers and chocs :PPPP (u can b no 4) muhahha

:rolleyes:

MG STOP FOLLOWING ME - it's sweet bribery :p

I made my wife breakfast in bed this morning 7.30am.

She was like :D when I went upstairs with the breakfast tray and put the light on ...

Also gave her packed lunch for her lunch break..

I am too nice - spoiling her really lol!!!

guilt. :D

[curious_man]

Flowers and chocolates?????? You gotta be kidding me!!!!!

Try doing something original like taking her into the countryside at night to lie in a field and watch the stars.

Write her a poem and slip it into her handbag so when she's out shopping or whatever she will find it and be pleasantly surprised.

Do the unexpected, be spontaneous.....

Use your imagination, the possibilities are endless.....

I totally agree - those are just few of many things you can do -- for example I made my wife breakfast in bed this morning - she was nicely surprised cos I dont do that often.

Ah countrside... we live in gorgeous yorkshire and have been for walks all over.. Bronte village was nicest... Have treated to hols in Edinburgh, York, London, Pariss....

I have written her so many poems too... not done the hand bag thing though.. shall do it next -

[MG]

I totally agree - those are just few of many things you can do -- for example I made my wife breakfast in bed this morning - she was nicely surprised cos I dont do that often.

Ah countrside... we live in gorgeous yorkshire and have been for walks all over.. Bronte village was nicest... Have treated to hols in Edinburgh, York, London, Pariss....

I have written her so many poems too... not done the hand bag thing though.. shall do it next -

please dont start posting them

[curious_man]

please dont start posting them

ur so cheeky - but now that u say that - i will have to do so - tomo - lol

then again -- maybe not.

[MG]

ur so cheeky - but now that u say that - i will have to do so - tomo - lol

then again -- maybe not.

yes we'll go with the last option shall we.

i keep hearing loads about yorkshire, is it as great as everyone makes it out to be?

i mean my sis went bradford adn said it was like she had stepped into pakistan -Minus the PIA flight

[muslimuk]

true ladies like all tat romantic stuff. chochlates saying i love you and all the mushy stuff hugging them kiss before you go to work and when you come back..

[curious_man]

yes we'll go with the last option shall we.

i keep hearing loads about yorkshire, is it as great as everyone makes it out to be?

i mean my sis went bradford adn said it was like she had stepped into pakistan -Minus the PIA flight

I think thats harsh - just because there are lots of people residing in Bradford from pakistan origin doesnt mean it is like Pakistan. Maybe she should have visited some countryside - Ogden Waters , Bronte Village etc. Ilkley is gorgeous.. Bradford has some of the most beautiful areas and houses in the country... Stone built houses ....

[puella]

strange that brothers who are practising and having lived in this country would need advice on how to be romantic with their wives...and sometimes...it isnt the buying of gifts and making of food that makes them happy, but just spending some time with them..just the two of you...Alhamdulilah my husband and i do that all the time and its more valuable than him getting me any gift or making me breakfast...but i guess tis each to their own.

im not knocking the whole fowers and chocolate thing, because it shows that you have thought of her...tis lovely when hubs brings a pressie for me, :inlove:

[curious_man]

strange that brothers who are practising and having lived in this country would need advice on how to be romantic with their wives...and sometimes...it isnt the buying of gifts and making of food that makes them happy, but just spending some time with them..just the two of you...Alhamdulilah my husband and i do that all the time and its more valuable than him getting me any gift or making me breakfast...but i guess tis each to their own.

im not knocking the whole fowers and chocolate thing, because it shows that you have thought of her...tis lovely when hubs brings a pressie for me, :inlove:

you would be surprised how many people out there never do half the things mentioned on this thread -

gifts, making food, spending time with each etc etc do what ever you can to help blossom your marriage...

[leela]

I am glad my wife is not as negative and suspicious as you are -- sometimes sisters r too clever for their own good...:torture:

she is submissive whether woo or not.. however I woo her to show appreciation ---

lol, I'm not negative or suspicious.. You used a phrase about wooing your wife into submission, which is not my idea of a healthy, happy marriage. But if it works for you, then great! :up:

[elji]

I am glad my wife is not as negative and suspicious as you are -- sometimes sisters r too clever for their own good...:torture:

she is submissive whether woo or not.. however I woo her to show appreciation ---

I agree.. what is with that kind of attitude? for get that>>> :torture: you should be more like this >>:boom:

[.: Anna :.]

Okay you know what... married brothers you find out what your wife likes and you do that. Do you really have to make a discussion about it in here saying i do this, i do that, i could do this, i want to do that etc...

Pointless and its not nice in a mixed forum either, if you think about it. Threads like this is what makes the freemixing in marriage section more...

So sorry if this is harsh but thread closed