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[Upset]

Salam.2 problems
1>a member of my family hit me with a sharp object and on the head and called me names
2>some of my fam memebrs r forcing me to do things i dont want 2 do. not anything haram.

Help

w.s.

[Eemaan]

Assalmu alaikum

Im so sorry for your woe :( why did the violence occur?

what sorts of things are you not wanting to do?

[ammarcool]

1>a member of my family hit me with a sharp object and on the head and called me names

why is that? JUST complain it to your parents regarding that!


2>some of my fam memebrs r forcing me to do things i dont want 2 do. not anything haram.

just explain them what do you like to do, what you dont like!

[in limbo]

:(
have u told any1 that his family member hits u? if they try 2 hit u again, block it, and defend urself, scream and kick them. this will raise the attention of other people in the house and will suit this bully out :)

no1 can force u 2 do anything, tell then how u feel and keep saying no.

[Upset]

i do try2explain but am just met with a glare.
last time they tried to force me to do somfing i screamed n shouted which worked.so explaining dsnt work effectively.
the other family members can do anything and nothing is said to them if they do somfing bad but if i do a little thing it is a big deal.

[Upset]

the violence happened when i said they didnt make me lunch .

[aisha2007]

Salam.2 problems
1>a member of my family hit me with a sharp object and on the head and called me names
2>some of my fam memebrs r forcing me to do things i dont want 2 do. not anything haram.

Help

w.s.


Asalaam Alaikum

Allah subhanawat'Allah did not create you to be anyone's punchbag.
If this persists and you can't make the immediate family members listen to you, tell someone in the family you are close to and can trust...like an aunt or uncle.

What kind of things are they trying to force you into?

[Cartman]

call the police and make dua.

[ADZ w3]

is it like intermidiate family?

[Upset]

is it like intermidiate family?

yes

i dont want to call the police

[Eemaan]

the violence happened when i said they didnt make me lunch .

:confused:why was this such an issue?

you mean they forgot to make food for you something or you were deliberately excluded?

can i ask how old you are?

[Upset]

no big deaal
ill cope

[Anon.1.]

no big deaal
ill cope

:(

they shldnt hitin u

[yasmin20]

Assalam alakium

i dont know where you are in the world but if you live in the uk here are a few numbers that may be able to help you

if you are a women you can ring

women's helpline on 02089048193 or 02089086715

Islamic culture centre 0207724363

these organisations can help you they dont have to know who you are but can guide you and help you find some support or how to deal with things at home or anywhere

if you are under the age of 16 you can ring the child line on 0800 1111 there will be people on the phone just to listen to you and maybe guide you they will never force you to do anything you dont want to do so dont be scared calling them

i know it sounds scary ringing any of these numbers but inshaAllah you may be someone on the other line can help you?

May Allah make things easier for you and of you're a sister you can pm me and maybe we can chat? please dont feel i will judge you


You are in my dua's

Walakium Assalam

[muslim_sis]

Im a bit confused, let us understand more ... what things do they make you do that you dont want to, if its not haram, its not bad ? give us an example...

And also what member of the family is it who is hitting you ? why are they hitting you ?

How old are you ? & have you told anyone at all about any of this ?

Know that hitting for forgetting lunch or whatever is similar to that, is no reason to hit someone. The prophet (saw) was the best man set on the earth and he is an example to the rest of mankind. He is an exemplar for us Muslims, should we not follow that, Allah will deal with us accordingly, but InshAllah give us more understanding of your situation so we can InshAllah give you some advise to the best of our ability :)

you're not on your own, dont suffer in silence !

[Upset]

thanks so much4the help.things are better now mashallah