View Full Version : Best age to get married for you ?
Believer1984
20-06-07, 07:04 PM
Im 22. But i want to get married when i can fully stand up on ma 2 feet and have my own flat.
Yup my brothers are weirdos , they would scare off my wife.
So im looking to get married at the age of between 23-25.
yup yup yup. :)
You Guys ?
sunrise
20-06-07, 07:07 PM
there's no specific age, whenever a person feels ready inshAllah:up:
Zaid the Great
20-06-07, 07:14 PM
14-18
THis age is the best^^
a_nounu
20-06-07, 07:23 PM
14-18
THis age is the best^^
salams
looooool, thats what i thought wen i was between those ages!!!
But definitely start pestering your parents early, that way the process will go quicker when you are ready for marriage!!!
get married before committing sin .
sunrise
20-06-07, 07:26 PM
salams
looooool, thats what i thought wen i was between those ages!!!
But definitely start pestering your parents early, that way the process will go quicker when you are ready for marriage!!!
ameen to that lol:up: trust me it works:D
Zaid the Great
20-06-07, 07:26 PM
ameen to that lol:up: trust me it works:D
salams
looooool, thats what i thought wen i was between those ages!!!
But definitely start pestering your parents early, that way the process will go quicker when you are ready for marriage!!!
*goes to pester parents*
sunrise
20-06-07, 07:29 PM
*goes to pester parents*
ah ah ah wait!! u gots 2 b ready first or trust me they will start coming out with a million and one reasons as to why your not ready yet..u gotta 'show' them ur ready..otherwise ur just getting urself into a mess:torture:
a_nounu
20-06-07, 07:29 PM
loooool
Zaid the Great
20-06-07, 07:30 PM
ah ah ah wait!! u gots 2 b ready first or trust me they will start coming out with a million and one reasons as to why your not ready yet..u gotta 'show' them ur ready..otherwise ur just getting urself into a mess:torture:
i is always jokin bout dat issue wit my mum....i probly aint gona get engaged 4 at least 1 other year:( :( :crying:
No later than 23 inshallah, depending on where I'm at in my life.
a_nounu
20-06-07, 07:31 PM
ah ah ah wait!! u gots 2 b ready first or trust me they will start coming out with a million and one reasons as to why your not ready yet..u gotta 'show' them ur ready..otherwise ur just getting urself into a mess:torture:
its different with diferent parents, some think theyre kid is ready at the age of twelve but everyone else isnt, while others think theyre "kid" isnt ready even at the age of 45,
Zaid the Great
20-06-07, 07:32 PM
ah ah ah wait!! u gots 2 b ready first or trust me they will start coming out with a million and one reasons as to why your not ready yet..u gotta 'show' them ur ready..otherwise ur just getting urself into a mess:torture:
neway i iz ready sis....
a_nounu
20-06-07, 07:34 PM
i dont think u can be ready for marriage to a certain extent, you have adapt when your married is my opinion (speakink without experience, *sobs*)
Zaid the Great
20-06-07, 07:34 PM
i dont think u can be ready for marriage to a certain extent, you have adapt when your married is my opinion (speakink without experience, *sobs*)
go pesta ur parents blad:torture: :torture:
a_nounu
20-06-07, 07:37 PM
go pesta ur parents blad:torture: :torture:
been doin that for time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
to be honest my parents are all up for early marriage, they just have this 7 ft list of specifications that needs meeting!!!
sunrise
20-06-07, 07:38 PM
i dont think u can be ready for marriage to a certain extent, you have adapt when your married is my opinion (speakink without experience, *sobs*)
aww well what ya waitign around 4 innit lol:up:
its different with diferent parents, some think theyre kid is ready at the age of twelve but everyone else isnt, while others think theyre "kid" isnt ready even at the age of 45,
i sopose..but sometimes they bug u when ur young and when u start showing an interest they run a mile loool
sunrise
20-06-07, 07:42 PM
28..............
well shldnt be too long now;):up: (kiddin' lol):p
a_nounu
20-06-07, 07:55 PM
aww well what ya waitign around 4 innit lol:up:
i sopose..but sometimes they bug u when ur young and when u start showing an interest they run a mile loool
Who sed nething about waitin, like i sed the specs need meeting, otherwise im open to pretty much anyone!!! loooool,
well....
inshallah within next year or so my parents are hunting...lollol...just done my first year of uni...but that isnt going to stop me..lollol alot of people in uni are married...allahamduillah:D
a_nounu
20-06-07, 08:13 PM
inshallah within next year or so my parents are hunting...lollol...just done my first year of uni...but that isnt going to stop me..lollol alot of people in uni are married...allahamduillah:D
hate to sound like a parrrot, but thats exactly wot i sed, i just finished second yr now, and still looking.
al-hamdulillah
Zaid the Great
20-06-07, 08:15 PM
hate to sound like a parrrot, but thats exactly wot i sed, i just finished second yr now, and still looking.
al-hamdulillah
im 2 yrs away from uni and i aint hitched yet:(
a_nounu
20-06-07, 08:16 PM
patience is a virtue bro
May Allah give us all patience!!
Zaid the Great
20-06-07, 08:17 PM
patience is a virtue bro
May Allah give us all patience!!
ameen....
its becomin unbearable....looool... it aint that bad:p....
hate to sound like a parrrot, but thats exactly wot i sed, i just finished second yr now, and still looking.
al-hamdulillah
i would have been in my second year now but i took a year out...lollol...so ur looking to get married...all the best in ur search..may Allah bless you with a pious spouse ameen.:up:
14-18
THis age is the best^^
lol, and illegal, at the lower end!
Don't worry, you got plenty of time (unless you stumble across someone), enjoy it while it lasts!
Bint_Khalid
20-06-07, 10:43 PM
inshallah within next year or so my parents are hunting...lollol...just done my first year of uni...but that isnt going to stop me..lollol alot of people in uni are married...allahamduillah:D
lol .....same here most people in my uni are also married and have kids masha'allah.
Not too fussed about getting married...ryt now id prefer not to...I guess whenever Allah wishes! :up:
21-23 inshallah. I want to be a fairly young mother inshaallah.
However in reality I probably won't get married before 25 because my parents probably wouldn't want me to.
Bint_Khalid
21-06-07, 01:22 PM
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Do you mean NEVeR :scratch:
lol .....same here most people in my uni are also married and have kids masha'allah.
where are these hidden universities where most of the students are married and have kids :rubeyes: :rubeyes: :rubeyes: ?
Bint_Khalid
21-06-07, 01:26 PM
where are these hidden universities where most of the students are married and have kids :rubeyes: :rubeyes: :rubeyes: ?
:rotfl: erm.. my uni.
i meant out of all the people that I know in my uni are either married or about to get married.
Amethyst
21-06-07, 01:30 PM
20-25?
:rotfl: erm.. my uni.
i meant out of all the people that I know in my uni are either married or about to get married.
dead giveaway :p
And what would that be? Or at least give the general area, or even a clue. I'm seriously curious!
We all know which city you're from anyway, well a good guess anyway :D :D
Bint_Khalid
21-06-07, 01:43 PM
dead giveaway :p
And what would that be? Or at least give the general area, or even a clue. I'm seriously curious!
We all know which city you're from anyway, well a good guess anyway :D :D
:D If you know the city (where it RAiNs) then you must know the uni (where most of my friends are marrIed) :p
Right about now would be fine :cool:.. besides maternal instincts start kicking in and women start getting broody :outta:
Do you mean NEVeR
:rolleyes: ya
im 2 yrs away from uni and i aint hitched yet:(
Awww bless, :inlove:
ameen....
its becomin unbearable....looool... it aint that bad:p....
Aww bless. :p
where are these hidden universities where most of the students are married and have kids :rubeyes: :rubeyes: :rubeyes: ?
*wonders the same thing*
Right about now would be fine :cool:.. besides maternal instincts start kicking in and women start getting broody :outta:
LOL! Zesty ur waaay 2 funny!
LOL! Zesty ur waaay 2 funny!
:D i tell zee truttthhh.. and nothign but zee truth!
ibn suleman
21-06-07, 02:04 PM
if u need to ask..ur not ready....:p
^that doesnt make sense..but it sounds cool :D
if u need to ask..ur not ready....:p
^that doesnt make sense..but it sounds cool :D
so you ready or not bro? :D
:jkk:
lol .....same here most people in my uni are also married and have kids masha'allah.
its the same of here...some of them are parents as well...i gu4ess every1 jus wants to start settling down now...lollol
JiHaDiYa
21-06-07, 04:04 PM
The best age would have to be when the women is mature enough to get married and is mentally ready, 18 is da best time for moi :D
:salams
the right time for marrige is when uve studied MARRIGE islamically when you u can meet the REQ and when u WANT TO!!! once uve done that..O YHE N UVE GOT SUM or been through finding sum1 u want to marry..then your ready..:)
n trust me once ur in uni n stuff u do get distracted by the isoc and then the actuall reason well the main reason normal people go to uni for is for the education right? so then u dont think about it too much..but yeh UNI is usally the BEST TIME!! coz ur a mature adult....so 20-21 i say 22-23 latest!!!!
such an easy question and people debating it.
The right time is whenever you can be bothered coupled with...
Whenever you come across somebody worth it.
So the answer is 'right now' for you Joha?
Islamiyyah
21-06-07, 05:02 PM
Getting married in July InshAllah, I am fairly young, and so is my fiance:o , but our deen comes first and this is the best way to not fall into sin, otherwise I would wait until I was like 20 or 23.
Getting married in July InshAllah, I am fairly young, and so is my fiance:o , but our deen comes first and this is the best way to not fall into sin, otherwise I would wait until I was like 20 or 23.
How old are you now (if you don't mind me asking)?. You make 20 or 23 sound like grand old ages.
Zaid the Great
21-06-07, 05:04 PM
Getting married in July InshAllah, I am fairly young, and so is my fiance:o , but our deen comes first and this is the best way to not fall into sin, otherwise I would wait until I was like 20 or 23.
how old is u??:rubeyes:
i know ur unda 20... but some1 told me that...i wouldve neva guessed... but neway.... u is engaged early.... Masha'Allah:up:
Islamiyyah
21-06-07, 05:07 PM
I am halfway to 32. :):o
Zaid, someone told you I was younger:rubeyes:
Zaid the Great
21-06-07, 05:08 PM
I am halfway to 32. :):o
Zaid, someone told you I was younger:rubeyes:
my sis:o
dont ask me how she knew...
Islamiyyah
21-06-07, 05:10 PM
my sis:o
dont ask me how she knew...
ah okay....lol
who's your sis if you dont mind me asking.
Zaid the Great
21-06-07, 05:11 PM
ah okay....lol
who's your sis if you dont mind me asking.
1 ummah:o
Islamiyyah
21-06-07, 05:14 PM
1 ummah:o
ah okay :D
UmmTalhah, from your name I thought that you were a married woman with a child named Talhah.
So the answer is 'right now' for you Joha?
hmm, you? which dungeon spat you back out :D
you shall be receiving many many many slaps.
Islamiyyah
21-06-07, 05:20 PM
UmmTalhah, from your name I thought that you were a married woman with a child named Talhah.
:S no... Its just a kunya...
hmm, you? which dungeon spat you back out :D
you shall be receiving many many many slaps.
Dungeon? Are you referring to the Physics building? ;)
Best age 2 get married is ummm.............................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................... anytime!!!!:p
Zaid the Great
21-06-07, 05:21 PM
Best age 2 get married is ummm.............................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................................................. .................... anytime!!!!:p
my age :o
i iz welll desperate..LOOOL
i heard u is well desperate too??:p
my age :o
i iz welll desperate..LOOOL
i heard u is well desperate too??:p
Aww bless, :inlove:
:rubeyes: where didya hear that from then eh?:p
Zaid the Great
21-06-07, 05:23 PM
Aww bless, :inlove:
:rubeyes: where didya hear that from then eh?:p
the way u talks..init??:o :outta:
urban_rose
21-06-07, 05:24 PM
my age :o
i iz welll desperate..LOOOL
i heard u is well desperate too??:p
:rotfl: its illegal for you to get married right now, Zaid..legally i mean...
the way u talks..init??:o :outta:
:rubeyes: the wayz iz talks??? what wayz that then???
Im really off marraige atm!
Zaid the Great
21-06-07, 05:26 PM
:rotfl: its illegal for you to get married right now, Zaid..legally i mean...
errrr...... islamically??:rolleyes:
i is half 30 tho...... yeh i know its illegal in this country... o well.... i can avoid registering the marriage... o well.... gotta wait a year...
Im 22. But i want to get married when i can fully stand up on ma 2 feet and have my own flat.
Yup my brothers are weirdos , they would scare off my wife.
So im looking to get married at the age of between 23-25.
yup yup yup. :)
You Guys ?
I got married when I was 19.
Zaid the Great
21-06-07, 05:26 PM
:rubeyes: the wayz iz talks??? what wayz that then???
Im really off marraige atm!
girls r neva into it.....:smack:
dont get into it anytime soon coz it gonna be torture:smack:
Dungeon? Are you referring to the Physics building? ;)
Ain't falling for that old trap :)...again.
:torture:
urban_rose
21-06-07, 05:29 PM
errrr...... islamically??:rolleyes:
i is half 30 tho...... yeh i know its illegal in this country... o well.... i can avoid registering the marriage... o well.... gotta wait a year...
:smack: thats why i included the 'legally' part *Roll Eyes*
Islamiyyah
21-06-07, 05:30 PM
I got married when I was 19.
How was the situation financially if you dont mind me asking?
girls r neva into it.....:smack:
dont get into it anytime soon coz it gonna be torture:smack:
gr8 advice. aint planning 2!!!!
errrr...... islamically??:rolleyes:
i is half 30 tho...... yeh i know its illegal in this country... o well.... i can avoid registering the marriage... o well.... gotta wait a year...
Aww Zaidy not 2 worry, ya know u culd get married on yer birthday!:p
.: hayat :.
21-06-07, 05:35 PM
i do not really hurry..at 25 yrs after finishing studies is good..so 3 yrs frm now on...but if now would apear a good proposal then why not...?Allah knows better..inshallah i get a good hubby!!!:inlove: ;)
Believer1984
21-06-07, 05:52 PM
I got married when I was 19.
Masha-allah !
Any kids yet ? :up:
a_nounu
21-06-07, 07:17 PM
:rotfl: erm.. my uni.
i meant out of all the people that I know in my uni are either married or about to get married.
which uni is this? and do they allow people to transfer from different unis?
Bint_Khalid
21-06-07, 07:20 PM
which uni is this? and do they allow people to transfer from different unis?
whaa? :rubeyes:
which uni is this? and do they allow people to transfer from different unis?
You mean you wanna transfer to be with married folk :rubeyes: :rubeyes:
Courageous gentleman you are
a_nounu
21-06-07, 07:28 PM
looooooooooooooool
Was a simple joke, ive already transferred uni once!
(not enough potential wives......thats not the real reason, dont hurt me!!!!!!!)
looooooooooooooool
Was a simple joke, ive already transferred uni once!
(not enough potential wives......thats not the real reason, dont hurt me!!!!!!!)
lol
i'v gt 3 yrs of uni 2 luk 4wrd 2 4rm sep n i'd actually wudn't mind getin marrid in my 2nd yr however, i got an olda sibling tht has 2 get marid frst so.......i probs wnt get marrid tell ma afta ma 3rd yr
lol
i'v gt 3 yrs of uni 2 luk 4wrd 2 4rm sep n i'd actually wudn't mind getin marrid in my 2nd yr however, i got an olda sibling tht has 2 get marid frst so.......i probs wnt get marrid tell ma afta ma 3rd yr
Why does your older sibling have to get married first?
Why does your older sibling have to get married first?
Mmmm a common thing in pakistani and indian cultures, yh i know its a bit :wacko: but iv seen ppl do and say it. Therz another where ppl r like the brother shuld get married b4 sisterz do, yep that 2z :wacko: weird ppl weird traditions *shrugz*
Easy to get around that though.
Befriend the parents and send them a gift - and constantly asking for their daughters hand in marriage.
:D Is that a good idea or is that a good idea?
Easy to get around that though.
Befriend the parents and send them a gift - and constantly asking for their daughters hand in marriage.
:D Is that a good idea or is that a good idea?
talking 4rm exp. eh Kal?:p
It's strange how everyone asks/wonders that when I post in this section. Truth is I've been married, although now single, over a dozen times before the age of 15 - what can I say? It was teenage hormones innit :coolbro:
But seriously no. I just have a creative side to solving problems sometimes.
It's strange how everyone asks/wonders that when I post in this section. Truth is I've been married, although now single, over a dozen times before the age of 15 - what can I say? It was teenage hormones innit :coolbro:
But seriously no. I just have a creative side to solving problems sometimes.
:p thats funny!
ever thought of bcumming a concilr? :hidban:
:p thats funny!
ever thought of bcumming a concilr? :hidban:
Yes I have actually.
Yes I have actually.
really or u just haveing me on? :1popcorn:
really or u just haveing me on? :1popcorn:
Surely you think better of me than that :o
I did consider psychiatry/counselling but never seriously with the actual intent of doing it professionally. But know who's what I'll end up doing? One thing I've learnt about Higher Education is that you have immense choice throughout the years of studying a particular course, so I might change to something else one day depending on what I think is best for me and my bank account lol.
[QUOTE=Kal-El;1968683]Why does your older sibling have to get married first?[/QUOTE
in our family its weird ...cos i'm da only daughter n ders 2 yrs age gap between me n my older bro...i hav to get married first!:rubeyes: ....or so i;v been told!
insomniac
28-06-07, 06:43 PM
Mmmm a common thing in pakistani and indian cultures, yh i know its a bit :wacko: but iv seen ppl do and say it. Therz another where ppl r like the brother shuld get married b4 sisterz do, yep that 2z :wacko: weird ppl weird traditions *shrugz*
It's not always like that, my youngest sister is married and there's still 2 of us who are not.... it's Qadr Allaah
but defo know what you mean....everyone seems to think there is a problem with the fact that she's married young and we haven't yet....Typical asian
Bint_Khalid
28-06-07, 06:53 PM
now :rolleyes:
now :rolleyes:
I second that. Anytime now, would be a perfect enough..
Lambo5688
29-06-07, 01:07 AM
You guys remember brother Romy? I think his username was something like RomyMusaMujhid....something like that. Well he got married at age 16.
How nice is that? :D :D
Sulaiman Harun
29-06-07, 01:11 AM
not nice at all poor Musa bhai!
mizfissy815
29-06-07, 01:46 AM
23...
whens the best time? when the right woman comes i dont care when my dad doesnt care when.....u see he know as muslims we should get married early especially here in Australia......so yea probably around 18-ish.....i hope inshallah
Why does your older sibling have to get married first?
jst the way it is i supose...... - My parents wudn't luk 4 a propectiv hubby 4 me till thy sortd out ma sis so, yeh.......:(
jst the way it is i supose...... - My parents wudn't luk 4 a propectiv hubby 4 me till thy sortd out ma sis so, yeh.......:(
inshalllah ur parents sort out ur sista soon....:up: :D
inshalllah ur parents sort out ur sista soon....:up: :D
lol - inshallah
*hayat*
29-06-07, 03:30 PM
whenever somone asks for my hand inshallah...it could be anyday
I got married when I was 19.
BABA! You're married?! MashAllah! To who I think?
sunrise
28-08-07, 04:59 PM
BABA! You're married?! MashAllah! To who I think?
mashAllah he has been for some time lol
BABA! You're married?! MashAllah! To who I think?
ooo errr.... who have we 'ere?
assalaamu alaykum :D
how u doin?
ooo errr.... who have we 'ere?
assalaamu alaykum :D
how u doin?
Yay you remember me :P
Walaykum Asalam
I'm doing well alhamdulillah, you?
Safeera89
28-08-07, 07:40 PM
Now!! 17...:up:
.: Anna :.
28-08-07, 07:54 PM
BABA! You're married?! MashAllah! To who I think?
why who do u think? he is married to me :inlove: alhamdulillah, has been for 2 and a half yrs :cool:
why who do u think? he is married to me :inlove: alhamdulillah, has been for 2 and a half yrs :cool:
I thought of you of course!! MashAllah :) Hey have I seen you on FB :P
.: Anna :.
28-08-07, 08:01 PM
okay alhamdulillah :D
yeh some pics are on facebook if ur on babas friends thing u probably wd hav seen.
fb does mean facebook right? or wat?
okay alhamdulillah :D
yeh some pics are on facebook if ur on babas friends thing u probably wd hav seen.
fb does mean facebook right? or wat?
Yes I does mean facebook :P
No I'm not on babas list :P I just think I saw you on someone else's list :D
.: Anna :.
28-08-07, 09:26 PM
ohh okay yeh then if u see the profile pic of mine, that is me n babas nikah day :inlove: if u want u cn add me lol :p
MalikOne™
28-08-07, 09:30 PM
best age to get married...wen u got a job and somewhere of ur own to live. whtever age tht maybe
Believer1984
28-08-07, 11:30 PM
best age to get married...wen u got a job and somewhere of ur own to live. whtever age tht maybe
Agree!
Yay you remember me :P
Walaykum Asalam
I'm doing well alhamdulillah, you?
yeah i remember you... unfortunately :p
alhamdulillah i am well...
ze says you're on her facebook (she's asked me a million times to sign up! :banghead: )
ze leetle elper
29-08-07, 11:24 AM
Yeah you saw them on my list of friends lool :p Well well what a surprise! Latifa is back in da house :cool: I still remember your ever so grumpy furry cat avatar :D Can we have it back please? :D
Just the other day I saw Nam here online, and now you. I think 'old skool' is the new thang :D
Best time to get married? When someone actually wants to marry you.
Best time to get married? When someone actually wants to marry you.
:rotfl: aawww :there: its ok kally.. im sure you'll feventually find someoneee who will want to put up with you! :p :outta:
:rotfl: aawww :there: its ok kally.. im sure you'll feventually find someoneee who will want to put up with you! :p :outta:
:rolleyes:
yeah i remember you... unfortunately :p
alhamdulillah i am well...
ze says you're on her facebook (she's asked me a million times to sign up! :banghead: )
Yeah, I did a friend search and saw you :P
Unfortunately?! HMPH! Just for that I'm going to add you, serves you right!
Aye, I told Ze to sign up, glad to see the encouragement is being passed on :D
Mabruks btw :)
Yeah you saw them on my list of friends lool :p Well well what a surprise! Latifa is back in da house :cool: I still remember your ever so grumpy furry cat avatar :D Can we have it back please? :D
Just the other day I saw Nam here online, and now you. I think 'old skool' is the new thang :D
Yay Nam!
InshAllah @ the cat avatar :P I'll have a hunt for it :)
hehe
muhammed_1428
29-08-07, 01:21 PM
I'd say by age 25
You need to get stuff sorted out like education and a aplce to stay before you find yourself eligible for marriage or engagement, especially if you're a bro!
Be in a better position personally and more in touch with your Imaan as well before getting married, its a bad idea to get married thinking you'll become pious over night :zzz:
junaidb
29-08-07, 01:43 PM
for a guy id say betw 17-19 and for a gal id say betw 15-18
i think thats the best time to get married
Safeera89
29-08-07, 01:47 PM
for a guy id say betw 17-19 and for a gal id say betw 15-18
i think thats the best time to get married
i agree but too many people think otherwise... marriage is tooooooo complicated these days!!:torture:
for a guy id say betw 17-19 and for a gal id say betw 15-18
i think thats the best time to get married
na i go with what the brother said above ^
afsalim
01-09-07, 08:55 AM
The perfect age to get married is when you are psychologically, physically and financially matured enough to take care of your spouse. Some people are in that position when they are 22, for some it is 42......
~Warda~
15-12-07, 11:28 PM
Hmm...that would be....right now:D
I used to think best age for me would be 18-19, but life has unexpected twists...
Sufi Master
16-12-07, 09:01 PM
Even if i wantd 2 marry lyk now, i aint gna find a sis thats mature enuf. wen it comes 2 maturin gals take... lets jus say longer than the usal. lool
um-salwa
16-12-07, 09:05 PM
Even if i wantd 2 marry lyk now, i aint gna find a sis thats mature enuf. wen it comes 2 maturin gals take... lets jus say longer than the usal. lool
Don't you know girls are maturer than boyz LOL :)
Even if i wantd 2 marry lyk now, i aint gna find a sis thats mature enuf. wen it comes 2 maturin gals take... lets jus say longer than the usal. lool
Lol. I'm sure it's the other way around?! :scratch:
I'm hoping ill get married when ive finished uni. Probably won't though, ill need to get a job etc. Sort myself out :(
um-salwa
16-12-07, 09:11 PM
I'm waiting for the right person to come along and sweep me of my feet....
Saudi Prince
16-12-07, 09:12 PM
I'm waiting for the right person to come along and sweep me of my feet....
What do you think what makes a right person?
um-salwa
16-12-07, 09:18 PM
What do you think what makes a right person?
For me its someone who is religious, will treat me with respect, is kind to me, clean and of course has a sense of humour :inlove: just thinking of such a person
Sufi Master
16-12-07, 09:21 PM
I'm waiting for the right person to come along and sweep me of my feet....
Funny how so many girls r waitn for 'mr right' its lyk waitin for santa 2 come or the tooth fairy lool
Saudi Prince
16-12-07, 09:22 PM
For me its someone who is religious, will treat me with respect, is kind to me, clean and of course has a sense of humour :inlove: just thinking of such a person
How about education, job and car?
um-salwa
16-12-07, 09:22 PM
Funny how so many girls r waitn for 'mr right' its lyk waitin for santa 2 come or the tooth fairy lool
Don't say that......:(
~Unity~
16-12-07, 09:26 PM
Don't say that......:(
Yeah leave um-salwa alone! Her future hubby is gonna be 10 times better than that fat thing and that other flying thing insha allah!
How about education, job and car?
education important, intelligence important, humour important, religion important, who cares about the rest?
We'll muddle through, somehow, and even if we ain't rich, at least we'll have fun, after all, the money may go, the car may go, the job may go, but the humour, the education and the intelligence won't :p
speaking purely hypothetically of course ;)
Sufi Master
16-12-07, 09:30 PM
Don't say that......:(
oops... Sam7ny ya ukhti
um-salwa
16-12-07, 09:31 PM
How about education, job and car?
I drive so the car would'nt really matter, i can teach him how to drive. About education and job definately would be good but i really want someone who will be there for me, to care for me in good times and bad times...."sighs"
~Unity~
16-12-07, 09:32 PM
i really want someone who will be there for me, to care for me in good times and bad times..
Wow sis you should be an MC....:rotfl:
um-salwa
16-12-07, 09:34 PM
oops... Sam7ny ya ukhti
May Allah forgive you bro....:)
um-salwa
16-12-07, 09:38 PM
Yeah leave um-salwa alone! Her future hubby is gonna be 10 times better than that fat thing and that other flying thing insha allah!
Thanks sis... you made me feel better......
Sufi Master
16-12-07, 09:40 PM
May Allah forgive you bro....:)
:jkk: Ameen.
sis_sarah
16-12-07, 10:00 PM
14-18
THis age is the best^^
woah! thts earlllyyy... your opinion anyway ;)
i would say between 23-25
woah! thts earlllyyy... your opinion anyway ;)
i would say between 23-25
I think you'll find it's 'cos he's 16 :p, exactly midway between 14 and 18.
Saudi Prince
16-12-07, 11:31 PM
I drive so the car would'nt really matter, i can teach him how to drive. About education and job definately would be good but i really want someone who will be there for me, to care for me in good times and bad times...."sighs"
How about the age?
Saudi Prince
16-12-07, 11:32 PM
Wow sis you should be an MC....:rotfl:
what's MC?
um-salwa
17-12-07, 04:57 PM
How about the age?
Ideal age 25ish :up:
Ideal age 25ish :up:
for girls 21 to 29 and for boys 24 to 35:hidban:
I think the best age to get married is between 19 to 23
I think the best to get married is between 18 23
i keep changing my mind about this... now i say 23-25. i keep pushing it farther as i get closer to the age i mention :smack:
smile_2008
06-01-08, 07:08 PM
get married with islamic mind spouse wish u good luck get married b4 u commit any sin
LastFriday
06-01-08, 07:47 PM
I'm gonna say NOW 20, but realistically speaking next Year, 21-22. But honestly speaking, after my sis gets married. :smack: :up:
hanaa_al_muminah
06-01-08, 07:53 PM
hhhhhmmmmmmmmmm..... 4 brothers, i think 20+
4 sisters 18+
MOSABJA
07-01-08, 06:52 AM
for Girls 18-25
for boys 20-28
OK
age does'nt matter but one should marry earlier to abstain from SINS:D
depends on the person.. there is no best age.
abuzayd
07-01-08, 11:35 AM
Wow! i am 23. i wish i were married because of the fitnah around :rubeyes: but unfortunately i dont think i'm ready yet. financially
I hope by 26 latest i'll be married.:)
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