View Full Version : do grandparents spoil kids???
ibn suleman
08-06-07, 02:31 PM
sumone was saying to me how children who spend most of their time with their grandparents are often "spolit"
how true is that??
sumone was saying to me how children who spend most of their time with their grandparents are often "spolit"
how true is that??
you spoilt brat!!!! stop tryna justify your position!!! :torture:
i find grandparents do more laad pyaar cos they got more time on their hands.
difficult for parents cos in leads to inconsistent disciplining
baa :wavey:
Amethyst
08-06-07, 02:39 PM
i think thats very true, im a spoilt grandaddys girl :inlove:
ibn suleman
08-06-07, 02:40 PM
you spoilt brat!!!! stop tryna justify your position!!! :torture:
nah..wasnt the case with me...
Grandparents spoil their grandchildren, fathers spoil their daughters, mother's the sons
.: Anna :.
08-06-07, 02:46 PM
I think it's sometimes true. But if they see the grandchildren really regularly they will have to cut down on spoiling them, and dont let them push the limits all the time. If they live very far and see only more rarely its natural to spoil alot, and its okay cos for the kids its just a treat not that they always get the chance 2 get wat they want jst by going 2 grandparents
Depends on the grandparents. They're obviously going to spoil them abit more than the parents but most also respect that their own children have certain methods of disciplining their children and so they wont tread on their toes so to speak.
Like my cousin, doesnt allow her children to have fizzy drinks (might seem like a small example) and thats a rule that the grandparents respect and also agree with. So yes on the odd occasion the grandparent might just let the kid have the fizzy drink but more often than not.. ive seen them comply with the parents wishes.
Grandparents are wicked.. i say let them spoil :p
and dad's are even better!wwwoohooo :hidban: its like.. getting away with murder: sweeettt.
Le Croyant
08-06-07, 02:55 PM
I think maternal grandparents, uncles & aunts spoil the kids more.
Omar Mukhtar
08-06-07, 03:25 PM
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Al Qadr
08-06-07, 03:35 PM
:S not really. They don't spoil all of them, just some :rolleyes: :crying:
Supernova Nebula
09-06-07, 08:24 AM
true mostly!
My grandsons enjoy their time with grandma and grandpa but they don't get spoiled much
far-hana
09-06-07, 08:39 AM
yes very much..
but of coz..if grandparents dun pamper their grandchildren...who else will?
All grand parents love their grand kids so much and they are not spoiling the children they just do with them what they haven't do with us... They are more smooth and will let pass many things to them then what they would do it with us... Parents are there for education and grand-parents to make the kids to enjoy the life.... lol ...
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