Wedding Invitations

[Asmara]

If you're invited to a wedding I know that you have to go, even if you don't feel like it. I heard that the companions of the prophet (saw) used go to walimahs whilst fasting sometimes, because an invitation could not be turned down.

If you're invited to 2 weddings, which are due to take place on the same day, do you have to show up at both? Would it be alright to go to just one of them?

[Kal-El]

You go to the one you were invited to first if you can't make it to both. I would choose that way.

[angel*]

You go to the one you were invited to first if you can't make it to both. I would choose that way.


Mmm yep me 2, which ever 1 u got invite 2 first wuld b my pik!

[bint]

men would go to both. cos of food.

women should go to both. cos of food.

ah im only jokin before u all bite me little head off!

erm, in my family, a member of the fam goes to one wedding and another member goes to the other wedding. show ure face, and job done.

[uhkt_al'muminun]

If you're invited to 2 weddings, which are due to take place on the same day, do you have to show up at both? Would it be alright to go to just one of them?

well if u feel you are capable to attend both Walimah's then Alahmduliallah and do so insh'Allah, if not? go to the one which you got invited to first...Allahuailam

[RUKU]

i'd go to da one i wos invited 2 first too. but say if its a family members wedding n da other weddin is a non family members weddin den i'd go to the family members weddin.

[heaven2002]

If you're invited to a wedding I know that you have to go, even if you don't feel like it. I heard that the companions of the prophet (saw) used go to walimahs whilst fasting sometimes, because an invitation could not be turned down.

If you're invited to 2 weddings, which are due to take place on the same day, do you have to show up at both? Would it be alright to go to just one of them?

actually you dont have to go if there will be something haraam , like music and free mixing
then u can decline the invitation
i do that sometimes and then just visit the wedding house a week before wedding to give apologies and a gift etc

[Asmara]

men would go to both. cos of food.

women should go to both. cos of food.



lol

[Asmara]

I was invited to my neighbours wedding first, but the other wedding is my cousin's. My cousin was supposed to marry in November intially.

[Eemaan]

starters at one

main course at the other

and ghafoors yer uncle :coolbro:


desert....lick yer fingers on the way home :D

[ur_yusra]

Go to both..

You get twice the food.

[Medievalist]

send the nendra money in an envelope and sit at home.

[Asmara]

starters at one

main course at the other

and ghafoors yer uncle :coolbro:


desert....lick yer fingers on the way home :D


lol eww to licking my fingers on my home.

[Asmara]

Thanks for your all your suggestions. I'm just gonna go to one of the weddings. I can't be bothered to go to both.

[nami]

If you're invited to a wedding I know that you have to go, even if you don't feel like it. I heard that the companions of the prophet (saw) used go to walimahs whilst fasting sometimes, because an invitation could not be turned down.

If you're invited to 2 weddings, which are due to take place on the same day, do you have to show up at both? Would it be alright to go to just one of them?

are you serious?

only wedding i went to was my uncles when i was a little boy. plus i went to mine...

thats it...

[.: Anna :.]

if they are both at dif times in the day i think u shud go 2 both because u are supposed 2 go wen ur invited although two in one day is bit much
if same time, go 2 the one u invited first
or also good 2 split ur family in half n send half 2 each so they dnt feel u neglected them

[aisha2007]

i'd go to da one i wos invited 2 first too. but say if its a family members wedding n da other weddin is a non family members weddin den i'd go to the family members weddin.


I agree...family first.
But if they are both non-family wedings and were friends, I would make the distinction of the person I had known longer and was closer to. But a couple of days before take a gift around to the house...spend an hour...make the person still feel that you are part of the day.
If there is going to be music or anthing haram then that is the reason not not go anyway.