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Unregistered458
14-08-07, 06:19 PM
Asslamu-alaikum everyone

I have been suffering from this problem for so long and just for this very reason i dont know if i can go on anymore. The problem may sound very minor but subhanAllah its affecting me very bad. Well how and where do i start? Plz bear with me. Okay first of all i see these horrible man every time and sometimes good atleast i think that in my dreams and while i am awake.

Seocendly, i laugh for no reason at all, i even laugh when i hear serious news eg: death, sum1es ill etc. Its out of my control and i hate it soooo much. i laugh in prayer as well. People misunderstand me and get the wrong message... it hurts me very much.

Bad thoughts always come to me about ppl i love and meet and even to the extent of having bad thought of my own creator! I cant tolerate that or any of it but at the same time i cant control it.

I am so dumb that i dont even know what shoe to put in my right and leFt feet.

I cant help but think that i am really mental.....plz advice me am i? if so, wat help can i get?

.: Rashid :.
14-08-07, 06:38 PM
Wa alaykum salam,

I think you need to seek professional help from like a doctor or someone who specialises in this field...they'd be able to decide if you have a condition or something and what treatment is available.

May Allah make it easy for you and help you. Ameen.

-Rashid

Tic~Tac-Toe
14-08-07, 07:28 PM
a psychiatrist would get to the core of your problem - short term

pray to allah - long term

xris
14-08-07, 07:47 PM
Asslamu-alaikum everyone

I have been suffering from this problem for so long and just for this very reason i dont know if i can go on anymore. The problem may sound very minor but subhanAllah its affecting me very bad. Well how and where do i start? Plz bear with me. Okay first of all i see these horrible man every time and sometimes good atleast i think that in my dreams and while i am awake.

Seocendly, i laugh for no reason at all, i even laugh when i hear serious news eg: death, sum1es ill etc. Its out of my control and i hate it soooo much. i laugh in prayer as well. People misunderstand me and get the wrong message... it hurts me very much.

Bad thoughts always come to me about ppl i love and meet and even to the extent of having bad thought of my own creator! I cant tolerate that or any of it but at the same time i cant control it.

I am so dumb that i dont even know what shoe to put in my right and leFt feet.

I cant help but think that i am really mental.....plz advice me am i? if so, wat help can i get?people who are mad do not know they are doing stupid things you know you are so you are not mad,just a bit nutty but not mad.have you tried going barefoot at least you wont put your shoes on wrong.you may have problem with your faith at the moment but only time will tell.will tell was a bloke who shot arrows at apples on his sons head, please dont try this at home!

xris
14-08-07, 08:10 PM
i can not make a comment as im excluded from doing so even though this is a obviously a joke thread on your part.if this is not an appropriate post dont ban posts moderators.

Ibn-e-Muslim
14-08-07, 09:29 PM
:wswrwb: bro
i dont think u r mental at all, a normal person with little confusion and carelessness

do u mind answering these questions?

do u happen to b living in a troubled family?
no proper attention given to u by ur parents?
do u have friends whom u trust n respect n they do the same in return?

:jkk:

saifah
15-08-07, 07:15 AM
salams

honestly not knowing if you are male or female i think makes a massive difference
it could be some kind of jinn problem but if i can know if you are a male or female then i can ask you some other questions to find out inshaAllah or if you would rather pm me of some information

wassalams

seven
15-08-07, 10:22 AM
you may have something called Involuntary Emotional Expression Disorder

If you get too emotional for no apparent reason, the reason could be IEED, a disorder that causes sudden and unpredictable episodes of laughing and crying, or other emotional displays.

IEED can occur in people diagnosed with neurologic disease or brain injury such as:

Dementias including Alzheimer’s disease
Parkinson’s disease
Multiple Sclerosis (MS)
Lou Gehrig’s disease (ALS)
Stroke
Traumatic brain injuryIEED is a neurologic disorder that may occur when disease or injury damages the area of the brain that controls normal expression of emotion. This damage can disrupt brain signaling causing a “short circuit,” triggering episodes of involuntary emotional expressions.

IEED episodes may be confused with depression, and as a result IEED is often misdiagnosed, however you should ask your doctor.

for more info: http://www.ieed.org/

elji
15-08-07, 10:36 AM
Never feel guilty of what your doing. you cant help it and it is out of your control. Its is very important not to feel guilty or upset as this will further stress your mind.

I will pray for you and remember Allah forgives. Just be patient

*hayat*
15-08-07, 12:43 PM
you are not mad, maybe u cant out the right shoes on but you can acess to internet and go to a forum and explain your problem so i suppose mad ppl dont do that,

i think u need to read more Qur'an to get the doubt about ur creator out of ur head, pray salat loud out to avoid distractions, and about the bad thoughts, well everyone gets bad thoughts, there are from shaytan (devil), if u dream bad then sleep on ur right side, not on ur stomach or left and this is have a good effect Insha'allah,

Talk to a family member about ur problems, best wishes,
salam

Unregistered45
15-08-07, 03:51 PM
May the merciful lord reward you all for your replies.


:wswrwb: bro
i dont think u r mental at all, a normal person with little confusion and carelessness

do u mind answering these questions?

do u happen to b living in a troubled family? I was ...not anymore though
no proper attention given to u by ur parents? You could say that
do u have friends whom u trust n respect n they do the same in return? yes i do

:jkk:

Unregistered43
15-08-07, 03:54 PM
Btw im a sister

Ibn-e-Muslim
15-08-07, 11:40 PM
:salams sis

i hope u r in good state of iman n health n may Allah cure ur problem

i cant recomend visiting a doctor coz my cousins had a real bad experiance with them, all of them r still stuck to them n act abnormal or all the time in deep sleep but one who stoped visiting the doctor n stoped eating pills

if there is a trust worthy real pro doc who can cure u without recomending drugs for a long time use do pay a visit to such

in meanwhile can u visit sum other place for a change for sumtime? like ur friends, go there live with them, call them up n let em live with u, keep ur self bussy with them talk to them n listen to them, do continue ur regular salat n recite quran daily, try ur level best to keep ur self calm n try to live each n every moment of ur life inshaAllah

can u try this atleast for a few days n see if it helps?

anyways, if all ur friends, sisters, cousins of ur age got married then u shud try geting married too or ask ur mother for help in this case inshaAllah

this is my personal opinion based on observing my cousin's conditions similer to u (do give a thought to other suggestions posted in this thread by brothers)

:jkk:

Unregistered152
16-08-07, 04:15 PM
Wa alaykum salam wr wb


:salams sis

i hope u r in good state of iman n health n may Allah cure ur problem

:jkk:

Ameen ya rabb.



Jazakallah brother ibn-e-muslim for ur sincere advice. The thought of going to doctors always troubled me cuz like your cousins i to had my problems with them but alhamdulilaih i came across one one who understood me and cared and tried her best to help me but off course that wasnt enough. I will always make dua to my rabb to cure and hlp me and every other person whose in my situation. I always try to visit my friends and they come over as well alhamdulilah but stayng over for couple is out of question cuz there is no way that my parents will allow that. Loads of my firnds and cousins are getting married and soon my sister to inshaAllah but i cant think of marriage not in this state i got to fix my self out first...
But jazakallah for your advice and i hope things get better for your cousins InshaAllah.

Wsalamu alaykum wrw wb

assia
21-08-07, 10:00 AM
Asslamu-alaikum everyone

I have been suffering from this problem for so long and just for this very reason i dont know if i can go on anymore. The problem may sound very minor but subhanAllah its affecting me very bad. Well how and where do i start? Plz bear with me. Okay first of all i see these horrible man every time and sometimes good atleast i think that in my dreams and while i am awake.

Seocendly, i laugh for no reason at all, i even laugh when i hear serious news eg: death, sum1es ill etc. Its out of my control and i hate it soooo much. i laugh in prayer as well. People misunderstand me and get the wrong message... it hurts me very much.

Bad thoughts always come to me about ppl i love and meet and even to the extent of having bad thought of my own creator! I cant tolerate that or any of it but at the same time i cant control it.

I am so dumb that i dont even know what shoe to put in my right and leFt feet.

I cant help but think that i am really mental.....plz advice me am i? if so, wat help can i get?


Wa salaam alakum....

As muslims we are suppose to look after our health/bodys..... kool la shay is in Allahs (swt) hands and what is written for us shall be..... However as muslims Allah (swt) wants us to care for ourselfs and if ill seek medical advice/medicine... if its written for that spoon of medicne to cure us by Allahs will than it will cure us. Yes sis pray and make plenty du'a insha'Allah Allah (swt) will answer them sis but also seek medical attention ie medication appears needed from what you have stated above sis. And your not mad sis your just not well and what your experiencing is part of your illness sis, some medication prescribed by a doctor may help insha'Allah sis!


May Allah (swt) cure you sis insha'Allah

Fee imanilla:)

Sister in islam

Redmist
21-08-07, 03:16 PM
Try to keep urself busy. Work around the house or outside, whenever a bad thought comes think of something else like you got to do the washing up after u get home or sumthing like that. Always resist the bad thoughts.

I pray that Allah gives you shifa from this terrible illness.

Strict2TheSunna
21-08-07, 09:40 PM
You have a jinn. Look for someone who can read on you, where do you live I might be able to help you.

oneshot
21-08-07, 09:53 PM
Unregistered458:

First, I think you did a very good job of expressing that which must be very difficult for you to try to put into words! Second, anonymous or not anonymous, it took a lot of courage to post that up and I commend you for having the guts to reach out for help with such a difficult issue.

Third, sister, if I were you I would seek out an adult that you trust (maybe a teacher, auntie, parent or Imam), and tell them about these experiences you have been having, and seeing if they recommend seeing a professional in these matters. There are all sorts of physical reasons that could lead to the experiences you have been having, and wouldn't it be great if it turned out that you could feel 100% better by balancing your blood sugar, or supplementing this or that nutrient or hormone?

If you would like to discuss this further, please either post it up here, or contact any of the moderating sisters here at ummah.com. May Allah lighten your burden and may you find happiness and satisfaction in this life and the next.

Peace,

Oneshot

HelpingHand
22-08-07, 11:02 AM
Asslamu-alaikum everyone

I have been suffering from this problem for so long and just for this very reason i dont know if i can go on anymore. The problem may sound very minor but subhanAllah its affecting me very bad. Well how and where do i start? Plz bear with me. Okay first of all i see these horrible man every time and sometimes good atleast i think that in my dreams and while i am awake.

Seocendly, i laugh for no reason at all, i even laugh when i hear serious news eg: death, sum1es ill etc. Its out of my control and i hate it soooo much. i laugh in prayer as well. People misunderstand me and get the wrong message... it hurts me very much.

Bad thoughts always come to me about ppl i love and meet and even to the extent of having bad thought of my own creator! I cant tolerate that or any of it but at the same time i cant control it.

I am so dumb that i dont even know what shoe to put in my right and leFt feet.

I cant help but think that i am really mental.....plz advice me am i? if so, wat help can i get?

Asslamo Allaikum Dear Respected Sister in Islam,

It is interesting to note that you are cognisant and aware of what you are doing and able to describe it in an understanding manner.

All of us have a fairly good idea as to what you are saying and we understood to a certain extent.

Muslims giving their opinions (no matter how sincere) on a forum without knowing the full details of your case and without professional qualifications and experience may cloud the issue further and confuse you even more.

Without knowing the details of your case further, it is hard to comment. I would suggest that you see your family doctor and seek recommendation as there is no harm in it.

Insha’Allah you will be in our duas.

hammerofthehuns
23-08-07, 10:19 PM
Asslamu-alaikum everyone

I have been suffering from this problem for so long and just for this very reason i dont know if i can go on anymore. The problem may sound very minor but subhanAllah its affecting me very bad. Well how and where do i start? Plz bear with me. Okay first of all i see these horrible man every time and sometimes good atleast i think that in my dreams and while i am awake.

Seocendly, i laugh for no reason at all, i even laugh when i hear serious news eg: death, sum1es ill etc. Its out of my control and i hate it soooo much. i laugh in prayer as well. People misunderstand me and get the wrong message... it hurts me very much.

Bad thoughts always come to me about ppl i love and meet and even to the extent of having bad thought of my own creator! I cant tolerate that or any of it but at the same time i cant control it.

I am so dumb that i dont even know what shoe to put in my right and leFt feet.

I cant help but think that i am really mental.....plz advice me am i? if so, wat help can i get?


yeah i think u have a jinn, if ur in the south east/ london area there i know someone who can definetly help u inshaAllah, give me an email or something inshaAllah.