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un happy
17-06-07, 06:23 PM
i go to school and there re some really friendly boys in my class i often find myself laughing and joking with them but i have no desire to have a relationship with any of them
is this still haraam and if it is what should i do i cant help myself
Irfan GBH
18-06-07, 06:48 AM
Yes it's still haraam to chat to them and laugh and giggle with them. Just keep your distance, make for female friends and don't be too friendly towards them, they'll eventually figure out you dont wanna hang out with them.
stephenoskie
18-06-07, 09:10 AM
it is best to stay away because even though you have no desire they might have desire for you, and your are in away leading them on your allowing them to like you, dont chat to the guys chat to the girls.
Trust me your still in school, boys at that age are just getting their hormones, so I strongly advise for you to say away. If you need any more advice please Pm me or some thing Inshallah :)
ThisIsLong
19-06-07, 01:39 PM
Boys are [removed by moderator], they may get the wrong idea if you laugh and giggle with them, even though you yourself do not have intention to have relation ship with them, they may not see it like that.
Try and keep away from them, slowly limit your time spent talking.
Yep its haraam and wrong, ur still in skool and even tho on ur part and maybe theirz its harmless, it shuldnt be done. Belive me its not hard, just keep ur distance, cuz if u dont check urslef now what r u gonna do when u grow up and say go 2 uni??? Yh u have 2 interact with them sure, they happen 2 b in ur class, just try not do have any conversations that happen 2 b irrelavent.
*hayat*
01-07-07, 01:06 PM
salam
also is it haram to talk on msn or pm boys here on this forum asking help or just being friendly??
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