Tips for men when going to see a potential wife for the first time.

[sapphire_blue]

- Don't go and continue chewing gum whilst talking to her. :rolleyes:

Feel free to add more.

:up:

[angel*]

Dont stand ther gawking at her and only talk if u have sumthing innteligable to say!!! oh and footabll or cars dont count:p

[Joha]

- Don't go and continue chewing gum whilst talking to her. :rolleyes:

Feel free to add more.

:up:

Please don't tell me somebody tried that?

Dont stand ther gawking at her and only talk if u have sumthing innteligable to say!!! oh and footabll or cars dont count:p

Can I add, don't use insane shorthand or slangs that nobody else has heard of? (Includes girls as well :p)

[sunrise]

- Don't go and continue chewing gum whilst talking to her. :rolleyes:

Feel free to add more.

:up:


lol u sound like ur talking from experience

and :up: gawking at her cause it'll amke her feel vvv uncomfortable

my tip umm actuallly ASK some questions don't just say 'dunno' or 'umm no i don't have any questions':torture::nono::smack:

[ibn suleman]

so..when the fam ask if u wud like sumthing to eat/drink...whats the right answer? :p

[$HugoBoss$]

Look confident and don't smile to much.

[souljaa]

so..when the fam ask if u wud like sumthing to eat/drink...whats the right answer? :p

'Oh Mr patel, that's very kind of you but i have just lost my appetite...I hope you don't mind uncle :embar:'

Then run for the door as fast as you can :outta:

[angel*]

so..when the fam ask if u wud like sumthing to eat/drink...whats the right answer? :p

Just say yes, even if ur stomach feels like lead, otherwise every1 will just b like no, no u gotta have sumthing and end up embarassing you!

[sunrise]

it depends...if u smell something cooking u had better say yes..cause they made it for u:D

if u don't look at her for help loool:up:

[OBL]

........

[ibn suleman]

ok..cool..

do u bring a gift with u? :p


(u know i couldprobably on asking questions :D)

[sunrise]

'Oh Mr patel, that's very kind of you but i have just lost my appetite...I hope you don't mind uncle :embar:'

Then run for the door as fast as you can :outta:


Patel!!!:torture: maybe shes european or non asian!

[Eemaan]

dont ask him what you wanna name your first child :S

[sunrise]

i guess it depends on the girl and her family if shes asian maybe bring some chapatis:up:

if shes not then maybe somethign from wherever she's from

































lol kiddin' like i said depends on the family and where she's from i say no..but if you do don't over do it

and hey it's only a meeting u might not end up getting married dont wana give them a free gift (KIDDIN') lool :D

[bint]

dont ask him what you wanna name your first child :S
thats bizzare:eek3:

i mean, ahem righttt okay. :rubeyes:

[sunrise]

dont ask him what you wanna name your first child :S


:smack: lool yeah defo! ull scare hima way! bros should give tips also lol:up:

or how many children do u want:D

[LFC]

'Oh Mr patel, that's very kind of you but i have just lost my appetite...I hope you don't mind uncle :embar:'

Then run for the door as fast as you can :outta:

Aheeeeem, Patel? :rubeyes:

Could just as easily be Mr. Koyoya. :hidban:

[ibn suleman]

dont ask him what you wanna name your first child :S

:rubeyes: on the first meet?

[sunrise]

oh and i think this is worth mentioning don't ask her how much/or what she wants 4 mahr on the first meeting :smack:

[(*_Hamzah]

ok..cool..

do u bring a gift with u? :p


(u know i couldprobably on asking questions :D)

Not a good idea to bring a gift. Say you bring flowers she might have an allergic reaction to them or make her hay fever trigger, and if you bring plastic flowers she might think you’re cheap, and chocolates she could be on a diet and you might offend here. The same with Gold, she properly ask for 24 carats while you brought her a cheap alloy , and perfume it might not be her favorite one, come to think of, don’t even go and visit here. To much stress

[(*_Hamzah]

oh and i think this is worth mentioning don't ask her how much/or what she wants 4 mahr on the first meeting :smack:

Make sure you bring your wallet and cheque book :up:

[K h a l i l]

Not a good idea to bring a gift. Say you bring flowers she might have an allergic reaction to them or make her hay fever trigger, and if you bring plastic flowers she might think you’re cheap, and chocolates she could be on a diet and you might offend here. The same with Gold, she properly ask for 24 carats while you brought her a cheap alloy , and perfume it might not be her favorite one, come to think of, don’t even go and visit here. To much stress

lol.. its supposedly the thought that counts.. not with some people..

[Eemaan]

Not a good idea to bring a gift. Say you bring flowers she might have an allergic reaction to them or make her hay fever trigger, and if you bring plastic flowers she might think you’re cheap, and chocolates she could be on a diet and you might offend here. The same with Gold, she properly ask for 24 carats while you brought her a cheap alloy , and perfume it might not be her favorite one, come to think of, don’t even go and visit here. To much stress

you sound like fun.

[Joha]

oh yea, and women - don't ask for a detailed future plan, and don't make notes (about the future plans)!

You're gonna scare everybody away. Most men don't plan that far ahead - coping with the week ahead is bad enough.

[Amaara]

Not a good idea to bring a gift. Say you bring flowers she might have an allergic reaction to them or make her hay fever trigger, and if you bring plastic flowers she might think you’re cheap, and chocolates she could be on a diet and you might offend here. The same with Gold, she properly ask for 24 carats while you brought her a cheap alloy , and perfume it might not be her favorite one, come to think of, don’t even go and visit here. To much stress

lol *Rofl*

[Joha]

Not a good idea to bring a gift. Say you bring flowers she might have an allergic reaction to them or make her hay fever trigger, and if you bring plastic flowers she might think you’re cheap, and chocolates she could be on a diet and you might offend here. The same with Gold, she properly ask for 24 carats while you brought her a cheap alloy , and perfume it might not be her favorite one, come to think of, don’t even go and visit here. To much stress

:rotfl: :rotfl: you're going to have problems...

[Raziel]

Just say yes, even if ur stomach feels like lead, otherwise every1 will just b like no, no u gotta have sumthing and end up embarassing you!

:smack: why do we have to say yes by default? :eek3:

that seems to a ploy just so the sis's can do the rejectin ... :smack: :outta:

:jkk:

I just remembered that post was about Food and not the Proposal... :smack: Darn, :outta:

[ibn suleman]

interesting...u lot putting ideas into my head @)

[sunrise]

Not a good idea to bring a gift. Say you bring flowers she might have an allergic reaction to them or make her hay fever trigger, and if you bring plastic flowers she might think you’re cheap, and chocolates she could be on a diet and you might offend here. The same with Gold, she properly ask for 24 carats while you brought her a cheap alloy , and perfume it might not be her favorite one, come to think of, don’t even go and visit here. To much stress


aww lool...seems like u know women weell:up:

lol onli kidding im sure whatever u get shes like it

i think dont..but if u do dont over do it




ideas???? like? so share lol

[Raziel]

interesting...u lot putting ideas into my head @)

Hopefully Good ones bro! :D

you got any better tips? :D

the Only One I got of sis's is to keep my mouth shut, I dunno why that worked... :scratch:

:jkk:

[(*_Hamzah]

you sound like fun.

I can be, here's another one:

Brothers have to make sure and make it clear to the bride family, he (we call him Wajid as an example) is marrying (Call the father Mr.Khan) is marrying Mr.Khan daughter and not his whole family.

[Amaara]

I can be, here's another one:

Brothers have to make sure and make it clear to the bride family, he (we call him Wajid as an example) is marrying (Call the father Mr.Khan) is marrying Mr.Khan daughter and not his whole family.

*Rofl*..*Roll Eyes*

[Eemaan]

I can be, here's another one:

Brothers have to make sure and make it clear to the bride family, he (we call him Wajid as an example) is marrying (Call the father Mr.Khan) is marrying Mr.Khan daughter and not his whole family.

wajids getting it real bad today. poor wajid.

[(*_Hamzah]

wajids getting it real bad today. poor wajid.

Wajid has to insit the food that is going to be served is to be prepared by the bride to be

[Eemaan]

Wajid has to insit the food that is going to be served is to be prepared by the bride to be

wajids bride to be cant cook rice :zzz:

wajid needs to learn how to cook. :coolbro:

[ibn suleman]

what if u forget her name? :p

[(*_Hamzah]

wajids bride to be cant cook rice :zzz:

wajid needs to learn how to cook. :coolbro:

How are they going to survive, live on takeaways? :torture:

[sunrise]

HAHAHA @ name...shows u dnt care unless it's something like ugkjojojvjwabbawafolloofiii :D

write it on ur hand:up:

[Peacenik]

Make sure you bring yourself and not your extended family...

[sunrise]

Make sure you bring yourself and not your extended family...


:up:

and DON'T bring a male friend!!!!!!!!!!! it really annoys the girl lol

[(*_Hamzah]

Make sure you bring yourself and not your extended family...

Why?

How often is it when you and all your extended family get together and and and have a chance to feast for free ?

[Peacenik]

Oh, and don't bring your your 1st, 2nd or 3rd wife to the meeting....

[(*_Hamzah]

Bring a translator if one is a little rusty in his mother tongue other wise you might agree to something that you didn’t really understand

[Raziel]

Oh, and don't bring your your 1st, 2nd or 3rd wife to the meeting....

lol! :D

[Raziel]

Bring a translator if one is a little rusty in his mother tongue other wise you might agree to something that you didn’t really understand

Muahahahaha! :D

[Abandoned-Mind]

Take her number.

[Eemaan]

Bring a translator if one is a little rusty in his mother tongue other wise you might agree to something that you didn’t really understand

you old pro you.

baa :zzz:

[Raziel]

Take her number.

Bad Idea, thats definitely gonna make her uncomfortable, first time you meet her, and you ask for her number? :eek3: :smack:

[*IslamicGirl*]

:start:

:salams


Please don't wear too many designer labels- it makes one look cheap esp. not those tops like gucci where it says gucci again and agaian and again in print on the front of the shirt. :nerdbro:

Please no corny bollywood lines or the sort.

Also please no bollywood ringtones- a br wanted my hand until is pent one minute in his company and his phone rang and it was some sort of bhangra tune- i nearly ran. so please Islamic ringtones would be so impressive (esp if you have bluetooth cuz even if the lady says no- you can exchange Islamic audio files and leave with something :D - with permission of Mahrem! )

Please also don't pester the girl until you go mad and confess in the end it's because your VISA is running out- yes this has happened to me and now it wasn't flattering :crying:


:wswrwb:

[heaven2002]

dont wear socks that only granddads wear

[Peacenik]

dont wear socks that only granddads wear


But what if you have to ?

[Abandoned-Mind]

Be yourself.

Don't bring out the thawb out you wear twice a year.

Don't drown yourself in 'athar you just brought the same day from a Islamic book shop.

Don't start acting all shy if you ain't. Makes you look like a idiot.

Don't stutter unless its how you are.

Don't drop the usual lines "Oh I want to make hijrah to saudi/pakistan/morroco/dubai/afghanistan".

Don't agree with points you don't actually agree with.

Have a proper look at the lady and make sure you can wake up with her the next day. (i.e think, don't go actually try).

Do the halaal, don't do the haraam.

Simple.

Be yourself. Its yourself that she'll live with for the rest of her life, not your twice a year " perfect mu'min look" phase sort of thing.

1. Choose deen, then looks...

Don't ask about her history and vice versa don't reveal yours.


Look at the times we live in.

[Peacenik]

Simple.

Be yourself.

What if you're a dufus ?

[Abandoned-Mind]

What if you're a dufus ?

Don't go.

www.russianbrides.hopeitdontexist.com

[Peacenik]

Don't go.

www.russianbrides.hopeitdontexist.com

Been there, done that, got the T-shirt....








(actually, I'm kidding..)

[muslimah85]

flowers are always welcome. Not some cheapy roadside petrol station £3.99 type, Get then handpicked. No roses, something a bit more thoughtful, maybe lilies. And always give to the mother to pass to the daughter .

Be smart but not over dress, no yellow teeth :smack:, please brush your teeth. A smile is good too, your not there to be shot , be confident and considerate and humour is essential too :up:.

Also eat but don't eat too much and don't eat with your mouth open or make noises when you chew :smack:


:)

[Abandoned-Mind]

flowers are always welcome. Not some cheapy roadside petrol station £3.99 type, Get then handpicked. No roses, something a bit more thoughtful, maybe lilies. And always give to the mother to pass to the daughter .

Be smart but not over dress, no yellow teeth :smack:, please brush your teeth. A smile is good too, your not there to be shot , be confident and considerate and humour is essential too :up:.

Also eat but don't eat too much and don't eat with your mouth open or make noises when you chew :smack:


:)

Sister, the word in the thread is "Potential" wife. Don't why bringing flowers would make the suiter seem better, unless he is going to turn on the 'charm' and try to accidently give them to the mother in law implying he though she was the young girl he was going to see and so on.

It is depressing.

[Peacenik]

Please don't burst into song the first time you see her.

[heaven2002]

Sister, the word in the thread is "Potential" wife. Don't why bringing flowers would make the suiter seem better, unless he is going to turn on the 'charm' and try to accidently give them to the mother in law implying he though she was the young girl he was going to see and so on.

It is depressing.

i think flowers are a bit too much for the first meeting
one girl i met told me her 'potential' and his family bought a ring on the first meeting!! :rubeyes:

[Raziel]

:start:

:salams


Please don't wear too many designer labels- it makes one look cheap esp. not those tops like gucci where it says gucci again and agaian and again in print on the front of the shirt. :nerdbro:

Please no corny bollywood lines or the sort.

Also please no bollywood ringtones- a br wanted my hand until is pent one minute in his company and his phone rang and it was some sort of bhangra tune- i nearly ran. so please Islamic ringtones would be so impressive (esp if you have bluetooth cuz even if the lady says no- you can exchange Islamic audio files and leave with something :D - with permission of Mahrem! )

Please also don't pester the girl until you go mad and confess in the end it's because your VISA is running out- yes this has happened to me and now it wasn't flattering :crying:


:wswrwb:

good tips sis :D

:jkk:

[Raziel]

Please don't burst into song the first time you see her.

Don't sing at all... :smack:

[Peacenik]

Don't sing at all... :smack:

Please, it was a joke.

Try not to go too nuts....

[Raziel]

Please, it was a joke.

Try not to go too nuts....

Someone may take it literally ... :D just makin the point clear ... :o

:jkk:

[K h a l i l]

Someone may take it literally ... :D just makin the point clear ... :o

:jkk:

You tried it.. Didnt you Raziel.. Ooooh.. i knew it.. no wonder you went miissing for 10 days.. :up:

[Raziel]

You tried it.. Didnt you Raziel.. Ooooh.. i knew it.. no wonder you went miissing for 10 days.. :up:

Listen bro, I rather drown myself than sing to someone... :smack: :outta:

that had nothing to do with it... :smack: I never sang to any Sis or Muslimah... :smack: :outta:

man you li'll bro's are shameless... ... :smack:

:jkk:

[K h a l i l]

Listen bro, I rather drown myself than sing to someone... :smack: :outta:

that had nothing to do with it... :smack: I never sang to any Sis or Muslimah... :smack: :outta:

man you li'll bro's are shameless... ... :smack:

:jkk:

oooh.. so you just recovered from drowning after 10 days?

[Raziel]

oooh.. so you just recovered from drowning after 10 days?

Nope! I can swim, so You gonna find it difficult to get me drownin... :D

:jkk:

[Kal-El]

Bank Statements

[sapphire_blue]

Please don't tell me somebody tried that?



Yes! :rolleyes:

:rubeyes:

[ur_yusra]

Be honest.. come out of fairyland.. if you realise that you have two different ideas and two different paths.. then don't dwell on it.. leave and never return.

[sunrise]

:start:

:salams


Please don't wear too many designer labels- it makes one look cheap esp. not those tops like gucci where it says gucci again and agaian and again in print on the front of the shirt. :nerdbro:

Please no corny bollywood lines or the sort.

Also please no bollywood ringtones- a br wanted my hand until is pent one minute in his company and his phone rang and it was some sort of bhangra tune- i nearly ran. so please Islamic ringtones would be so impressive (esp if you have bluetooth cuz even if the lady says no- you can exchange Islamic audio files and leave with something :D - with permission of Mahrem! )

Please also don't pester the girl until you go mad and confess in the end it's because your VISA is running out- yes this has happened to me and now it wasn't flattering :crying:


:wswrwb:


i think that is excelelnt advise espp about the clothes...the more labels u wear dont mean ur more flashy and it a kinda off put!:smack:

[Believer1984]

If you dont want the rishta and your parents are nagging you then just act stupid infront of her parents.

Insha-allah it will just go fine.

:up:

[Believer1984]

When you meet up with her make this the foundation ......

I am a Muslim and i try Praying and you will have to support me as a muslim wife. <3

If she cant do that brothers then punch her 1 so shes knocked out cleannn.

Allah hafiz thats enuff 4 today. :up:

[RashidD]

What would you like the brother to wear?

[GuCcI]

Look confident and don't smile to much.

disagree. u HAVE TO smile.

no smiley guys = gucci no marry.


- be polite. not just to the girl but others with her ... assuming her mahram is present. :rolleyes:
- bring a gift! preferably a white gold diamond pendant necklace :o
- if ur going somewhere to eat, do the little things like pulling out the chair and holding doors open
- we like gentlemen!
- dress neat and tidy. outfit doesnt hav to cost a million bucks.
- the more important stuff like questions and actually getting to know each other ask questions like ur interested to make a more friendly and warm environment cuz the first time can be uncomfortable and scary :up:

[$HugoBoss$]

disagree. u HAVE TO smile.

no smiley guys = gucci no marry.


- be polite. not just to the girl but others with her ... assuming her mahram is present. :rolleyes:
- bring a gift! preferably a white gold diamond pendant necklace :o
- if ur going somewhere to eat, do the little things like pulling out the chair and holding doors open
- we like gentlemen!
- dress neat and tidy. outfit doesnt hav to cost a million bucks.
- the more important stuff like questions and actually getting to know each other ask questions like ur interested to make a more friendly and warm environment cuz the first time can be uncomfortable and scary :up:

Umm i never said don't smile, i said don't smile too much

Good points but they are obvious, dressing good and acting like a gentlemen is a given. Good stuff though.

gucci no marry=no one gonna marry gucci anyways :D

[GuCcI]

What would you like the brother to wear?


hehe i didnt read anyone's post except urs cuz its before my first post.

it depends on the setting. if u and her and her brother lets say are going out somewhere to eat a nice dress shirt and dress pants are fine ... IRONED of course :rolleyes:

if its at home then wear something comfortable .... cultural clothing if u want i.

personally if i was meeting a guy for the first time i wouldnt want to see him in jeans and a t-shirt..... IRONICALLY ... the first time i met the guy im suppossed to marry he was wearing jeans :rotfl: .... so ya my point is i shook my head in dissapointment .. now where was i gonig with my story i forget but my point is dont wear jeans :torture:

[GuCcI]

gucci no marry=no one gonna marry gucci anyways :D

:(

its sad cuz its true :(

[Abandoned-Mind]

:(

its sad cuz its true :(

If she types in luminous pink font, walk away.

[GuCcI]

Good points but they are obvious, dressing good and acting like a gentlemen is a given. Good stuff though.




not everyone is as smart as u. u should see the number of people who dont know wat it means to be a gentleman :torture:

the guy im marrying for one. would it kill him to open a door for me? :torture: even my brother has better manners :rolleyes:

[$HugoBoss$]

:(

its sad cuz its true :(

What happened to your fiance?????

p.s. go post your baby pics in the "post your baby pics" thread :D

[GuCcI]

If she types in luminous pink font, walk away.

*EDIT*

:rolleyes:

[GuCcI]

What happened to your fiance?????

p.s. go post your baby pics in the "post your baby pics" thread :D


hes still around but he says the same thing u say cuz of my "attitude"
*sigh*.....


i cant post my baby pics cuz i dont hav any baby pics with hijaab.

[$HugoBoss$]

not everyone is as smart as u.

I Agree 100%

[GuCcI]

I Agree 100%


good.

that abandoned-mind guy was mean :(

im sad now. am i gonna be a loner for the rest of my life :crying:


maybe we need tips for women wen they meet a potential hubby

[Abandoned-Mind]

good.

that abandoned-mind guy was mean :(

im sad now. am i gonna be a loner for the rest of my life :crying:


maybe we need tips for women wen they meet a potential hubby

Or wear sun glasses when you go see her :)

Hows that?

[$HugoBoss$]

hes still around but he says the same thing u say cuz of my "attitude"
*sigh*.....


i cant post my baby pics cuz i dont hav any baby pics with hijaab.

I was just jk you have a wonderfull attitude, sometimes annoying but thats normal :D and he's jk to i bet.

Ok no problem about the baby pics i never posted mine either yet.

[$HugoBoss$]

good.

that abandoned-mind guy was mean :(

im sad now. am i gonna be a loner for the rest of my life :crying:


maybe we need tips for women wen they meet a potential hubby

Here's a tip for the sisters, act exactly the opposite of gucci and i'll guaranty you the proposal won't be rejected :D

[Kal-El]

disagree. u HAVE TO smile.

no smiley guys = gucci no marry.


- be polite. not just to the girl but others with her ... assuming her mahram is present. :rolleyes:
- bring a gift! preferably a white gold diamond pendant necklace :o
- if ur going somewhere to eat, do the little things like pulling out the chair and holding doors open
- we like gentlemen!
- dress neat and tidy. outfit doesnt hav to cost a million bucks.
- the more important stuff like questions and actually getting to know each other ask questions like ur interested to make a more friendly and warm environment cuz the first time can be uncomfortable and scary :up:

Reading that made me very uncomfortable sis. I don't know what that tells you about your list

[GuCcI]

ur all a bunch of meanies. no one is telling u u hav to buy a necklace sheesh

dont worry, if i get rejected u'll all be first to know :rolleyes:

and if i dont, ive proven u all wrong inshallah.

watever i couldnt care less.

[mara]

thoughtful, maybe lilies. :smack:
:)If she has a cat please don't do that. Lilies could kill the cat if she ingest any part of the flower - its highly toxic.

[Lambo5688]

Brush your teeth.

[jus'me]

Smell nice!:D

[THE PATH 2]

if you want to know what someone is like..

find out their company..what their friends are like

[(*_Hamzah]

“When one of you asks a woman for marriage, if he is able to look at what will induce him to marry her, he should do so….” (Abu Dawud).

[Joha]

Smell nice!:D

yea, 'cos the first thing she'll do is come and sniff ya :rolleyes:

[jus'me]

yea, 'cos the first thing she'll do is come and sniff ya :rolleyes:

lol..not even that!...if he stinks we women will be able to smell him from a mile! :D

[Raziel]

ur all a bunch of meanies. no one is telling u u hav to buy a necklace sheesh

dont worry, if i get rejected u'll all be first to know :rolleyes:

and if i dont, ive proven u all wrong inshallah.

watever i couldnt care less.

Insha'allah you won't sis... :)

May Allah grant me sis a Pious Muslim Husband...

:jkk:

[Raziel]

lol..not even that!...if he stinks we women will be able to smell him from a mile! :D

OMG! if he stinks he aught to boot himself out... :buttkick:

:jkk:

[Raziel]

If she has a cat please don't do that. Lilies could kill the cat if she ingest any part of the flower - its highly toxic.

Peace be upon those who seek Guidance!

Couldn't the cat ingest other harmful stuff? :scratch:

and don't they cause a Mess in the House? :scratch:

regards

[alld]

lol..not even that!...if he stinks we women will be able to smell him from a mile! :D

..................

[Asmara]

Dress nicely and smile a lot.

[RashidD]

How many of you include thowbs in the "dress nicely" thing?

[*hayat*]

Not a good idea to bring a gift. Say you bring flowers she might have an allergic reaction to them or make her hay fever trigger, and if you bring plastic flowers she might think you’re cheap, and chocolates she could be on a diet and you might offend here. The same with Gold, she properly ask for 24 carats while you brought her a cheap alloy , and perfume it might not be her favorite one, come to think of, don’t even go and visit here. To much stress

loooooooool yeah really helpfull:up:

[sapphire_blue]

NO WAY do you bring gifts for her on the very first visit.

:rubeyes:

[Raziel]

NO WAY do you bring gifts for her on the very first visit.

:rubeyes:

Just take em (the Gifts) and Reject him... :D

lol! just kiddin... don't do that ...

:jkk:

[Raziel]

Dress nicely and smile a lot.

Not too much, otherwise it makes him, look an idiot... :smack:

:jkk:

[sunrise]

How many of you include thowbs in the "dress nicely" thing?


thobes look kool esp the half half Moroccan ones they look kool:up: (as in normal thobe with moroccan hood or the moroccan ones..and i aint just saying that cause i is one:o)

[sunrise]

Not too much, otherwise it makes him, look an idiot... :smack:

:jkk:


lol ye...freaky idiot lol:o

[Asmara]

How many of you include thowbs in the "dress nicely" thing?

me :up:

[Asmara]

Not too much, otherwise it makes him, look an idiot... :smack:

:jkk:

Yeah I suppose, but smiling is a definitely a good thing.

[Raziel]

Yeah I suppose, but smiling is a definitely a good thing.

to an extent sis, you wouldn't want him to over do it ... :o

:jkk:

[angel*]

How many of you include thowbs in the "dress nicely" thing?

me does! I think thobes look really nice on guyz!

[neelu]

so..when the fam ask if u wud like sumthing to eat/drink...whats the right answer? :p

Erm it depends. With most Asian families, they offer food, you politely say no thanks and then they serve you with a whole banquet full anyway which you HAVE TO eat and compliment or else they'll take offense:p

I haven't read most of this thread but I'll tell everyone to just be calm and be themselves... you want to marry someone who'll accept you as you are and who you'd likewise accept as she is so putting on a front wont help anyone.

[*hayat*]

E Y E C O N T A C T

N O M O V I N G A R O U N D T O O M U C H W H E N S P E A K I N G

A L S O T A K E A T I S S U E W I T H YOURELF

[K h a l i l]

to an extent sis, you wouldn't want him to over do it ... :o

:jkk:

yeah.. you wouldnt want a smile that looked something like this..:D

[Raziel]

E Y E C O N T A C T

N O M O V I N G A R O U N D T O O M U C H W H E N S P E A K I N G

A L S O T A K E A T I S S U E W I T H YOURELF

lol! I hope thats not cause of a default rejection idea ... :o you know (already rejected before you meet her...)

:jkk:

[Raziel]

yeah.. you wouldnt want a smile that looked something like this..:D

Khalil bro, you back in action? :D

so when you gettin hitched ? :D

:jkk:

[neelu]

I can be, here's another one:

Brothers have to make sure and make it clear to the bride family, he (we call him Wajid as an example) is marrying (Call the father Mr.Khan) is marrying Mr.Khan daughter and not his whole family.

Ooooooh careful careful with that one. A lot of parents are very possessive and feel like you're one of these modern types who just live as a couple and make your spouse estranged from the whole close family. In fact, the 'Khan' family would feel much more reassured if you said they can call or visit if they miss their little girl too much:inlove:

[sunrise]

Erm it depends. With most Asian families, they offer food, you politely say no thanks and then they serve you with a whole banquet full anyway which you HAVE TO eat and compliment or else they'll take offense:p

I haven't read most of this thread but I'll tell everyone to just be calm and be themselves... you want to marry someone who'll accept you as you are and who you'd likewise accept as she is so putting on a front wont help anyone.


defo excellent advice:up:

[*hayat*]

lol! I hope thats not cause of a default rejection idea ... :o you know (already rejected before you meet her...)

:jkk:

well no actually, but the thing is tissue is a basic need and for many reasons...

i knew som1 who got put off cos the guy started picking his noice and did not have a tissue...

[Joha]

lol..not even that!...if he stinks we women will be able to smell him from a mile! :D

ah yes, if only they used that acutely sensitive nose when cooking, instead of using the fire alarm :rolleyes:

oh yea, if you're dressing nicely, don't try too hard. like...a flowing thobe, in the middle of winter - makes you look :wacko: :wacko: and that's even before you've opened your mouth.

[alld]

the best is to dress normal and be your normal self . it helps . it is against our religion to show off . it's a minor shirk .

[Raziel]

well no actually, but the thing is tissue is a basic need and for many reasons...

i knew som1 who got put off cos the guy started picking his noice and did not have a tissue...

lol! thats a proper putt of... :o

for basic needs, it's o.k, so long as he don't pick his nose... :D

:jkk:

[MG]

guy came to see my sis & she accidently dropped rasmalai in his lap cos she was so nervous - he was wearing white shalwar kameez as well ...

TIP - dnt wear white

[sunrise]

guy came to see my sis & she accidently dropped rasmalai in his lap cos she was so nervous - he was wearing white shalwar kameez as well ...

TIP - dnt wear white


aww, well bros should understand it's a very stressful and nerve racking time for her...and maybe for some guys2...

man i pray that never happens 2 any of us inshAllah

[S@Z]

guy came to see my sis & she accidently dropped rasmalai in his lap cos she was so nervous - he was wearing white shalwar kameez as well ...

TIP - dnt wear whiteLOL !!

i did something like that > dropped a tray full of paani & shaani in front of the guy;s parents and burst out laughing :rotfl: and my mum went :o... walalhi it was just an accident :D

>>

Tip > pray and just be yourself :up:

[sunrise]

LOL !!

i did something like that > dropped a tray full of paani & shaani in front of the guy;s parents and burst out laughing :rotfl: and my mum went :o... :D

>>

Tip > pray and just be yourself :up:


aww alhamdulilah ur mum was kool about it...so im guessing nothin came from it?:o

i aint serving NOTHING ima let my mum do everything, shes got no reason 2 b nervous so inshAllah she won't drop anything..as for me im a haphazard so i'll sit alone in the corner lol:D

but i dount she'll give him paani or shanni unles she's asian..actually even if he is asian..he'll have 2 deal with cous cous lol :D

[Raziel]

guy came to see my sis & she accidently dropped rasmalai in his lap cos she was so nervous - he was wearing white shalwar kameez as well ...

TIP - dnt wear white

what happened then?... :o

:jkk:

[Zaid the Great]

what happened then?... :o

:jkk:

the food spilled all over his clothes :rotfl: im guessin:p

[Raziel]

aww, well bros should understand it's a very stressful and nerve racking time for her...and maybe for some guys2...

man i pray that never happens 2 any of us inshAllah

Who cares if she dropped it on his head? :D

i'm sure he's done some blunders himeself... :D

lol! so long as the sis is a Muslim and is of a Good character, thats fine.

:jkk:

[Raziel]

the food spilled all over his clothes :rotfl: im guessin:p

after that... :smack:

acceptance? rejection?

[Zaid the Great]

Who cares if she dropped it on his head? :D

i'm sure he's done some blunders himeself... :D

lol! so long as the sis is a Muslim and is of a Good character, thats fine.

:jkk:

i would probly cause much more problems :S

I'm a complete disaster wen it comz to spkin to women:rolleyes:

*outta*

[Raziel]

LOL !!

i did something like that > dropped a tray full of paani & shaani in front of the guy;s parents and burst out laughing :rotfl: and my mum went :o... walalhi it was just an accident :D

>>

Tip > pray and just be yourself :up:

so did they accept ya sis? :D

:jkk:

[S@Z]

ummm...my mum had difficulty believing that it was not done purposedly *sigh* like why on earth will i drop something like that ? :smack:aww alhamdulilah ur mum was kool about it...so im guessing nothin came from it?:o

i aint serving NOTHING ima let my mum do everything, shes got no reason 2 b nervous so inshAllah she won't drop anything..as for me im a haphazard so i'll sit alone in the corner lol:D:rotfl: so true aye :p

agree with you :up: :D

[sunrise]

ummm...my mum had difficulty believing that it was not done purposedly *sigh* like why on earth will i drop something like that ? :smack::rotfl: so true aye :p

agree with you :up: :D

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:lol i can imagine my mum sayign the same...esp if she knew i didnt like the guy..she'd think i was tryna sabotage it lool:o

[Raziel]

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:lol i can imagine my mum sayign the same...esp if she knew i didnt like the guy..she'd think i was tryna sabotage it lool:o

Sabotage! :eek: OMG! the tactics the sis's use... :outta:

:jkk:

[S@Z]

so did they accept ya sis? :D

:jkk:they did :D but it wasn't meant to be :)

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:lol i can imagine my mum sayign the same...esp if she knew i didnt like the guy..she'd think i was tryna sabotage it lool:oi didnt even know the guy :eek: :smack: and i'll let you know people > it was not a sabotage!!! :nono: :meow: :D

[Raziel]

they did :D but it wasn't meant to be :)

i didnt even know the guy :eek: :smack: and i'll let you know people > it was not a sabotage!!! :nono: :meow: :D

No probs sis, insha'alla you'll find a better bro to marry.. :D

:jkk:

a likely story... :D

[sunrise]

Sabotage! :eek: OMG! the tactics the sis's use... :outta:

:jkk:


lol well if i didn't like him i'd prob do stuff 2 make him not like me:o

but if i did i would never try and so something to hinder the chances lol...i migth get nervous but that's why i said i'll leave it 2my mum :D:up:

[Raziel]

lol well if i didn't like him i'd prob do stuff 2 make him not like me:o

but if i did i would never try and so something to hinder the chances lol...i migth get nervous but that's why i said i'll leave it 2my mum :D:up:

:jkk: sis... :o

[neelu]

This confirms what I've suspected for a while- that incompatible brothers and sisters seem to have no idea as to how to turn the rishta down. I think it's so d@mn rude for a bro to say "I'll call you" and for him to never call (yes that did happen to me). What sheer cowardice! It puts me in an awkward position because if someone tells me they know about another rishta elsewhere, I tend not to pursue it unless I have a firm idea as to whether there is potential in staying in touch with the current rishta or getting turned down straight in which case I know I'm in a position to explore other options staight away.

[Abandoned-Mind]

This confirms what I've suspected for a while- that incompatible brothers and sisters seem to have no idea as to how to turn the rishta down. I think it's so d@mn rude for a bro to say "I'll call you" and for him to never call (yes that did happen to me). What sheer cowardice! It puts me in an awkward position because if someone tells me they know about another rishta elsewhere, I tend not to pursue it unless I have a firm idea as to whether there is potential in staying in touch with the current rishta or getting turned down straight in which case I know I'm in a position to explore other options staight away.

LOL that is some funny, but raw stuff.

I am sure brothers find it hard to say to a sisters face "Er..No".

But that was just raw.

[Lambo5688]

This thread makes me sad.

[angel*]

This thread is interesting. :1popcorn:

[angel*]

Guyz shuldnt never talk like they know everything even if they do, its just a big turn off.

[Lambo5688]

This thread is interesting. :1popcorn:

yea yea go eat ur popcorn.

[angel*]

yea yea go eat ur popcorn.

*ahem* Whaa? cant pass such a gr8 opp. can i ?:p

[Lambo5688]

*ahem* Whaa? cant pass such a gr8 opp. can i ?:p

Ofcourse you cant.

Do you really eat that much popcorn? Kinda like me and red bull.

[Monica03]

Do NOT comb your hair back with oil :torture:

Dont talk too much (you might give away your lack of intelligence) :D
Stay quiet as often as possible as it gives the impression that you are wise

I'll think of some more later :up:

[angel*]

Ofcourse you cant.

Do you really eat that much popcorn? Kinda like me and red bull.

:smack: its the only thing available in the ummah kitchens atm, unless u run along to pagal khana! Mmmm :torture: i want sum red bull now!

[Lambo5688]

:smack: its the only thing available in the ummah kitchens atm, unless u run along to pagal khana! Mmmm :torture: i want sum red bull now!

oh lol.


Well then why dont u suggest some tips for men going to see a potention wife.

[angel*]

Do NOT comb your hair back with oil :torture:



':eek: thas the worst thing u can ever do plz refrain if u wanna get the rishta. infact plz refrain. Full Stop!

[ibn suleman]

wat abt not combing ur hair? :p

[angel*]

Mmmm try and make decent conversation, world politics would b better than the latest car!

Dress casually, BIG no no to 3 pc suits!

[angel*]

wat abt not combing ur hair? :p

ha ha my bro tried that once in the hopes that "they" wouldnt like him, Had the opp. effect.

[Monica03]

wat abt not combing ur hair? :p

Do u want to get married...EVER :rubeyes:

:p

[ibn suleman]

Do u want to get married...EVER :rubeyes:

:p

is "yes" the correct answer? :o :scratch:

[Monica03]

is "yes" the correct answer? :o :scratch:

Lol, then buy a comb and leave out the oil :up:
(remember to use the comb)

[RashidD]

Do NOT comb your hair back with oil :torture:

Dont talk too much (you might give away your lack of intelligence) :D
Stay quiet as often as possible as it gives the impression that you are wise

I'll think of some more later :up:

[/B]


':eek: thas the worst thing u can ever do plz refrain if u wanna get the rishta. infact plz refrain. Full Stop!

Isn't oiling ones hair a sunnah...

[ibn suleman]

Lol, then buy a comb and leave out the oil :up:
(remember to use the comb)

lool..i dont use a comb or oil :p

[Monica03]

Isn't oiling ones hair a sunnah...

Yes, but not to the point where you can fry chips in ones hair :)
Remember that little is more :up:

[Joha]

Yes, but not to the point where you can fry chips in ones hair :)
Remember that little is more :up:

yes, If any of you ever get the urge to oil your hair, just think of Snape...(or Hitler)

[Believer1984]

Be cheerful!

:up:

[muslim_sis]

if u forget the name refer to her as ''sister'' (sister in islam i mean) :up:

[angel*]

Be cheerful!

:up:

Not overly cheerful tho, or we'll b like :eek3:


Ooooo and never ever eat with ur mouth open, :torture: dont like men with no manners!

[jus'me]

Isn't oiling ones hair a sunnah...

i think so...i think olive oil was ideally used but dont quote me on that..

[jus'me]

Not overly cheerful tho, or we'll b like :eek3:


Ooooo and never ever eat with ur mouth open, :torture: dont like men with no manners!

What if he were to burp afterwards...like a teeny weeny odourless one?..lol..would you consider it a compliment..to the food that is?...:D i think i would....:D

[Believer1984]

What if he were to burp afterwards...like a teeny weeny odourless one?..lol..would you consider it a compliment..to the food that is?...:D i think i would....:D

lol. We men aint babies.

Fact: Either babies do that 'or old men with their loud ones.

lol bless they have a gas problem which they cant control.:(

[angel*]

What if he were to burp afterwards...like a teeny weeny odourless one?..lol..would you consider it a compliment..to the food that is?...:D i think i would....:D

:rubeyes: Noooooooo no compliment, seriously id show him the door, within the min!!!!!

[Na'eemah]

ok..cool..

do u bring a gift with u? :p


(u know i couldprobably on asking questions :D)

No you don't bring a gift, it makes u look eager and desperate (not you specifically, but any1 who does bring a gift when going around a potential marriage partners house).

They'll expect a gift every time u go around, and what if the wedding is like 2 years later - thats a lorra gifts to give to some1 u aint married to. They'll end up becoming a spoilt brat. (what's new there tho ~roll eyes~)

[jus'me]

lol. We men aint babies.

Men can act like babies when it suits them alryt!:rolleyes:

Fact: Either babies do that 'or old men with their loud ones.

Im assumin ur neither of the above....does that mean you dont burp?! :rubeyes:

lol bless they have a gas problem which they cant control.:(

lol..if it is a case of trapped wind then id say...better out the top end rather than.................................... :D :D

[Raziel]

lol..if it is a case of trapped wind then id say...better out the top end rather than.................................... :D :D

:rotfl:

[talib ul islam]

Please Brothers when you're being served tea Don't use this line,

"I don't take sugar I'm sweet already" :D(imagine it with a slight freshie accent) yep it was used on my sister, you can guess the outcome:):up:

[MG]

Please Brothers when you're being served tea Don't use this line,

"I don't take sugar I'm sweet already" :D(imagine it with a slight freshie accent) yep it was used on my sister, you can guess the outcome:):up:


ya allah

*cringe*

[Raziel]

Please Brothers when you're being served tea Don't use this line,

"I don't take sugar I'm sweet already" :D(imagine it with a slight freshie accent) yep it was used on my sister, you can guess the outcome:):up:

could have been an indication of some sense of humour though couldn't it? :D

:jkk:

[talib ul islam]

could have been an indication of some sense of humour though couldn't it? :D

:jkk:


Nah but you had to be there:), the geezer was about an inch shorter then my sis and he was playing the mister "hey I'm so coool man" type, as soon as he walked through the door we all knew it was a no:o

Some people have no idea of how to match people up for suitability:rolleyes:, they think "here's a single guy there's a single girl, now go get married", a friend of a friend of a friend suggested the rishta so it was bound to happen:(:o

[a_nounu]

could have been an indication of some sense of humour though couldn't it? :D

:jkk:

if you like people not laughing at your jokes

[Raziel]

if you like people not laughing at your jokes

eh? :eek3:

[Raziel]

Nah but you had to be there:), the geezer was about an inch shorter then my sis and he was playing the mister "hey I'm so coool man" type, as soon as he walked through the door we all knew it was a no:o

Some people have no idea of how to match people up for suitability:rolleyes:, they think "here's a single guy there's a single girl, now go get married", a friend of a friend of a friend suggested the rishta so it was bound to happen:(:o

lol!

I see what ya mean...

:jkk:

[LFC]

What's the ideal thing to wear during these meetings, casual or traditional? :confused:

[Raziel]

What's the ideal thing to wear during these meetings, casual or traditional? :confused:

I wore a suit, was gonna dress casual but parents kept hasslin me... :smack:

just wear some undamaged clean clothes, no silly emblems on, or pictures on.

:jkk:

[neelu]

What's the ideal thing to wear during these meetings, casual or traditional? :confused:

I'd go with "smart cas", the sort of thing you'd wear when you're invited to a relatives house (ie not complete jeans style casual and not overly formal in a suit you'd wear to weddings either).

[Lambo5688]

I would guess casual.

No Jeans though.

[Islamiyyah]

Dont bring your mom :outta: :o

[sunrise]

I would guess casual.

No Jeans though.

I'd go with "smart cas", the sort of thing you'd wear when you're invited to a relatives house (ie not complete jeans style casual and not overly formal in a suit you'd wear to weddings either).

I wore a suit, was gonna dress casual but parents kept hasslin me... :smack:

just wear some undamaged clean clothes, no silly emblems on, or pictures on.

:jkk:


Just be urself inshAllah...u don't want to be deceptive:rubeyes:

[$HugoBoss$]

I would guess casual.

No Jeans though.

Yeah you should know lambo, your going soon anyways ;)

[Lambo5688]

Yeah you should know lambo, your going soon anyways ;)

what?! no!

omg hugo and harun are spreadin these lol

[souljaa]

what?! no!

omg hugo and harun are spreadin these lol

Lambster have you seen this (http://ummah.com/forum/showpost.php?p=1951779&postcount=107) post? You're gunna go crazy lol

[Amaara]

O akhis pfft *tries to hold back laughter*...

Keep it smart cas- suits lol...to see a potential *Roll's Eyes*...maybe if your meeting her @ a wedding or at a JOB interview but you want some sort of informality but of course not too much- so keep away from ya footie gear!

[jus'me]

Keep a clean hankie....

[MG]

make sure there is no food stuck between your front teeth

[Al Qadr]

Don't
Don't burp or fart
Don't think that just because food is in front of you it means you can eat all you want
Don't make faces
Don't say you don't like the food
Don't say too many posh/long words
Don't act like your all it

Do -
Lower your gaze 95% of the time (i.e. don't stare)
Say the tea/snacks were nice
Have a nice smile

[Zesty]

What's the ideal thing to wear during these meetings, casual or traditional? :confused:

:eek3: whyd ya wana know irffuuu :p
Just wear casual... no need to go in a suit or anything.. casual/smart-ish is fine.

[mara]

Do NOT comb your hair back with oil :torture:

Dont talk too much (you might give away your lack of intelligence) :D
Stay quiet as often as possible as it gives the impression that you are wise

I'll think of some more later :up:After me the man should always talk, don't stay mute. :embar:

[Raziel]

Dont bring your mom :outta: :o

thats gonna be difficult to do ...

also why shouldn't ya? :scratch:

are you sayin you gonna go alone ow without your parents? :eek3:

:jkk:

[Raziel]

make sure there is no food stuck between your front teeth

Brush your teeth thoroughly, and keep it clean and make sure you continue to do so, at least twice a day... :D

:jkk:

[MG]

Brush your teeth thoroughly, and keep it clean and make sure you continue to do so, at least twice a day... :D

:jkk:

yeh but the guy has gotta eat after he has brushed them :rubeyes::smack:

[Raziel]

yeh but the guy has gotta eat after he has brushed them :rubeyes::smack:

he still needs to brush em, that isn't an excuse Not to brush them thoroughly ...

also the Guy shouldn't stuff himself ... or eat a little too much...

:jkk:

[MG]

he still needs to brush em, that isn't an excuse Not to brush them thoroughly ...

also the Guy shouldn't stuff himself ... or eat a little too much...

:jkk:


im not saying he cant brush them, im saying after he has brushed he still has to eat...also the food getting stuck between the teeth is normally down to what TYPE of food it is, not how much he ate (yes we should refrain from overeating)......lets hope she doestn serve spinach at the first meeting ....

[jus'me]

Brushing?...Wrigleys Extra White should do the job! :D sparkly teeth AND fresh breath...

TIP: ALWAYS HAVE FRESH BREATH...floss your teeth before you go! :D :D

[Raziel]

im not saying he cant brush them, im saying after he has brushed he still has to eat...also the food getting stuck between the teeth is normally down to what TYPE of food it is, not how much he ate (yes we should refrain from overeating)......lets hope she doestn serve spinach at the first meeting ....

lol! :D

lets hope she doesn't drop it on his head or something... :D :outta:

:jkk:

[Islamiyyah]

Dont bring your mom :outta: :o


Yes this is a double post.

[ify]

Dont bring your mom :outta: :o


Yes this is a double post.


lol
o n u hav 2 consider tht She's probs jst as nervous as u..!

[Lambo5688]

Lambster have you seen this (http://ummah.com/forum/showpost.php?p=1951779&postcount=107) post? You're gunna go crazy lol

Very nice. I want it. Now.

[souljaa]

Very nice. I want it. Now.

Lol went Mumtaz today...And we were getting out and there's a bright yellow Gallrado parked right outside...I was literally like :shock: and a Range Rover limo parked behind it...Ai hai man i thought i was dreaming *droooooooooooooooooooooooooools*

[sunrise]

Lol went Mumtaz today...And we were getting out and there's a bright yellow Gallrado parked right outside...I was literally like :shock: and a Range Rover limo parked behind it...Ai hai man i thought i was dreaming *droooooooooooooooooooooooooools*


man Leeds must have some nice cars..never see any here lol:torture:

[Raziel]

Very nice. I want it. Now.

Bro you might have to sell ya house... :o

you willin to do that for your Lambo? :D

:jkk:

[Raziel]

Lol went Mumtaz today...And we were getting out and there's a bright yellow Gallrado parked right outside...I was literally like :shock: and a Range Rover limo parked behind it...Ai hai man i thought i was dreaming *droooooooooooooooooooooooooools*

I saw a Blue Diablo drivin past and a yellow Gallado ... :D

Man the Diablo is Just Utterly Awesome!!! :D

so's the Gallardo... cracking V10 Engine...

:jkk:

[Raziel]

Very nice. I want it. Now.

Go in your Lambo, she'll definitely say yes when she see's the Lambo ... lol! :D

:jkk:

[Lambo5688]

yea man seeing one is awesome.

I saw one parked next to the tennis courts near my house. It was a yellow Gallardo.

[Lambo5688]

Bro you might have to sell ya house... :o

you willin to do that for your Lambo? :D

:jkk:

Def one of them.

[souljaa]

man Leeds must have some nice cars..never see any here lol:torture:

Ahem bradford :o

I saw a Blue Diablo drivin past and a yellow Gallado ... :D

Man the Diablo is Just Utterly Awesome!!! :D

so's the Gallardo... cracking V10 Engine...

:jkk:

Lol yeah i were just telling someone today that the V10's probably sound the best...Best engine sound is probably from a Carrera GT and a DC5 althought that ain't a V10 but sounds too :hidban:

[LFC]

Lol went Mumtaz today...And we were getting out and there's a bright yellow Gallrado parked right outside...I was literally like :shock: and a Range Rover limo parked behind it...Ai hai man i thought i was dreaming *droooooooooooooooooooooooooools*

Was that ours or someone elses?

That Lambo had me in awe too. Seen enough Range Rovers limos to go round so weren't owt special.

[Raziel]

Ahem bradford :o



Lol yeah i were just telling someone today that the V10's probably sound the best...Best engine sound is probably from a Carrera GT and a DC5 althought that ain't a V10 but sounds too :hidban:

You ain't heard the V12, they're in a New Level... :D

Especially the Diablo's and the Murcielago's... and the Mclaren F1 :D

I could listen to em all day... :D

the Carrera GT sounds awesome too, :up:

:jkk:

[Lambo5688]

That Lambo had me in awe too.

yes yes..alot of people go into awe when they see me.

[Raziel]

yes yes..alot of people go into awe when they see me.


:rotfl: Muahahahaha! :D

:jkk:

[$HugoBoss$]

yes yes..alot of people go into awe when they see me.

Yeah but sometimes they don't notice me beside you :D

Maybe because the tint is 40% ;)

[Lambo5688]

Yeah but sometimes they don't notice me beside you :D

Maybe because the tint is 40% ;)

they dont see you cuz you cause a shadow :rotfl:

[LFC]

yes yes..alot of people go into awe when they see me.

Yes you were just tooooo good looking mate. ;)





















Outta here.... :outta:

[$HugoBoss$]

they dont see you cuz you cause a shadow :rotfl:

"I feel you creepin', I can see you from my shadow.
Wanna jump up in my Lamborghini Gallardo" :D

[Lambo5688]

"I feel you creepin', I can see you from my shadow.
Wanna jump up in my Lamborghini Gallardo" :D

lol that akon got into big trouble i heard.

[$HugoBoss$]

lol that akon got into big trouble i heard.

He's muslim you know that right??? Maybe thats why :D

[souljaa]

Was that ours or someone elses?

That Lambo had me in awe too. Seen enough Range Rovers limos to go round so weren't owt special.

Some other geeza i think...If it was fams...They woulda been jumping up and down lol



You ain't heard the V12, they're in a New Level... :D

Especially the Diablo's and the Murcielago's... and the Mclaren F1 :D

I could listen to em all day... :D

the Carrera GT sounds awesome too, :up:

:jkk:

Lol V12's are just roaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar whereas V10's are like neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeehhhhhhh lol...It sounds too tik tik bo0o0omiiin

Yes you were just tooooo good looking mate. ;)





















Outta here.... :outta:

Fudge! :mad: :buttkick:

[Lambo5688]

Yes you were just tooooo good looking mate. ;)





















Outta here.... :outta:
no lol im actually not

He's muslim you know that right??? Maybe thats why :D
yea, muslim by name.

[Raziel]

Lol V12's are just roaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar whereas V10's are like neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeehhhhhhh lol...It sounds too tik tik bo0o0omiiin

V12 Rule, don't mess with the V12, ... :torture: :torture: :torture:
they're like the Roarin Lions, whereas the V10 is like a Tiger... :D



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[souljaa]

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Nah man...V10's all the way :freedom:

:jkk:...Please do come again, thank you bery much :D

[angel*]

:rubeyes: ^^^^^^ Akon'z a muslim????

Souljaa :torture: u lost me with V12'z and V10'z !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Tax-Man]

Akon'z a muslim Yeah apparntly he's got 3 wives or something and is planning a reality show

[OBL]

Akon'z a muslim

Akon and Islam

Akon was born in born in Senegal and although he lacks many qualities of the average American Muslim, he sometimes mentions his religion. In the song Senegal, he states: So what you know about how God comes first in our lives, everything that we do is for Allah ; So what you know about that Holy place called Touba where Prophets are born. Also, Akon is known for being polygamous, a trait allowed in Islamic Jurisprudence. He has 3 wives.

Akon tends to stay quiet about his Islamic and polygamous life because of requests from his record label so controversies will not start.
Fast Facts

Full Name: Aliaune Damala Bouga Time Puru Nacka Lu Lu Lu Badara Akon Thiam
Born: Senegal October 14, 1981
Convert: No
Sect: Sunni
Most Famous For: Grammy Award Winning R&B Artist.
Biography

Akon grew up in Senegal before he and his family (including his father, jazz percussionist Mor Thiam) eventually settled in New Jersey. There he discovered hip-hop for the first time, as well as crime. He was eventually jailed, but he used the time to work on his musical ideas. Upon release, Akon began writing and recording tracks in a home studio. The tapes found their way to SRC/Universal, which eventually released Trouble, Akon's debut LP, in June 2004. The album was an interesting hybrid of Akon's raps and silky, West African-styled vocals with East Coast- and Southern-styled beats.

http://famousmuslims.muslimonline.org/akon.html

[angel*]

:rubeyes: wow didnt know any of that. Heard most of his songz but never knew he was a muslim, ha ha and i thought i had a loooooong name!

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[Raziel]

:rubeyes: ^^^^^^ Akon'z a muslim????

Souljaa :torture: u lost me with V12'z and V10'z !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Engines sis, V10 Engines have 10 Cylinders, 5 on each side, in a V shaped configuration,

Ie. Dodge Viper SRT 10, BMW M5, Porsche Carrera GT etc...

V12's have 12 Cylinders, 6 on Each side, again in a V shape...

ie. Maclaren F1, Ferrari Enzo, Lamborghini Murcielago, Diablo etc...

:jkk:

[Lost_Princess]

comment on how nice her shoes are she'll love it
and some girls like talking about cars but not there engines and what ever you do dont talk about sport unless she brings up the topic

3 rules to live by they will help oh and btw the best present to get a girl is bying something for her parents we usually bring leboneses sweets and flowers NEVER GO EMPTY HANDED :):):)

[Believer1984]

Brothers make sure you are confident and not shy.

Walk in like a man ' show respect and gain respect.

Grab her hand .

Throw her in the car.

Speed off.

Get Married.

Have children.

Lean back as a Gran-dad with a glass of dr pepper. :coolbro:

Sorted !

<3

[OBL]

:rofl1: :rofl1: :rofl1:

[Kal-El]

Reconsider

[Supernova Nebula]

Brothers make sure you are confident and not shy.

Walk in like a man ' show respect and gain respect.

Grab her hand .

Throw her in the car.

Speed off.

Get Married.

Have children.

Lean back as a Gran-dad with a glass of dr pepper. :coolbro:

Sorted !

<3

:rubeyes:

[Raziel]

Brothers make sure you are confident and not shy.

Walk in like a man ' show respect and gain respect.

Grab her hand .

Throw her in the car.

Speed off.

Get Married.

Have children.

Lean back as a Gran-dad with a glass of dr pepper. :coolbro:

Sorted !

<3

:rotfl: :outta:

:jkk:

[Amaara]

I didn't find that funny tbh.

[Na'eemah]

Brothers make sure you are confident and not shy.

Walk in like a man ' show respect and gain respect.

Grab her hand .

Throw her in the car.

Speed off.

Get Married.

Have children.

Lean back as a Gran-dad with a glass of dr pepper. :coolbro:

Sorted !

<3

Seeing as you wrote 'grab her hand' before getting married off, there is a hadith that says it is better for a nail to be driven through the head (or hand) of a man then for him to touch the palm of a strange woman.

I didn't find that funny tbh.

Likewise.
Most of this thread is off topic nonsense.

[souljaa]

There is a hadeeth (narration of an event) from Ma'qil ibn Yassar, saying: The prophet, peace be upon him said, "It is better for you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle than to touch the hand of a woman who is not permissible to you."
[At-Tabarani in "Al Kabir, #486. Shaikh Albani said in Sahih al-Jaami' it is sahih #5045]

[Na'eemah]

There is a hadeeth (narration of an event) from Ma'qil ibn Yassar, saying: The prophet, peace be upon him said, "It is better for you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle than to touch the hand of a woman who is not permissible to you."
[At-Tabarani in "Al Kabir, #486. Shaikh Albani said in Sahih al-Jaami' it is sahih #5045]

Oh :jkk: for that.

[Amaara]

:jkk: for that reminder to the both of you *Smiles*

[Believer1984]

Seeing as you wrote 'grab her hand' before getting married off, there is a hadith that says it is better for a nail to be driven through the head (or hand) of a man then for him to touch the palm of a strange woman.



Likewise.
Most of this thread is off topic nonsense.

Astagfirullah.

Thank god i never held a females hand apart from my mothers.

I feel blessed. wait when we were young the teachers use to make us do country dancing in school.

I was young so im forgiven right ?

:confused:

[Believer1984]

There is a hadeeth (narration of an event) from Ma'qil ibn Yassar, saying: The prophet, peace be upon him said, "It is better for you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle than to touch the hand of a woman who is not permissible to you." [At-Tabarani in "Al Kabir, #486. Shaikh Albani said in Sahih al-Jaami' it is sahih #5045]

:up: Beautiful.

[Islamiyyah]

lol
o n u hav 2 consider tht She's probs jst as nervous as u..!

Its not that it's that she may dislike you strongly and give you the evil look the whole time :(

Mother-in-laws = :nervous:

[Kal-El]

I think alot of Muslimah's start to have insecurity issues when they're considering marriage.

[ify]

I think alot of Muslimah's start to have insecurity issues when they're considering marriage.


uuu huh - i think so 2 - at least i am lol - i mean marriage - it's kinda scary as u hav 2 learn 2 trust ths guy (which u hopefully like ;) ) - with added stress if ur gna move county....n stay with him 4 th rest of ur life :insha: - no wunda insecurities r gna set in lol

[Tahiyah]

don't go overboard talking about yourself and what you do and know when it comes to religious duties and Deen.... it may look like your bragging or trying to hard to "sell" yourself..

example: i always fast twice a week and do every fajr in the masjid and never miss my sunnah prayers and always give zakat, and always keep my head down and give my mother money..etc...

don't over do it....sounds tacky...:rolleyes: