Spending time with your wife

[myself]

Assalam-Alaikum,
What do you understand about the term 'spending time with your wife'?

How does one 'spend time with the wife' or is is it just being at home with the kids/family? :(

May be sisters could contribute too...:o

:jkk:

[ur_yusra]

:wswrwb:

Spending time with her is to hold an intellectual conversation with her and just talk about general things. Maybe take her out, go away on holiday etc.. I don't think it's brain science.

[shamson]

It could be just talking about your day and listen to her even if your not interested in the subject, reading something beneficial together, taking her out (without the kids if possible). Making her feel wanted and important even though she is very important without all the above it's nice to know that husbands make the effort:)

[.: Anna :.]

it doesnt just mean being at home, as u could b at home but doing all ur own whatever u want to do, like reading something n ignoring her, watching tv and ignoring, in a dif room relaxing while she is doing some stuff etc...
it means u have 2 spend time interacting with her in a nice way... its mainly about talking, also taking her places or doing stuff just the two of u

[Eemaan]

:wswrwb:

Spending time with her is to hold an intellectual conversation with her and just talk about general things. Maybe take her out, go away on holiday etc.. I don't think it's brain science.

talk about wishful thinking :rubeyes:

:(

[nami]

How are you supposed to have an intellectual convo if you're not intellectual? :(

Or your wife is too intellectual compared to you?

[.: Anna :.]

convos dont all have 2 b intellectual, u can talk about whatever things u both enjoy 2 talk about. some couples probably like 2 talk all about politics or science or intellectual things, some people talk on a slightly more simpler level. just talk in the way u prefer, if u dnt feel intellectual no need 2 force it

[nami]

convos dont all have 2 b intellectual, u can talk about whatever things u both enjoy 2 talk about. some couples probably like 2 talk all about politics or science or intellectual things, some people talk on a slightly more simpler level. just talk in the way u prefer, if u dnt feel intellectual no need 2 force it

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[Eemaan]

women are usually more intellectumal

get used to it nami :D

[nami]

women are usually more intellectumal

get used to it nami :D

everyone is more intellectual than me, i'm already used to it :p

[Kal-El]

Lol @ first post. What next - "How to respond to the one called 'wife'?"

[ghanamuslima]

spending time with her is having time alone with her away from kids etc.

[alld]

spending time with her is having time alone with her away from kids etc.

you seem to be married and understanding the topic much better coz wives may complain that husbands are spending too much time with childrens .

[XRUHYX]

Assalam-Alaikum,
What do you understand about the term 'spending time with your wife'?

How does one 'spend time with the wife' or is is it just being at home with the kids/family? :(

May be sisters could contribute too...:o

:jkk:


Spending time together means doing things together which you both enjoy, making some time to sit together in a park or at home or wherever and not being stuck to the regular cores, just taking a break from your regular rituals and enjoying the time together really from my understanding.

If you have kids, get someone to look after them and if your living with in law's then go out and spend the time together away from them. Just two of you being alone together :)

[muslim_sis]

spending time together, is time that u do things together, go out, take break from the kids, are alone.. its time that u take out to be together.

[sunrise]

let things come naturally..trust me one thing sisters 'Hate!!' is when someone tries 2 b fake..just be urself and take care of each other inshAllah

[angel*]

Haveing just "us" time, where u take her 4 diner, or do sumthing nice 4 her just to show that ur thinking about her and love her.

[PiElle]

when you spend money, you give away your money on something.... so when you spend time with your wife... you give away your time to her... so spend it wisely and you'll feel the time you spend together is worthwhile... ;)

[junaidb]

its all about communication, communication and more communication.

also its about you letting her be herself...being a wife, mom, queen of the castle, sister, Mualima, and all the different roles she plays in her daily life, takes alot on our beloved sisters and wives.

sending sms's whilst away when u thinking of her is a big :up: :up: :up:

also giving her time on her own away from the home and kids....


shukran
Wassalaam

:coolbro: :coolbro: :coolbro:

[imarshad]

its all about communication, communication and more communication.

also its about you letting her be herself...being a wife, mom, queen of the castle, sister, Mualima, and all the different roles she plays in her daily life, takes alot on our beloved sisters and wives.

sending sms's whilst away when u thinking of her is a big :up: :up: :up:

also giving her time on her own away from the home and kids....


shukran
Wassalaam

:coolbro: :coolbro: :coolbro:

Exactly..... beautifully summarized....:up: :up: :up:

[a_nounu]

salams

Its really not that complicated, just think of how u spend time with ur friends, and then adapt to your wife. it should be easier with ur wife as you will know her better