Hes Leaving Me...Please Make Dua For Me..

[Zainab_B]

Assalaam Alkoum

Well its happened. My husband confirmed what his mother said. He is leaving me. On his parents instructions.

Our short marriage is coming to an end. I should have known, really, shouldnt I?

I feel sick, suicidal. Will I ever be happy?

He was unwilling to compromise from the beginning. Expecting me to be a perfect obedient wife from the start. What am I going to do? I love him..But he says I dont..

Please make dua for me...

[Tahiyah]

:scratch: umm....ok

Inshaa Allah, May Allah grant you ease and bring you something even better in the future

[ur_yusra]

Sorry to hear that sis..

Leaving you on his parents instructions? :(

Has he given you a talaq? have you spoken to him about wanting to make it work?

[Masumah]

i hate men :torture:

[umm_yusuf]

Subhanallah ukhti, have patience and Insha Allah, Allah will reward you with that which is beneficial for you.

I'll remember you in my du'a Insha Allah.

[Mujaheedah]

Ukhti Allah (swt) is always there for you, pray and make du3a. Allah is the best of planers whatever happens is for the best. Just rerember that we are not placed with a burden we cannot handle. But don't say stuff like I feel suicidal it's wrong, thoughts like that come from the shaytan. I'll make du3a for you inshallah.

[PiElle]

sorry to hear... but how did the marriage happened in the first place? did u get their parents' blessing on your wedding day...?

what do u mean he not willing to compromise from the beginning? Did u know that before u got married...?

[AnZ4evaiA]

wa aleikum salam sis
I'm sorry to hear about that
inshallah have faith in Allah everything is
going to work out for the best. In the mean time
persist in duas inshallah and i will remember you in mine :)

[limotha1]

sory sis allah is with u and my dua is to u a the parents muslims? i am only wondering the compromise was for what. :lailah: one said to hate me that is not islam to hate a fellow muslim bro or sis make dua

[sunrise]

Assalaam Alkoum

Well its happened. My husband confirmed what his mother said. He is leaving me. On his parents instructions.

Our short marriage is coming to an end. I should have known, really, shouldnt I?

I feel sick, suicidal. Will I ever be happy?

He was unwilling to compromise from the beginning. Expecting me to be a perfect obedient wife from the start. What am I going to do? I love him..But he says I dont..

Please make dua for me...


Goodness man some men are wimps, sis make du'a..and don't u dare say you are suicidal because no man on this WHOLE dunya is worth risking hell fire for. Allah (swt) is the giver of life and the taker of life.

Sometimes Allah (swt) tests us and although it's hard to see it, it will turn out for the best.

Try what you can to do to salvage it, but if it doesn't work and you've tried inshAllah ta3laa Allah (swt) will give you something better.

He ALWAYS keeps his promises 'And after Hardship comes Ease'

InshAllah

[Supernova Nebula]

Subhanallah, may Allah make it easy and give you sabr amin.:o

[junaidb]

May Allah make it easy for you and grant u better than him if he does leave you......ameeen


:coolbro: :coolbro: :coolbro:

[Asma_Here]

Perfect obedient wife...? and on his parent's instructions..? why would tht happen now?

[`asiya]

Goodness man some men are wimps, sis make du'a..and don't u dare say you are suicidal because no man on this WHOLE dunya is worth risking hell fire for. Allah (swt) is the giver of life and the taker of life.

Sometimes Allah (swt) tests us and although it's hard to see it, it will turn out for the best.

Try what you can to do to salvage it, but if it doesn't work and you've tried inshAllah ta3laa Allah (swt) will give you something better.

He ALWAYS keeps his promises 'And after Hardship comes Ease'

InshAllah

:up: may Allah ta ala give u better sister, it hurts now and thats maybe because it is so unjust what is being done to you , but maybe Allah is saving you from worse pain, imagineif u have children with this man, and his parents wil be your childs grandparents... Alhamdulillah sister let him go.. may Allah send u a better husband, one who knows Islam and who lives by it instead of being ruled by jahil culture, amin.

[Raziel]

Assalaam Alkoum

Well its happened. My husband confirmed what his mother said. He is leaving me. On his parents instructions.

Our short marriage is coming to an end. I should have known, really, shouldnt I?

I feel sick, suicidal. Will I ever be happy?

He was unwilling to compromise from the beginning. Expecting me to be a perfect obedient wife from the start. What am I going to do? I love him..But he says I dont..

Please make dua for me...

Has he decided to give you Talaq? :eek:

May Allah give you strength and patience/perseverance sister...

Insha'allah Allah subhana Uta'ala will's he will give you Pious Husband...

Don't feel suicidal, thats Utter hopelessness sis, have Trust in Allah, you have nothing to fear, so long as You've done your best to remain within the boundaries of Islam...

Oh Allah help my Muslim brothers and sisters, Grant them Pious spouses in whom thou art well pleased...

Ameen!

:jkk:

[assia]

I will make dua for you sis, but sis he is not worth you, if a man don't want you he is not worth you!!!!!!!!! remember that and please don't say suicidal.... i know it's hard i have been there trust me the pain get's less and less and one day you will look back and say to your self that sis was right, he is not worth me..... My husband left me when i was 4 month's pregnant with my younger daughter for a younger women, i recently lost my older son, my first born who was 21 year's, what can i do sis this is life, i pray and make duah and im so glad i found this Ummah site, the brother's and sister's are so supportive! If he wants to go , leave him go he will do it to the next women he marry's, leave her by the instruction's of his family. Sister may Allah grant you with a better husband inshaAllah Ameen!

Pray sister Allah is here for us all!!

May Allah grant you sabr sister

Sister in islam

[`asiya]

amin!! ^:lailah:

[ayaat]

May Allah grant you patience and barakat for bearing this trial, ameen.

[Al-ghurabah]

wow.. sad indeeed. unfortunatly this happens mothers dont want to let go of their child.. try to still have control influence even after they get married.. which ultimatly causes friction.. guy is torn between family and wife..
sad really happens alot in asian families as they all tend to live together in one house.. its better to stay on your own away fromthe hassle and friction..
inshallah the pai neases and you get what you want..

[sis_sarah]

srry to hear this sis
but a guy like that seriously isn't worth it

Insha'allah u will find someone better who will actually appreciate you and not just 'leave because his mother says so'

May Allah grant you patience
Ameen

[Raziel]

I will make dua for you sis, but sis he is not worth you, if a man don't want you he is not worth you!!!!!!!!! remember that and please don't say suicidal.... i know it's hard i have been there trust me the pain get's less and less and one day you will look back and say to your self that sis was right, he is not worth me..... My husband left me when i was 4 month's pregnant with my younger daughter for a younger women, i recently lost my older son, my first born who was 21 year's, what can i do sis this is life, i pray and make duah and im so glad i found this Ummah site, the brother's and sister's are so supportive! If he wants to go , leave him go he will do it to the next women he marry's, leave her by the instruction's of his family. Sister may Allah grant you with a better husband inshaAllah Ameen!

Pray sister Allah is here for us all!!

May Allah grant you sabr sister

Sister in islam

Ameen! :)

[neelu]

A man who disrespects a woman for "not being a proper Pakistani" isn't worth the time of day- let alone dying for (this refers back to my comment in the "put offs before marriage" thread:smack: ).

[Abu Baraa]

i hate men :torture:

Not all men are like that and to be a REALMAN u must earn it. Uktii Zaynab, may Allaah bestow sabr on u.Allahumma amin. Get people he repects to talk to him and se if i's possible to salvage your marriage. Unfortunatly if he fails to cooperate well help u make this dua "Allahumma ajirni fi musibati wa akhlifli khairun minhu". Whenever such events occur we always find lessons and to learn from. And even we brothers could be deceptive at times so it's not just the sister's problem were all involved, if you remain strong upon haq you will never loose, cause a mumin/muminaat circumstances is khair all the way. I have learn't within the heart of every virtuous muwahidah lies the desire to be loved by a muwahid who will surrender his life completly to Allaah.May Allaah make us among such men.Ameen. A goodman is hard to find,but once you found one, do everything within the shariah way to make him happy ok?
Uktii Zaynab don't worry as long as ur right Allaah is always around as your guardian and protector just do ur utmost best to love Allaah, His Rasul(salal lahu alaihi wa sallam) and Jihad fisabililaahi more than ur husband,parents,family and YOU. You'll be fine insha'Allaah bi'ithnilaah ta'alaa.:up:

[Janaid]

Assalaam Alkoum

Well its happened. My husband confirmed what his mother said. He is leaving me. On his parents instructions.

Our short marriage is coming to an end. I should have known, really, shouldnt I?

I feel sick, suicidal. Will I ever be happy?

He was unwilling to compromise from the beginning. Expecting me to be a perfect obedient wife from the start. What am I going to do? I love him..But he says I dont..

Please make dua for me...

sister i feel for you
this seems to be a reoccuring theme here
if people started following islam and not their culture we would not have this crap going on

i wish the best and remember there is someone for everyone :up:

[me.sawda]

:up: may Allah ta ala give u better sister, it hurts now and thats maybe because it is so unjust what is being done to you , but maybe Allah is saving you from worse pain, imagineif u have children with this man, and his parents wil be your childs grandparents... Alhamdulillah sister let him go.. may Allah send u a better husband, one who knows Islam and who lives by it instead of being ruled by jahil culture, amin.

Allah is with true muslimatu ...with the oppressed....
Feamanillah sista.

[myself]

A time of test, bear it with patience Insha-Allah...

May Allah ease things for our sisters in such difficult and emotional positions.