Be Strong! Control Your Anger!

[Zaid the Great]

A lot of us get angry over trivial things.
That's not good.:inlove:
Try to control your anger. Please.

The three way's shown in the ahaadeeth to control you temper and anger are the following.:

1) To say ta'awudh because anger is from the shaytaan.

2) To do wudu or drink water.

3) To sit or lie down on the floor.

It has been narrated by Abu Huraira (May Allah be pleased with him) That Allah's Messenger Muhammad ( :saw: ) Said:
“ The strong is not the one who over comes the people by his strength”
"But the strong is the one who controls him while in anger."

The Prophet SAW also said:
"Shake hands and resentment will disappear. Give gifts to each other and love each other and enmity will disappear".

[Zaid the Great]

"If any of you becomes angry and he is standing, let him sit down, so his anger will go away; if it does not go away, let him lie down."
Imam Ahmad's Musnad

:inlove:

[Abu Mus'ab]

A lot of us get angry over trivial things.
That's not good.:inlove:
Try to control your anger. Please.

Easier said than done *Roll Eyes*

[alld]

A lot of us get angry over trivial things.
That's not good.:inlove:
Try to control your anger. Please.

The three way's shown in the ahaadeeth to control you temper and anger are the following.:

1) To say ta'awudh because anger is from the shaytaan.

2) To do wudu or drink water.

3) To sit or lie down on the floor.

It has been narrated by Abu Huraira (May Allah be pleased with him) That Allah's Messenger Muhammad ( :saw: ) Said:
“ The strong is not the one who over comes the people by his strength”
"But the strong is the one who controls him while in anger."

The Prophet SAW also said:
"Shake hands and resentment will disappear. Give gifts to each other and love each other and enmity will disappear".

:jkk: :up:

This one is very good reminder especially for the poeple here on the forum or even otherwise .

Masalama .

[alld]

Easier said than done *Roll Eyes*

The first step is to acknowledge that there are ways to control the anger in an Islamic manner though I know you don't get angry easily :)

[Abu Mus'ab]

The first step is to acknowledge that there are ways to control the anger in an Islamic manner though I know you don't get angry easily :)
on the contrary, i lose my temper over the smallest things *Roll Eyes*

[ur_yusra]

:jkk:

[jinokhanum]

:salams :jkk:
i'm always getting angry, but i never seem to find a solution,

[RAJMIN]

i dnt get angry that often, well at least i think i dnt..

[Zaid the Great]

i dnt get angry that often, well at least i think i dnt..

neither do I....
:o :D

[jinokhanum]

Lucky You

[RaNdOm]

i dnt get angry that often, well at least i think i dnt..

:salams

i get angry at pathetic dumb stuff which makes me even more angry cos i get so angry that im gettin angry when i shudnt be angry :mad: :torture:

[alld]

:salams

i get angry at pathetic dumb stuff which makes me even more angry cos i get so angry that im gettin angry when i shudnt be angry :mad: :torture:

:)

[Abu Mus'ab]

:salams

i get angry at pathetic dumb stuff which makes me even more angry cos i get so angry that im gettin angry when i shudnt be angry :mad: :torture:
:rotfl:

but for how long can/do you stay angry? *scratch head*

[Le Croyant]

I get angry very quickly, serious anger management problem.

I have stopped watching news, that helps me a lil bit.

But I can't do much abt slow drivers & stupid ppl.

[RaNdOm]

I get angry very quickly, serious anger management problem.

I have stopped watching news, that helps me a lil bit.

But I can't do much abt slow drivers & stupid ppl.

:salams

lol sometimes its funny when people get angry... :o

but sumtimes it reveals their inner true evil selves and its like woah :rubeyes:

[Reptile]

I start singing when im about to lose my temper,

[Mujaheedah]

I start singing when im about to lose my temper,
:rotfl:what kind of songs?

[Reptile]

:salams

lol sometimes its funny when people get angry... :o

but sumtimes it reveals their inner true evil selves and its like woah :rubeyes:

Thats like me, no one ever suspects I have a really bad temper,

[Reptile]

:rotfl:what kind of songs?

anything, i make a song out of it, i tend to make up the words, sing it in a high pitched voice, an move around, then i just forget it, n carry on

[Mujaheedah]

delete

[RaNdOm]

anything, i make a song out of it, i tend to make up the words, sing it in a high pitched voice, an move around, then i just forget it, n carry on

:salams

loooool joker, next time i see ima try makin u angry :D i just start goin arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh :mad: ....which after u calm down can be pretty embarassin in public... which is why i decided inshaAllah ima have a scream room in ma house... which is all soundproof and i can go in all :55: and walk out all :inlove:

[Reptile]

lol if people laugh at you does it make you more angry?

i rarely lose my temper with people outside my home, n if im about to i just walk away n make the funny sounds n clenched my fist

but at home is where i do all the singing to be honest no one cares then

[Zaid the Great]

I smile when I get angry :S then say something really rude or weird..:outta:
yes yes.. really weird i know....

[Mujaheedah]

i rarely lose my temper with people outside my home, n if im about to i just walk away n make the funny sounds n clenched my fist

but at home is where i do all the singing to be honest no one cares then
yeah that sounds good, It really does depend on the situation that makes you angry though. I don't do funny sounds but I do sometimes clench my fists. I learned that when you get into an argument it's best to stay calm, makes the other person very angry.

[angel*]

:scratch: iv been told therz sumthing reallly wrong with me cuz i never get angry even when i shuld, woth me its more like annoyed-frustrated max. gotta do sumthing about it tho cuz sumtimes i think ppl tend to take advantage of that fact at times.:(

[Le Croyant]

:salams

lol sometimes its funny when people get angry... :o

but sumtimes it reveals their inner true evil selves and its like woah :rubeyes:


true... but we do feel guilty when we cool down.

Being a Saudi, I can't do much abt not hatin on slow drivers. I m not sure how I m gonna handle when they allow women to drive, more slow drivers. arghhhhhhhhh

[K h a l i l]

I dont usually show my anger.. well.. I do.. but no1 realises..

Because what I do.. Is act as if Im PRETENDING to be angry.. so that whoever angered me just laughs about it.. and that usually helps me gain control of myslef.

[nami]

nothing difficult about controlling your anger when you can't show your emotions. its more difficult to actually "show" you're angry, or upset...

[Abu Mus'ab]

nothing difficult about controlling your anger when you can't show your emotions. its more difficult to actually "show" you're angry, or upset...
Quite the oppsite for me, i frown kinda like this thing >> :mad: << so much so that my face gets stuck like that after i calm down :outta:

[nami]

Quite the oppsite for me, i frown kinda like this thing >> :mad: << so much so that my face gets stuck like that after i calm down :outta:

lol thats some major frowning. i wonder whats worse, becoming angry too often, or not being able to show your anger at all?

[Abu Mus'ab]

lol thats some major frowning. i wonder whats worse, becoming angry too often, or not being able to show your anger at all?
Nam saying man :outta:

Well i'd say it's better to not be able to show your anger than to get angry often.

[nami]

Nam saying man :outta:

Well i'd say it's better to not be able to show your anger than to get angry often.

hmmm, but what if all that anger builds up over the years and you suddenly pop... is it not better to release it every now and again? :scratch:

[Abu Mus'ab]

hmmm, but what if all that anger builds up over the years and you suddenly pop... is it not better to release it every now and again? :scratch:
I'd advise you to rather get a punch bag and hit it when you're angry :up:

[nami]

I'd advise you to rather get a punch bag and hit it when you're angry :up:

amazing idea! :up:

[Zaid the Great]

amazing idea! :up:

jus smile:D show people ur yellow teeth...

[bint]

true... but we do feel guilty when we cool down.

Being a Saudi, I can't do much abt not hatin on slow drivers. I m not sure how I m gonna handle when they allow women to drive, more slow drivers. arghhhhhhhhh
:eek3:

girlsss where aree yaa??? :torture:

[Eemaan]

:eek3:

girlsss where aree yaa??? :torture:

im a slow driver :embar:

i dont do 5th gear and i get all :crying2: when some beefed up lady boy comes and over takes me :(

[bint]

im a slow driver :embar:

i dont do 5th gear and i get all :crying2: when some beefed up lady boy comes and over takes me :(
oh gosh eeemz, no waysss :torture:

[nami]

jus smile:D show people ur yellow teeth...

even better idea! :D

[Zaid the Great]

even better idea! :D

thats wat i do.... however, the smile is usually accompanied by a swear word :outta: :S as every1 here knows... I'm weird so the reaction suits me....:)

[K h a l i l]

thats wat i do.... however, the smile is usually accompanied by a swear word :outta: :S as every1 here knows... I'm weird so the reaction suits me....:)

It works!! People turn away out of disgust.. but only because of the smile.. not the swear word... ;)

[nami]

It works!! People turn away out of disgust.. but only because of the smile.. not the swear word... ;)

the power of yellow teeth! :D