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alld
13-06-07, 10:35 AM
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Saturday, 19, May, 2007 (02, Jumada al-Ula, 1428)


What Do Women Want From Men?
Naima Al-Ghanim • Al-Yaum —


In a local bookstore, a book titled “What Women Want Men to Know” caught my attention. It’s by Barbara De Angelis and deals with love, sex and the relationships of women and men. The author begins by addressing men, talking about the simple things they could do to make women feel more loved and stop driving their men insane.

This introduction left me a bit confused. Whose actions and treatment really drive the other insane?

The author was truly optimistic, promising to share some techniques and magical methods to nourish love between couples.

One of the crucial issues that comes as a priority to me is feeling secure. Why do women need more assurance and guarantees in a relationship than men? Why does she plan to spend the rest of her life with him? Why does she want to know what her partner feels or thinks?

The author affirms that the answer to all these questions is one. It’s considered a priority in the woman’s love agenda. She needs to feel secure in her relationship just as much as she wants to secure her food, her residence, education and health. She is in desperate need of emotional security and being affectionately appreciated and loved by her spouse. Good emotional support makes the woman more determined, disciplined and dedicated to take her natural position in society.

Feeling secure is the key to the woman’s heart, mind and spirit. When we, women, feel secure, we can express our emotions, feelings, goals and enjoy the comfort and the security. We blossom and nourish when we feel secure. I don’t think that protecting or securing a woman can be achieved by locking her up in the house or separating her from her natural needs. She needs real love, genuine words, compatibility, understanding, honesty and all sorts of physical and verbal romance.

Dear men and women, please be careful and don’t ignore each other, don’t be silent, avoid confrontation, and don’t be disrespectful of each other. Keep in mind that much of what women do that agitates and irritates men is because of their sense of insecurity.

angel*
13-06-07, 11:52 AM
Jazakllah Khair brother, now tell me wherz the "What do Men want from Women thread" :p

Eemaan
13-06-07, 11:54 AM
i want....:D

never mind :p

*best behaviour*

Fais
13-06-07, 11:55 AM
i want....:D

never mind :p

*best behaviour*

:smack:

alld
13-06-07, 11:57 AM
Jazakllah Khair brother, now tell me wherz the "What do Men want from Women thread" :p

this is my first thread on marriage topic . :D
I am still learning ;)

angel*
13-06-07, 11:58 AM
:rolleyes: uh oh do we have another Ibn Sul in the mking???? oooo cane we mk this a "i want" thread???? cuz i want ice cream!:p

looooool just messin'

ibn suleman
13-06-07, 11:59 AM
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ibn suleman
13-06-07, 12:00 PM
:rolleyes: uh oh do we have another Ibn Sul in the mking???? oooo cane we mk this a "i want" thread???? cuz i want ice cream!:p

looooool just messin'

loool and u only been here a month :smack:

angel*
13-06-07, 12:02 PM
loool and u only been here a month :smack:

looooooool i happen to be very observant!!!:p

Zesty
13-06-07, 12:02 PM
I reckon she's ripped off David Buss's "Evolution of desire." :rolleyes:

angel*
13-06-07, 12:20 PM
I reckon she's ripped off David Buss's "Evolution of desire." :rolleyes:

:scratch:

Zesty
13-06-07, 12:23 PM
:scratch:

looolll.. i studied a module called "Love and Attraction" in my final year.. needless to say i thought the majority of the course content was a joke! :D :p stupidly obvious and went round and round in circles... really did put me off becoming a relationship counsellor :p I culd have made loads of moniesss though.
David Buss is the author of a book called, "evolution of desire." He basically talks about how our feelings/emotions are inherent and its something that is natural and occuring in most species. (i.e the need to be loved, how we want love, blah blah blah).. you get the picture ;)

Although.. the colour wheels of love were hilarious :rofl1: aaahh uni days.. :o

angel*
13-06-07, 12:26 PM
looolll.. i studied a module called "Love and Attraction" in my final year.. needless to say i thought the majority of the course content was a joke! :D :p stupidly obvious and went round and round in circles... really did put me off becoming a relationship counsellor :p I culd have made loads of moniesss though.
David Buss is the author of a book called, "evolution of desire." He basically talks about how our feelings/emotions are inherent and its something that is natural and occuring in most species. (i.e the need to be loved, how we want love, blah blah blah).. you get the picture ;)

Although.. the colour wheels of love were hilarious :rofl1: aaahh uni days.. :o


so im guessing all this "Love and Attraction" thing is really only a delusion and is pointless???? just messin':p

Zesty
13-06-07, 12:28 PM
so im guessing all this "Love and Attraction" thing is really only a delusion and is pointless???? just messin':p

well erm quite frankly yes? :p lol.. we're human, we have feelings/emotions and we cant help those- love is a beautiful thing. Comes in many different forms. Aslong as its a halaal love-thats an illusion that im willing to live with ;) :p

angel*
13-06-07, 12:29 PM
well erm quite frankly yes? :p lol.. we're human, we have feelings/emotions and we cant help those- love is a beautiful thing. Comes in many different forms. Aslong as its a halaal love-thats an illusion that im willing to live with ;) :p

:inlove: * nods in agreement*

Eemaan
13-06-07, 12:39 PM
:smack:

i dint even say nuthun :(

Fais
13-06-07, 12:42 PM
i dint even say nuthun :(

Good :D .. Keep it that way :up:

angel*
13-06-07, 12:44 PM
Good :D .. Keep it that way :up:

Faisy u started mind reading or sumthing????

MG
13-06-07, 12:48 PM
What Do Women Want From Men?



jimmy choos

Zesty
13-06-07, 12:50 PM
jimmy choos

:rofl1: Amen to that sistah! :D

angel*
13-06-07, 12:51 PM
jimmy choos

ha ha ha sis lots and lots jimmy choos!!:p

MG
13-06-07, 12:51 PM
:rofl1: Ameen to that sistah! :D


ameeeeen not amen :smack: :p

Zesty
13-06-07, 12:53 PM
ameeeeen not amen :smack: :p

looooollll :p it was done on purpose! Sssoooo.. you reckon men are aware that we just want jimmu choos (i bet theyre wondering who the heck is jummy choo.. hes gona get his head kicked in) :rofl1:

seven
13-06-07, 12:54 PM
what do women want from men? everything... with a matching pair of shoes and handbag :smack:

Kal-El
13-06-07, 12:56 PM
Does anyone else find it interesting how most of these threads, if not all, are based on what women require or expect from their spouses?

MG
13-06-07, 12:57 PM
looooollll :p it was done on purpose! Sssoooo.. you reckon men are aware that we just want jimmu choos (i bet theyre wondering who the heck is jummy choo.. hes gona get his head kicked in) :rofl1:


googling it more like

Eemaan
13-06-07, 01:01 PM
Does anyone else find it interesting how most of these threads, if not all, are based on what women require or expect from their spouses?


yup interesting but lets carry on :D

i want some lipgloss :D no cheap tat please.

Thank you.

angel*
13-06-07, 01:03 PM
what do women want from men? everything... with a matching pair of shoes and handbag :smack:

:up: yep!!!

ha ha bet jimmy'z gonna get loadsa buisness now! think we shuld throw in a good word for D&G? heard they gotta killa summer range!

Kal-El
13-06-07, 01:04 PM
Maybe women and specifically those who want so much from a potential spouse, are like that to hide their own sense of lackings :rolleyes:

Zesty
13-06-07, 01:06 PM
Maybe women and specifically those who want so much from a potential spouse, are like that to hide their own sense of lackings :rolleyes:


You could be on to something ya know! :D :rolleyes:
Anywaayy back to banal talk... as always..

Eemaan
13-06-07, 01:06 PM
realistically i expect very litte from husband.

maaaaaaan hes gonne be one lucky buff beardo *sigh*

angel*
13-06-07, 01:08 PM
Maybe women and specifically those who want so much from a potential spouse, are like that to hide their own sense of lackings :rolleyes:


Mmmm such as???? *looks around* :outta:

Kal-El
13-06-07, 01:08 PM
There's a saying that goes, those who seek the perfect man often forget that he is seeking the perfect woman. So if that aint you, you need not apply :up:

angel*
13-06-07, 01:09 PM
realistically i expect very litte from husband.

Rightly said we dont have MASSIVE expectations when it cumz to hubby'z existant or non-exsistant,u men just think like that.............:outta:


maaaaaaan hes gonne be one lucky buff beardo *sigh*


Ohhh yh very lucky!:inlove:

Zesty
13-06-07, 01:11 PM
realistically i expect very litte from husband.

maaaaaaan hes gonne be one lucky buff beardo *sigh*

:rofl1: i love you eemaaannyyy :D Ameen to the buff beardo! *cough*

Abu Mus'ab
13-06-07, 01:16 PM
looooollll :p it was done on purpose! Sssoooo.. you reckon men are aware that we just want jimmu choos (i bet theyre wondering who the heck is jummy choo.. hes gona get his head kicked in) :rofl1:
*ahem* i was wondering who or what is a jimmy choo *Roll Eyes*

Kal-El
13-06-07, 01:17 PM
Shoe brand

seven
13-06-07, 01:17 PM
what do men want from women? peace, quiet and going out occasionally that does not involve bringing their wallets!

Kal-El
13-06-07, 01:18 PM
what do men want from women? peace, quiet and going out occationally that does not involve bringing their wallets!

We only get that in Heaven, didn't you know? This life on this world is a prison and a test for mankind. Emphasis on the "man".

Abu Mus'ab
13-06-07, 01:19 PM
i dint even say nuthun :(
But we already knew what you would say had you said it *Roll Eyes*

Zesty
13-06-07, 01:19 PM
*ahem* i was wondering who or what is a jimmy choo *Roll Eyes*

Aaahh Abu Musab bro.. you peaceful soul :) Jimmy choo is probably some fat old balding man who entices women with his ridiculously expensive shoes.. that make a woman feel.. like cinderella at the ball (till reality hits i mean).

yeh... i hate that man.

Fais
13-06-07, 01:20 PM
We only get that in Heaven, didn't you know? This life on this world is a prison and a test for mankind. Emphasis on the "man".


LOL, thats funny actually.

seven
13-06-07, 01:21 PM
men will never buy jimmy choos for their wives coz after they get the shoes, next will be a brand new fitted kitchen :smack:

MG
13-06-07, 01:21 PM
:up: yep!!!

ha ha bet jimmy'z gonna get loadsa buisness now! think we shuld throw in a good word for D&G? heard they gotta killa summer range!


D&G? no gays please *vomit*

angel*
13-06-07, 01:22 PM
what do men want from women? peace, quiet and going out occasionally that does not involve bringing their wallets!

:up:




We only get that in Heaven, didn't you know? This life on this world is a prison and a test for mankind. Emphasis on the "man".



:smack: we just like to keep u guyz on ur toes hence the we want this and we want that routine......relax bro we aint kid'z..........well not all the time:p

Zesty
13-06-07, 01:23 PM
men will never buy jimmy choos for their wives coz after they get the shoes, next will be a brand new fitted kitchen :smack:

ooohhhh new fitted kitchen *adds that to the list* :p

angel*
13-06-07, 01:23 PM
Aaahh Abu Musab bro.. you peaceful soul :) Jimmy choo is probably some fat old balding man who entices women with his ridiculously expensive shoes.. that make a woman feel.. like cinderella at the ball (till reality hits i mean).

yeh... i hate that man.

:smack: Zesty sweetie the person behind Jimmy choo is actaully a woman!!!!

Eemaan
13-06-07, 01:24 PM
But we already knew what you would say had you said it *Roll Eyes*

i dunno what yer talking about :o

Zesty
13-06-07, 01:25 PM
:smack: Zesty sweetie the person behind Jimmy choo is actaully a woman!!!!

Serioussssss! :rofl1: yeh.. i hate that woman! :D (i dont own jimmy choos as you can tell.. but i sure as hell will when theres a husband on the scene.. and his nice big fat wallet- hubba hubba) :D

Kal-El
13-06-07, 01:25 PM
:up:






:smack: we just like to keep u guyz on ur toes hence the we want this and we want that routine......relax bro we aint kid'z..........well not all the time:p

:p The funny thing is that you ALL know you won't probably get what you want in husbands

Thats why you all get excited listing the things and talking about it. It's like some dream coming true on paper :D

Enjoy

angel*
13-06-07, 01:27 PM
:p The funny thing is that you ALL know you won't probably get what you want in husbands

Thats why you all get excited listing the things and talking about it. It's like some dream coming true on paper :D

Enjoy


ha ha ha bro most of like thinking about our non-existant hubby'z & their massive non-existant wallets!!!!!:p

Abu Mus'ab
13-06-07, 01:29 PM
i dunno what yer talking about :o
It has summat to do with your user title *Roll Eyes*

angel*
13-06-07, 01:29 PM
Serioussssss! :rofl1: yeh.. i hate that woman! :D (i dont own jimmy choos as you can tell.. but i sure as hell will when theres a husband on the scene.. and his nice big fat wallet- hubba hubba) :D

looooooool 4rgt husbands manipulate ur big bro with that gowjess smile :p works like a charm!!!

Kal-El
13-06-07, 01:30 PM
Maybe you should take this to your private section? We dont want any casualties of crushed spirits and hopes of the brothers.

angel*
13-06-07, 01:32 PM
Maybe you should take this to your private section? We dont want any casualties of crushed spirits and hopes of the brothers.

Whaaaaaa? this culd be very beneficial 4 sum ya know!:p

Eemaan
13-06-07, 01:32 PM
It has summat to do with your user title *Roll Eyes*

oh that old think *waves hand* ive had it for years, its not a gender specific comment, just a helpful nudge to all the kebab bellied folk out there with more wobble than wibble :(

Abu Mus'ab
13-06-07, 01:59 PM
oh that old think *waves hand* ive had it for years, its not a gender specific comment, just a helpful nudge to all the kebab bellied folk out there with more wobble than wibble :(
ai hai :smack:

I was meaning that you were gonna say something like how you paraphrased faislu yesterday from the question thread (think "6" *Roll Eyes*)

Eemaan
13-06-07, 02:02 PM
ai hai :smack:

I was meaning that you were gonna say something like how you paraphrased faislu yesterday from the question thread (think "6" *Roll Eyes*)

we were jus talking about the sunnah :embar:

:fairy:

ur_yusra
13-06-07, 02:19 PM
An ounce of decency would be nice.

ibn suleman
13-06-07, 02:44 PM
:smack: i thought a jimmy choo..was like one of these chew bar things :embar:

and was like :eek: that's all women want :p

http://img511.imageshack.us/img511/8308/refresherchewbarmega200nj2.jpg

souljaa
13-06-07, 02:46 PM
:smack: i thought a jimmy choo..was like one of these chew bar things :embar:

and was like :eek: that's all women want :p

http://img511.imageshack.us/img511/8308/refresherchewbarmega200nj2.jpg

:smack: Ai hai mai khuddar jai...Plus i think ^^^ them are haraam :p

You are joking right? :rubeyes:

Eemaan
13-06-07, 02:47 PM
being the low maintenace gal i am, id be perfectly happy with refreshers :love: oh how i used to love them

:smack: i thought a jimmy choo..was like one of these chew bar things :embar:

and was like :eek: that's all women want :p

http://img511.imageshack.us/img511/8308/refresherchewbarmega200nj2.jpg

Zesty
13-06-07, 02:48 PM
mmmm refreshers! think theyre haraam though :( aahh childhood memoriess...

Abu Mus'ab
13-06-07, 02:49 PM
:smack: i thought a jimmy choo..was like one of these chew bar things :embar:

and was like :eek: that's all women want :p

http://img511.imageshack.us/img511/8308/refresherchewbarmega200nj2.jpg
:rotfl: what are we gonna do with you ibn sully? :p

souljaa
13-06-07, 02:50 PM
:rotfl: what are we gonna do with you ibn sully? :p

Lol that :p icon does SO not suit you :rotfl:

ibn suleman
13-06-07, 02:51 PM
:smack: Ai hai mai khuddar jai...Plus i think ^^^ them are haraam :p

You are joking right? :rubeyes:

are they haraam...maybe its the wham bars that we're allowed to eat.

no..:o..how am i supposed to know abt womens shoo brands :p

being the low maintenace gal i am, id be perfectly happy with refreshers :love: oh how i used to love them

lool..:D

souljaa
13-06-07, 02:53 PM
are they haraam...maybe its the wham bars that we're allowed to eat.

no..:o..how am i supposed to know abt womens shoo brands :p



lool..:D

Them lil 10p wham bars were the shizzle back in the days :afro:

:smack: Everyone knows jimmy choo shooos...Ok not everyone but still...Every londener must have heard of jimmy choos lol

ibn suleman
13-06-07, 02:55 PM
Them lil 10p wham bars were the shizzle back in the days :afro:

:smack: Everyone knows jimmy choo shooos...Ok not everyone but still...Every londener must have heard of jimmy choos lol

:embar:..they make "lanky larry" chewy sweets..so why not jimmy choo...<that was my reasoning

souljaa
13-06-07, 02:58 PM
:embar:..they make "lanky larry" chewy sweets..so why not jimmy choo...<that was my reasoning

Lol lanky larry? :rotfl:

Zesty
13-06-07, 02:59 PM
:embar:..they make "lanky larry" chewy sweets..so why not jimmy choo...<that was my reasoning

:eek3: where on earth do you buy your sweets from?!!?

souljaa
13-06-07, 03:00 PM
:eek3: where on earth do you buy your sweets from?!!?

The patel corner shop :D

ibn suleman
13-06-07, 03:01 PM
Lol lanky larry? :rotfl:

yeh look..towards the bottom :D
http://www.brackenbankstores.co.uk/acatalog/McCowans_Products.html

Zesty
13-06-07, 03:01 PM
The patel corner shop :D

:rofl1: :rofl1: *cough*

ibn suleman
13-06-07, 03:02 PM
:eek3: where on earth do you buy your sweets from?!!?

who said anything abt buying :D


The patel corner shop :D

looool :rotfl:

souljaa
13-06-07, 03:05 PM
yeh look..towards the bottom :D
http://www.brackenbankstores.co.uk/acatalog/McCowans_Products.html

:smack:

Zesty
13-06-07, 03:07 PM
:smack:

yeh i know... he has too much time on his hands :p
Will you please tell irfu to lay off the wannabe muscle man mission :rolleyes:

souljaa
13-06-07, 03:08 PM
yeh i know... he has too much time on his hands :p
Will you please tell irfu to lay off the wannabe muscle man mission :rolleyes:

I dunno who he is...:outta:

Zesty
13-06-07, 03:09 PM
I dunno who he is...:outta:

:rofl1: thats right...

Abu Mus'ab
13-06-07, 03:10 PM
Lol that :p icon does SO not suit you :rotfl:
*ahem* i know :outta:

souljaa
13-06-07, 03:11 PM
:rofl1: thats right...

Lol i jork...But it's gotta be done...Like Eemaan said...6 pack is sunnah :rotfl:

Zesty
13-06-07, 03:13 PM
Lol i jork...But it's gotta be done...Like Eemaan said...6 pack is sunnah :rotfl:

:rofl1: buff beardo with a sunnah 6 pack?!! aahh shess tooo funnyyy :D
Yeh well he cant bench 100 and hes gona break his back.. and he's only wee lickle kid so tell him to go easy :rolleyes:

souljaa
13-06-07, 03:14 PM
:rofl1: buff beardo with a sunnah 6 pack?!! aahh shess tooo funnyyy :D
Yeh well he cant bench 100 and hes gona break his back.. and he's only wee lickle kid so tell him to go easy :rolleyes:

:rubeyes::rubeyes::rubeyes:

LFC
13-06-07, 03:18 PM
100kg!!! :eek: Have you lot tried it?! Kills!

Zesty
13-06-07, 03:19 PM
100kg!!! :eek: Have you lot tried it?! Kills!

:rofl1: loooolll was wondering how long it would take you :p
yeh but you can even manage 35 man :smack: (heres me hoping i have the right weights in my mind).

souljaa
13-06-07, 03:21 PM
:rofl1: loooolll was wondering how long it would take you :p
yeh but you can even manage 35 man :smack: (heres me hoping i have the right weights in my mind).

:icon_offtopic:

Zesty
13-06-07, 03:23 PM
:icon_offtopic:

whaa.. well technically no.. cos apparently women want big muscley 6pack (in line with the sunnah) men :p
Anyway,, this article.. going back to the topic in hand.. is the same old tripe being repeated yet again.

souljaa
13-06-07, 03:24 PM
whaa.. well technically no.. cos apparently women want big muscley 6pack (in line with the sunnah) men :p
Anyway,, this article.. going back to the topic in hand.. is the same old tripe being repeated yet again.

I haven't read the article :embar:

Zesty
13-06-07, 03:26 PM
I haven't read the article :embar:

lol! and youre on this threaD?! how dare you :p (dont bother... its just sayin woman want jimmy choo shoes and lots of chocolate... i reckon you know that already though huh) loolll :D

souljaa
13-06-07, 03:29 PM
lol! and youre on this threaD?! how dare you :p (dont bother... its just sayin woman want jimmy choo shoes and lots of chocolate... i reckon you know that already though huh) loolll :D

No comment

Zesty
13-06-07, 03:30 PM
No comment

Such a wiseee fool :D

souljaa
13-06-07, 03:33 PM
Such a wiseee fool :D

Jesty Jesty :smack:

Related to the topic...Westernized women want men with big fat wallets and nice cars preferably a F430 and a LP640 (nice choice:coolbro:) ...Deeni women want men who are strong on the deen and fear Allah 24/7, not just on the weekends.

Zesty
13-06-07, 03:40 PM
Jesty Jesty :smack:

Related to the topic...Westernized women want men with big fat wallets and nice cars preferably a F430 and a LP640 (nice choice:coolbro:) ...Deeni women want men who are strong on the deen and fear Allah 24/7, not just on the weekends.

yesh yesh,
hhmm quite a nice bit of analysis going on there :p deeni women dont want big fat wallets and the cars? pfftt.. i dunnae believeeee it! :p

souljaa
13-06-07, 03:42 PM
yesh yesh,
hhmm quite a nice bit of analysis going on there :p deeni women dont want big fat wallets and the cars? pfftt.. i dunnae believeeee it! :p

They don't...Real muslimahs who aren't westernized aren't interested in the
materialistic things such as money and cars rather they strive to seek the pleasures of the Hereafter.

Zesty
13-06-07, 03:44 PM
They don't...Real muslimahs who aren't westernized aren't interested in the
materialistic things such as money and cars rather they strive to seek the pleasures of the Hereafter.

:) i know souljaa.. im just messing with you. On a serious note, a muslimah to whom this duniyah and everything in it means nothing and is only wanting to strive for the Aakhira knows precisely the lack of importance of materialistic things. SubhanAllah, we came with nothing and we will go with nothing. All this fancy stuff will mean nothing and does mean nothing :)

angel*
13-06-07, 03:51 PM
:smack: i thought a jimmy choo..was like one of these chew bar things :embar:

and was like :eek: that's all women want :p

http://img511.imageshack.us/img511/8308/refresherchewbarmega200nj2.jpg

:smack: i kinda get y u aint married yet!:p

Aquarious
13-06-07, 04:02 PM
:salams
You are very right brother. That's what most women want to know that they are LOVED, VALUED AND RESPECTED. That's the basic they want. If you husbands just tell ur wife u love them care for them and respect them, then they will be happy. You obviously have to reflect on what u say. So if u respect them say it and show it. If u love them say it and show it. If you value them say it and show it. You have to say it and show it.
Then the wife know u are sincere.
Good post
Jazzakallahu Khair:up:

algharib
13-06-07, 04:05 PM
WHAT DO WOMEN WANT FROM MEN? One thing they despise is Polygamy,because it is the hardest thing for a woman to accept.

ibn suleman
13-06-07, 04:06 PM
:smack: i kinda get y u aint married yet!:p

no..its cos im not married..i didnt know :coolbro:

Abu Mus'ab
13-06-07, 04:07 PM
100kg!!! :eek: Have you lot tried it?! Kills!
Yeah that'd probably kill ya, 40-50kg is fine :up:

angel*
13-06-07, 04:11 PM
WHAT DO WOMEN WANT FROM MEN? Polygamy is ONE, but there are more...

:eek3:


Yeah that'd probably kill ya, 40-50kg is
fine :up:

ya talking from exp. ????? :scratch:

LFC
13-06-07, 04:14 PM
Yeah that'd probably kill ya, 40-50kg is fine :up:

Tell Zesty that :rolleyes: ;)

Zesty
13-06-07, 04:18 PM
Tell Zesty that :rolleyes: ;)

:hidban: chup kar farm boy! :p looooll.. go out some gel in your hair or something! looooll

Abu Mus'ab
13-06-07, 04:22 PM
:eek3:




ya talking from exp. ????? :scratch:
who wants ta know? :eek3:

LFC
13-06-07, 04:24 PM
:hidban: chup kar farm boy! :p looooll.. go out some gel in your hair or something! looooll

Your hijab's STILL in the wash? Is that how much you smeeeellll? :p ;)

Zesty
13-06-07, 04:25 PM
Your hijab's STILL in the wash? Is that how much you smeeeellll? :p ;)

Whateverr irfffuuu :p better than the skanky smell of your gel :rolleyes:

LFC
13-06-07, 04:26 PM
Whateverr irfffuuu :p better than the skanky smell of your gel :rolleyes:

What gel? It's all Indian coconut oil now. :D

Not really!!!!!!!!

Abu Mus'ab
13-06-07, 04:28 PM
Tell Zesty that :rolleyes: ;)
me thinks she might be confusing 100kgs for 100grams :outta:

Abu Mus'ab
13-06-07, 04:29 PM
What gel? It's all Indian coconut oil now. ;)

Not a wonder you smell like a mango :smack:

angel*
13-06-07, 04:41 PM
Not a wonder you smell like a mango :smack:

O......k.............. did not wanna know dat! :p

alld
13-06-07, 04:46 PM
WHAT DO WOMEN WANT FROM MEN? One thing they despise is Polygamy,because it is the hardest thing for a woman to accept.

If it was in their hands(sisters) they woudn't allow their husbands 2nd marriage even over their dead bodies ( presumed ) :o

LFC
13-06-07, 04:47 PM
How can I smell like a mango when I put coconut oil? :scratch: (well I don't really)

And editing my edit Abu? Cheeky monkeh. ;)

alld
13-06-07, 04:48 PM
:salams
You are very right brother. That's what most women want to know that they are LOVED, VALUED AND RESPECTED. That's the basic they want. If you husbands just tell ur wife u love them care for them and respect them, then they will be happy. You obviously have to reflect on what u say. So if u respect them say it and show it. If u love them say it and show it. If you value them say it and show it. You have to say it and show it.
Then the wife know u are sincere.
Good post
Jazzakallahu Khair:up:

:wswrwb:

:jkk: :up:

alld
13-06-07, 04:54 PM
Not a wonder you smell like a mango :smack:

like a dasserri it smells great . even smell of alphonso , langda or a sufeda is equally great and could be presented .

alld
13-06-07, 05:03 PM
How can I smell like a mango when I put coconut oil? :scratch: (well I don't really)

And editing my edit Abu? Cheeky monkeh. ;)

aam ras and nariyal paani are two different things . :smack:

`asiya
13-06-07, 05:06 PM
:salams
You are very right brother. That's what most women want to know that they are LOVED, VALUED AND RESPECTED. That's the basic they want. If you husbands just tell ur wife u love them care for them and respect them, then they will be happy. You obviously have to reflect on what u say. So if u respect them say it and show it. If u love them say it and show it. If you value them say it and show it. You have to say it and show it.
Then the wife know u are sincere.
Good post
Jazzakallahu Khair:up:

:wswrwb: :up: wa iyakki amin.

and someone to carry the heavy stuff, and take the rubbish out :outta:

Eemaan
13-06-07, 05:42 PM
Lol i jork...But it's gotta be done...Like Eemaan said...6 pack is sunnah :rotfl:

*loud cough* i never said that!!!! :embar:

faisy implied it i just went :shock: and :eek:

:D

100kg!!! :eek: Have you lot tried it?! Kills!

where? where? who can bench 100kg :eek: who is he? where? :eek:

Yeah that'd probably kill ya, 40-50kg is fine :up:

tskk, childs play

*leaves* :zzz:

LFC
13-06-07, 06:41 PM
where? where? who can bench 100kg :eek: who is he? where? :eek:


I tried it today :D

DIdn't work :p

heaven2002
13-06-07, 07:31 PM
being the low maintenace gal i am, id be perfectly happy with refreshers :love: oh how i used to love them

god id forgotten all about them
'be my friend'
'youre a star'
'kiss me'
'have another'

we used to share them out at mosque under the bench till we got told haraam

souljaa
13-06-07, 09:48 PM
:hidban: chup kar farm boy! :p looooll.. go out some gel in your hair or something! looooll

Proper Yorkshire hater :mad:

Suliman
13-06-07, 10:03 PM
i want....:D

never mind :p

*best behaviour*

CHIPS! CHIPS! CHIPS!....................and beans!

Muslim Online
13-06-07, 10:51 PM
Happiness, love, patience, respect, 'n understanding. Also men and women want emotional and physical satisfaction.