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Nusayba bint Ka'b
05-08-07, 12:31 AM
A Walk by the River

Once there was a small house near to a river bank. There were three people living in the house. A man his wife and his old father. The man was very happy with his wife and they had good life. But his father was very old and sick and often used to be a trouble for both of them whole day and night.

During day they had to serve him food and medicine and at night he used to cough up a lot. That's why they were not able to sleep properly. This routine kept on going for sometime.

One night the man and his wife discussed something in their room and then the man came out and he asked his father to ride on his back.

The father asked "O my son where are you taking me to?"

The man replied "Dad! I want you to take out for a change since it's been long time you didn't see the world outside of the house".

The father was riding on back of his son tightly and the son started walking towards a river until he reached near the river. The father thought his son would stop on edge of the river and let him enjoy the natural scene.

But the son entered into the river until he reached deep into the water, where water was touching his chest.

The son was about to throw his father in the water that suddenly father asked his son to stop for a bit.

The son froze where he was.

The father said "O my son I knew why and where you were going to take me, but before you throw me in the river I want to tell you something. The place where you are standing right now is exactly the place where I threw my father in the river. So please throw me in a little bit deeper water, so when it comes your turn then your son has to walk a little bit more...

Moral of the story: Remember this and take it to your heart, everything you do to your parents, your children will do the same to you. This is a true story, this young man never knew what his father did to his father, and he took him to the exact same place to make him suffer just as he made his father suffer.

May Allah subhanaAllah wa'tala protect us from the curse of the parents, because it is real and no one can escape from it. Ameen

"Thy Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him, and that you be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honour. And out of kindness, lower to them the wing of humility, and say: My Lord! Bestow on them Thy Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood. Your Lord knows best what is in your hearts: If you do deeds of righteousness, verily He is Most Forgiving to those who turn to Him again and again (in true penitence)"

Khadija222333
05-08-07, 12:34 AM
:crying: :crying2: :crying: Subhan Allah! So sad! :crying2: :crying: :crying2:

umm_yusuf
05-08-07, 02:22 AM
Subhanallah.

Jazzakallahu Khair sis for posting

I was listening to a lecture by Waleed Basyouni called Parents the middle gate of Jannah and he narrated the saddest story...

Ath-Tha'ali (rahimuhullah) narrated the story that one day a man married a bad woman and in his house, his mum also lived with them. So his wife was always complaining to her husband, lets get rid of your mother. Finally, the boy agreed and so he took his mum to the desert full of lions and wolves. He told his mum, wait for me, I'll go to that mountain and i'll be back. So he left her but he kept staring back at her. After a while, when the sun set, he changed his clothes and covered his face, he went back to her. He changed his voice and went back to her saying "o woman, why are you here?" she said "I am waiting for my son."

He said, so why are you cryiing, are you angry at him? She said "no, my son left me here, and i am crying because this is a very dangerous place, I fear that something might hurt him...while he is going back home alone."

He said "you should make du'a against him for leaving you here." and she said, "honestly, i thought about it, but i couldn't."

and he started crying and kissing her feet and asking for forgiveness.

Subhanallah.

Medievalist
05-08-07, 11:00 AM
Nusaybah - :jkk:

Umm Yusuf - :jkk: - thats mothers for you :inlove:

My grandfather used to tell a version of the first story. In that one the son would take the father to a high cliff and just at the moment of pushing the father would alternate between laughter and weeping. The son asked the reason - father replied to that I weep because this is the same place I threw my father from and I laugh because this is the same place your son will throw you from :rotfl:

Zesty
05-08-07, 11:25 AM
SubhanAllah :crying:
Pareants are amazing.. *goes off to kiss dad* :p

Abu Mu'adh
05-08-07, 11:57 AM
Funny how in both stories it mentions after speaking with the wife, or the wife complaining about the elderly parents.

LOL, don't mind me just something that stuck out like a sore thumb.

Redmist
05-08-07, 01:11 PM
yeh......it goes in circles!