why?

[insomniac]

why do men leave their wives?

why do they leave their children and even their unborn children?

why?

what is their problem eh?

sometimes just sometimes from the bottom of my heart I hate people who have these qualities!

:torture::torture::torture::torture:

May Allaah swt give us all the tawfeeq to deal with such issues without anger and haste. Ameen

[Baybars]

why do men leave their wives?

why do they leave their children and even their unborn children?

why?

what is their problem eh?

sometimes just sometimes I hate from the bottom of my heart people who have these qualities!

:torture::torture::torture::torture:

Not all men leave their wives. Some wives leave their good husbands.

Not all men leave their children. Some men have their children taken away, because courts favor mothers. Some mothers to be have abortions, even when the father wants the child.

Too many people have too many diseases of the heart.

[insomniac]

Not all men leave their wives. Some wives leave their good husbands.

Not all men leave their children. Some men have their children taken away, because courts favor mothers. Some mothers to be have abortions, even when the father wants the child.

Too many people have too many diseases of the heart.

:( I know the issue is the other way around too

I just wana vent and focus on men for the time being, what makes a guy leave his wife who is pregnant with his child? Especially when no reason is given whatsoever? why? :(

[Baybars]

:( I know the issue is the other way around too

I just wana vent and focus on men for the time being, what makes a guy leave his wife who is pregnant with his child? Especially when no reason is given whatsoever? why? :(


Okay.

Cowardice, selfishness, could be many things sister…..I dunno. Who, what kind of person really does something like that? I don’t think there is any justifiable answer for leaving your pregnant wife. It’s madness. It takes a special kind of person I guess. It’s a sad world sometimes. :(

[RaNdOm]

:salams

Say: "Nothing will happen to us except what Allah has decreed for us. He is our protector". And on Allah let the Believers put their trust. [Surah Al-Tawba 9:51]

[insomniac]

:salams

Say: "Nothing will happen to us except what Allah has decreed for us. He is our protector". And on Allah let the Believers put their trust. [Surah Al-Tawba 9:51]

indeed, JazakAllaah khair.


It's not that I don't have trust in Allaah swt, I am just annoyed that a man who has responsibility for his wife and children to take care of them will leave them to pursue a life of 'ease' and pleasure.

I can't comprehend it and abhor this trait sooo sooo much,

[Al-Farooq]

I don't think there is anything wrong with men leaving their wives if both parties are unhappy and want to be apart, but if they leave for some trivial or selfish reason then maybe the women are better off without such a spineless individual in their lives.

People, male or female, who desert their kids need stringing up to the nearest tree with piano wire, in my opinion. There's just no excuse for walking out on a child, it is cowardly, selfish and utterly contempible.

[Khadija222333]

Yes and why do some people cheat on there husbands/wives? :crying:

[elji]

Its called evil peeps

[$HugoBoss$]

Yes and why do some people cheat on there husbands/wives? :crying:

Don't ask silly questions :rolleyes:

[Khadija222333]

Don't ask silly questions :rolleyes:

There's nothing silly about it.

[insomniac]

Okay.

Cowardice, selfishness, could be many things sister…..I dunno. Who, what kind of person really does something like that? I don’t think there is any justifiable answer for leaving your pregnant wife. It’s madness. It takes a special kind of person I guess. It’s a sad world sometimes. :(

true it is a sad world :(

it's just strange, sometimes people are given so much barakah in their lives such as their family and offspring and yet they are so damn ungrateful... jus crazy

[Baybars]

true it is a sad world :(

it's just strange, sometimes people are given so much barakah in their lives such as their family and offspring and yet they are so damn ungrateful... jus crazy

I don’t get that either. There are people in the world, who would do all sorts to have a child, and then here’s someone who can walk away so easily. It’s a tragedy. I feel for the child, but ultimately Allah will be its protector.

I don’t have any children yet, but some of my best friends do, and seeing them, I wish I had a wife who was pregnant. Some of us would never walk away.

[Al-Farooq]

true it is a sad world :(

it's just strange, sometimes people are given so much barakah in their lives such as their family and offspring and yet they are so damn ungrateful... jus crazy

You've hit the nail on the head there - I know a few men who have walked out on their wives for purely selfish reasons and they all regretted it at some point in the future when life didn't turn out how they expected. They have all expressed regret for not being grateful for what they had and always wanting more, more, more.

As the saying goes, sometimes you don't realise what you've got until it is taken away from you.

[sis_niqabi]

salam

there are women walking out on their children too. more than you think. it's a sad world we live in nowadays. where people have kids then don't want to take care of them.

[$HugoBoss$]

I think it's all shaitans whispers, they do a pretty good job when it comes to breaking up relationships.

[insomniac]

salam

there are women walking out on their children too. more than you think. it's a sad world we live in nowadays. where people have kids then don't want to take care of them.

Walaikumsalaam,

maybe I've heard of this notion before but never seen it so I feel that bit more hurt...shows my ignorance, but really it's soooooooo surprising to wana turn down a lil cuddly bundle of joy for 'stuff' :(

I think it's all shaitans whispers, they do a pretty good job when it comes to breaking up relationships.

true :(

[Kubs]

One word: Cowards.

There are no justifiable cause for them leaving their families..... just excuses.

[perfectpearl]

Because they are evil

[Urr]

why do men leave their wives?

SOME.

Cuz they are cowards.Whoever walks out on their own familt man or woman is a coward.

[Lambo5688]

Those people are pathetic losers. That is one of the most selfish acts one can do.

[Islamiyyah]

Who would want to abandon a beautiful baby :love:

Subhan'Allah...

[insomniac]

do you think some men/women can't handle responsibility of family and therefore shun it all together :confused:

alien concept to be honest

[Zesty]

do you think some men/women can't handle responsibility of family and therefore shun it all together :confused:

alien concept to be honest

I think to some yes. I know it sounds odd to us and quite bizarre but its similar to how some people have commitment issues! they just cannot take that one step further into marriage cos they are scared of commitment. I think its that case its good not to go into something which you know (think maybe)? you cant handle cos atleast youre then not hurting anyone. In the situation you mentioned- some people are just utterly selfish and stupid.

[zammy]

If they can't handle it they shouldn't put themselves in that situation to begin with!
Poor babies :(

[sis_niqabi]

If they can't handle it they shouldn't put themselves in that situation to begin with!
Poor babies :(

exactly. i remember a woman saying one time on this talk show "you had fun making those babies, now have fun raising those babies".

[zammy]

:rotfl:

I was kinna thinkin the same thing as that lady:rolleyes:

[insomniac]

Yes and why do some people cheat on there husbands/wives? :crying:

I don't think and I pray that this is not the issue for this particular case I have come across. Insha'Allaah it isn't.