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tru muslimah
30-04-07, 10:27 AM
The Gossiper!

A woman repeated a bit of gossip about a neighbor. Within a few days the whole community knew the story. The person it concerned was deeply hurt and offended.

Later the woman responsible for spreading the rumor learned that it was completely untrue. She was very sorry and went to a wise old Ustadh to find out what she could do to repair the damage.

"Go to the marketplace," he said, "and purchase a chicken, and have it killed. Then on your way home, pluck its feathers and drop them one by one along the road." Although surprised by this advice, the woman did what she was told.

The next day the wise man said, "Now go and collect all those feathers you dropped yesterday and bring them back to me."

The woman followed the same road, but to her dismay, the wind had blown the feathers all away. After searching for hours, she returned with only three in her hand.

"You see," said the old Ustadh, "it's easy to drop them, but it's impossible to get them back.

So it is with gossip. It doesn't take much to spread a rumor, but once you do, you can never completely undo the wrong."

muslima_206
30-04-07, 10:58 AM
I greet you with greetings of peace As'Salaamu aliakum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakutuh,MashaAllah grrrreat post.Keep up the great work inshaallah ta'ala and may Allah subanahu wa ta'ala reward for this Aameen

:)

junaidb
30-04-07, 11:26 AM
May Allah save us from this fitnah.....ameen

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perfectpearl
30-04-07, 04:42 PM
Women :rolleyes:

thanx for the post! :up:

Rosheen
30-04-07, 07:44 PM
jazakallah...

I gossip waaaaay too much...may Allah help me learn to hold my tongue!

sunrise
01-05-07, 09:46 AM
May Allah save us from this fitnah.....ameen

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ameen

*18B.L.U.E18*
01-05-07, 10:02 AM
i can't help myself : (

sunrise
01-05-07, 10:33 AM
i can't help myself : (


sis in Ilsma we are encouraged to know the consequences of our actions to help detter us from bad deeds.

I mean for example the hadith of rassol Allah (pbuh) when he was sitting with some shabi and they backbitted and when they got up to walk away he said to them 'pick your teeth'

and they asked why...he replied (parapharsing here) that on youml keyama we're going to be told to eat the flesh of our brother (hence the picking your teeth) for the backbiting we've done against our brother/sister

InshAllah all our efforts should be to please Allah (swt) and we should know that if something is not displeasing to him we should strivvve to stayaway from it and not admit defeat ever.

May Allah (swt) give us hadaya and kouwa (strength) always ameen

*18B.L.U.E18*
01-05-07, 12:59 PM
i don't spread rumours or anything i just ask what's happening and stuff and what i think about it......