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Wolfn
19-10-07, 03:08 AM
But not for awhile. I'm planning to get married right when college is over (4-5 years)

How exactly does a Muslim marriage work? How do I meet a girl, what's the marriage like, would my ceremony have to be traditional or not since I'm a convert, etc?

elji
19-10-07, 03:10 AM
But not for awhile. I'm planning to get married right when college is over (4-5 years)

How exactly does a Muslim marriage work? How do I meet a girl, what's the marriage like, would my ceremony have to be traditional or not since I'm a convert, etc?

Ask your friends to hook you up

Abu Mu'adh
19-10-07, 10:22 AM
But not for awhile. I'm planning to get married right when college is over (4-5 years)

How exactly does a Muslim marriage work? How do I meet a girl, what's the marriage like, would my ceremony have to be traditional or not since I'm a convert, etc?

Good luck trying to find an answer to that.

brjimc
19-10-07, 10:28 AM
Best way for a revert to find a woman is to get involved in your community. Join volunterr organizations and help them, help community leaders organize events and conferences, get to know people. When they find out you are not married and are wishing for a wife, they will help you find one.

Also, as you involve yourself in the community, you are more likely to be noticed by a girl or working close enough to them that they get to know you on more of a personal basis through direct volunteer dealings or mutual friends.

angel*
19-10-07, 10:29 AM
Mmm well 4 one dont say salaam 2 a passing sister and hope shez going to end up marrying you! ha ha ok more seriously if ur at uni try the islamic society or ask around at the masjid or umm yeah umm thats all i can think of off :o

muslimuk
19-10-07, 10:52 AM
stop thinking about it and get on with it

-Shamil-
19-10-07, 11:36 AM
yes get on wid it hurry up - RUN, DAMN YOU, RUN! :torture:

Abandoned-Mind
19-10-07, 11:40 AM
But not for awhile. I'm planning to get married right when college is over (4-5 years)

How exactly does a Muslim marriage work? How do I meet a girl, what's the marriage like, would my ceremony have to be traditional or not since I'm a convert, etc?

Your going to have to go to the eye-maam (imaam) and he will show you a book with photos of girls, then you choose the ones you want to view, then you meet her and her family with the imaam, then you you say yes or no...then you get married, you will wear necklaces of tinsel and paper money, and have rice thrown over both of you.

(I am joking...)

I don't know bro, I know what the 'right' way is...but it seems there ain't no foundations laid with the right people to follow the right way. This is not to say go the wrong way.

Al-jafa
19-10-07, 11:44 AM
Very good idea! But Will I be invited??:hidban:

Abandoned-Mind
19-10-07, 11:46 AM
But not for awhile. I'm planning to get married right when college is over (4-5 years)

How exactly does a Muslim marriage work? How do I meet a girl, what's the marriage like, would my ceremony have to be traditional or not since I'm a convert, etc?

Hey, do it Red Indian style : /... find a muslim red indian : O... dance around the fire and sh........ : O :up: