What qualities do you looK for in a partner ?

[Believer1984]

I like the following.

- Piety.

- Honesty.

- Commited.

- Kind.

- Loving.

- Pretty.

- Sweet.

- Security. (Edit: Lol this 1 was a joke, LOL)

:inlove:

[Abandoned-Mind]

Someone like me but enough differences not to be me (not just physical).

[Believer1984]

:banghead: I messed the title up. It should have been look and not loof.lol.


(Mods please change it when you get the time ):up:

[mizfissy815]

Pious, loving, sweet, honest, bearded and committed. Good-looks would be a bonus. Ooo and a :nerdbro:

Edit- Someone like me in terms of beliefs! Very important that...oh and someone who can speak at least one of English or Arabic...I can hardly communicate in any other language, but I'm willing to learn.

[Abandoned-Mind]

Pious, loving, sweet, honest, bearded and committed. Good-looks would be a bonus.

Tall...dark.... handsome...

Everyone wants the bloody same!

Wheres the individuality?

Wheres the brothers who like the 'goody two shoe type women', wheres the brothers who like the women who'll beat them?

Wheres the sisters who like the psychotic brothers..?

I know you are all out there, either hiding behind this idealistic cover or just too scared.

Be free people.

I want a psychotic woman who might kill me during my sleep.

Thats love.

[mizfissy815]

Tall...dark.... handsome...

Everyone wants the bloody same!

Wheres the individuality?

Wheres the brothers who like the 'goody two shoe type women', wheres the brothers who like the women who'll beat them?

Wheres the sisters who like the psychotic brothers..?

I know you are all out there, either hiding behind this idealistic cover or just too scared.

Be free people.

I want a psychotic woman who might kill me during my sleep.

Thats love.

LOL!

I'm prefer the nerdy type. :nerdbro:

[Believer1984]

Tall...dark.... handsome...

Everyone wants the bloody same!

Wheres the individuality?

Wheres the brothers who like the 'goody two shoe type women', wheres the brothers who like the women who'll beat them?

Wheres the sisters who like the psychotic brothers..?

I know you are all out there, either hiding behind this idealistic cover or just too scared.

Be free people.

I want a psychotic woman who might kill me during my sleep.

Thats love.

lol. Lets please stick to the topic.


Thank You !

[Hawwaa]

Tall...dark.... handsome...

Everyone wants the bloody same!

Wheres the individuality?

Wheres the brothers who like the 'goody two shoe type women', wheres the brothers who like the women who'll beat them?

Wheres the sisters who like the psychotic brothers..?

I know you are all out there, either hiding behind this idealistic cover or just too scared.

Be free people.

I want a psychotic woman who might kill me during my sleep.

Thats love.



:rofl1: :rotfl:

pious, educated, security, sweet, talkative, Inshallah

[Honey87]

Strong personality. Security. Someone who will make me a stronger person within and vice versa.

Basically a guy version of me hehe :D just messin'

[jus'me]

Tall...dark.... handsome...

Everyone wants the bloody same!

Wheres the individuality?

Wheres the brothers who like the 'goody two shoe type women', wheres the brothers who like the women who'll beat them?

Wheres the sisters who like the psychotic brothers..?

I know you are all out there, either hiding behind this idealistic cover or just too scared.

Be free people.

I want a psychotic woman who might kill me during my sleep.

Thats love.

lol...hmm or maybe poison your tea and enjoy your slow death...muhahahah!...only messin! :D


No really:...

defintly have islam at heart...teach me a thing or two...(i think most traits will naturally fall into place if he has this i.e:, honesty, kindness, commitment etc)
he's got to be nice to look at :D
Provide a roof over my head...one that doesnt leak or break on top of me
Humour...has to make me laugh

i dont ask for much really (this list could go on and on...!) :D :D

[sunny_skies]

(Apart from the obvious-Deen, love, kindness, treats women with respect)

A shoulder to cry on, someone to laugh at your jokes, someone who
actually listens when you talk, someone who will make a great dad :)

[THE PATH 2]

qualities to look for?



like yourself:up:

you want someone near perfect..make yourself near perfect too:)

[MMS]

rich and handsome :inlove:

[ImaanSeeker]

poor and ugly :inlove:

[Amethyst]

Strong personality. Security. Someone who will make me a stronger person within and vice versa.

Basically a guy version of me hehe :D just messin'

:up: ditto to that. someone who has a good sense of humour and has strong faith inshAllah :)

[Zesty]

He has to like honey nut cheerios... and frosted shreddies... *sighh* such low expectations...

[Eemaan]

i agree with everything aforementioned already in this thread, that all the brothers should definately get to the gym and buff up.

dont know why ive never mentioned this before. :jkk:

[MMS]

i agree with everything aforementioned already in this thread, that all the brothers should definately get to the gym and buff up.

dont know why ive never mentioned this before. :jkk:

not good to have high hopes when u look like u do :(

[Eemaan]

not good to have high hopes when u look like u do :(

:crying2:

least my husband didnt force me to have plastic surgery to have my hugly gob erased :(

thur thur :there:

[Amethyst]

:crying2:

least my husband did force me to have plastic surgery to have my hugly gob erased :(

thur thur :there:

:scratch: :D

[Eemaan]

:scratch: :D

shurrup i changed it...long day :p

im dyksy :(

[MMS]

:scratch: :D

:rofl1::rofl1:she got it right the first time round :up:

[seven]

:nono: no billi jagra plz

[Na'eemah]

I like the following.

- Piety.

- Honesty.

- Commited.

- Kind.

- Loving.

- Pretty.

- Sweet.

- Security. (Edit: Lol this 1 was a joke, LOL)

:inlove:
Handsome instead of pretty lol
Pious, loving, sweet, honest, bearded and committed. Good-looks would be a bonus. Ooo and a :nerdbro:

Edit- Someone like me in terms of beliefs! Very important that...oh and someone who can speak at least one of English or Arabic...I can hardly communicate in any other language, but I'm willing to learn.

(Apart from the obvious-Deen, love, kindness, treats women with respect)

A shoulder to cry on, someone to laugh at your jokes, someone who
actually listens when you talk, someone who will make a great dad :)

:up:

[Raziel]

in order of Importance...

1. Deen (of Islam of course)

2. Good Character

3. Beauty.

:jkk:

[Believer1984]

in order of Importance...

1. Deen (of Islam of course)

2. Good Character

3. Beauty.

:jkk:

Yup Indeed. :up:

[a_nounu]

salams

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

Some of the things that have been said, can you imagine, when inshAllah your all married, and by mere coincidence your spouse sees this thread!!!!

Especially the guy who wants his wife to kill him in his sleep!!!

[Zaid the Great]

1. deen 1. beauty <<<< they is joint top
2. good character

[Believer1984]

salams

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

Some of the things that have been said, can you imagine, when inshAllah your all married, and by mere coincidence your spouse sees this thread!!!!

Especially the guy who wants his wife to kill him in his sleep!!!

haha ! :up:

[Raziel]

1. deen 1. beauty <<<< they is joint top
2. good character

no they is Not!

Good character comes before physical beauty ... :smack:

:jkk:

[leela]

no they is Not!

Good character comes before physical beauty ... :smack:

:jkk:

You're right there. But appearance is still important to me. Got to be really attracted to someone to consider them.

[Honey87]

no they is Not!

Good character comes before physical beauty ... :smack:

:jkk:

Islamically speaking - yes

but, it is usually down to the individual and their preferences.:o

[Zaid the Great]

no they is Not!

Good character comes before physical beauty ... :smack:

:jkk:

each to his own bruv

[Raziel]

You're right there. But appearance is still important to me. Got to be really attracted to someone to consider them.

I did put em in Order...

1. Deen

2. Good Character

3. Beauty

beauty is last, not first or second... :o

:jkk:

[Raziel]

each to his own bruv

so you willin to live with a person who's good lokkin, but terrible in character? :eek:

lol!

one more thing you put Beauty with joint top with Deen... :smack:

You gotta be kiddin me ... :smack:

Nothing is more or jointly important to Deen...

If she ain't Got Deen, it's a big No, No! doesn't matter whether she's the prettiest person in the world.

:jkk:

[MG]

he doesnt wear shoes that make a tik tok sound wen he walks

[leela]

I did put em in Order...

1. Deen

2. Good Character

3. Beauty

beauty is last, not first or second... :o

:jkk:

Looks don't last forever. Good character (hopefully) does. But I'd still prefer someone with a combination of both to begin with.. :o

[Raziel]

Looks don't last forever. Good character (hopefully) does. But I'd still prefer someone with a combination of both to begin with.. :o

thats what I said sis, all 3 ... Insha'allah, but the first 2 are the Most important...

:jkk:

[heaven2002]

he must be able to cook

[alld]

he doesnt wear shoes that make a tik tok sound wen he walks

:rotfl:

you have a very simple demand . he could get a soundless shoes in dowry .

[alld]

he must be able to cook

people need a husband or a cook

[Zaid the Great]

so you willin to live with a person who's good lokkin, but terrible in character? :eek:

lol!

one more thing you put Beauty with joint top with Deen... :smack:

You gotta be kiddin me ... :smack:

Nothing is more or jointly important to Deen...

If she ain't Got Deen, it's a big No, No! doesn't matter whether she's the prettiest person in the world.

:jkk:

Allah could grant her hidayah:torture:

[S@Z]

strong [deen & character & self] and helluva patience, inshaAllah

[Christianlady]

:) Ya'll are so funny and cute. :)

1.) Christian :)
2.) obeys God's commandments out of love for God
3.) loves and cares for his family, friends, others, and yes, even his enemies!!! :rubeyes:
4.) diligent worker, good at what he does
5.) cool sense of humor
6.) attractive to me
7.) cares for animals and the earth and does what he can to help the world be a better place for all God's creatures
8.) doesn't boss me around too much :p
9.) knows how to cook and does once in a while
10.) likes outdoorsy stuff and doesn't mind me tagging along :)

[Raziel]

Allah could grant her hidayah:torture:

Yeah he could, but you can't marry a Kafir or a Mushrik etc, untill he has...

:jkk:

[Raziel]

:) Ya'll are so funny and cute. :)

1.) Christian :)
2.) obeys God's commandments out of love for God
3.) loves and cares for his family, friends, others, and yes, even his enemies!!! :rubeyes:
4.) diligent worker, good at what he does
5.) cool sense of humor
6.) attractive to me
7.) cares for animals and the earth and does what he can to help the world be a better place for all God's creatures
8.) doesn't boss me around too much :p
9.) knows how to cook and does once in a while
10.) likes outdoorsy stuff and doesn't mind me tagging along :)

I got just One Question,

How is it that you expect him to Love his Enemies, when Christ(pbuh) said his enemies aught to be slain? (according to the Bible) :scratch:

thats a bit confusin to me... :scratch:

[Christianlady]

I got just One Question,

How is it that you expect him to Love his Enemies, when Christ(pbuh) said his enemies aught to be slain? (according to the Bible) :scratch:

thats a bit confusin to me... :scratch:

Peace and hi Raziel :)

Um... where does Jesus say his enemies ought to be slain please? Jesus did say to love your enemies...

Luke 6

" 27"But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. 29If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic. 30Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. 31Do to others as you would have them do to you.
32"If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' love those who love them. 33And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' do that. 34And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' lend to 'sinners,' expecting to be repaid in full. 35But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. 36Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful."

Anyways, a guy who can love his enemies is a very rare specimen... even in Christian circles. Isn't that sad? It takes a lot of strength to do that, strength that only God can give, because anybody can hate their enemies, that's very easy thing to do...

Peace and God bless :)

[Raziel]

Peace and hi Raziel :)

Um... where does Jesus say his enemies ought to be slain please? Jesus did say to love your enemies...

Luke 6

" 27"But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. 29If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic. 30Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. 31Do to others as you would have them do to you.
32"If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' love those who love them. 33And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' do that. 34And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' lend to 'sinners,' expecting to be repaid in full. 35But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. 36Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful."

Anyways, a guy who can love his enemies is a very rare specimen... even in Christian circles. Isn't that sad? It takes a lot of strength to do that, strength that only God can give, because anybody can hate their enemies, that's very easy thing to do...

Peace and God bless :)

Peace be upon those who seek guidance!

here ...

Luke, chapter 19
-----------------
27 : But those mine enemies, which would not that I should reign over them, bring hither, and slay them before me.

if you mean a Guy who wants good for others (that is Love from an Islamic Perspective) then I agree. But if you mean you aught to just go forgiving enemies who cause harm to people left right and centre no matter what they do, then that raises serious issues, like makin all punishments redundant.

there has to be a balance. forgiveness has it's limits.

Oh yeah just to comment on the verse above, If Christ(pbuh) said that, he's entitled to it, cause he came to Guide em by the Laws of God All-Mighty, so he has the right to slay those who oppose that, plus no messenger of God would commit an injustice.

Regards

Raziel

[heaven2002]

people need a husband or a cook

why cant 'people' have a husband who can cook- like one and the same thing

[Raziel]

why cant 'people' have a husband who can cook- like one and the same thing

:D lol! cause Husband are lousy cooks (much more so than the Sis's) :outta:

:jkk:

[Christianlady]

[QUOTE=Raziel;1950658]Peace be upon those who seek guidance!

ahhh Raziel!!! You were on another forum were you not!!!? :) Nice to write you again :) How are you? Hope very well. :)

here ...

Luke, chapter 19
-----------------
27 : But those mine enemies, which would not that I should reign over them, bring hither, and slay them before me.

where's the context? Ahh here it is...

Luke 19

11While they were listening to this, he went on to tell them a parable, because he was near Jerusalem and the people thought that the kingdom of God was going to appear at once. 12He said: "A man of noble birth went to a distant country to have himself appointed king and then to return. 13So he called ten of his servants and gave them ten minas.[a]'Put this money to work,' he said, 'until I come back.'
14"But his subjects hated him and sent a delegation after him to say, 'We don't want this man to be our king.'

15"He was made king, however, and returned home. Then he sent for the servants to whom he had given the money, in order to find out what they had gained with it.

16"The first one came and said, 'Sir, your mina has earned ten more.'

17" 'Well done, my good servant!' his master replied. 'Because you have been trustworthy in a very small matter, take charge of ten cities.'

18"The second came and said, 'Sir, your mina has earned five more.'

19"His master answered, 'You take charge of five cities.'

20"Then another servant came and said, 'Sir, here is your mina; I have kept it laid away in a piece of cloth. 21I was afraid of you, because you are a hard man. You take out what you did not put in and reap what you did not sow.'

22"His master replied, 'I will judge you by your own words, you wicked servant! You knew, did you, that I am a hard man, taking out what I did not put in, and reaping what I did not sow? 23Why then didn't you put my money on deposit, so that when I came back, I could have collected it with interest?'

24"Then he said to those standing by, 'Take his mina away from him and give it to the one who has ten minas.'

25" 'Sir,' they said, 'he already has ten!'

26"He replied, 'I tell you that to everyone who has, more will be given, but as for the one who has nothing, even what he has will be taken away. 27But those enemies of mine who did not want me to be king over them—bring them here and kill them in front of me."

You really shouldn't post that without the context you know, cause that would be distorting the meaning. This is a parable. A parable is an earthly story with a heavenly meaning. Jesus is not telling His disciples to kill those who don't believe in him; he is telling them that they need to use their talents well, and the "enemies" are ones that "those standing by" will kill, not mere mortals Anyways sorry for going off topic.

Well I still want that in a partner whether you agree or not :p Peace and God bless :)

[heaven2002]

:D lol! cause Husband are lousy cooks (much more so than the Sis's) :outta:

:jkk:

many famous chefs are men
and i dont want to be doing ALL the cooking, 7 days a week, i enjoy cooking , but if i had to do that much, i wudnt enjoy it anymore

[Raziel]

[QUOTE=Raziel;1950658]Peace be upon those who seek guidance!

ahhh Raziel!!! You were on another forum were you not!!!? :) Nice to write you again :) How are you? Hope very well. :)

here ...

Luke, chapter 19
-----------------
27 : But those mine enemies, which would not that I should reign over them, bring hither, and slay them before me.

where's the context? Ahh here it is...

Luke 19

11While they were listening to this, he went on to tell them a parable, because he was near Jerusalem and the people thought that the kingdom of God was going to appear at once. 12He said: "A man of noble birth went to a distant country to have himself appointed king and then to return. 13So he called ten of his servants and gave them ten minas.[a]'Put this money to work,' he said, 'until I come back.'
14"But his subjects hated him and sent a delegation after him to say, 'We don't want this man to be our king.'

15"He was made king, however, and returned home. Then he sent for the servants to whom he had given the money, in order to find out what they had gained with it.

16"The first one came and said, 'Sir, your mina has earned ten more.'

17" 'Well done, my good servant!' his master replied. 'Because you have been trustworthy in a very small matter, take charge of ten cities.'

18"The second came and said, 'Sir, your mina has earned five more.'

19"His master answered, 'You take charge of five cities.'

20"Then another servant came and said, 'Sir, here is your mina; I have kept it laid away in a piece of cloth. 21I was afraid of you, because you are a hard man. You take out what you did not put in and reap what you did not sow.'

22"His master replied, 'I will judge you by your own words, you wicked servant! You knew, did you, that I am a hard man, taking out what I did not put in, and reaping what I did not sow? 23Why then didn't you put my money on deposit, so that when I came back, I could have collected it with interest?'

24"Then he said to those standing by, 'Take his mina away from him and give it to the one who has ten minas.'

25" 'Sir,' they said, 'he already has ten!'

26"He replied, 'I tell you that to everyone who has, more will be given, but as for the one who has nothing, even what he has will be taken away. 27But those enemies of mine who did not want me to be king over them—bring them here and kill them in front of me."

You really shouldn't post that without the context you know, cause that would be distorting the meaning. This is a parable. A parable is an earthly story with a heavenly meaning. Jesus is not telling His disciples to kill those who don't believe in him; he is telling them that they need to use their talents well, and the "enemies" are ones that "those standing by" kill, not mere mortals :) Anyways sorry for going off topic.

Well I still want that in a partner whether you agree or not :p Peace and God bless :)

yeah I was ... :o

I remember you to, now that ya mention it ... :o

a Parable?

this can't be right, because the preceding verses make no indication that it could be in any way...

also when he told his disciples to arm themselves with swords, and one of them chopped of an ear, I believe, your gonna tell me that was a parable as well? :eek3:

if it's an earthly story it must be applicable to him (Jesus(pbuh))

Otherwise anyone can write stuff about killin and say it's a parable...

regards

[Zaid the Great]

many famous chefs are men
and i dont want to be doing ALL the cooking, 7 days a week, i enjoy cooking , but if i had to do that much, i wudnt enjoy it anymore

but...but....but... ur a woman....:crying:











:p

[Christianlady]

many famous chefs are men
and i dont want to be doing ALL the cooking, 7 days a week, i enjoy cooking , but if i had to do that much, i wudnt enjoy it anymore

Actually, most famouse chefs are men, right? Hurray for them, right Heaven2002? :) I'm not jealous!!! :p :)

[heaven2002]

but...but....but... ur a woman....:crying:



:p

yes i am a woman
and i wasnt born with an apron on

Actually, most famouse chefs are men, right? Hurray for them, right Heaven2002? :) I'm not jealous!!! :p :)


innit? im not jealous either
(Raziel bhai, stop picking on this nice christian lady:torture: )

[sunrise]

As salam ou lakoum

i found this, i think this highlights some good points when it comes to looking for a spouse inshAllah:up:


Do watch it inshAllah
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=89qqERr0A6o&NR=1

[Christianlady]

[QUOTE=Raziel;1950720][QUOTE=Christianlady;1950706]

yeah I was ... :o

I remember you to, now that ya mention it ... :o

:p Yeah well if you want to bring this subject up in the interfaith section I'll be happy to discuss it with you. Should I new topic it or would you like to or are you not interested?

Peace and God bless. and by the way back to topic it is good that you are honest about the beauty part. Many guys try to be so pious that they are not honest about that... it's true and God made beauty and beauty that is for God's glory and is in the loving bounds of His ordinances is a good thing, and may God bless you with a wonderful Muslim wife who is more than you can ever petition to God. :)

Your Christian sis :p

[Raziel]

Heres the Chapter...

And Jesus entered and passed through Jericho.

Luke 19
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2 And, behold, there was a man named Zacchaeus, which was the chief among the publicans, and he was rich.

3 And he sought to see Jesus who he was; and could not for the press, because he was little of stature.

4 And he ran before, and climbed up into a sycomore tree to see him: for he was to pass that way.

5 And when Jesus came to the place, he looked up, and saw him, and said unto him, Zacchaeus, make haste, and come down; for to day I must abide at thy house.

6 And he made haste, and came down, and received him joyfully.

7 And when they saw it, they all murmured, saying, That he was gone to be guest with a man that is a sinner.

8 And Zacchaeus stood, and said unto the Lord; Behold, Lord, the half of my goods I give to the poor; and if I have taken any thing from any man by false accusation, I restore him fourfold.

9 And Jesus said unto him, This day is salvation come to this house, forsomuch as he also is a son of Abraham.

If Jesus was the Son of God, why did He call Himself the Son of Man? [answer]

10 For the Son of man is come to seek and to save that which was lost.

11 And as they heard these things, he added and spake a parable, because he was nigh to Jerusalem, and because they thought that the kingdom of God should immediately appear.

12 He said therefore, A certain nobleman went into a far country to receive for himself a kingdom, and to return.

13 And he called his ten servants, and delivered them ten pounds, and said unto them, Occupy till I come.

14 But his citizens hated him, and sent a message after him, saying, We will not have this man to reign over us.

15 And it came to pass, that when he was returned, having received the kingdom, then he commanded these servants to be called unto him, to whom he had given the money, that he might know how much every man had gained by trading.

16Then came the first, saying, Lord, thy pound hath gained ten pounds.

17 And he said unto him, Well, thou good servant: because thou hast been faithful in a very little, have thou authority over ten cities.

18 And the second came, saying, Lord, thy pound hath gained five pounds.

19 And he said likewise to him, Be thou also over five cities.

20 And another came, saying, Lord, behold, here is thy pound, which I have kept laid up in a napkin:

21 For I feared thee, because thou art an austere man: thou takest up that thou layedst not down, and reapest that thou didst not sow.

22 And he saith unto him, Out of thine own mouth will I judge thee, thou wicked servant. Thou knewest that I was an austere man, taking up that I laid not down, and reaping that I did not sow:

23 Wherefore then gavest not thou my money into the bank, that at my coming I might have required mine own with usury?

24 And he said unto them that stood by, Take from him the pound, and give it to him that hath ten pounds.

25 And they said unto him, Lord, he hath ten pounds.)

26 For I say unto you, That unto every one which hath shall be given; and from him that hath not, even that he hath shall be taken away from him.

27 But those mine enemies, which would not that I should reign over them, bring hither, and slay them before me.

28 And when he had thus spoken, he went before, ascending up to Jerusalem.

I've highlighted what Jesus(pbuh) said in Red ...

it's Obvious that it's refering to Jesus(pbuh). The Parable is about Him, he's the One who commands them to be Slain (His enemies) according to the Parable.

Regards

[Christianlady]

Isn't it weird how guys automatically assume that??? Where can I find this magical apron? I must have lost mine :p

innit? im not jealous either
(Raziel bhai, stop picking on this nice christian lady:torture: ).

Yes thank you Heaven 2002 he does that alot, likes to pick fights with Christians... hmph!!! :argue: But that's ok, he is sincerely wanting to revert people according to what ya'll believe. I realize that. :)

Brother Raziel, I'm going to post a new topic in the interfaith section just for this, k? If you wish, we can argue there :p so that this interesting thread may continue without this spat, hmm? :) Peace and God bless [/QUOTE]

[zaki]

I've never really been bothered about beauty, because we are all beautiful in different ways :D so I just look for a sister with Emaan who is willing to learn more about Islam as well as a sister with a wonderful personality so we can always have a laugh :D

[Raziel]

Isn't it weird how guys automatically assume that??? Where can I find this magical apron? I must have lost mine :p

innit? im not jealous either
(Raziel bhai, stop picking on this nice christian lady:torture: ).

Yes thank you Heaven 2002 he does that a lot, likes to pick fights with Christians... hmph!!! :argue: But that's ok, he is sincerely wanting to revert people according to what ya'll believe. I realize that. :)

Brother Raziel, I'm going to post a new topic in the interfaith section just for this, k? If you wish, we can argue there :p so that this interesting thread may continue without this spat, hmm? :) Peace and God bless

i'm not pickin on her... I just wanted her to clarify her post with regard to Loving enemies :smack:

O.k ... :o

Spat? where... :eek3: who spat? :eek: :outta:

Just to correct sister Christianlady, I can't Revert anyone, We can only Reason... Guidance comes from God All-Mighty, No matter how Good you deliver the message, the person will Only Revert if God Gives em Guidance to do so...

Our Duty is Only to deliver the Message of Al-Islam, whether a person Reverts or not, we are free from blame in this Regard...

Hope this clears things up.

:jkk:

[Raziel]

I've never really been bothered about beauty, because we are all beautiful in different ways :D so I just look for a sister with Emaan who is willing to learn more about Islam as well as a sister with a wonderful personality so we can always have a laugh :D

you got your Priorities right bro... :D :up:

:jkk:

[Christianlady]

Spat? where... :eek3: who spat? :eek: :outta:

:jkk:[/QUOTE]

LOL!!! :) Spat =

"Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1) - Cite This Source
spat1 /spæt/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[spat] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation, noun, verb, spat·ted, spat·ting.
–noun 1. a petty quarrel.
2. a light blow; slap; smack.
–verb (used without object) 3. to engage in a petty quarrel or dispute.
4. to splash or spatter; rain spatting against the window.
–verb (used with object) 5. to strike lightly; slap.


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[Origin: 1795–1805, Americanism; perh. imit.] "

Which meaning did you think I meant? :)

Zaki, that's very cool :) May God bless you :) Peace

[Raziel]

Spat? where... :eek3: who spat? :eek: :outta:

:jkk:

LOL!!! :) Spat =

"Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1) - Cite This Source
spat1 /spæt/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[spat] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation, noun, verb, spat·ted, spat·ting.
–noun 1. a petty quarrel.
2. a light blow; slap; smack.
–verb (used without object) 3. to engage in a petty quarrel or dispute.
4. to splash or spatter; rain spatting against the window.
–verb (used with object) 5. to strike lightly; slap.


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[Origin: 1795–1805, Americanism; perh. imit.] "

Which meaning did you think I meant? :)

Zaki, that's very cool :) May God bless you :) Peace[/QUOTE]

I was kiddin...

Peace be upon you!

[Raziel]

Actually, most famouse chefs are men, right? Hurray for them, right Heaven2002? :) I'm not jealous!!! :p :)

Famous doesn't mean they are actually better Cooks though ...

[Believer1984]

people need a husband or a cook

lol.

Women throwing their roles on us these days.tut tut.

[Na'eemah]

People always say deen, but it's look that wins in the end for them :rolleyes:

[muslimah85]

People always say deen, but it's look that wins in the end for them :rolleyes:
well obviously attraction is important too. No relationship could last without attraction. Everyones version of attraction differs theres no one single version. Everyones concept of attraction differs

[Raziel]

People always say deen, but it's look that wins in the end for them :rolleyes:

for many people yeah, but that is a generalization...

:jkk:

[PiElle]

well obviously attraction is important too. No relationship could last without attraction. Everyones version of attraction differs theres no one single version. Everyones concept of attraction differs


yup, sometimes you look at some couples and you wonder where's the attraction... LOL

[Na'eemah]

well obviously attraction is important too. No relationship could last without attraction. Everyones version of attraction differs theres no one single version. Everyones concept of attraction differs

yup, sometimes you look at some couples and you wonder where's the attraction... LOL

Yea I know :smack:
I meant that some people only go for looks, OR they say 'I don't care how she looks', but they really care a great deal.

Looks are a factor , but should not be the top reason why you choose a partner.

Hope that's clearer.

[PiElle]

Yea I know :smack:
I meant that some people only go for looks, OR they say 'I don't care how she looks', but they really care a great deal.

Looks are a factor , but should not be the top reason why you choose a partner.

Hope that's clearer.


hey no prob... personally i'll get worried if someone starts saying... "i dun care.... ":D

[munyeka]

A man who knows his Lord

a man who brings out the best in me - we all have good sides and bad sides to us, but i wanna spend the rest of days with a man who makes me happy rather than angry and smile rather than cry.

a man with integrity, a spark for life. A man who will love me unconditionally for the woman that i am.

Who will encourage to better myself as a person, yet accept my faults as they are.

a man who will make me laugh - becuz when we're grey and old thats what;ll be important after we both have grey hair and glasses.

hes gotta be taller than me!! and good looking too. With some element of financial security.


Inshallah.....................i'll find him!:hidban:

[ify]

A man who knows his Lord

a man who brings out the best in me - we all have good sides and bad sides to us, but i wanna spend the rest of days with a man who makes me happy rather than angry and smile rather than cry.

a man with integrity, a spark for life. A man who will love me unconditionally for the woman that i am.

Who will encourage to better myself as a person, yet accept my faults as they are.

a man who will make me laugh - becuz when we're grey and old thats what;ll be important after we both have grey hair and glasses.

hes gotta be taller than me!! and good looking too. With some element of financial security.


Inshallah.....................i'll find him!:hidban:


:crying: - aw ths so sweet :rubeyes: :insha: