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annoymous
17-06-07, 05:10 PM
hello i was just wondering that are we allowed to talk about and joke about sex with our friends cos i know i do we do talk about it quite often
and is it haraam to keep pictures of a famous person you have a crush on

Medievalist
18-06-07, 08:38 AM
Bro men when together talk about dirty/immoral things and think that its part of being macho and part of being a man. Trust me - it isn't.

Being polite and modest in speech infront of your elders and parents aint a big thing - thats just standard. If you want to exhibit the highest of character then refrain from speaking lewdly infront of your mates - it aint easy, and it might seem uptight or rigid, but it's a beneficial and positive trait.

advice
18-06-07, 02:24 PM
it is not permissable to discuss intimate details about a husband and wife's relationship with anyone. talking about it generally is not right too as is a form of immodesty, and the issue of keeping a picture of a crush, angels do not enter a house in which there are pictures of living things.

THE PATH 2
19-06-07, 12:14 AM
hello i was just wondering that are we allowed to talk about and joke about sex with our friends cos i know i do we do talk about it quite often
and is it haraam to keep pictures of a famous person you have a crush on

this depends on youre age and personal life,school college etc

alhamdulillah the above answers are true too

but discussing with friends of the same sex is quite normal upto a certain age,also will help you to be a more rounded individual later on

remember the above posts too..

crush?..you seem like a teenager

if you are..its a normal part of growing up.
too much religious guilt laid on young muslims doesnt help too

talk to youre parents,

believe me theyve been through it all too:D

parents....talk to them:up:

and allah knows what trials youth brings up,remember:)

dhakiyya
19-06-07, 07:50 PM
^^ the above advice is good if you are talking about discussing sex in a sensible manner with others of the same gender

however making crass, crude, lews and disgusting jokes, comments etc is not the same thing, and is not appropriate behaviour for Muslims.

angel*
20-06-07, 10:25 AM
^^ the above advice is good if you are talking about discussing sex in a sensible manner with others of the same gender

however making crass, crude, lews and disgusting jokes, comments etc is not the same thing, and is not appropriate behaviour for Muslims.

Thas gr8 advice, talking about sex with the same gender shuld b ok, ur growing up, just mk sure its not crass.

great
20-06-07, 05:48 PM
i reckon you can talk about sex aslong as its with members of the same sex as you but must always remain modest infront of adults w
i know what i was like when i was a teen it happens to everyone
allah knows what your going through so dont worry about it too much

Supernova Nebula
21-06-07, 07:38 AM
hello i was just wondering that are we allowed to talk about and joke about sex with our friends cos i know i do we do talk about it quite often
and is it haraam to keep pictures of a famous person you have a crush on

there's nothing wrong if it's for educational purpose but avoid talking about it out of fun and avoid sexual innuendos, have self respect and self dignity and respect others. I find people who like to use sexual innuendos and joke about sex to be the most crass of people, shameless, and people like this are to be avoided.

Supernova Nebula
28-06-07, 05:13 AM
there's nothing wrong if it's for educational purpose but avoid talking about it out of fun and avoid sexual innuendos, have self respect and self dignity and respect others. I find people who like to use sexual innuendos and joke about sex to be the most crass of people, shameless, and people like this are to be avoided.

actually I read an article about sexual harrasment and how it is defined. there's a case somewhere in a western country where women can report to the authority where they work if they were harrassed sexually that includes being teased by their male coworkers with sexual innuendos and not only something physical. I dont knwo what are those innuendos though. This is good though, to make male workers to respect their female colleagues etc.