Help!!!Im bein serious

[1111]

Assalamu Alaykum,

Okay please do not have a go at me i cum here for help....

I have had sex with a few guys and i reall y regret it. What do i do now? It was fun at the time but i didnt realise how much of a grave sin it was until afta i had it.

what shud me do???????????????

i try and control myself now but wat bout me past?

[.: Anna :.]

wa alaykum salam..

tawba...
listen to this :) http://www.kalamullah.com/Bilal%20Assad/Bilal%20Assad%20-%20Ahmad%20The%20Repenter.mp3

[aisha2007]

Assalamu Alaykum,

Okay please do not have a go at me i cum here for help....

I have had sex with a few guys and i reall y regret it. What do i do now? It was fun at the time but i didnt realise how much of a grave sin it was until afta i had it.

what shud me do???????????????

i try and control myself now but wat bout me past?

this isnt something i think should even be discussed in open forum. Intimacy isnt a subject which should be discussed in mixed rooms.
Your past?
Ask Allah for forgiveness and move on....stop doing what you are doing... although there are a few posts the same as this one...me thinks possibly the same person.
I hope Admin remove it.

[Suliman]

Have some medical check on the sly and then look into sorting yourself out. You obviously regret what you do which is brilliant. So many people just don't care after a while.

I'm always really happy when someone that does something haram does a turn around because you get such great reward and the shaitan absolutely hate this.

So first of all, well done and like I say, get some checks done make sure your clean (even if you think so) then leave that past behind you and look into getting married. Just leave the past behind. A sin should be hidden.

Insha Allah I hope this helps.

[Rosey]

Repent.

[imported_wicked]

ask allah for forgiveness and don't do it again, inshallah u will be forgiven, plus if u didn't know it was haraam which is a surprise if u didn't i think i heard u don't get sin for it

[dhakiyya]

this isnt something i think should even be discussed in open forum. Intimacy isnt a subject which should be discussed in mixed rooms.
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This is correct as a general principle (i.e. that you don't talk about past sins, and don't discuss these issues in mixed company)

however in this case, this forum is an anonymous forum for asking Islamic advice. The person who posted this has left nothing of her identity, and has only posted it at all for the purpose of asking what she should do. Not all of us have the blessing of a good Islamic upbringing and education, and if someone didn't even know that this was a sin, then how would they know how to repent without asking.

its not possible to have this advice forum in the brother's or sister's forums as its not possible for them to be anonymous, as there is no way we can do security checks on anonymous people to make sure they really are male or female.

[stephenoskie]

We are human and we make mistakes, I get depressed about my past I have hurt myself, I am haunted by my sins but you know what I want Allahs forgiveness, You know what you have done wrong and Mashallah you are ready to change, just try and pray more often and cover your self islamically because it would stop the boys chatting to you, try and depeive your self from your previous sins, help your self and stop doing it. Inshallah Ill make dua that you get on the right path and stay on it.

[Suliman]

This is correct as a general principle (i.e. that you don't talk about past sins, and don't discuss these issues in mixed company)

however in this case, this forum is an anonymous forum for asking Islamic advice.

Exactly. Someone is putting their hand out for help and advise, sometime people just want to know someone else is there or someone has been through the same hardship and come through. Other times it's guilt and people just need to be told that everything will be ok insha Allah.

We just do what we can for each other and try not to belittle others because they do something bad. Otherwise it puts people off repenting and then we loose the chance of getting baraka for helping them.

I know full well that I haven't been the best but with the amazing support I have been given I feel a million times better. Alhumdulilah!

[T4l1ba]

Astugfir'Allah, do not let this happen again.

Imagine dying in this state :(

Control yourself, it is not hard keeping your legs closed and keeping your body to yourself. But if you find it hard, please get married.

If you safeguard your tongue and private parts Jannah is attainable InshaAllaah