Marrying Age

[Sulaiman Harun]

Marrying age

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:salams

:alhumdull

What's the Best Age to get married for both men and women according to Sunnah?

:jkk:

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[ammarcool]

:wswrwb:

It depends Brother!

Just my assumption for sisters its: > 20 for brothers its: > 24

[Abu Mu'adh]

I think it's when they reach the age of maturity or when they become baligh.

but generally as it takes guys alot longer to mature I would say girls at 18 and guys at 20.

[`asiya]

:wswrwb:

'Abdullah bin Mas'ud reported that Allah's Messenger said to us: O young men, those among you who can support a wife should marry, for it restrains eyes (from casting evil glances) and preserves one from immorality; but he who cannot afford it should observe fast, for it is a means of controlling the sexual desire. Muslim


The Noble Qur'an - An-Nur 24:33

And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His Bounty. ...


Narrated 'Alqama ,

While I was walking with 'Abdullah he said, "We were in the company of the Prophet and he said, 'He who can afford to marry should marry, because it will help him refrain from looking at other women, and save his private parts from committing illegal sexual relation; and he who cannot afford to marry is advised to fast, as fasting will diminish his sexual power.' " Bukhari


as soon as a man can afford to provide for a wife :up:

[RUKU]

i agree with when ur ready. in my case it was 18, now its been changed to 21....probably i'l change it to 23 when i'm 21:zzz: ...cant decided! too freakin scared!:(

[K h a l i l]

17...
but i dont think there is an age according to Quran and Sunnah.. Maybe its as soon as possible..

but 17!!

[Bint_Khalid]

17...
but i dont think there is an age according to Quran and Sunnah.. Maybe its as soon as possible..

but 17!!

lol, Sulaiman is 17

[K h a l i l]

lol, Sulaiman is 17

Well.. what is he waiting for???????????

Sulaiman.. hurry up.. and get MARRIED..

[Zaid the Great]

Marrying age

:start:

:salams

:alhumdull

What's the Best Age to get married for both men and women according to Sunnah?

:jkk:

:wswrwb:



I dunno about the Qur'an and the sunnah but imho the best age is:
14-18


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[alld]

it may have been better with a poll .

i think when the boy is physically mentally mature and has means to support the family and for girls as soon as they are physically matured but most of the times study comes in .

[Bint_Khalid]

I dunno about the Qur'an and the sunnah but imho the best age is:
14-18


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you mean... 14 or above

[K h a l i l]

I dunno about the Qur'an and the sunnah but imho the best age is:
14-18


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go back to bed zaid.. shouldn't you be sleeping for another hour?

[alld]

I dunno about the Qur'an and the sunnah but imho the best age is:
14-18


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zaid that age is for day dreaming .

[Zaid the Great]

go back to bed zaid.. shouldn't you be sleeping for another hour?

nah blad...

I meant that as soon as they can get kids, they should marry....:coolbro:
Otherwise, they will sit there bored for another 6-15 years

[Zesty]

nah blad...

I meant that as soon as they can get kids, they should marry....:coolbro:
Otherwise, they will sit there bored for another 6-15 years

:confused: at 14? i think they'll cope with boredom! i think youre just too wise for youre on good sometimes zaidy :p

[Abu Muslim]

Man, why did you have to go and marry age. Masha'Allah mabrooks bro on your marriage to age though.

May Allah bless your marriage.

EDIT: Ok, that was a such a bad joke, Im going to answer with a serious answer.

Bro, I think the best age is as soon as your ready, while you're young. Delaying it doesnt really bring any benefit and you miss out on all those years you could have spent with your wife in this dunya. In an ideal world, everyone would get married young, but its not an ideal world, so Im just blabbering on now and I dont think I've used a full top in ages, I keep using comms for some reason, so heres a full stop.

[*hayat*]

I dunno about the Qur'an and the sunnah but imho the best age is:
14-18


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thats best age!! also if you are even 13 and feel you are ready then its fine!!

[angel*]

17...
but i dont think there is an age according to Quran and Sunnah.. Maybe its as soon as possible..

but 17!!

I dunno about the Qur'an and the sunnah but imho the best age is:
14-18


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:rolleyes:


ha ha aww bless, the both of you, culd predict ur ans, b4 i saw them:p


mm i think ummm whenever ur as mature as zaidy and khalil, which 4 normal broz is about 23-5+ :p
&
sis'z 18-20+

[Kubs]

but imho the best age is:
14-18



No no no ….the best age would be 7 – 10. :rolleyes:

[Kal-El]

When you've been through a testing life, and have matured and learnt from your past mistakes and are willing to devote yourself as a wife or a husband, then you are ready.

Usually the above doesn't apply to those younger than 25. But then sometimes you might feel the need to get married at whatever age those needs become an issue.

[ify]

I think it's when they reach the age of maturity or when they become baligh.

but generally as it takes guys alot longer to mature I would say girls at 18 and guys at 20.
Yep, ditto

[GuCcI]

i used to thnk a girl should be married around 19 or 20 but now that im almost 20 i feel like its too soon so im pushing it to 25 for girls and 27 for guys :(

[Kal-El]

i used to thnk a girl should be married around 19 or 20 but now that im almost 20 i feel like its too soon so im pushing it to 25 for girls and 27 for guys :(

I thought you were already getting married? :scratch:

[GuCcI]

I thought you were already getting married? :scratch:

i am but i dont want to at this age

[$HugoBoss$]

i am but i dont want to at this age

25 for girls is way to old trust me, gucci my older sis had a 3 year old son at that age.....

I think you need two more years gucci and you'll be fine, can't extend it???

[angel*]

25 for girls is way to old trust me, gucci my older sis had a 3 year old son at that age.....

I think you need two more years gucci and you'll be fine, can't extend it???

o..k.. and for guyz?

[Kubs]

25 for girls is way to old trust me, gucci my older sis had a 3 year old son at that age.....

I think you need two more years gucci and you'll be fine, can't extend it???

But shouldn’t a person get married ‘when they are ready’?

[$HugoBoss$]

o..k.. and for guyz?

Guys earliest 23 latest 26

24 is the best age for guys.......

[$HugoBoss$]

But shouldn’t a person get married ‘when they are ready’?

Some people are never ready, some people never mature, guys only mature after marriage because they gain responsibility.

[Kubs]

Some people are never ready, some people never mature, guys only mature after marriage because they gain responsibility.

It seems that for some people its okay for a Muslim girl to get married when she’s 15…but considered too old and inappropriate for her to get married when she’s 24.

You get married when you are ‘ready’. Marriage is a big commitment…you just don’t decide on the spot there and then.

[$HugoBoss$]

It seems that for some people its okay for a Muslim girl to get married when she’s 15…but considered too old and inappropriate for her to get married when she’s 24.

You get married when you are ‘ready’. Marriage is a big commitment…you just don’t decide on the spot there and then.

What if your ready around 30 and your a girl, wouldn't it be tough to get married than???? There's a reason parents want to get rid of their daughters at a young age :D

[Kal-El]

i am but i dont want to at this age

That will hurt your fiancé to hear that.

[angel*]

Some people are never ready, some people never mature, guys only mature after marriage because they gain responsibility.


:up: shukr hai aqal ki baat bhi ki hai!

[angel*]

What if your ready around 30 and your a girl, wouldn't it be tough to get married than???? There's a reason parents want to get rid of their daughters at a young age :D


:torture: u lullo parents NEVER want to "get rid" of their daughterz!

That will hurt your fiancé to hear that.


:smack: thas just pre-wedding nerves and if its not...ummm...good thing her fiance aint a ummah member????

[GuCcI]

That will hurt your fiancé to hear that.


i know and thats why no one knows i dont want to :(

[$HugoBoss$]

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:up: shukr hai aqal ki baat bhi ki hai!

Say mashallah it only happens once in a blue moon :D

[Zaid the Great]

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:up: shukr hai aqal ki baat bhi ki hai!

u thankin him right????...
u said something about the brain or maturin...??
im tryna pick up the arabic words...!! :scratch:

[Kubs]

What if your ready around 30 and your a girl, wouldn't it be tough to get married than???? There's a reason parents want to get rid of their daughters at a young age :D


lol….it’s harder for women of course. The ideal age would be 22/23 for a lady.

Parents want to see their children happy. I personally would be hurt and offended if my mum and dad were more focused on 'getting rid of me' at a young age...then my own happiness.

[$HugoBoss$]

:torture: u lullo parents NEVER want to "get rid" of their daughterz!

Yai lullo kya hai???? Aap meri tareef karna bas ki jeeyai :1popcorn:

[Zaid the Great]

I'm stickin to my 14-18

[Raziel]

I'm stickin to my 14-18

only cause your in that age group... :D

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[Raziel]

lol….it’s harder for women of course. The ideal age would be 22/23 for a lady.

Parents want to see their children happy. I personally would be hurt and offended if my mum and dad were more focused on 'getting rid of me' at a young age...then my own happiness.

your assuming that getting ya married off = Making you Unhappy....

whereas it should be the opposite...

:jkk:

[Kubs]

your assuming that getting ya married off = Making you Unhappy....

whereas it should be the opposite...

:jkk:

No you misunderstood me.

Marriage is a wonderful thing….only if you are ready.

:)

[Raziel]

No you misunderstood me.

Marriage is a wonderful thing….only if you are ready.

:)

I agree sis, but some people delay it too long, and run away from it for too long, thinkin themselves 'not ready' ...

:jkk:

[Zaid the Great]

only cause your in that age group... :D

:jkk:

No.

Because that's when the arabs of old got married :p......

Nowadays, they have to graduate from uni and get a job then get married :smack:

But seriously, the point I'm tryna make is: the earlier, the better.

[angel*]

No.

Because that's when the arabs of old got married :p......

Nowadays, they have to graduate from uni and get a job then get married :smack:

But seriously, the point I'm tryna make is: the earlier, the better.

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[MMS]

No.

Because that's when the arabs of old got married :p......

Nowadays, they have to graduate from uni and get a job then get married :smack:

But seriously, the point I'm tryna make is: the earlier, the better.

err they were alot more mature back then

most 18yr olds nowadays cant take care of themselves let alone another person :rubeyes:

[Zaid the Great]

err they were alot more mature back then

most 18yr olds nowadays cant take care of themselves let alone another person :rubeyes:

gd point...

But arabs 30 years ago managed to pull it off :smack:
It aint fair :crying:

LOOOOL

[Kubs]

gd point...

But arabs 30 years ago managed to pull it off :smack:
It aint fair :crying:

LOOOOL

Patience is a virtue. Good things come to those who wait. :)

[Zaid the Great]

Patience is a virtue. Good things come to those who wait. :)

I know:
but there's a hadeeth that says (excuse my translation):
"hope and have aspirations for good and you will find it"


so LOL... Nothing wrong with my hopes:p

[Raziel]

No.

Because that's when the arabs of old got married :p......

Nowadays, they have to graduate from uni and get a job then get married :smack:

But seriously, the point I'm tryna make is: the earlier, the better.

so long as you is not climbin up trees, yeah.... :D

:jkk: I know what ya mean.... :o

[FYZ]

thats best age!! also if you are even 13 and feel you are ready then its fine!!
:eek: eeeeeeeeeeeekkkkkkkkkkkk NOOOOO WAYYYYYYYYYYY!
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LOL

[Sulaiman Harun]

Well.. what is he waiting for???????????

Sulaiman.. hurry up.. and get MARRIED..

Make me!

[Kal-El]

thats best age!! also if you are even 13 and feel you are ready then its fine!!

That's the funniest thing I've read all year. Thank you for the laugh

[Sulaiman Harun]

I asked this question to my Islamic teacher bach when I was in UAE, he said that the best age for a female is the age when Fatimah (RA) got married and the best for male is when Ali (RA) got married. He's not a shi'a!!

[Sulaiman Harun]

Man, why did you have to go and marry age. Masha'Allah mabrooks bro on your marriage to age though.

May Allah bless your marriage.

EDIT: Ok, that was a such a bad joke, Im going to answer with a serious answer.

Bro, I think the best age is as soon as your ready, while you're young. Delaying it doesnt really bring any benefit and you miss out on all those years you could have spent with your wife in this dunya. In an ideal world, everyone would get married young, but its not an ideal world, so Im just blabbering on now and I dont think I've used a full top in ages, I keep using comms for some reason, so heres a full stop.


No brother that was a fantabulous joke!!! I am serious!

[nashmash]

Man, why did you have to go and marry age. Masha'Allah mabrooks bro on your marriage to age though.

May Allah bless your marriage.

EDIT: Ok, that was a such a bad joke, Im going to answer with a serious answer.

Bro, I think the best age is as soon as your ready, while you're young. Delaying it doesnt really bring any benefit and you miss out on all those years you could have spent with your wife in this dunya. In an ideal world, everyone would get married young, but its not an ideal world, so Im just blabbering on now and I dont think I've used a full top in ages, I keep using comms for some reason, so heres a full stop.

really that so funny, it even made me laugh, anyhow back to the question

you should get married when you feel you need to get married in order to stop disobeying Allah and get closer to Him through marriage, when you are serious, not when you are "ready" - you are never really ready until you get married

Therefore sisters in the west >=18-23<= and brothers, 24+ when they've finished their degrees, again in the west. Sisters don't necessarily have to finish thier degrees but i think brothers should...just my two cents

btw anyone have the mutafailoon nasheed, i'm so thirsty for it, quench my thirst someone!

[munyeka]

Sallams all

i think anything before 22 is way tooo young for women and under 24 way too young for a man!!

Im 24, and still unmarried, but inshallah will be very soon (make dua), and my husband will be 26, inshallah.

I am NOT a burden on my mummy and daddy, and they have respected my wish not to marry. Yes they worry, but they also make dua, and it is only with the barakh of thier duas that i have found an amazing man to be my husband, alhumdollilah.

And I know had i have got married any younger I wouldnt have been as prepared to be a good wife as I am. I have had the oppurtunity to be good daugther (inshallah), which has prepared me to be an excellent wife (inshallah). The experinces and trails i have faced have better prepared for a a married life, and alhumdolliah i have found a guy well settled enough, in all senses to be my husband. :inlove: , alhumdolliah.

but i fail to understand how 17/18 year teenagers, who barely know the rights of thier parents, can fulfill the rights of a husband at the of a wife.

Go to your local college, and ask the girls what the rights of her husband should be.................you'll get interesting answers, trust me!:rolleyes:

[*hayat*]

:eek: eeeeeeeeeeeekkkkkkkkkkkk NOOOOO WAYYYYYYYYYYY!
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LOL

erm...what is wrong exatly with that? if you are mature enough and the earlier the better...right?

[*hayat*]

That's the funniest thing I've read all year. Thank you for the laugh


i am glad you find it funny, but its true...i did not say that because i am 13 i said it becasue thats the right way

how old was our Prophets' wife when she got married?

[FYZ]

erm...what is wrong exatly with that? if you are mature enough and the earlier the better...right?

i dont think any 13 yr old would be ready to get married [in the UK]..it just doesnt sound right and secondly it's illegal haha....

:hidban:

[Kal-El]

i am glad you find it funny, but its true...i did not say that because i am 13 i said it becasue thats the right way

how old was our Prophets' wife when she got married?

With all due respect, I would never allow my daughter to marry at 13. She's still a baby emotionally and especially responsibility. Kids at that age usually scream "i hate you" to their parents, or "i will never speak to you", and then they're laughing with you the next morning.

How can you possibly take her serious if she says she wants to marry a boy? What girl even thinks about those things at that age?

And as far as I'm aware, at the time of the Nabi (saw), people matured very quick hence their characteristics at such ages. His wife Aisha (ra) was married at 9 years old; does that mean Muslims would be prepared to give away their daughters at 9?

If a man came to me and asked my to marry my 9 year old, I'd bury him.:coolbro:

[Kal-El]

The only reason why its "the earlier, the better" is for them to avoid committing Zina. This is why you'll find many Muslims, especially brothers, who are in their late teens or early 20's who would love to marry.

This does not apply to children. They're emotional state is too immature and unpredictable, not to mention their physical state.

[*hayat*]

salam

you are correct i agree but thats why i said it all depends on the girls Puberty and it could be any age, like you said about thats girls at the age of 13 scream i hate you...well its not true, i know someone friend is mashallah 15 but sadly at the age 12 she had already commited Zina bacause she was premature and at the age of 11 she was very mature and had got through a lot and grew up before time and now she is getting married next year inshallah.(may allah forgive her)

also it does not matter about the place at all, if its uk or anywhere elese, it all depends on the person.

if i had a daughter yes, it would not be ideal to marry her off at the age of 13 because she would be growing and learning a lot but i think it is still a lot better than them doing worng...

[nami]

between 16 and 18. any older than that then you are putting yourself in un-necessary risk of committing sin by looking and thinking thoughts you should not be thinking about the opposite sex.

[*hayat*]

With all due respect, I would never allow my daughter to marry at 13. She's still a baby emotionally and especially responsibility. Kids at that age usually scream "i hate you" to their parents, or "i will never speak to you", and then they're laughing with you the next morning.

How can you possibly take her serious if she says she wants to marry a boy? What girl even thinks about those things at that age?

And as far as I'm aware, at the time of the Nabi (saw), people matured very quick hence their characteristics at such ages. His wife Aisha (ra) was married at 9 years old; does that mean Muslims would be prepared to give away their daughters at 9?

If a man came to me and asked my to marry my 9 year old, I'd bury him.:coolbro:

loooooooooool erm best wishes to him^^^


ture many girls dont think they want to marry, they think about having a boyfriend and thats why it is better for them to do nikah because otherwise they would think about having a boy friend.

at that age girls many teenagers start to go out just when they leave primary school.

even today in many hot places people mature very quickly like olden days and sometimes even at the age of 8!

[nami]

i have some relatives in pakistan. both 13-14 years old. they wanted to get married and told their parents. the parents thought "if we don't let them marry, they might end up doing something they regret"...

so they got married and are happy and its halaal.

[MMS]

between 16 and 18. any older than that then you are putting yourself in un-necessary risk of committing sin by looking and thinking thoughts you should not be thinking about the opposite sex.

tru but most guys cant support a wife at that age and most males and females here in the west at that age are very immature

they dont know anything about compromise and responsibility

[Kubs]

i am glad you find it funny, but its true...i did not say that because i am 13 i said it becasue thats the right way

how old was our Prophets' wife when she got married?

Are you being serious?

[nami]

tru but most guys cant support a wife at that age and most males and females here in the west at that age are very immature

they dont know anything about compromise and responsibility

that's why i hate this country so much. the whole system is made to make it difficult for young people to sport each other. even when you're older the system keeps you working will you're 65 just so you can pay bills for things you don't need...

[MMS]

that's why i hate this country so much. the whole system is made to make it difficult for young people to sport each other. even when you're older the system keeps you working will you're 65 just so you can pay bills for things you don't need...

its not just about supporting it has alot to do with mental attitude, most kids from here just dont have what it takes

they scrounge off their rents without any concern of how their parents are paying for these things

if they dont get what they want they throw tantrums
at that age all the kids seem to be goign through the my life is soo tough stage :crying: i only get £10 a day pocket money :crying: my parents dont let me stay out till midnight sorta stuff :rolleyes:

[*hayat*]

Are you being serious?

yes very serious!

[*hayat*]

i have some relatives in pakistan. both 13-14 years old. they wanted to get married and told their parents. the parents thought "if we don't let them marry, they might end up doing something they regret"...

so they got married and are happy and its halaal.

exactly, people can be happy at that age, and the guy does NOT have to pay for the girl, marrying could be only nikah where the girl can stay with her parents, its only stopping haram!

[Kubs]

yes very serious!

So if you have a daughter...you'd be willing to give her away when she's 13?

[nami]

exactly, people can be happy at that age, and the guy does NOT have to pay for the girl, marrying could be only nikah where the girl can stay with her parents, its only stopping haram!

thats exactly what is happening, they still stay with their own parents and have stopped haraam. they will probably move in when they start working. this happened around 3 or 4 years ago i think, so they should be around 16-17 by now.

[*hayat*]

at that age all the kids [/B][/B]seem to be goign through the my life is soo tough stage :crying: i only get £10 a day pocket money :crying: my parents dont let me stay out till midnight sorta stuff :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]

they ARE NOT KIDS AFTER PUBERTY! even in islam they are answerble to their sins and not all kids youngsters are like tht, some are mature and some are not so no rounding up or down,

eg. kids on this forum would be type who would support early nikah and kids on footie forums would support ither ideas,

[*hayat*]

So if you have a daughter...you'd be willing to give her away when she's 13?

yes if i have a daughter who wants to do nikah and is mature for few years and understands haram and halal and then yes,

[Kubs]

I'd be worried if I had a 13 year old daughter who wanted to get married. However much you may deny it....a 13 year old is young and mentally not prepared for such a MASSIVE commitment. I'm 18 and the idea of marriage frightens me...how d'ya expect a 13 year old to feel?

How old are you btw?

[Kal-El]

I don't think you're allowed to marry younger than the age of 16 in this country - so I don't know if people are going to break the law, what would be the rush? Wait a few years nooh.

I wouldn't recommend anyone in the UK marrying if they're younger 18 also. It's illegal to have a sexual relationship under that age, and as far as I know we are commanded to respect the laws of other countries as long as it does not interfere with our religious beliefs - and its not a religious belief that we have to marry before the age of 18.

[nami]

I'd be worried if I had a 13 year old daughter who wanted to get married. However much you may deny it....a 13 year old is young and mentally not prepared for such a MASSIVE commitment. I'm 18 and the idea of marriage frightens me...how d'ya expect a 13 year old to feel?

How old are you btw?

true for some, not for all.

[heaven2002]

do you think a 13/14 yr old uk born girl or boy wud be ready to be a father or mother and have money to support a family?

[*hayat*]

I'd be worried if I had a 13 year old daughter who wanted to get married. However much you may deny it....a 13 year old is young and mentally not prepared for such a MASSIVE commitment. I'm 18 and the idea of marriage frightens me...how d'ya expect a 13 year old to feel?

How old are you btw?

please brother dont be worried of ur daughter asked you that as it would reflect her teachings, about her religion and wrong and righteous

well i am not denying the fact that 13 year old is young, i know that its very early but i said it in a position where there is a risk of her going wrong. we all learn till the day we die so we cant say when we get 20 we will be ready and also early marrying is good beacuse you can then grow and leanr together and get use to with ur partner even quicker. it is a massive commitment but people like my family living in the uk always have the fear of kids commiting zina so then if i had to choose then i would rahter go for nikah early then risk it.

well hoiw do i expect a 13 yearl old to feel depends on individuals, if she is interested and wants to then mashllah go for it, if she feels not she does not feel attraction for guys and wants to wait then she can wait.

you are 18, i am 15 but i want to marry! its meant to be fun nothing frightening, a blessing from allah,

may allah forgive me if i upset anyone

[nami]

do you think a 13/14 yr old uk born girl or boy wud be ready to be a father or mother and have money to support a family?

i think thats not a problem with the 13/14 year old, its more of a problem with the messed up system in the uk.

also if 13/14 year old get married, they can always stay with their parents and see each other on the weekends or something. at least that would stop sinning if they wanted to get married.

[Kal-El]

i think thats not a problem with the 13/14 year old, its more of a problem with the messed up system in the uk.

also if 13/14 year old get married, they can always stay with their parents and see each other on the weekends or something. at least that would stop sinning if they wanted to get married.

Husband has a duty of providing for his wife. Food and shelter are compulsory. Considering their situation, he would have to send her money with whatever he earns working part-time. He cant pay for everything naturally, but he would give all he can.

It's not even worth it. I don't think it's a good idea to have your 13/14year daughter pregnant. Physical issues aswell as psychological.

Modern day mothers who are in their adulthood cant sometimes even handle children. How can we expect young teenagers to?

Man when I was that age, I had Pokemon on my mind :coolbro:

[*hayat*]

I don't think you're allowed to marry younger than the age of 16 in this country - so I don't know if people are going to break the law, what would be the rush? Wait a few years nooh.

I wouldn't recommend anyone in the UK marrying if they're younger 18 also. It's illegal to have a sexual relationship under that age, and as far as I know we are commanded to respect the laws of other countries as long as it does not interfere with our religious beliefs - and its not a religious belief that we have to marry before the age of 18.


yeh in uk its 16 but i have seen many families do it without doing it with law if they are in rush seeing as many kids here are messed up!

yeh waiting is the best option only if it does not interfere with religion wrong. erm...i am not saying i believe we ahve to marry before 18

[nami]

Husband has a duty of providing for his wife. Food and shelter are compulsory. Considering their situation, he would have to send her money with whatever he earns working part-time. He cant pay for everything naturally, but he would give all he can.

It's not even worth it. I don't think it's a good idea to have your 13/14year daughter pregnant. Physical issues aswell as psychological.

Modern day mothers who are in their adulthood cant sometimes even handle children. How can we expect young teenagers to?

Man when I was that age, I had Pokemon on my mind :coolbro:


lol at the last comment!

i know what you're saying, but its better to get pregnant at 13/14 in a halaal manner, instead of getting pregnant at 13/14 via a boyfriend/girlfriend from school.

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do you think a 13/14 yr old uk born girl or boy wud be ready to be a father or mother and have money to support a family?

nope they would not be and thtas why its not good idea to force them but if one feels not strong enough and feels they will go wrong then should do nikah,

many people these days go thinking back about money and if the girl is ready to leave her parents and stuff but the truth is we are told to get married asap and there are many ways these problems can be avoided,

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Husband has a duty of providing for his wife. Food and shelter are compulsory. Considering their situation, he would have to send her money with whatever he earns working part-time. He cant pay for everything naturally, but he would give all he can.


THE HUSBAND DOES NOT HAVE TO SEND THE MONEY IF HE DOES NOT EARN, THE PARENTS WOULD KNOW WHEN THEY MARRY THEIR DAUGHTER OFF THAT THE GUY IS TOO YOUNG TO EARN. HERE WE ARE SAYING ABOUT DOING THE RIGHT THING.


WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE A 13 YEAR OLD IN NIKAH OR COMMITING ZINA? IF 13 YEAR OLD LIKE YOU SAID IS READY TO BE PREGNANT THEN THAT SHOWS SHE IS READY TO COMMIT ZINA.

WHO IS SAYING MARRY DAUGHTERS OFF AT 13..WE ARE SAYING IF THE SITUATION IS WHERE THEY FEEL AND WANT TO SEENING AS THEY MIGHT GO WRONG.

It's not even worth it. I don't think it's a good idea to have your 13/14year daughter pregnant. Physical issues aswell as psychological.

Modern day mothers who are in their adulthood cant sometimes even handle children. How can we expect young teenagers to?

GOODNESS, IF DO NOT MARRY AND COMMIT ZINA AND BECOME MORTHER ISNT THAT WORSE THEN BEING IN NIKAH THEN BECOMING A MORTHER?

Man when I was that age, I had Pokemon on my mind :coolbro:


ERM...YEH BUT YOU ARE DIFFERENT AND EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT.