Help.....

[a...sister]

salaams

i wanted to ask how do you make people dislike you without changing yourself?
:crying:

[Zaid the Great]

Why would you want anybody to dislike you??

Please elaborate....

[RashidD]

I'm not sure of what you mean...? You want to make someone dislike you?

[RashidD]

I'm not sure what you mean, you want to make someone dislike you?

[another sister]

Let me tell you something i told someone not long ago, every person is different, that is what makes an individual special. Not everyone in the world gets on with each other and if there is a specific reason you want people to like you or dislike you then you shouldnt change for anyone.
If people dont get on with you because of you being you or get on with you too much, then its their problem, you cant do anything about it and you arent exactly asking for this to happen to you.
Make lots of duaa, sister, and insh`Allah, i shall keep you in mine. It sounds as if you are going through a hard time, so just remember Allah does not burden his believer more than he can bear, Allah is testing your faith and He will give you the courage and strength to overcome your difficulties keeping your faith strong, insh`Allah.

[Unregisteredyep]

salaams

i wanted to ask how do you make people dislike you without changing yourself?
:crying:

erm, kick them somewhere it hurts? :S

I think you have to be a bit more specific than that.

[helpfuladvice]

salaams

i wanted to ask how do you make people dislike you without changing yourself?
:crying:

Perhaps advice would be better if you could tell us a bit about yourself and what aspects you do not wish to compremise or change?

For instance, I do not know whether or not it would change you to be rude.
Neither do I know if being bold and assertive would be a change for you.

It might also be useful to understand the relationship of this individual whom you wish to make dislike you.
Do they display affection for you and you do not wish to return it?
Are they perhaps simplyt overly friendly with you and you are not so open to being friendly in return?

See, the problem I have in understanding your question is WHY you would want someone/anyone to Dislike you.

Until the readers of this forum understand this, how can you expect assistance of any merit?

[sada]

salaams

i wanted to ask how do you make people dislike you without changing yourself?
:crying:

I'm sure of my worried sister(uhtii) is thinking of somebodies or her enviroment who can't accept her.it may be religional or life style,but my sister!I understand you import them and you are able to accept them how they are.It shows that your heart and mind are merciful.you ONLY share of this MERCİFUL YOU AND İTS OWNER.I wish for you İNŞİRAH.

[sada]

assalamualayka ya uhtii,I'm sure of my worried sister is thinking of somebodies don't like her cause of she is only she.But I understand you import them and so this position sorries you.If you are able to accept them with their belief,character or life style,it sows that your heart and mind are merciful.you only share of this beauty owns you in you and go on praying RAHMAN owner of all heart and all mind.ENŞERAH with you...