My heart is burning ....

[dawa-i-dil]

These husbands want that we should remain "dependant" on them through whole life .......

they want us to remain in home... press thier clothes..cook food.. produce childs ...and thats all.....

we have no life.......we have no "freedom"....we have no "independence".... we have no "rights"......

we are educated ..we are highly skilled ...but these husbands do not like that we should exercise these qualities in practical fields......

they like that we should be put behind "bars" in homes and never ever think of a "independence".......




these are the typical responses of my dear married sisters who want to show thier educational skills in action in their future life..for better living..for good standard of life ..... but """"""MOSTLY"""" for a jubilious feelings of "independence" ... ..yes we are independent..we never look upon our husbands for Rs......we have our own pays...we have our own "bank-leased" mehran and cultus...we never missed the latest shoes design of Stylo ....we time and again visit the Bareeze for latest chicken pieces...whenever we have a mood...we just place a order for Copper and Kettle and Mirchi etc...for delicious hot chunky dinner on a cell call...yes we have money......we have our pay...we have our "own" earnings...we do not "depend" on our spouses...we are "free" ......etc etc....

but just wait for a minute.......



no one is restricting women in houses..but the most important institution of child begins at house... he learns from mother..he or she idealized her.. the roots of a child developed there...the blue print of this this impact remains on his nuerons for the rest of his whole life... but unfortunately ..in "modern" times..we have broken this greatest "institution" at home... mothers are eager to test thier qualities of education in a practical field.. fathers are are too outside home...and the next generation..which have to pillar the future of country .. now in hands of "aya" or some maid servant...thus shattering the whole concept of lap of mother is child's first school.....we have lost this school which is even better than Berkeley or Harvard or Stanford......!!!!!!!!!!!!

Read this full topic in
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?t=248169&highlight=but+we+have+ruined+our+generations...

[heaven2002]

did you not post this before a few weeks ago?

[dawa-i-dil]

i dont remeber...i always post it to different forums that to spread my message to as many people across the globe ..as i can...but point is to debate with me if you disagree..instead of saying this and that !!!

[.: Anna :.]

did you not post this before a few weeks ago?yes im sure it has been

[me.sawda]

It's women right in Islam to have her needs expenditure fulfilled by parents/ hubby.
There's nothing wrong with it. No doubt It's indeed very appreciable that an educated women is sharing her knowledge in practical field after accomplishing her duty as Mother 'n Wife and being a part of welfare to get more reward from ALLAH (swt).

[tux08902]

These husbands want that we should remain "dependant" on them through whole life .......

they want us to remain in home... press thier clothes..cook food.. produce childs ...and thats all.....

we have no life.......we have no "freedom"....we have no "independence".... we have no "rights"......

we are educated ..we are highly skilled ...but these husbands do not like that we should exercise these qualities in practical fields......

they like that we should be put behind "bars" in homes and never ever think of a "independence".......

Referring to what's in bold, isn't that proving the opposite point that husbands are dependant on their wives? And it's fine if the husband wants to provide for his wife and family, but if the wife also wants to thsare some of that burden, then there is nothing wrong with that either.

[dawa-i-dil]

It's women right in Islam to have her needs expenditure fulfilled by parents/ hubby.
There's nothing wrong with it. No doubt It's indeed very appreciable that an educated women is sharing her knowledge in practical field after accomplishing her duty as Mother 'n Wife and being a part of welfare to get more reward from ALLAH (swt).

Oho ..what a joke..should i tell you many ahadees about what prophet(pbuh) said for women coming out of house ....are you above saying of prophet(pbuh)....whenever there are no financila problems...who the hell given right to women to become show piece in bazars and markets and offices ???????????

qurans says stay in houes...and aisha(ra) used to wept bitterly until her shawl became wet with tears whenever he raeched this ayat and remebering hshe came to fight with Ali(ra) on battle of camel...

[dawa-i-dil]

Referring to what's in bold, isn't that proving the opposite point that husbands are dependant on their wives? And it's fine if the husband wants to provide for his wife and family, but if the wife also wants to thsare some of that burden, then there is nothing wrong with that either.

yes..if financial problem otherwise not....

[sunrise]

i don't get it..are you pro or against?

[dawa-i-dil]

i am against women coming out